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The whole "women lose value at 30" thing doesn't work anymore now that people are aging slower.

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A woman value decreases after 25.
This is likely true, but the value slippage is so low that it might even be imperceptible at 30 or 35. Women might not be able to get committments from the elite level men as they age, but plenty of beta males will commit to a 35 year old. Some betas are even fine with a 35 year old with kids. Childless women in their 30s are very in demand with childless men of a similar age. Even single dads in their 30s-early 40s are chasing childless 30 something women.
 

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OP,
Go ahead and take full ownership of a rental
with wear and tear of thousand of miles on it. Demanding maintenance because of an accustom lifestyle in which she has seen it all, done it all.

In comparison,
I’ll continue to drive cars off the lot with zero miles on it, break the seat in, and take in the fresh new car smell as I take her to have many first with me.
 
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Nah. It’s not. The wall is undefeated.
would you rather have a 35 year old woman that’s fit and takes care of herself or a 22 year old woman that’s fat, hobbies consist of bar hopping and clubbing, tats, and is a single mom.

is the wall undefeated now?
 

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would you rather have a 35 year old woman that’s fit and takes care of herself or a 22 year old woman that’s fat, hobbies consist of bar hopping and clubbing, tats, and is a single mom.

is the wall undefeated now?
Would you rather have a 35 yrs old average woman with an average life or have a 25 yrs old average woman with an average life?
 

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Nah. It’s not. The wall is undefeated.
It is challenging to believe that when 55 year old women are having their inboxes flooded with messages on Match and OurTime.
 

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Keeping in mind, there's a way higher chance the 35 year old has a crappier demeanor/jadedness along with her age.
Men get stronger (and cynic) through challenges, women get more mentally unstable, jaded and hostile.

After a certain point men never fully commit to a woman and women totally fail to pairbond.
 

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would you rather have a 35 year old woman that’s fit and takes care of herself or a 22 year old woman that’s fat, hobbies consist of bar hopping and clubbing, tats, and is a single mom.

is the wall undefeated now?
Id plate the 35 year old. Would not wife her. I would block the 22 year old.

Poor example.
 

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This is likely true, but the value slippage is so low that it might even be imperceptible at 30 or 35. Women might not be able to get committments from the elite level men as they age, but plenty of beta males will commit to a 35 year old. Some betas are even fine with a 35 year old with kids. Childless women in their 30s are very in demand with childless men of a similar age. Even single dads in their 30s-early 40s are chasing childless 30 something women.
This is true. They ultimately resent these betas. But yes this is common. Damn...this is what American men are forced to deal with smh.
 

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People aren't aging slower now, they're just more in denial over it and paying out the a$$ not to show it. When you know what to look for, then it gets pretty obvious.


^^
You'd do well to rid yourself of this condescending attitude.
By "people" I mean men too.. do your research. Unless you're implying that most men now wear makeup which is stupid as hell.

And oh yeah, just kill the damn baby fever.
 

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I've seen a few older ladies that are smokin hot.

What's a couple of wrinkles here and there? Nothing! : )
 

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These days, a woman in her 30s has a ton of options if she uses a swipe apps. If you were a 30-35 year old single, childless woman in 1990, you would only get dates if you took yourself out to bars or other private/semi-private events multiple days a week OR had a a good social circle. Today, all you need to find dates at that age is installing a swipe app and/or using Instagram.
30s? Try ...

80s

https://www.ladbible.com/news/weird-grandma-83-loves-using-tinder-to-find-younger-men-20190905

80 something on Tinder.jpg

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
 

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The wall is real for commitment to higher value guys. The wall is not talking about sex. They can get sex even at 50. But the men they really like will never commit. Only losers commit to older chicks.
I can only see 2 reasons to commit to a woman - either she is still young enough to be fertile, or the man is old enough that he needs a caretaker.
 

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she is still young enough to be fertile
By commitment, do you mean a legal commitment in marriage? Fertility is still strong until about 40. However, it takes time and effort to conceive so 35 is about the max on that.
 
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The wall is real for commitment to higher value guys. The wall is not talking about sex. They can get sex even at 50. But the men they really like will never commit. Only losers commit to older chicks.
This I’ll agree with
 

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Older people are aging slower, but younger people are aging faster (obesity, balding, etc)
 

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Nah. It’s not. The wall is undefeated.
It is challenging to believe that when 55 year old women are having their inboxes flooded with messages on Match and OurTime.
The phucking media parading 68 year old Christie Brinkley in swimsuit pics and now 64 year old Sharon Stone topless most certainly isn't helping.

In the minds of a lot of delusional (older) women these days, there is no wall.
 
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