This girl just gives me mixed signals

[Ladiesssman]

Dam! this is the first girl that I did doggie style with who enjoys it. Gosh, we tried different positions.

I just want to encourage all the guys out there to try asking women out. Then once she goes out with you, try new things with her. Even when having sex, always explore new moves. Be a little daring and bold. But know when to stop when she says no. But being brave will lead you to new things. Just like this girl I'm with, 2 months ago, I was trying to figure if she liked me. At some point I thought she didn't. Now we're having sex and trying different positions.

I just love this site.

 

[bud_2005]

No offense but if you are 30 years old and she is only the 8th girl you have got action from, then you can't be too great of a Ladiesman.

 

[dlin87]

just ask her out!! wont hurt and it seems like shes interested!

 

[DJHoolahoop]

if you're talking about ladiesman, i'm pretty sure he said he was in a relationship with her already.

and to bud_2005, he could be really good with ladies and just not want to ***** himself out to every girl. I would think I'm a pretty good guy for girls as I am quite understanding of them and how to act and react and such around women. The only lacking part of me is actually approaching them and asking them out as well as self-esteem and confidence.

as for ladiesssman, I'm pretty sure that emotions and sex cause both men and women in relationships to feel VERY close to one another. This typically is what causes them to find it very hard to break-up when things are shakey. My friend is a perfect example of one who doesn't know why he's with his girl and yet they still love each other while they are angry at each other.

and to fix it, simply TRY to be able to CONTROL your feelings and emotions. Never tell her things that could freak and throw her off. And never be too much of a spilly talker; spilling your feelings and insecurities out before she even asks you.

As a DJ, it's OK to be in love when it's the right woman... you'll know which girl that is but that's only when YOU KNOW you aren't trying to impress her, win her over, fight to keep her and are constantly worried about how you measure up. It's about not selling yourself short and making sure you're not losing control of yourself and of the relationship.

Being in love isn't a crime lol

 

[alphamale1]

Bro, three things

1) She is playing the game. She knows how to get u chasing her.
Simply done:

She PULL u into her (makes u feel wanted or whateva) then she PUSH u away from her (rejects you, invalidates u).

what happens when that happens? u dont know when u stand do u? u become confused. You get hooked onto the highs (when she pulls u into her) and u get addicted to it, so u keep thinking to urself even though she has rejected me now i may still have a chance with her.

Just like casinos, thats why people are addicted to it, cos they still think they are one day going to hit that jackpot. They become addicted to the unpredictability.

Which is whats happening to u.

2) Reverse the game:

Do the same with her. When you dont have a problem with her, create a problem. This is what women do. They know this stuff.

3) lastly i didnt read all the comments so i dont know where u are with this girl at the moment but if she is still playing the game, stop calling her entirely and then use PUSH and PULL on her.

3.1 Never tell her ur intentions.
3.2 Never tell her where she stands (do not tell her u like her, or want her)
3.3 Let her say i like u first or i want to be with u first. Never tell her ur intentions, dont let it be known.

3.4 Get her chasing u, reverse the game.

Ben

 

[alphamale1]

If you let her know ur intentions then the game is over.
If she lets you know her intentions first, then u still have the upper hand.

The trick is this:

Build the attraction, connection, seduction while keeping your intentions to yourself until she cannot help but give her all to u. (surrendering her intentions or whateva....eg. Her: "i love u")


i will give you a classic PULL AND PUSH line that woman will use.

Me: come out with me and enjoy a good time (or whateva.)
Her: I would love to (PULL) but i cant right now. (PUSH)

*Classic*

where do u stand after that one?.....
theyre more clever than u think bro.

Ben