TIC's Approach Journal
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The depressing part is that I've had even less success with brown or darker girls.Falcon25 said:
But I've had flashes of interest here and there from some chicks. Can't give up now. Can't walk around assuming every girl is a closet neo-nazi...
Been on POF lately, tryin out a new venue. So far I've gotten a number from a hb6 and am in the process of meeting up with a hb8.
This Sunday, I have a date with a girl that will surely flake (rachel).
Earlier today I went up to a community college with my friend. We approached a few arab girls and I must say, they are the most stuck up women I've ever come across. Its hilarius how some of them won't even shake your hand!!!! "I don't shake men's hands, its a religious thing" Jesus christ, what abunch of PSYCHOS
Planning on getting a personal trainer for the summer as well. I was able to lose weight on my own (40 lbs) but putting on muscle will require guidance. 100$ an hour WOOOOOOO
I don't know if the POF girls count as plates, but right now they are my mains. Kayla told me yesterday that the reason she always flaked was because there was another guy. Apparently the whle time she had been fielding 4-5 other dudes and just never had time for me. Whatever
This Sunday, I have a date with a girl that will surely flake (rachel).
Earlier today I went up to a community college with my friend. We approached a few arab girls and I must say, they are the most stuck up women I've ever come across. Its hilarius how some of them won't even shake your hand!!!! "I don't shake men's hands, its a religious thing" Jesus christ, what abunch of PSYCHOS
Planning on getting a personal trainer for the summer as well. I was able to lose weight on my own (40 lbs) but putting on muscle will require guidance. 100$ an hour WOOOOOOO
I don't know if the POF girls count as plates, but right now they are my mains. Kayla told me yesterday that the reason she always flaked was because there was another guy. Apparently the whle time she had been fielding 4-5 other dudes and just never had time for me. Whatever
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Why do you still contact Rachel? She's just gonna keep flaking. Your time is more valuable than that.
She swears that before she was busy with school but now that its summer she has more time. I called her out on it before and told her to hook me up with her friends that have more time but she wants to hang with me still.Gray The Prince said:
You say my time is more valuable but really it isn't. I don't have many options
Channel your excited feelings into positive thoughts and behaviors. You will attract women by being enthusiastic, radiating energy, and becoming someone who is fun to be around.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
TIC said:
For fvck's sake, stop respecting the pvssy more than yourself.
No matter what she says, if she was into you, she would find time to meet up with you no matter how busy she was.
Don't fall into the trap of believing b/s from girls.
Start respecting yourself and treating your time as the valuable commodity it is. Otherwise, no one else will either.
Wow. *Don't Read if You are Easily Offended or Faint of Heart*
Well, where to begin?
Saturday night, me and my friend went to a club. His girlfriend came, so I was the third wheel I guess. We go into this billiards/club type place. I came in with a good attitude and drank some shots or whatever. However I ended up standing around for a while because I didn't see any good openings.
THat's when my friend's gf springed into action. In order to help me out, she started telling some girls that it was my birthday. I got a good dance or two becase of this, it was nice, but the girls were not really into me. After a while longer, finally two asian milfs came across my way. I started dancing with them and then one of them started taking pictures. I immediately knew what was up; they were using the moments to take facebook pictures.
They kept saying how young I was and how I was a baby. We danced for a while longer but "no humping" as one of them said. Then I came a cross a random fat chick that also tried to help me out. SHe said "your too young for me lets find you a girl. your cute, a baby, adorable, etc." She told me that I need to be more agressive and so did my friend's gf. This however didn't work and most girls just weren't interested.
I ended up gettin the number of the asian milf, because she wanted me to have the pictures for my facebook as well. My facebook has very few pictures, and neither does my POF profile, so that is very useful at least.
And now, on to THE CRAZY THING THAT JUST HAPPENED. HOLY ****. I just got back**************************************************************************
This morning, I woke up with a surprise. A girl returned my message on POF, and appeared to want to go on a date. She said she was very attracted to me. So I went to work and throughout work, I texted her back and forth and we eventually set up a date for tonight. THe thing is, she lives in Ohio!!!! Its an hour drive. An hour drive that I was happpy to do.
http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e279/Prevlnt/Terron/zkue5i55lf_128354277-2.jpg
There she is. THat's the *****. the ****.
I got off work early. Showered. Dressed. Put 40 bucks in my tank. And off I drove to ohio. I got there and the town was, hm, how do I say this....melanin challenged? It was whites-ville. But I'm only mentioning this because of what I will say later about the subject.
She invites me into her house. I meet her mom, we chat. Then we go to some asian restaraunt. I slowly begin to realize that this girl is sloppy. She spilled stuff on hereself durin the lunch and was a bit embarrasing. SO after we finished lunch, she suggested going to the park. Here's where I knew we were going to have sex.
I park, we get in the back seat. Make-out, whatever. She blows me good. She then got on top and ****ed me very hard. After a while, I got up, and came in her mouth. she swallowed. After that, we cleaned up and were talking for a bit. THen a park ranger asked us what we were doing, and that was wierd.
And now for the fvcked up part. The disturbing part. The part that has me shaking as I type this.
She revealed that she had H. I'm not typing the full word because I can't bare to. Now, here's what went down: making out for a few secs, blowing, condom-sex. Ok. You can get this at anytime even from the slightest contact of skin. Ok. The only saving grace, and I know it doesn't garuntee anything, is that she wasn't in an outbreak. Not on her lips, not on her vag. She hadn't had one for a while. Ok. I could still have it, and I will get checked thurs or friday.......
On the drive home, she started talking about black people. How they steal stuff and she even went as far as to call them nig gerz. She was like, "everyone halloween here comes the ni g erz" (because she said blacks came to her neighborhood and stole stuff every halloween). It irked me a bit but whatever. I should of expected it in a all white town but whatever, racism is a personal choice. Now, just because I'm not in this minority group doesn't mean I let this crap go. Its fvcked up but what can u do.
So that was my weekend. I'm still trembling in fear
Well, where to begin?
Saturday night, me and my friend went to a club. His girlfriend came, so I was the third wheel I guess. We go into this billiards/club type place. I came in with a good attitude and drank some shots or whatever. However I ended up standing around for a while because I didn't see any good openings.
THat's when my friend's gf springed into action. In order to help me out, she started telling some girls that it was my birthday. I got a good dance or two becase of this, it was nice, but the girls were not really into me. After a while longer, finally two asian milfs came across my way. I started dancing with them and then one of them started taking pictures. I immediately knew what was up; they were using the moments to take facebook pictures.
They kept saying how young I was and how I was a baby. We danced for a while longer but "no humping" as one of them said. Then I came a cross a random fat chick that also tried to help me out. SHe said "your too young for me lets find you a girl. your cute, a baby, adorable, etc." She told me that I need to be more agressive and so did my friend's gf. This however didn't work and most girls just weren't interested.
I ended up gettin the number of the asian milf, because she wanted me to have the pictures for my facebook as well. My facebook has very few pictures, and neither does my POF profile, so that is very useful at least.
And now, on to THE CRAZY THING THAT JUST HAPPENED. HOLY ****. I just got back**************************************************************************
This morning, I woke up with a surprise. A girl returned my message on POF, and appeared to want to go on a date. She said she was very attracted to me. So I went to work and throughout work, I texted her back and forth and we eventually set up a date for tonight. THe thing is, she lives in Ohio!!!! Its an hour drive. An hour drive that I was happpy to do.
http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e279/Prevlnt/Terron/zkue5i55lf_128354277-2.jpg
There she is. THat's the *****. the ****.
I got off work early. Showered. Dressed. Put 40 bucks in my tank. And off I drove to ohio. I got there and the town was, hm, how do I say this....melanin challenged? It was whites-ville. But I'm only mentioning this because of what I will say later about the subject.
She invites me into her house. I meet her mom, we chat. Then we go to some asian restaraunt. I slowly begin to realize that this girl is sloppy. She spilled stuff on hereself durin the lunch and was a bit embarrasing. SO after we finished lunch, she suggested going to the park. Here's where I knew we were going to have sex.
I park, we get in the back seat. Make-out, whatever. She blows me good. She then got on top and ****ed me very hard. After a while, I got up, and came in her mouth. she swallowed. After that, we cleaned up and were talking for a bit. THen a park ranger asked us what we were doing, and that was wierd.
And now for the fvcked up part. The disturbing part. The part that has me shaking as I type this.
She revealed that she had H. I'm not typing the full word because I can't bare to. Now, here's what went down: making out for a few secs, blowing, condom-sex. Ok. You can get this at anytime even from the slightest contact of skin. Ok. The only saving grace, and I know it doesn't garuntee anything, is that she wasn't in an outbreak. Not on her lips, not on her vag. She hadn't had one for a while. Ok. I could still have it, and I will get checked thurs or friday.......
On the drive home, she started talking about black people. How they steal stuff and she even went as far as to call them nig gerz. She was like, "everyone halloween here comes the ni g erz" (because she said blacks came to her neighborhood and stole stuff every halloween). It irked me a bit but whatever. I should of expected it in a all white town but whatever, racism is a personal choice. Now, just because I'm not in this minority group doesn't mean I let this crap go. Its fvcked up but what can u do.
So that was my weekend. I'm still trembling in fear
Well done brah, you're well on the way to becoming a true player...haha.TIC said:
Seriously brah, this girl KNOWINGLY had s!x with you without telling you first she had herpes?
And you gladly drove her home afterwards? Fvck me, I would have made her get out and walk home.
Respect yourself or no one else will. Good luck with the diagnosis.
God, I hate women so much
Yesterday I had a little success on POF. Got a few reply messages and one of them ended up giving me her phone number. We have been texting back and forth all day and she says we will definitely hang out when she gets back from Korea. With the way women are so flaky these days, I can't even count this as a plate.
Now I get online a few minutes ago and notice that, for the very first time ever, I have been favorited on POF by a chick. She's about a 6.5. I already sent her a message days ago. So I'm wondering...why hasn't she sent me a reply?
WHY THE **** WOULD YOU GO SO FAR AS TO FAVORITE A GUYS PROFILE AN NOT EVEN REPLY BACK TO HIS MESSAGE??????
Answer: she has too many fvking options. As good as I am, as much asshe's attracted to me, as worthy as I am for favoriting, I'm still not good enough. Who can compete to get females? Not me. THey have too many fvking options ITS OUT OF CONTROL WOMEN HAVE TOOOO MANY GODDDAMMMMMM OPTIONS ITS WHATS CAUSING SUCH HIGH STANDARDS ITS WHATS CAUSING THE PICKINESS THERE ARE TOO MANY MEN ITS TOOO MUCH COMPETITION EVEN FOR MEDIOCRE CHUBBY PVSSY
Yesterday I had a little success on POF. Got a few reply messages and one of them ended up giving me her phone number. We have been texting back and forth all day and she says we will definitely hang out when she gets back from Korea. With the way women are so flaky these days, I can't even count this as a plate.
Now I get online a few minutes ago and notice that, for the very first time ever, I have been favorited on POF by a chick. She's about a 6.5. I already sent her a message days ago. So I'm wondering...why hasn't she sent me a reply?
WHY THE **** WOULD YOU GO SO FAR AS TO FAVORITE A GUYS PROFILE AN NOT EVEN REPLY BACK TO HIS MESSAGE??????
Answer: she has too many fvking options. As good as I am, as much asshe's attracted to me, as worthy as I am for favoriting, I'm still not good enough. Who can compete to get females? Not me. THey have too many fvking options ITS OUT OF CONTROL WOMEN HAVE TOOOO MANY GODDDAMMMMMM OPTIONS ITS WHATS CAUSING SUCH HIGH STANDARDS ITS WHATS CAUSING THE PICKINESS THERE ARE TOO MANY MEN ITS TOOO MUCH COMPETITION EVEN FOR MEDIOCRE CHUBBY PVSSY
\TIC said:
honestly man, pull yourself together.
dont think of getting girls as: you vs girls
its: you vs me.
if you arent better than me (by me i mean the majority of men), you arent getting any girls.
work on you. that is KEY.
right now im a million light years ahead of you. im bigger than you, im richer than you, my car is newer than yours, more confident than you, i dont waste time on POF. I have a pilot's license for cooler dates than you, why would any girl want you when they could have me?
so get yourself to the gym, study hard and get a good job. excel at a hobby, make a million friends, get on TV. BEAT ME. i challenge you.
good luck. i hope i havent wasted my time on this post for you.
luckster
Don Juan
TIC said:
This is my first post here and chances are that discredits me but I suggest you read on. I've read your entire journal and I find your approach about this whole thing has taken off on a tangent.
Let me elaborate.
You should never stop improving yourself. It's good that you have started to but it sounds like you are giving up. Take on hobbies, something you love and are passionate about. For me, that is music. For me, that is guitars. For me, that is soccer. You need to aim to excel in things you do, ALWAYS.TIC said:
Furthermore, you are constantly worrying about the outcomes of these dates and letting them affect you so harshly. STOP THIS! If it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out... move on, keep nourishing YOU!
One thing that bugged me throughout this journal is this girl Rachel (not her so much but how you handled her). She flaked on you once; OK, she now has to redeem herself -- you sit back and wait. If she does nothing, you got rid of a LI and a waste of time. The only reason you keep talking to this girl is because she has a pvssy... get over it, there's so much more pvssy out there. Read on.
Your problem here is you are never willing to walk away, and thus she knows you will always be there (and you have been EVERYTIME she asked you out). If something else comes along at the time she is supposed to see you, she will CANCEL on you because she knows you will accept her next offer and she knows this.
On the other hand, if she redeems herself then you know she has some interest and there is something to work off of. But we see this is not the case, stop wasting your time.
The chicks you've gotten responses from have been dead ends -- oh well, either you played it wrong (because you are getting angry and are thinking of settling -- you don't believe in yourself) or they just aren't interested. And they aren't interested because you have stopped working on YOU.
And this brings it all together.TIC said:
If your time is not valuable, then you're not doing enough. If your time is not valuable, then why should they want your time? It is not a commodity, you have a **** ton of it. Find hobbies.
And fvck man! Even IF your time is not that valuable, you are making them think that it's not as well by ALWAYS agreeing. I highly suggest you re-read "Kill that desperation!" by Pook because that's what you are... desperate.
On a brighter note, I commend you for starting this. Don't forget what you said at the beginning. Are these words any less true now? (see bold)
TIC said:
You've come a long way, just adjust yourself to get back on the road. You were shy, and an introvert. You are now getting numbers, you are getting in contact with people, you are talking, you are expanding your contacts.
Never stop
It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just got home from the club. I went in for about 20 mins, got rejected twice, then walked out. I'm just so angry at the world that its best I remove myself from these situations before I start slapping/punching women. Yea its only a matter of time before I go ape ****
Ok. Got a new computer so that's good. I've been training with P90x and I plan on getting a personal trainer this week. Putting on muscle is the final frontier for me besides a high paying job which is well down the road.
Tonight me and 2 friends are supposed to meet up with 3 girls at their house, drink, then hit a club. He claims they are all DTF, so I'm giddy. However the last few times he said he had girls for us to meet, it didn't quite work out. So we'll see.
Will be back with a status report
Tonight me and 2 friends are supposed to meet up with 3 girls at their house, drink, then hit a club. He claims they are all DTF, so I'm giddy. However the last few times he said he had girls for us to meet, it didn't quite work out. So we'll see.
Will be back with a status report
So last night me and 2 friends drove out to this house with 3 girls. Friend #1 already knew his girl and was bringing us for the other 2. We drove FAR out to meet them almost in the middle of nowhere. Hick town. We took 2 cars the third friend just followed me and #1. Now, my girl and I had already been acquainted because friend #1 gave me her number shortly before we took off for their house. I only txted her a couple times though to get her name. His girl was chubby. I saw her pic. So I was fully expecting my girl to be fugly and fat.
We get there after a long drive, they are sitting out in the garage drinking. We walk up, and to my delight, my girl was the best one out of the 3! Not only that, she was HOT. Legitimately HOT. HB 8.5-9. Short, no visible fat, really really nice t1ts showing cleavage, nice azz, white.
Friend #1 sat down next to his girl that he already knew and started talking. I grab a beer and sit down next to mine.
Its no surprise that she gave F off signals from the start. Like, she would not look in my direction. Keep in mind, I looked in the mirror before I came and I looked damn good. Pretty damn good. Had Axe body spray on, nice shirt jeans I was looking good. She would not look in my direction and talked forward instead of at me. I already knew this was bad..friend #3's girl did the same thing to him which was funny because she was fukin fat
We all end up going in the backyard for a bonfire. Then we sit on the patio around a big table and play some lame adult game. You know, where you ask questions from a deck of cards after you land on a specific square from rolling the dice. Then we played "I've Never" where you drink if you've done the thing the person say's that they've never done.
Freaky things were said, some stuff was revealed. My hot girls friends revealed that she's super freaky and has dominatrix sh1t in her room. But again, me and friend #3 are getting F off signals still. Eventually our two girls get up and go in the house. So I ask the remaining girl, friend #1's girl, what kind of guys those girls were into. She said BLACK guys. I'm like ok wow this is a N-lover. I also noticed that during the game, hb9 was asked what country had the hottest men and she said Africa...that should have told me what I needed to know right there. I of course embarrased her pretty bad when I pointed out that Africa was indeed not a country. Sarah Palin azz by-atch. Then she kept mentioning black guys and muscles and how she liked Trey Songs alot. It was pretty clear what was up. She's one of these girls that only wants black dudes.
After a while it was just me and friend #3 with our 2 girls. The girls wouldn't even talk to us, they were on their phones. If we tried to talk to them, they wouldn't even look up from their phones. They eventually got up and went back into the garage. Me and friend #3 got up and left. Yea its a possibility that our girls wanted us to be more aggressive, but that was one F off signal too many for me. I'm not playing these games at 2am with girls I will never see again because they live so far away. Friend #1 probably got some from his girl, but who cares she was fat.
Tonight I don't know if I'm clubbing or watching the finals at a bar. What I do know is I'm pissed
We get there after a long drive, they are sitting out in the garage drinking. We walk up, and to my delight, my girl was the best one out of the 3! Not only that, she was HOT. Legitimately HOT. HB 8.5-9. Short, no visible fat, really really nice t1ts showing cleavage, nice azz, white.
Friend #1 sat down next to his girl that he already knew and started talking. I grab a beer and sit down next to mine.
Its no surprise that she gave F off signals from the start. Like, she would not look in my direction. Keep in mind, I looked in the mirror before I came and I looked damn good. Pretty damn good. Had Axe body spray on, nice shirt jeans I was looking good. She would not look in my direction and talked forward instead of at me. I already knew this was bad..friend #3's girl did the same thing to him which was funny because she was fukin fat
We all end up going in the backyard for a bonfire. Then we sit on the patio around a big table and play some lame adult game. You know, where you ask questions from a deck of cards after you land on a specific square from rolling the dice. Then we played "I've Never" where you drink if you've done the thing the person say's that they've never done.
Freaky things were said, some stuff was revealed. My hot girls friends revealed that she's super freaky and has dominatrix sh1t in her room. But again, me and friend #3 are getting F off signals still. Eventually our two girls get up and go in the house. So I ask the remaining girl, friend #1's girl, what kind of guys those girls were into. She said BLACK guys. I'm like ok wow this is a N-lover. I also noticed that during the game, hb9 was asked what country had the hottest men and she said Africa...that should have told me what I needed to know right there. I of course embarrased her pretty bad when I pointed out that Africa was indeed not a country. Sarah Palin azz by-atch. Then she kept mentioning black guys and muscles and how she liked Trey Songs alot. It was pretty clear what was up. She's one of these girls that only wants black dudes.
After a while it was just me and friend #3 with our 2 girls. The girls wouldn't even talk to us, they were on their phones. If we tried to talk to them, they wouldn't even look up from their phones. They eventually got up and went back into the garage. Me and friend #3 got up and left. Yea its a possibility that our girls wanted us to be more aggressive, but that was one F off signal too many for me. I'm not playing these games at 2am with girls I will never see again because they live so far away. Friend #1 probably got some from his girl, but who cares she was fat.
Tonight I don't know if I'm clubbing or watching the finals at a bar. What I do know is I'm pissed
Ever since I got my new comp, I've been using POF and OK Cupid HEAVILY. I have gotten messages from several women, most of whom have agreed to go to the club with me this weekend. I know most will flake but I'm waiting for that one that won't
Last night, got the number of a hb8 who is looking for a serious relationship. I told her I am looking for the same and we should meet up, but she said she's super busy with work this week. She said she does want to go out sometime though
Another girl from POF (hb7) that gave me her number is back from vacation I'm definitely high on her list of potential dates. I texted her throughout the time she was on vacation which I doubt other guys did. I can tell it got me brownie points. I planted a seed last month and it may very well pay off. This girl and I will probably meet for coffee sometime this week
I'm actually spinning quite a few plates, the only problem is that the are not solid plates. Many are from online and not from real life meetings. So I can't get my hopes up too much because I know how flaky girls can be.
The P90x is going well and I'm eating alot more. I'm at 162 lbs now.
Later on today I'm heading down to the casino and playing in a poker tourney, 75 buy-in NLHE. I'm sure chicks will be there so I'll be sure to approach a few and try my luck (in more ways than one)
Last night, got the number of a hb8 who is looking for a serious relationship. I told her I am looking for the same and we should meet up, but she said she's super busy with work this week. She said she does want to go out sometime though
Another girl from POF (hb7) that gave me her number is back from vacation I'm definitely high on her list of potential dates. I texted her throughout the time she was on vacation which I doubt other guys did. I can tell it got me brownie points. I planted a seed last month and it may very well pay off. This girl and I will probably meet for coffee sometime this week
I'm actually spinning quite a few plates, the only problem is that the are not solid plates. Many are from online and not from real life meetings. So I can't get my hopes up too much because I know how flaky girls can be.
The P90x is going well and I'm eating alot more. I'm at 162 lbs now.
Later on today I'm heading down to the casino and playing in a poker tourney, 75 buy-in NLHE. I'm sure chicks will be there so I'll be sure to approach a few and try my luck (in more ways than one)
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.