Ladiesssman
Don Juan
I hate it when girls give me mixed signals.
This girl I know for 2 months now. But I can't figure if she likes me.
It's like "she likes me" then "she likes me not" then "she likes me" "she likes me not"
I try to act like a man by ignoring her and not giving in. And although I acted controlled and confident, inside I'm more crazy for her. This don juan shyt might work, and so I'm testing. Or I may fail because she might not be intersted, and if so I accept.
I don't know if you remember in my previous post, which has already disappeared from this forum. So let me review my story.
I met this girl through friend. We always get together on weekends, and most of the get togethers, she's joins us.
She loves to dance and she also likes to dance with me. This has been with 2 or 3 parties. Then the following parties, she still dances with me, but when slow dances came, she dances one song with my friend. Then another slow song with me.
Just past Friday, we had our New Year count down party at friend's place. All the friends, 15 people or so guys and girls joined in. She dance and she drank. She didn't know what was going on. Most of the time she was dancing with me. Then when slow dance came, I went to the restroom and when I came back, she was slow dancing with my friend. She seemed a little bit drunk and not know what was going on, and can barely stay on her feet. So my friend just support her and bring her to the couch and make her lay there. Then after, she gets up again and tries to get me to dance with her. I tried to have her sit and have her drink water because I want her to feel better. She drank a little, then she gets up and pulled me to the dance floor. She danced as if she's half drunk and can barely balance herself, so I tried to support her body. When she's about to fall, I brought her back to the couch. Then I kinda hold her hand a little bit. Ithought it was good kino. I brought napkin wrapped around ice to put on her forehead to cool her temperature, another kino. So I let her rest.
I had to leave early, when I left, she's still laying on the couch. I kind of touch her face with my right hand, just a soft gentle tap. She didn't react. But it was my signal to let her know that I'm leaving (kino).
The next night is one of our friend's wedding reception party. We dance again. I dance with her and other girls. She dance with me and other guys as well. Then something interesting happened. The slow dance came. Since we were there among friends, she dances in circle arm in arm with two other people, which were her sister and her sister's bf. I didn't feel like dancing so I sat and chatted with a guy friend. Then she came to to me and grabbed my hand signalling me to join the dance circle.
When I go to the dance floor, I wanted to dance just her and me. So I held her hand and with my other hand holding her waist. She wanted the circle. I didn't want to so she backed away. Then she danced to herself. I didn't feel like dancing anymore. My attitude was if I want to dance one on one with her, that's all I'm going to do. If not, I'd rather not dance. So I walked back to my seat and chat with my other friend, leaving her dancing by herself. A moment later, she came to me and hit me a little on my shoulder with a little mean smile. She wanted me to join her again on the dance floor, but I didn't. So she went back to dance, to slow dance with another friend of her, who is female. That was funny, girl slowdancing with girl. I guess she's showing me, she doesn't need me to enjoy herself. Fine with me. A minute after, I left the party with my friend that came with me. My intention was to let her wonder where I went.
The next day, Sunday we went to eat at the restaurant. She came in late, so she get to sit accorss the long table from me. I ignored her totally, while I chat and joked around with another friend (girl) who sits next to me (she's also her friend).
After lunch at the restaurant, all the guy friends, including myself went to play basketball. Half an hour later, she also come to join us. She has to work in one hour, but she still manage to come shoot with us (unusual that she joins us because she should be resting). Here is the interesting part, so pay close attention. While I was shooting a basketball, I totally ignored her. At one point while I took a shot, I heard her sneezing. So I said "Bless You" and I looked at her with eye contact. Interestingly she looked at me, then she stuck half of her tongue out at me as if she a little kid doing at each other when they're hating each other. At the same time her eye was like a snobbish looking display. This was the first time she does this to me at baskeball court. I imagine that she's doing this because I walked out on her at the dance floor, so it's more like a revenge type of thing (in a teasing way of course).
Now here is my question. Does she like me or is she just playing? I'm kind of dumb on this one.
All the donjuan out there, if you can help me with this, I'll owe you one. If you give me all your wisdom and tips, maybe I'll hook you up with one of my friends if you're still single. Cool
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This girl I know for 2 months now. But I can't figure if she likes me.
It's like "she likes me" then "she likes me not" then "she likes me" "she likes me not"
I try to act like a man by ignoring her and not giving in. And although I acted controlled and confident, inside I'm more crazy for her. This don juan shyt might work, and so I'm testing. Or I may fail because she might not be intersted, and if so I accept.
I don't know if you remember in my previous post, which has already disappeared from this forum. So let me review my story.
I met this girl through friend. We always get together on weekends, and most of the get togethers, she's joins us.
She loves to dance and she also likes to dance with me. This has been with 2 or 3 parties. Then the following parties, she still dances with me, but when slow dances came, she dances one song with my friend. Then another slow song with me.
Just past Friday, we had our New Year count down party at friend's place. All the friends, 15 people or so guys and girls joined in. She dance and she drank. She didn't know what was going on. Most of the time she was dancing with me. Then when slow dance came, I went to the restroom and when I came back, she was slow dancing with my friend. She seemed a little bit drunk and not know what was going on, and can barely stay on her feet. So my friend just support her and bring her to the couch and make her lay there. Then after, she gets up again and tries to get me to dance with her. I tried to have her sit and have her drink water because I want her to feel better. She drank a little, then she gets up and pulled me to the dance floor. She danced as if she's half drunk and can barely balance herself, so I tried to support her body. When she's about to fall, I brought her back to the couch. Then I kinda hold her hand a little bit. Ithought it was good kino. I brought napkin wrapped around ice to put on her forehead to cool her temperature, another kino. So I let her rest.
I had to leave early, when I left, she's still laying on the couch. I kind of touch her face with my right hand, just a soft gentle tap. She didn't react. But it was my signal to let her know that I'm leaving (kino).
The next night is one of our friend's wedding reception party. We dance again. I dance with her and other girls. She dance with me and other guys as well. Then something interesting happened. The slow dance came. Since we were there among friends, she dances in circle arm in arm with two other people, which were her sister and her sister's bf. I didn't feel like dancing so I sat and chatted with a guy friend. Then she came to to me and grabbed my hand signalling me to join the dance circle.
When I go to the dance floor, I wanted to dance just her and me. So I held her hand and with my other hand holding her waist. She wanted the circle. I didn't want to so she backed away. Then she danced to herself. I didn't feel like dancing anymore. My attitude was if I want to dance one on one with her, that's all I'm going to do. If not, I'd rather not dance. So I walked back to my seat and chat with my other friend, leaving her dancing by herself. A moment later, she came to me and hit me a little on my shoulder with a little mean smile. She wanted me to join her again on the dance floor, but I didn't. So she went back to dance, to slow dance with another friend of her, who is female. That was funny, girl slowdancing with girl. I guess she's showing me, she doesn't need me to enjoy herself. Fine with me. A minute after, I left the party with my friend that came with me. My intention was to let her wonder where I went.
The next day, Sunday we went to eat at the restaurant. She came in late, so she get to sit accorss the long table from me. I ignored her totally, while I chat and joked around with another friend (girl) who sits next to me (she's also her friend).
After lunch at the restaurant, all the guy friends, including myself went to play basketball. Half an hour later, she also come to join us. She has to work in one hour, but she still manage to come shoot with us (unusual that she joins us because she should be resting). Here is the interesting part, so pay close attention. While I was shooting a basketball, I totally ignored her. At one point while I took a shot, I heard her sneezing. So I said "Bless You" and I looked at her with eye contact. Interestingly she looked at me, then she stuck half of her tongue out at me as if she a little kid doing at each other when they're hating each other. At the same time her eye was like a snobbish looking display. This was the first time she does this to me at baskeball court. I imagine that she's doing this because I walked out on her at the dance floor, so it's more like a revenge type of thing (in a teasing way of course).
Now here is my question. Does she like me or is she just playing? I'm kind of dumb on this one.
All the donjuan out there, if you can help me with this, I'll owe you one. If you give me all your wisdom and tips, maybe I'll hook you up with one of my friends if you're still single. Cool