TIC's Approach Journal

[TIC]

Thanks for the advice thelittletroll. I just haven't been to a bar/club in a while but next time I go I'll remember to conversate first with a girl (however, I have found that this never works for me and what usually works is randomly grinding on a girl)

I just wanted to mention something that I've noticed recently that is PISSING me off. It's girls that go out of their way to show they are not interested in you, even if you've shown no interest in them whatsoever.

For instance: I just joined a gym. After I signed up and stuff, I was told to go get my pic taken at the front desk. The front desk girl is a white hb6.5...not fat/out-of-shape obviously because she works at a gym...but she was incredibly plain and pale looking. Probably some jewess. Anyway, wen she told me where to stand for the pic and all that, she wouldn't make eye-contact. She looked annoyed. She looked bothered by the mere fact I was there.

Would it kill her to smile and make eye contact? With a guy who just signed up and is now a member of the gym? It infuriates me. It's like she's saying in a non-verbal way: "you're not getting any of this, don't even try to hit on me, you are not in my league". But I did nothing to display interest...

Another example. Today I walk into 7-11. There is a cashier that is very very cute. I grab a choc milk and walk up to the register. She no longer has a smile on her face, never makes eye contact with me, looks overtly uninterested, and after I got my receipt I said "have a good one" and she didn't even respond.


It's like, it's the norm for women to be outright b1tches these days. They now seem to go out of their way to let you know that you are a loser to them, you are dead to them, you have no chance with them. I just don't understand it. I'm so sick of female attitudes and the b1tchiness and the "you are not worthy" attitudes they have. The "Serve me" attitudes. Most women are SO conceited, SO full of themselves and these are average girls I'm talking here.

What can be done? I can't even walk into a convenience store without coming out feeling like a loser and like I just got verbally assaulted by these repulsive creatures.


American women have a disease. Make no mistake about it. They are SICK IN THE HEAD. DO YOU HEAR ME. American women have to be the most emotionally disgusting in the world. I feel like vomiting right now

 

[TIC]

So me and Tina continue to talk, hang out, and fvck. But I've also been trying to spin plates on POF as well.

I came up with a pretty good message to spam, everyone is free to use if they wish:

"Reading your profile leads me to think you've got your sh*ttogether. That impresses me the most beyond your appearance. A little about me: I'm in college and past halfway to getting a degree in ____. I've got goals, I stay in the kind of shape I expect my dates to, I'm both open and set in my ways at the same time. I've got a strange sense of humor but I'm definitely fun to be around. For fun I like to go to the gym, take long walks in odd places, travel, and a load of other stuff

Look I'm probably leagues beyond different in terms of the type of guy you've dated. Hang out with me and you might be surprised..only live once right. If not, good luck in your search"

I spammed it and got more messages back than I usually do. One girl immediately gave me her phone number in this response:

"hey I really liked your message... and I read your profile you seem pretty down to earth kind of guy so maybe we could hang out sometime... so here's my number shoot me a text 123-456-7890"

Other than that, work has been very tiring. 5am-6pm is brutal but the money is decent I guess...

Sunday night me and tina will go to dinner then go back to her place. Jenny I haven't talked to in a while, but a few days ago she called me sobbing again about how she didn't belong anywhere in the world and wanted me to make her my gf.

 

[TIC]

If the mods would ban the spammer above that would be great.....

So me and Tina have been going steady for a while. We see each other once a week because of work and we always bang. She's not good enough for me honestly though, so I am still spinning other plates.

If you recall, I mentioned meeting a 30 year old blonde at the bar. She's Liz. We have been texting back and forth for weeks now but have never been able to meet up until last night

So here's what went down last night: we met up at a nightclub. She brought her coworkers (a guy and a girl). At first they weren't there and I was about to leave because I was all by myself and she wasn't answering her phone. But eventually I saw her walk in and I was surprised actually. Before all this I had drank a whole thing of Vodca with no chaser but I wasn't even buzzed

I walk up to her and she is excited to see me. First we headed to the dance floor and started grinding from the front and I could tell she's freaky. The stuff she was saying to me I could not make out because of the noise but throughout the night she kept saying stuff like "you're so cute" "you're an awesome kisser" "I didn't know you were so tall". She was all over me the whole night and I was all over her. She has a really nice azz what can I say

After a few hours of drinking and dirty dancing, it ended at the bar where we were bs-ing about how good our kids would look. She kept asking why I was single and to be honest I don't know. It's like I'm a catch but then again I'm not a catch. She said she wasn't going to bang me the first night, and I didn't even want her to because I had jerked off a few hours before (succumbed to the p0rn. Jynx mayne, brooke lee adams) . So we agreed to see each other tomorrow (today).

All in all a great tuesday night. It sucks not having my own place because she asked about it. dammit I've gotta get out of my house.

 

[LiveFreeX]

It's like, it's the norm for women to be outright b1tches these days. They now seem to go out of their way to let you know that you are a loser to them, you are dead to them, you have no chance with them.

Haven't had a chance to read through the whole journal. Looks like you've made it past the basics from the last few.

Seems you've already located the source of the problem and while approaching and meeting girls for sex is fine, you're going to find that it gets old after awhile. I think for MOST PUAs the overall goal was about meeting a nice girl, settling down and getting married, having kids etc etc.

You won't find marriage quality women in North America and very few who subscribe to that ideal anymore. The values are simply not taught to women there.

The qualities you should be looking for in a mate include the ability to take care of children, cook, clean and manage a household. When you see this statement, 'In college to get a degree' that is the warning sign to eject. If a girl spends her time at night clubs or in bars, red flags should be appearing. PUAs should not reward these women or their behaviors, you have amazing abilities and talents, use them on women who actually work for your time.

Why waste time targeting low quality women.

 

[Yo'Mama]

I think for MOST PUAs the overall goal was about meeting a nice girl, settling down and getting married, having kids etc etc.

Er, no dude. If I wanted to do that I wouldn't need to be a "PUA" at all.

 

[LiveFreeX]

You do realize that to keep LTRs going, you need to apply game right Yo'Mama? It doesn't end after first sex. GAME theory continues throughout the relationship but outgrows the scope of simple ****y/funny routine.

If the goal isn't to meet a quality girl but to simply have as much sex as possible then why not just use prostitutes... its quicker and far cheaper. However, I think you're in the minority... if I'm wrong then I wish you all the slutty American women in the world. If I find any over here I'll send them your way.

 

[TIC]

Ladies and gentlemen, it's all coming together

Surprisingly, I was able to get a date with a 3rd plate tonight. We saw the crazy love movie with steve carell.

This girl is very pretty, half lebanese half white. Shocked me when I saw her for the first time (we met on POF. She is the girl that instantly gave me her number when I sent her that message I showed a few posts back).

I was nervous the whole night but at the end I kiss closed and she just sent me a text "thanks for the kiss". She said she wanted to go out with me again and her last boyfriend was a year ago.

So 3 solid plates, all of which I have at least made out with and have agreed for more meet-ups. Tina is the one that I have been sleeping with for a month now. I am supposed to go over her place sat night after work and have real freaky sex.

Liz, the 30-year old blonde, is supposed to be on vacation all next week. We had great kino last tuesday at the nightclub, I felt all over that gorgeous body, made out with her multiple times, and she mentioned sex next time we meet

And then of course the Lebanese chick from tonight. Never have I had this much play before at once, as pathetic as that sounds. I started from rock bottom, literally. Virgin, no friends, no nothing. Now the ball is rolling and I hope to keep it up.


Now I face a problem I have never had before: how do I successively juggle 3 women at once? They are under the impression that I will be their boyfriends soon...

 

[TIC]

Guess I'll give an update. It's easier if I just break it down by my current plates

Plate #1- So, me and tina have been doing the same thing:meet once a week, fvck, maybe hang out a little, and go our separate ways. She wants to make it official but for reasons I'm not getting into, I could never let her meet my parents. So she can never be anything more than a FB

Plate #2- Shyka, the pretty arab chick. I haven't spoken to her in a couple days. We were supposed to get dinner last thurs but she didn't get back to me. I'll try again with her next week and see whatsup. So far we've been on one date and I kiss closed at the end, and she seemed into me. But she's been busy with a new job

Plate #3- Liz, 30yr old blonde. She was supposed to meet with me thursday as well! But didn't get back to me. So, like with shyka, I'm gonna try again this week. This girl has a nice body and I really want some. We got hot and heavy in the club last week, she is into me and apparently has been single for over 6 months

Plate #4- Jenny, chick I met in a club months ago. She keeps trying to jump right into a relationship. We went on date and I banged the Fck out of her in the back of my Jeep. But no way I'm making her my gf so soon. She tried to get me to come to her house and meet her in a "tent" she set up on her lawn...what a hick lol

Tomorrow I have work all day and then I'm off until next friday. Probably gonna hit the casino monday and play a poker tourney. School is starting back up soon...I FCKING hate myself for taking so long to find the major I really wanted. It's taking a long time to graduate, but there's no turning back now

Of course, I'm still stuck with my parents and I see no conceivable way out...there is no affordable housing, anywhere. Every apartment has rent at $550 or more. I can't afford it. I would have to kill myself working just to make ends meet and still excel in school on top of that...not gonna happen.


I haven't been to the club in a while. Will try to get back in soon. I'm using POF way too much for lays. 2 out of my 4 plates are from POF lol

 

[TIC]

Alright I was able to set up a 2nd date with Shyka just an hour ago. We are meeting up in about 30 mins. Will be back with the results. I got a make-out on the first date, so should I expect a blow job now? We'll see haha