TIC's Approach Journal

[TIC]

Alright so me and a buddy are heading up to a party in about 1 hour. I will be back with an update.

My 2 plates are spinning, but barely. Raechel is losing interest fast I can tell by the texts. Kayla, my main plate, is not showing as much interest lately either. I'm starting to lose confidence

Hopefully tonight will build that confidence. Its cold as sh*t outside so I can't wear my best outfit but whatever. Gotta wear this hoody over my nice green lantern shirt

http://www.superherostuff.com/green...ol-distressed-t-shirt.html?itemCd=tsglsymdist

fuk

 

[Solomon]

Alright so me and a buddy are heading up to a party in about 1 hour. I will be back with an update.

My 2 plates are spinning, but barely. Raechel is losing interest fast I can tell by the texts. Kayla, my main plate, is not showing as much interest lately either. I'm starting to lose confidence

Hopefully tonight will build that confidence. Its cold as sh*t outside so I can't wear my best outfit but whatever. Gotta wear this hoody over my nice green lantern shirt

http://www.superherostuff.com/green...ol-distressed-t-shirt.html?itemCd=tsglsymdist

fuk

Tic don't feel bad bud, I got flaked on and her excuse was "I got a mirgane" after I basically saw her online checking her dating profile, I didn't respond

like you I'm getting ready as we speak to go to the field

Times of glory await us my friend

:woo:

Keep fighting the good fight!

 

[joe henny]

Are you kidding me about the club? The club is the best place to get b!rches no where elese will you see that many fine hoes in 1 spot.

The music too loud? Thats perfect! It gives you an excuse to say hey you can't hear me so why don't you give me your num and well talk later. Or make eye contact go over to her and just hand her the phone.

Getting women from the club it easy....no wait let me rephrase that.

GETTING WOMEN IS EASY!

 

[Elky]

Are you kidding me about the club? The club is the best place to get b!rches no where elese will you see that many fine hoes in 1 spot.

The music too loud? Thats perfect! It gives you an excuse to say hey you can't hear me so why don't you give me your num and well talk later. Or make eye contact go over to her and just hand her the phone.

Getting women from the club it easy....no wait let me rephrase that.

GETTING WOMEN IS EASY!

No one wants easy women unless you're the kind of guy who wants an easy ****.

TIC, I'm not so sure about that shirt. Dressing up for cold weather is actually your chance to show off how good your wardrobe is (if its any good).

 

[Elky]

Now here's an update I can be proud of.

Today, some acquaintance of mine in class asked me to exchange numbers. I gave it to him and hopefully we can hang sometime. He said he was going to be busy for the whole day, so I ran a couple miles on the treadmill and went home.

But yea, hanging out is something I was opposed to a couple years ago. Now I'm dissatisfied with that and willing to actually be normal, so that's good.

Job interview for the coffee shop is tomorrow at 12pm. I need this job. If I get it then I will definitely be getting laid. I'll have money to take my 2 plates out and gas and such. If I don't get the job, well, that won't be good.

Dating doesn't require money. There are many options of taking out a girl without spending a single cent. For example, tell her how you've always wanted to go bicycling in your local park and around a couple blocks (that'd make a great date). Or simply going for a walk around town.

Although, it would be wise to focus on getting yourself a job ( of course).

 

[joe henny]

No one wants easy women unless you're the kind of guy who wants an easy ****.

TIC, I'm not so sure about that shirt. Dressing up for cold weather is actually your chance to show off how good your wardrobe is (if its any good).

I never in my post said anything about easy women. I said getting women is easy.

 

[TIC]

Last night was decent

I meet up with my bud and we drive downtown to the club. On the freeway he mentions that we might take a trip to Toronto in the near future to try out those clubs (suppose to be awesome) so that's good.

We get tot the club and find a decent parking space NEAR the club so I was able to lose the hoody and wear the shirt because it was a short walk even though it was cold. First, we hit a liquor store next to it and got a $8 of Smirnoff and took it back to my car and drank. He mixed his with pink lemonade, I always drink hard liquor straight and raw for the full effect. What I did not consider was the fact that I hadn't eaten all day lol besides a salad!

I was FUKED UP, couldn't walk straight.

But when we walked into this club, it was bizarre. I had never seen anything like it: there were absolutely 0 guys there. The dance floor and bar were empty. The entire club consisted of about 50 girls, just sitting at tables and staring. It was bizarre. Me and my friend were the only 2 guys there. Immediately i ask him, "is this a lesbian bar wtf?"

So it was a gold mine but I was fuked up so it was while before I got into a groove. Eventually I got a bottle of water and sobered up. The guys started rolling in at 11:30 but there were still more girls than guys. Once again, I noticed the same phenomena: about 70-80% of men are cowards who are frightened to even talk to the girls.

First girl i notice the bar, a hb6. I put my arm around her and say in her ear:

Me: Listen your adorable I had to come talk to you
HB6: How old are you?
Me: I'm 21 how old are you?
HB6: 27

She then grabs my hand and informs her friends that she is about to dance with me. She leads me to the dancefloor and we dance for like 5 songs. She doesn't do much lol. Eventually she says "want my number?" I pull out my phone and let her program herself in.

It was always awkward dancing, because what you had is an entire row of women that sat in the same chairs and didn't move the entire night, and abunch of guys that stood and watched as well. Not too many people were on the dancefloor

So anyway, later after getting rejected by a few girls that were sitting down, I was standing near the dancefloor when a hb7 came out of nowhere, grabbed my hand without saying a word and danced with me. (grinding)

After a few songs I turn her around and say

Me: whats your name
hb7: bi-yatch
Me: Cool I'm about to go give me your number

I pull it out, she programs herself. There's 2 numbers for the night, 2 more than any guy in there haha. I was a little jealous because my friend had the hottest blonde in the club all over him, but she had a bf and wasn't too serious. I like the hot ones what can I say

As we walked out and back to my car, some girls that were in a car parked on the street started gaming me haha. The girl that liked me was not attractive but I indulge all comers

hb5: hey come over here!
Me: What can I do for you (drunk haha)
hb5: Did u guys just come out of X club?
Me: yea obviously
hb5: Do you date black girls? Weeve etc?
Me: Haha
hb5: Give me your number
Me: Alright

She then tells me she's pregnant and the father is in prison. At that point I walk away mid-conversation. No tolerance for single degenerate moms. Not that she looked good enough for me to begin with.

so 2 numbs and one number given out. Decent night however from now on I want to go to quality clubs with quality women not these skanks. They aren't even safe to fuk I bet. I miss my main plate!

And the job situation: Looks like Meijer will hire me. Retards work there haha, guys that can barely talk straight. This is the best I can do. Yup, TIC is not good enough for a mexican grille or coffee shop, no no. TIC is not cut out for the service industry apparently. At least that's money I'll have so I can get a new 360 controller and madden haha.

 

[joe henny]

TIC are you starting to bone any of these chicks? It seems like your starting to get alot of numbers

 

[TIC]

TIC are you starting to bone any of these chicks? It seems like your starting to get alot of numbers

My current circumstances simply do not warrant any sexual activity. I commute to college, so I live at home with my parents. Its a small house and my room is right next to theres. Also, these are the type of parents that rarely are away from the house. If they aren't at work, someone is there at all times. Very little privacy. They also don't really want me clubbing or drinking at all, so I'm already pushing my limits. (Christians)

Then there's the money issue. I'll start making some soon but as of right now, my bank acc is at like 2 bucks. These women aren't gonna just invite me to their dorm and let me screw. Raechel already told me I had to take her out first. We both know what that means.

So yea getting all these numbers is great for practice/confidence, but ultimately it means nothing if I don't have the resources to take it to the next level. These chicks lose interest to fast to wait. So fickle

 

[joe henny]

My current circumstances simply do not warrant any sexual activity. I commute to college, so I live at home with my parents. Its a small house and my room is right next to theres. Also, these are the type of parents that rarely are away from the house. If they aren't at work, someone is there at all times. Very little privacy. They also don't really want me clubbing or drinking at all, so I'm already pushing my limits. (Christians)

Then there's the money issue. I'll start making some soon but as of right now, my bank acc is at like 2 bucks. These women aren't gonna just invite me to their dorm and let me screw. Raechel already told me I had to take her out first. We both know what that means.

So yea getting all these numbers is great for practice/confidence, but ultimately it means nothing if I don't have the resources to take it to the next level. These chicks lose interest to fast to wait. So fickle

TIC, I use to be like you. I'd be happy about getting all these numbers until one day I realized I was boning very few of them. My uncle made it apparent to me. You have to target focus in on the one's you get and like the most. Work with them get them to like you to think your something special, and they will give you the *****. Also what does being broke have to do with getting an invite to their dorm? Your in college bro EVERY ONE IS BROKE. **** ask if you have to, tell em you want to watch a movie or that you want to study and once you get there escalate! The key is though to act like you don't want to do them just tease them then pull back, if you do that you will be getting ***** left and right.

Also I also live with a Christian family but you have a better situation then me I go to a JC so no one has a dorm but you know what I do? Bone em in my car, a hotel, the park, or their house. T=You should try getting at older chicks, most have their own place are horny as fvck and dont play games just get straight to the point.

Hope you can find some useful advice in my post :woo:

 

[TIC]

Update time

This past week I've been busy with school and side-job interviews. As of yesterday, I am now an official Biggby Coffee barista. Orientation tomorrow at 10 am

I will be working with all females and 2 gay guys. But what else can you expect from this kind of place? At least I have a chance for more social calibration, as this kind of job requires you talk talk talk.


Last night I went out with a buddy to a party. This had to be the shadiest, most dangerous environment I've ever seen. What else can you expect from Detroit? We walk in and the people standing outside were eyeballing us hard. When we walked in, I honestly was expecting a set-up or to be shot or something. We immediately left when we saw very few people there. My friend is a bit of a buffoon and didn't research where this party was...

So we decided to drive to a club in a nicer area. I have no money so I could not get buzzed. This ruined the night. I froze up and didn't dance with any girls at all. This was a very bad night. The girls were in short supply. Most were whales. The attractive ones came with guys already. The circumstances simply were awful. No clear openings or anything. Luckily we got in free because I overheard a girl behind me telling everyone to mention a name at the front counter and you get in free. It worked. So at least we didn't waste money

We drove to the downtown area of a upscale suburb and hit a bar. I decided not to go home without shaking this fear. So I approached 2 girls

#1. hb7.5 nice body, cute face, looked about 25ish

TIC: (put my arm around her) Hey what's your name
cu nt: Uhhhh
TIC: You look bored lets dance
cu nt: I'm not dancing today

This **** stood on the dancefloor the whole night by herself and stared at everyone else dancing. I don't get it

#2 hot blonde hb8.5

TIC: (put my arm around her) hey girl whats ur name?
hb8.5: blah
TIC: you look bored lets dance
hb8.5: umm im actually looking for my friend
TIC: k have fun

Didnt do anymore approaches after that. We went to a restaurant and I got a club sandwich then we went home. Just a bad night. If I was at least buzzed, I would of been good. Not worried about it.

Today, I've been working on a technical research project. Procrastinating mostly, but nonetheless, working. Also, I've been researching other countries alot. I like what I see and want to move out of the US someday. It probably isn't feasible but if I get the chance, I want to end up living in West Germany, central canada, or the netherlands. Maybe even the philipines. But thats unrelated to approaching girls haha.

A different friend of mine called me today and asked if I want to head up to a super nice club up north, but I won't have money until I start work. Perhaps next week. Its good to see that I have options now on weekends. This is solid progress; in the beginning of this past summer, I had 0 friends to hang out with. Fast-foward a few months later to the present, and I have stuff to do and people to hang with. I still don't have a social circle per-se, but I'm working on it I guess

Oh, the 2 plates. My main plate kayla and I have been texting back and forth still. Seems fun and lighthearted. I won't be able to see her until I get some cash for extra gas and such. Perhaps in a couple weeks. The situation with Rachael is pretty much the same. I really need to hurry up and take Rachael out, as she has already hinted at guaranteed sex in her dorm

Will update later

 

[Gray The Prince]

Keep fighting the good fight man. You've inspired me to keep fighting as well. Which is why I also made my own journal. I need to get out on the field a bit more today as well.

 

[TIC]

Alright, so in a couple hours I'm heading to a club with a couple guys.

This past week I've done nothing much with women. I texted Rachael back and forth, found out she has a fck buddy. She still shows interest and seems like she wants to have sex, we'll see. She's a cold girl, at one point she wanted me to send a pic just to see if I was good-looking enough for her to even bother. (We've met before but it was in a dark club). I got her pic as well, she is just as I remembered, a 7 blonde that's a little chunky. We'll see what happens

Now Kayla I've screwed up royally with. I texted some AFC **** and now it isn't looking good. I will not be contacting her again. The only way anything else will happen is if she contacts me. I've given her enough attention, and my intentions are clear. Balls in her court.

Also I have 1 other chick I'm talking to from POF. She seems interested and we'll see where that goes.

So the club we are about to go to is in the nicest area so far, so I expect hot girls and a good time. Gonna go with the dark blue shirt

http://www.designbyhumans.com/shop/detail/4754?blank_ids=&category=1&color_category=2&sort=

**thoughts on overall progress**

About my progress so far. I have to say I'm dissapointed. I mean, I started this past summer having never even asked for a girls number, and with no social life of any kind. Now, I have options on the weekend and I am getting numbers and spinning plates. Unfortunately, I've failed to get anything beyond 1 date that I didn't kiss close. So I'm not doing very well and there's just no way I can have confidence like this. I don't want to go back to the way things were (bedroom-WoW-McDonalds-Sleep-Repeat) but it is looking more attractive than hitting clubs getting numbers and having text games that lead to nowhere. Getting a girlfriend or a fckbuddy just isn't in my deck of cards. I mean at some point you have to face reality, right? I'm 21. I'm too old to be developing these basic skills and the fact that I'm having so much trouble can only mean that I am genetically unattractive, personality wise and probably physically. The opposite sex simply does not take me seriously and wishes that my genes never pass on (even though I actually don't want kids)

***

Will update when I get back or in the morning

 

[BlackMos17]

Hey TIC man, I know from experience that once you have one of these "reality checks" and you start to reflect negatively, you need to just push through it because something great is going to happen to you soon if you do.

Im 19 im just now getting these social skills too and finally starting to figure sh!t out. Its never too late. You're journal inspired me to keep breaking through the walls on my path, keep moving forward TIC you can do it bro.

 

[TIC]

Alright, so as mentioned before, last night I went out to a club.

Me, my friend, and his 17 year old cousin drove up to ann arbor. Michigan played so there were quite a few people out and about. We walked to the club and we were way too early, so we left and walked around for a while. Eventually we stopped at a pizza place. My friend's cousin began hitting on the cashier, and got her number. I was impressed.

So we went back to the club and sat a while until girls showed up. I ended up dancing with 7-8 girls. The first girl I danced with liked me the most. She (7.5) and her other 2 friends walk in as I'm sitting. (She had a very nice body and a very cute face, but a little chubby so she can't be an 8.) I get up and walk right to her.

TIC: (puts arm around her shoulder) Hey what's your name
HB7.5: do you wanna dance?
TIC: Tell me your name
HB 7.5: amanda

She then led me to the dancefloor, even though it was pretty empty. We danced for a while. Once she went back to sit down, I went over and got her number.

The rest of the night was spent plowing through sh*t tests and stuck up women. I danced alot with girls but most girls just left abruptly after a while.

Overall, a fun night with below average results. I'll text amanda either later today or tomorrow. My buds said we'll do it again next week at a better club

will update soon

 

[TIC]

Just finished texting with Amanda, the girl from the club last night

Amanda: Hey. You have a good night?
TIC: Yea me and my buds had alot of fun. I could tell you did too haha
Amanda: Yup. Sore from dancing
TIC: Lol Im sore too...but it was from working out in the morning lol
Amanda: I worked out the night before. thats why I was so tired
TIC: I know that sucked because you were fun to dance with but kept leaving me haha
Amanda: (blank text)
TIC: So you stay on campus up there?
Amanda: Yup
TIC: Cool we should hang out sometime. When are you free?

And she doesn't respond again. Fck this fuking ***** and fck women. I'm sick of this bullsh*t this is complete bullsh*t I didn't do anything fuking wrong. Fck this sh*t this sh*t is way too goddam complicated. Fckin waste of time talking to her and even dancing with her. Every woman, even if they are some run of the mill 7 has so many options that the average male is devalued. This sh*t is retarded theres no way things should be this fukin complicated. Its real simple I ask you when you are free I'm being direct. I didn't say anythign fukin wrong. Im moving out of this sh*thole country

This shi t-hole country with these average chubby women that think their sh*t doesn't stink. I'll do it I'll move to a third world country where the ratios favor the men and I can get a woman without exhausting all my recources just to get a dead end text game with one. To even get an american woman's attention nowadays you have to sell your soul and then they get toss you aside when they are bored, because they have 8 other guys to entertain them. Sick of this sh*t. I aint gettin laid folks, not now not for a long fukin time. This country is just awful for straight males I dont care what you puas and dj's say, the game is rigged and women are in complete power. This sh*t is bullsh*t and nonsense. Another week of blue-balls, haray. Another week of sitting in boring ass college with no dates lined up because to get a woman to do anything you have to be some sort of Johnny depp look-a-like, otherwise they want nothing to do with you.

This ****-hole state michigan, where the women are animals. Women in america are not human. They are ruthless animals with monsterous egos, EVEN THE AVERAGE AND FAT ONES.

sh*thole state, sh*thole country, fck the USA, fck american women, you can all go to hell. I'll see you all in hell u retards

 

[JLW]

For what it's worth, I have approached probably 200+ girls in a club this year. You know how many of them amounted to anything? TWO.

I know everyone says that it's easy to get with girls in a club, but I have had the OPPOSITE experience. I think it's incredibly hard.

Your best bet is meeting a girl through a mutual acquaintance. Don't stop cold approaching, but go through it with the mindset that the success rate is incredibly low.

 

[Elky]

Well of course you wont find a quality woman in a club TIC. Try other places other than clubs.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Just keep fighting. "The race isn't ararded to the swiftest nor the strongest but he who enureth the longest" just keep on fighting. It's tough for all of us. When you're successful, you'll look back on this as an experience. Just remember...Rome wasn't built in a day.

 

[TIC]

Heading to my bud's house in 10 minutes. We are going to the same club in Ann Arbor as last week. I do not expect anything to come of this, but I will keep trying nonetheless. I'm kind of tired, I worked a 8-hour shift today

Rachael agreed to go out with me tomorrow, but I just found out I won't be getting paid until next week, so I just won't call .

Will update with what happens either later tonight (if I'm not too drunk or tired) or tomorrow morning.