TIC's Approach Journal

[TIC]

Had to put this one in here. I just got back from looking at apartments with my friend. The woman that showed us the building/rooms was a MILF and she was pretty damn good looking. Thin, good tits, amazing azz.

When we first met her, she was flirting with us HARD. I was cracking jokes and she was giving me nicknames and asking about my nationality/background. She continuously flirted/teased back and forth with me. When we got into the bedroom, she sat on the bed while me and my friend stood.

We started talking about dating and even sexual things. At one point my friend said he liked older women and I said yea, they can teach you things and give you pointers. I of course was hinting at sexual experience. Then, she said,

"Oh really? Like what kind of things?"

And oh man it just seemed like we could have F'd her right then and there. When she showed us the dishwasher she said "you guys won't be washing dishes I bet haha" and then I said "yea that's womens work". She didn't even get mad when I said that so I know she was into me.

But we ended up not doing anything with her, we hesitated. I wouldn't want a 3-way with another dude in it anyway, but man, that's such a missed opportunity. Another reason I didn't make a move was because unfortunately I wasn't, erm, motivated because I had already taken care of myself earlier (if you catch my drift)

damn!

 

[TIC]

Yesterday I was due for a haircut, so I went and got one in the afternoon after hanging out with a bud. For the first time I told my barber to give me a mohawk! Ha it looked cool

So last night, me and my club wingman decided to head to a nice nightclub in a downtown area of a very affluent city. Basically what I mean by this is that there were mostly whites everywhere. Not only that, but this particular crowd was the average age of 26. I was not in my element at all, as last time I went to a bar with an older age group I was continuously told by girls that I looked to young for them.

Luckily I was very buzzed by the time I got there. When I heard we were going to this particular spot I knew I had to have some liquid courage. Downed 400mL of Vodca raw then bud light at my bud's house.

So we get there. The place has alot of people, but not too many are dancing. As time goes on, the place becomes packed. All this time I was not getting any action, just looking for an opening. I decide to walk down from the bar to the dance floor. I walk up to a girl standing with her 3 friends who I could have sworn was eyeing me and say

TIC: Hey I think you're pretty I had to come talk to you
HB7: Haha thanks
TIC: What's you're name
HB7: nikki
TIC: I'm TIC nice to meet you (handshake. she stuck out her hand)
HB7: nice to meet you
TIC: You don't look like you're having fun why don't you come dance with me
HB7: I'm waiting for a friend I can't (walks away)
TIC: whatever

Then a little later, I was still standing there and her friend came over. Her friend was taller, had a really really nice azz and was cuter. She looked to be about 28-30 so I figured my chances were low. I went up and talked to her and we started dancing, to my surprise. After a while, she said

Hb8:give me your numb
TIC: give me ur phone

I put my numb in said bye and walked away.

A little later I was at the bar and saw a hb5 walking by. I stopped her started talking to her. I got her on the dancefloor and she grinded me for a while. She sad she had to go so we walked to her car. There we made out and exchanged numbs

I walk back in with a bit more confidence. I approach 3 hot girls and say

TIC: hey ladies
hb8: Lol hey
TIC: why aren't you dancing you look bored
hb8: im not bored im having a good time
TIC: o cool
hb8: haha how old are you
TIC: 22
hb8: aww your cute you have a babyface lol
TIC: let me steal you for one dance
hb8: no babe srry but ur cute

a similar scenario happened with several girls that night. Soon me and my wingman left and that was that

now its fathers day. whatever

 

[TIC]

Both plates from last week have been spinning all this week. I've been talking on the phone with the hb5 who has hinted at fuking me several times. She lives super close and we may meet (and F) this weekend.

The hb8, who I really want, has showed alot of interest as well. Turns out she is 30!!!! Lol older women usually roll their eyes at me. But here is a hot blonde (ok not traditionally hot but still tall blonde great body) that legitimately wants me. We tried to meet up earlier this week but couldn't because of work. I'll keep being aloof and see where it goes.

Tonight or tomorrow may hit a new club. Will be back with an update

 

[TIC]

Last night we were supposed to go to a club but ended up at the downtown casino instead. The whole night we walked around, played sots, and practiced cold approaches. I was able to get 2 numbers but I won't count them because they were black girls (lol)

First approach

TIC: Hey whatsup
Hb6: hi
TIC: So do you have a man
Hb6: lol no
TIC: Do you want one
Hb6: maybe if he knows how to act
TIC: look at how well im dressed. Its obvious I've got it together
Hb6: lol that doesn't mean anything
TIC: Give me ur numb and let me prove it to you later
hb6: (while I was programming myself in her phone) I've got 3 kids can you handle that
TIC: oh yea

Well at least it was practice

The second approach was a girl who I suspect could have been a stripper/hooker so forget typing out that exchange.

Other than that, lost 10 bucks on slots. Woot

 

[JPlaya]

dang, nobody likes the black girls

 

[Gray The Prince]

dang, nobody likes the black girls

Lol I like the light skinned ones

 

[TIC]

Just got laid

The girl from last week asked me out on a date for tonight. She said "I'll take care of you". We went to a mexican restaraunt, ate (only me she wasn't hungry) then left. As we walked to me car, I sort of walked ahead of her as I was ashamed to be seen out in public with this chick.

We get in my car and I tell her to get in the back. We both start making out then she blew me pretty good mmmmm. Put on the condom and then fvcked her real hard. After I came she said "you're really good in bed" and I said "you mean car" hahah

I'd like to have sex on a bed for once though....

 

[TIC]

I have a date with a girl from pof tonight. It's a movie date, we will probably see super 8. Picking her up at 7:30. What can I expect? I'm not coming in with any explanations, but she has her own place and everything so at the end of the night I'll see if I can come up to the apt

 

[Solomon]

I have a date with a girl from pof tonight. It's a movie date, we will probably see super 8. Picking her up at 7:30. What can I expect? I'm not coming in with any explanations, but she has her own place and everything so at the end of the night I'll see if I can come up to the apt

Movie date? nooooooooooooooo lol
I know you don't have your own place, but movie dates are buffers, no talking, for 2 hours and wondering if the chick is feeling you or not (sure you can try and escalate but sometimes without little rapport this can be risque)

Personally I prefer the bar, get them liquored and smash

Just my thoughts

p.s. was it the 6 you got laid with bud?

 

[TIC]

No this is a different girl Solomon from pof. The other girl I laid I met in a bar a few weeks ago.

So last night I drove out to her place. It was quite a nice suburb and unfortunately fireworks were scheduled for that night so traffic was back up. I finally get to her house and pick her up. She looks a little better in person than she did in her pics. My game was pretty decent because I was making alot of witty comments and jokes that made her laugh. We decided to see Transformers which was a big mistake and even worse, we saw it in 3D. It was a bad choice because 1) the movie was too goddam long and 2) the 3D visuals gave me a bad headache. I didn't know if I was going to be able to finish the whole movie. I thought I may have to leave in order not to vomit. Plus I hadn't eaten the whole day.

But I suffered through the movie anyway (it sucked but the new girl looks better than megan fox in my opinion). I walk her out to my car get in and drive home. On the drive back to her place, I'm not even sure I can get aroused. That movie took alot out of me and my stomach was empty plus my head was killing me. I drive to her apartment and park. She unbuckles her seatbelt and I say "So you think you want to see me again?" and she says "Yes" and I say "why are you so far away?". She smiles, I lean in and we start making out. We made out for like 5-6 mins and she seemed to enjoy it. After that she went back in her apt. She told me to text her when I got home

So I did, and she texted me back "when do I get to see you again?" I texted tomorrow, and she texted "great You're an awesome kisser" I said "my mouth is good for more than just kissing" "she texts "mmmmmm " and we set up a date for tonight. She guaranteed I'll be seeing the inside of her apartment tonight.

 

[Solomon]

Which Transformer movie doesn't suck? lol, I saw the first two and their just getting worse and worse lol(but the Special Effects are bomb)

Good job on the date, her buying temp is hot so strike now bud. POF chicks are fickle mayn, personally speaking. I've seen chicks with high IL, just to see it dropped off

Strike like a cobra

 

[TIC]

Alright, so last night was that date. I came into it pretty freakin nervous because at the last minute she decided to bring along her friends. I expected to be c-blocked and interrogated the whole time.

Turns out the girls (her roommates) were very cool and laid back. We went to pizza hut and things were painfully awkward, but I broke the silence with my trade mark jokes

TIC: Girls, what do you call a cow during an earthquake?
Table of girls: ummm idk?
TIC: Milkshake
ToG: ahhhhaha

also

TIC: What did the lawyer name his daughter?
ToG: lol idk what
TIC: Sue
ToG: ahahahhaahaha


Soon after we left back to her apt. I went in her room, and she came in shortly after. She did some very, very nasty things for me lol. She could suck the motor of a speedboat...this girl gives 5 star head I was in another zone o mannnnn


After I finished in her throat, I came to the conclusion that sex is way way overrated. I've been thinking about this long and hard. My whole life, I have not been close to any woman. I have not been comfortable around women, ever. There were many years where I had never had a conversation with a woman of any kind for more than 2 minutes (usually cashiers/bank tellers).

Only recently, and I mean very recently, have I begun to break out of this. Only recently, as well, have I been able to get laid more often. And I must say without a doubt, sex is way way overrated...after I finish, I lose all the passion and drive that I once had. I come to my senses and become a realist. We as men spend so much time and energy into this endeavor....and its not that great. It just isn't even worth it. Its a little whole between her legs, and most times the whole ordeal won't last past 10 minutes.

It amazes me that men, weak men, allow women to walk over them just because she has a pvssy. Just because she has control over when and where sex happens.

Everytime I see a female driving a brand new mustang or some fancy car, I get infuriated. Why? Because I know how she got that car. I know she just used the good looks she was born with to sucker some foolish man into catering to her. I know she didn't earn that car. I know she doesn't make enough money for it on her own. It's sex. It's because some man who has money wants sex so bad that he is willing to degrade himself for her pleasure.

So many women use sex to get the world handed to them, and sex is not that great. A pretty girl is just flesh with makeup

 

[Mass]

great journal. Whats the updates?

 

[TIC]

I've been working a new schedule lately and boy is it crazy. I have three 12 hour shifts in a row: fri-sunday....5am-6pm vomit vomit vomit

Saturday night I was tired as fuk but I still met up with the last girl I spoke about. I used social circle to hook up my friend with her roommate. Me and my girl F'd in her apartment after some disappointing fireworks.

I need condoms badly because I almost busted inside of her. I pulled out at the last second and got it on her back. I also need to figure out how to last longer...I'm like speedy Gonzales out there. I slept over her place but couldn't fall asleep so I ended up staying up and heading to work with no rest. I've been up for 35+ hours straight and I can barely even type this out

 

[Solomon]

This

Only recently, and I mean very recently, have I begun to break out of this. Only recently, as well, have I been able to get laid more often. And I must say without a doubt, sex is way way overrated...after I finish, I lose all the passion and drive that I once had. I come to my senses and become a realist. We as men spend so much time and energy into this endeavor....and its not that great. It just isn't even worth it. Its a little whole between her legs, and most times the whole ordeal won't last past 10 minutes.

It amazes me that men, weak men, allow women to walk over them just because she has a pvssy. Just because she has control over when and where sex happens.

Everytime I see a female driving a brand new mustang or some fancy car, I get infuriated. Why? Because I know how she got that car. I know she just used the good looks she was born with to sucker some foolish man into catering to her. I know she didn't earn that car. I know she doesn't make enough money for it on her own. It's sex. It's because some man who has money wants sex so bad that he is willing to degrade himself for her pleasure.

So many women use sex to get the world handed to them, and sex is not that great. A pretty girl is just flesh with makeup

Your starting to evolve after you get laid a few times you realize that there is more to life then getting laid. Lot of guys waste hours upon hours on these forums looking for answers. Honestly getting puzzy isn't rocket science men have been doing it for centuries, heck even a millennial

Personally I enjoy sex but some of the stuff I've done to get it or with some of the women has it been worth it?

Great post TIC

 

[HighResurrection]

yah I agree sex is overrated, good post.

 

[TIC]

Thanks for the feedback Solomon and Highres

So yesterday I woke up at 5am and went to work. Got off at about 1. The girl I've been fuking for a while sent me a text wanting me to come over. I go over to her place and we watch The Social Network (my first time seeing it). It was a cerebral, mellow movie that is kind of hard to sit through. I also hate movies about elitist pricks from Harvard....

But yea, after that we F'd. Problems arose though...for some reason I just wasn't that turned on and couldn't get off. Nerves? Idk. Somethings up. After that we went to a restaurant, ate, came back and she blew me so good I came in her mouth. We woke up this morning and did the same but I came on her back this time. I've gotta figure this intercourse thing out, I don't like being disappointing in bed. In an hour I'm heading up to my college for advising for the next semester.

I also have another problem and I don't understand it. I feel.....alone sometimes. I feel depressed and scared sometimes. Not all the time but sometimes, like now. I sometimes get the feeling that things like facebook and social circles in general are like big connections/networks that I am not a part of!!! I feel outside the connection.

I don't feel like I belong anywhere. I don't feel like I have a place in the world. I know that's f'd up to say about myself but it's the truth. Years back I didn't give a crap that I was all alone in my room playing WoW non-stop without talking to anyone ever...now that I have made an effort to be social, I feel on the outside looking in. I've tried making friends but it usually turns out that they already have their cliques and have no time for me.

These are the thoughts that plague my head throughout the day. I wonder if anyone else here struggles with this sort of thing? I just can't do the loner thing any longer I can't

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Great posts. This is great motivation for all of us. I got a couple of questions thought.

Do you pay for these dates?
Where do you work. Those hours are crazy.
Do you meet the majority of the girls on POF or cold approaching?

 

[TIC]

Great posts. This is great motivation for all of us. I got a couple of questions thought.
Do you pay for these dates?

Some dates I pay for, some I don't, some we split. For instance, last night we went to buffalowildwings and we split the bill. On the movie date I paid. At pizza hut she and the other girls took care of the bill. Also most times she drives me around.

But none of that is important. If a girl is into you enough, she won't try to take advantage of your kindness when you pay for the bill. She won't think less of you or anything like that. The suckers are the ones who pay for dates when they are not getting any cooch

Where do you work. Those hours are crazy.

Yea those hours are indeed hella crazy. I work at a Karz nuts factory. Got the job through a temp agency. The good thing about these shifts though is that I get my 36 hours in 3 days then I'm done with work for the week. I've already gotten used to waking up so early. This may allow me to finally get an apt and be on my own for this first time

Do you meet the majority of the girls on POF or cold approaching?

Well I've fuked 2 girls from POF. The one I'm seeing now is Tina. The other girl Jen that I fuked once so far I cold approached in a club. Her interest level is still decent and we talk almost daily.

 

[thevilittletroll]

let me give you some advice from what i have read in all your posts here. first off let me congratulate you for taking the first steps in changing you life for the better and starting this game. you have had limited success but at least its a start. dont get frustrated, it really does take a while to get good, especially when you start from scratch. You cant expect overnight success.

i noticed that you've started meeting girls on pof. while its a good idea, dont get into the habit of using the net as your primary source of meeting girls. use this as a supplement for the girls you are meeting during cold approach. being online does not improve your skills in the field. it can only help for dates and day 2's. plus the net is filled with crazy chicks, uggs, and fattys, and most of them have a lot of social anxiety issues.

i really want to tell you about your cold approach. i dont really know where you are learing game from, other than this site, but you have a lot to learn. i would suggest that you need to change up your game drastically. if what you are doing is not producing results, why not change it? Thats the definition of insanity. doin the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

lets start at the beginning, your approach. you are going direct saying they are cute, then going caveman and dragging them to the dance floor. this game generally only tends to work for naturals and guys that are really good looking. problem is, your not a natural. you are getting caught in girls having buyers remorse for making out with you on the dance floor from time to time then flaking. being direct is ok but it doesnt work if your body language is incongruent. i'd suggest approaching more indirect, and get the girls intrigued into conversations with you. canned openers are field tested to work and hook the set, and they work really well. some of the best opinion openers can buy you 5-10 mins right off the bat! then you can be direct, and caveman them to the dance floor.

i'd also advise to go with a more routine based game for you. you dont necessacarily need to use canned stuff of the net, but to be honest with you, a lot of it is field tested and it really works. if you do this for a while i believe it will give you some success which will really give you a lot more confidence. that will inturn help your inner game and your body language will improve as well. after a while you can swap out the canned material for your own stuff.

once you get your approaches down using canned material, work on your attraction game. i would also use some canned attraction routines at first. attraction is the most important part of the game. if you dont build it from the beginning, you get nothing in return. it will lead to flakes and a lot of dissapointment and frustration, which is where your at now.

so to recap, go more indirect with your approach to build intrigue, then use more routine based material to build attraction. let me know how that works out for you.