destini
Don Juan
Go back however far you need to go and bring to mind the first woman/girl that ever just straight captivated you, the one that enslaved your brain, the one that you were intimidated by.
The reason for this is twofold.
A little understanding of dynamics and polarity helps.
Take the Yin Yang symbol...the active masculine and the passive feminine. This, at its core, depicts the crux of Life itself.
ALL life, and everything in life operates according to this principle of male-female, active-passive. At its base, absolute base, the what and the how of Life itself is revealed: In order to create life, you must have an active masculine and a passive feminine polarity. Once that polarity is engaged, this becomes the fuel that sustains any dynamic.
ALL humans embody both the male/female force, because without it, there is no life. No consciousness.
As an analogy - think of a pole in the living room going up thru the ceiling into the attic. You're down in the living room, so you only see the active aspect of the pole. The passive aspect is the part that's in the attic.
One is "manifest" the other is "abstract".
ALL men embody this feminine, passive force within themselves, and all women embody this masculine force within themselves.
The AI, however, IS that hidden force inside each of us (the part that's in the attic). We are compelled by - what's easier described as "criteria" but that's more a case of the perfect aspect of who we are "in the attic".
When we see someone out here in the real world that draws us beyond all comprehension, what's happening is a subtle triggering of our own AI - because, as all dynamics go, the point is to create life. And perpetuate it.
What this means is that the fuel which drives any experince is the dynamic...and the entire purpose of any dynamic is to evolve and manifest into reality - to create a physical reality manifestation...or, to raise the roof and reveal the part that's in the attic as one integrated whole. Removing the ceiling, basically, from the equasion.
When this AI is triggered by an encounter with someone who embodies - reflects - those qualities of the perfection of our own AI, the compulsion is to manifest it. (start kicking at the ceiling).
The AI in each of us is sheer perfection - the most optimum, perfect, individualized soul in total balance, integration of who we are and are supposed to become, at its ultimate level.
EVERYTHING evolves...it requires the male female force to spark the seed and kick off the dynamic that will perpetuate the species thru mating, childbirth, life...it's programmed into each of us and this is *why* we ever mate at all.
Given that the lack of polarity prevents life (prevents two likes from mating thereby unable to create life) a component is added to ensure that the polarity will always remain engaged...there needs to be fuel.
COMPULSION AND ATTRACTION ARE NOT THE SAME THING. COMPULSION IS THE FUEL FOR THE ATTRACTION.
What happens when you look into the eyes of someone who reflects that AI, all you see, cause you're down here in the living room doing the day to day thing, is someone outside yourself who is "perfect" or "ideal". But it's just a mental or emotional application, expression, (manifestation, see) of the subconscious triggering of the AI that compels you to find a way of getting the ceiling outta the way.
Whether they actually are or not is beside the point. It's only your recognition of the perfection of the AI that is the potential YOU. You have the acute recognition that they are everyting you are not. And you're not. These people - if they were you - would be the perfect you.
In the opposite sex cases, these 'perfect ideal women' are the necessary fuel to ignite the fires of attraction, because the opposites are required for the sustaining balance...which inevitably leads to mating, to creation of life - naturally speaking.
That's the projection. Because we don't recognize this nor understand it, we just assume, for no real logical reason, that this person is completely perfect, flawless, completely capable of obtaining anything they want...which is basically a list of all your own secret aspirations for yourself that you're projecting onto someone else.
And then your friends shake their heads and call you a goober, get over it, she's just some chick, she aint even all the hot...
Because it's not THEIR AI, it's yours. They'll never see her in that respect. They have their own to deal with.
The more perfect you find them to be the more you recognize all your flaws, your fears and weaknesses, by sharp contrast. See, meeting the AI is you predesigned reality check - the intimidation comes in because of the overwhelming acuteness of self awareness of just how ****ed up we are in that person's presence.
They're so beautiful, they'd never want me.
They can get anybody...I'm just (insert flaw here) - you are suddenly aware of all your flaws.
And worse, you know, when you encounter such women, you are prone - as we all are - to sudden anxieties that she somehow possesses full capacity to see straight thru you, that you're completely transparent to *her* but not your regular friends, she can just look at you and know how ****ed up you are, and therein lay the root of the fear. The threat is that they literally have that much power in their perfection.
They can't really read our minds...again, it's how we apply our rationalizations, but because of the contrast, this is how it always feels.
Once you go into the attic and see the golden shining brilliant pole you cannot help but be more fully conscious of all the chipped paint on the part that's in the living room.
Thats why people are so intimidated by the "unobtainable ones". The people you encounter that provoke that response are the composite reflections of your AI, *manifested* in whoever the person is. It's still all your perception tho...because it's not the person who is perfect - even tho you think they are, it's the AI of YOU that requires your integration of perfection.
The reason I started this off with suggesting you recall the earliest females that provoked this in you was to show you the power - and the illusion - of the AI. As who you are today, all your experiences have evolved you. If you were to run into the first female that ever blew you away, chances are high that her appeal will have decresed considerably and you'll literally have no clue why she was able to affect you so profoundly.
Cause she was never the 'perfect woman'. That was an intellectual label you conjured up to define her, because defining her brings about the first stages of control.
She was only a reflection of what was always the rest of YOU. And as you evolved, you just grew into more of it...so required less of the reflection from her (polarity) to sustain the dynamic...which, in its most basic core, is to ignite the fuel within you so that you are duely inspired and motivated to evolve...by seeing the glare off our flaws, we know we have no choice but to work on them. And therein lay the ultimate beauty of soul evolution
This is also the reason no other humna being can ever make us whole or complete...thinking otherwise shows how much power we've handed over to the illusion of the AI AS anyone else but ourselves.
But we all never see this for what it is, so immediately project that "perfection" onto the person, who, in reality, is probably just as ****ed up as we are and couldn't read anbody's mind and who, more often than not, will have been completely clueless to just how *really* ****ed up you are...but when they're your AI muse, anything they do is beautiful. We are acutely aware of how flawed we are when we recognize the AI muse.
We have applied our own emotional and intellectual rationalizations of perfection onto other people, and the reason they are a threat - the reason we're scared to say hi, and always assume an inferior position when dealing with them is because we are not aware that it's not them, it's an AI based response...the idea of another person being flawless and perfect, bringing that kinda contrast to our own frailties is more than enough motivation to try to "knock them down" a few or make them "mortal"...obtainable.
Yet, we sense we will never quite be capable enough to accomplish that. When we manage to hook up with the ideal ones in spite of our fears, and see them in their humanness, their appeal rapidly fades - their power over you weakens because you're integrating who you presumed them to be with who they actually are...and as a result becoming more fully manifest of your own AI in YOU.
And, as is the rule...once that AI projection is mortalized, and more integration is obtained, we lose interest in the union itself in the early stages because it is mandetory that we follow the AI muses thru the integration.
THEN when we have reached that level of wholeness, we're no longer compelled by our AI - and the unions we established are productive, healthy, and long term, based on all the right things...
In people that do not reflect this, we breeze on by assuming they can't see thru us like those that captivate us. But in reality, they're just as objective and probably see precisely how ****ed up we are.
Those people are also on our own side of the ceiling and we seldom if ever have the polarity of the active, passive force to ignite any attraction...so we don't mate.
You know who these women are. The women themselves have all evolved as you have evolved, each one becoming less of a "threat" because as you evolve, you are integrating the AI into a whole YOU, so there's less they reflect back.
If you recall these women who have blown you away, that you could not help but put them on a pedistal for little more than the fact they existed, you will be able to discover the "type" that embodies your AI. The women themselves may have changed, but the fundamental essence of the AI never changes.
It's not a superficial thing like whether she's aggressive and you're passive, or she's fat and you're not. It's not emotional nor intellectual. It's not hair color.
It's essence.
Women, who embody both m/f, are inherently female. Some are active and dominant, others are feminine and passive. Men, who embody both, can be active and dominant, or passive and feminine.
What they portray on the surface is typically a projection of the AI because the vast majority of people who are not self aware will inevitably compensate for the lack of balance by projecting the AI.
A rule of thumb, the more self aware someone is, the more integrated will be their AI and the less they will require someone else to balance them out.
The less self aware they are, the more their AI will be a projected image...which is - if they are someone you want - all you need to look for. When people project their AI, it's like a hologram and who they are "really" gets sent to the attic. The only way to get these people is to become what they project - in essence, not emotional, intellectual BS because it's fleeting and temporal.
If you know the girl is a passive, doormouse of a female, and when the chips are down, she seldom becomes aggressive or will retreat from conflict, her AI will be the exact opposite of this...she'll project the tough ***** attitude, carefree or maybe even reckless, she'll mouth off alot...come off like an aggressor.
Let the chips fall, and the pole in the living room will always be there.
It's an example. Study people sometime when you're out, kick back at your local bar and just observe, and see if you can spot the AI projectors...watch guys scoping one particular woman, compelled by her...she's his AI. Observe her, how she responds, her essence, and you'll begin to see this emerge so clearly you'll wonder how you always missed it.
The confusion comes in - which is where Jeffries and those clowns miss the entire reality check - is when the AI is not being properly integrated and people start "projecting" - when they are fundamentally submissive, but "become" their own AI as opposed to integrating it...therefore "becoming" basically, a mirror image of their AI if their AI was an actual person.
This is the very reason SS fails for soooo many of you guys. You have no idea there IS and AI, and especially that part where it's always hungry. When you meet a woman who's tough and opinionated, you honestly cannot tell - unless you understand this here - whether she's literally dominant or if its her AI projection. So you play the "eliciting values" rap and try to become her ideal guy, and get shot outta the sky repeatedly.
You have no idea why, and because ALL Jeffries and those clowns can come up with as a reason is "because she's bitter or a feminist or out for your money" or some stupid bull****, you guys are left hangin wondering *huh? I don't get it..."
If you had a grasp of fundamental nature you'd know before you ever even approached her whether she was D/s, whether her YOU were even her AI muse, whether she'd ever have sex with you...and if she would, what that reason was, so you'd know how much time to kill before getting to the goal line, how NOT to **** it up, and especially how to get the best from her and the relationship - on your terms. Plus, it'd always be conscious control. NOT conscious "power struggle".
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The reason for this is twofold.
A little understanding of dynamics and polarity helps.
Take the Yin Yang symbol...the active masculine and the passive feminine. This, at its core, depicts the crux of Life itself.
ALL life, and everything in life operates according to this principle of male-female, active-passive. At its base, absolute base, the what and the how of Life itself is revealed: In order to create life, you must have an active masculine and a passive feminine polarity. Once that polarity is engaged, this becomes the fuel that sustains any dynamic.
ALL humans embody both the male/female force, because without it, there is no life. No consciousness.
As an analogy - think of a pole in the living room going up thru the ceiling into the attic. You're down in the living room, so you only see the active aspect of the pole. The passive aspect is the part that's in the attic.
One is "manifest" the other is "abstract".
ALL men embody this feminine, passive force within themselves, and all women embody this masculine force within themselves.
The AI, however, IS that hidden force inside each of us (the part that's in the attic). We are compelled by - what's easier described as "criteria" but that's more a case of the perfect aspect of who we are "in the attic".
When we see someone out here in the real world that draws us beyond all comprehension, what's happening is a subtle triggering of our own AI - because, as all dynamics go, the point is to create life. And perpetuate it.
What this means is that the fuel which drives any experince is the dynamic...and the entire purpose of any dynamic is to evolve and manifest into reality - to create a physical reality manifestation...or, to raise the roof and reveal the part that's in the attic as one integrated whole. Removing the ceiling, basically, from the equasion.
When this AI is triggered by an encounter with someone who embodies - reflects - those qualities of the perfection of our own AI, the compulsion is to manifest it. (start kicking at the ceiling).
The AI in each of us is sheer perfection - the most optimum, perfect, individualized soul in total balance, integration of who we are and are supposed to become, at its ultimate level.
EVERYTHING evolves...it requires the male female force to spark the seed and kick off the dynamic that will perpetuate the species thru mating, childbirth, life...it's programmed into each of us and this is *why* we ever mate at all.
Given that the lack of polarity prevents life (prevents two likes from mating thereby unable to create life) a component is added to ensure that the polarity will always remain engaged...there needs to be fuel.
COMPULSION AND ATTRACTION ARE NOT THE SAME THING. COMPULSION IS THE FUEL FOR THE ATTRACTION.
What happens when you look into the eyes of someone who reflects that AI, all you see, cause you're down here in the living room doing the day to day thing, is someone outside yourself who is "perfect" or "ideal". But it's just a mental or emotional application, expression, (manifestation, see) of the subconscious triggering of the AI that compels you to find a way of getting the ceiling outta the way.
Whether they actually are or not is beside the point. It's only your recognition of the perfection of the AI that is the potential YOU. You have the acute recognition that they are everyting you are not. And you're not. These people - if they were you - would be the perfect you.
In the opposite sex cases, these 'perfect ideal women' are the necessary fuel to ignite the fires of attraction, because the opposites are required for the sustaining balance...which inevitably leads to mating, to creation of life - naturally speaking.
That's the projection. Because we don't recognize this nor understand it, we just assume, for no real logical reason, that this person is completely perfect, flawless, completely capable of obtaining anything they want...which is basically a list of all your own secret aspirations for yourself that you're projecting onto someone else.
And then your friends shake their heads and call you a goober, get over it, she's just some chick, she aint even all the hot...
Because it's not THEIR AI, it's yours. They'll never see her in that respect. They have their own to deal with.
The more perfect you find them to be the more you recognize all your flaws, your fears and weaknesses, by sharp contrast. See, meeting the AI is you predesigned reality check - the intimidation comes in because of the overwhelming acuteness of self awareness of just how ****ed up we are in that person's presence.
They're so beautiful, they'd never want me.
They can get anybody...I'm just (insert flaw here) - you are suddenly aware of all your flaws.
And worse, you know, when you encounter such women, you are prone - as we all are - to sudden anxieties that she somehow possesses full capacity to see straight thru you, that you're completely transparent to *her* but not your regular friends, she can just look at you and know how ****ed up you are, and therein lay the root of the fear. The threat is that they literally have that much power in their perfection.
They can't really read our minds...again, it's how we apply our rationalizations, but because of the contrast, this is how it always feels.
Once you go into the attic and see the golden shining brilliant pole you cannot help but be more fully conscious of all the chipped paint on the part that's in the living room.
Thats why people are so intimidated by the "unobtainable ones". The people you encounter that provoke that response are the composite reflections of your AI, *manifested* in whoever the person is. It's still all your perception tho...because it's not the person who is perfect - even tho you think they are, it's the AI of YOU that requires your integration of perfection.
The reason I started this off with suggesting you recall the earliest females that provoked this in you was to show you the power - and the illusion - of the AI. As who you are today, all your experiences have evolved you. If you were to run into the first female that ever blew you away, chances are high that her appeal will have decresed considerably and you'll literally have no clue why she was able to affect you so profoundly.
Cause she was never the 'perfect woman'. That was an intellectual label you conjured up to define her, because defining her brings about the first stages of control.
She was only a reflection of what was always the rest of YOU. And as you evolved, you just grew into more of it...so required less of the reflection from her (polarity) to sustain the dynamic...which, in its most basic core, is to ignite the fuel within you so that you are duely inspired and motivated to evolve...by seeing the glare off our flaws, we know we have no choice but to work on them. And therein lay the ultimate beauty of soul evolution
This is also the reason no other humna being can ever make us whole or complete...thinking otherwise shows how much power we've handed over to the illusion of the AI AS anyone else but ourselves.
But we all never see this for what it is, so immediately project that "perfection" onto the person, who, in reality, is probably just as ****ed up as we are and couldn't read anbody's mind and who, more often than not, will have been completely clueless to just how *really* ****ed up you are...but when they're your AI muse, anything they do is beautiful. We are acutely aware of how flawed we are when we recognize the AI muse.
We have applied our own emotional and intellectual rationalizations of perfection onto other people, and the reason they are a threat - the reason we're scared to say hi, and always assume an inferior position when dealing with them is because we are not aware that it's not them, it's an AI based response...the idea of another person being flawless and perfect, bringing that kinda contrast to our own frailties is more than enough motivation to try to "knock them down" a few or make them "mortal"...obtainable.
Yet, we sense we will never quite be capable enough to accomplish that. When we manage to hook up with the ideal ones in spite of our fears, and see them in their humanness, their appeal rapidly fades - their power over you weakens because you're integrating who you presumed them to be with who they actually are...and as a result becoming more fully manifest of your own AI in YOU.
And, as is the rule...once that AI projection is mortalized, and more integration is obtained, we lose interest in the union itself in the early stages because it is mandetory that we follow the AI muses thru the integration.
THEN when we have reached that level of wholeness, we're no longer compelled by our AI - and the unions we established are productive, healthy, and long term, based on all the right things...
In people that do not reflect this, we breeze on by assuming they can't see thru us like those that captivate us. But in reality, they're just as objective and probably see precisely how ****ed up we are.
Those people are also on our own side of the ceiling and we seldom if ever have the polarity of the active, passive force to ignite any attraction...so we don't mate.
You know who these women are. The women themselves have all evolved as you have evolved, each one becoming less of a "threat" because as you evolve, you are integrating the AI into a whole YOU, so there's less they reflect back.
If you recall these women who have blown you away, that you could not help but put them on a pedistal for little more than the fact they existed, you will be able to discover the "type" that embodies your AI. The women themselves may have changed, but the fundamental essence of the AI never changes.
It's not a superficial thing like whether she's aggressive and you're passive, or she's fat and you're not. It's not emotional nor intellectual. It's not hair color.
It's essence.
Women, who embody both m/f, are inherently female. Some are active and dominant, others are feminine and passive. Men, who embody both, can be active and dominant, or passive and feminine.
What they portray on the surface is typically a projection of the AI because the vast majority of people who are not self aware will inevitably compensate for the lack of balance by projecting the AI.
A rule of thumb, the more self aware someone is, the more integrated will be their AI and the less they will require someone else to balance them out.
The less self aware they are, the more their AI will be a projected image...which is - if they are someone you want - all you need to look for. When people project their AI, it's like a hologram and who they are "really" gets sent to the attic. The only way to get these people is to become what they project - in essence, not emotional, intellectual BS because it's fleeting and temporal.
If you know the girl is a passive, doormouse of a female, and when the chips are down, she seldom becomes aggressive or will retreat from conflict, her AI will be the exact opposite of this...she'll project the tough ***** attitude, carefree or maybe even reckless, she'll mouth off alot...come off like an aggressor.
Let the chips fall, and the pole in the living room will always be there.
It's an example. Study people sometime when you're out, kick back at your local bar and just observe, and see if you can spot the AI projectors...watch guys scoping one particular woman, compelled by her...she's his AI. Observe her, how she responds, her essence, and you'll begin to see this emerge so clearly you'll wonder how you always missed it.
The confusion comes in - which is where Jeffries and those clowns miss the entire reality check - is when the AI is not being properly integrated and people start "projecting" - when they are fundamentally submissive, but "become" their own AI as opposed to integrating it...therefore "becoming" basically, a mirror image of their AI if their AI was an actual person.
This is the very reason SS fails for soooo many of you guys. You have no idea there IS and AI, and especially that part where it's always hungry. When you meet a woman who's tough and opinionated, you honestly cannot tell - unless you understand this here - whether she's literally dominant or if its her AI projection. So you play the "eliciting values" rap and try to become her ideal guy, and get shot outta the sky repeatedly.
You have no idea why, and because ALL Jeffries and those clowns can come up with as a reason is "because she's bitter or a feminist or out for your money" or some stupid bull****, you guys are left hangin wondering *huh? I don't get it..."
If you had a grasp of fundamental nature you'd know before you ever even approached her whether she was D/s, whether her YOU were even her AI muse, whether she'd ever have sex with you...and if she would, what that reason was, so you'd know how much time to kill before getting to the goal line, how NOT to **** it up, and especially how to get the best from her and the relationship - on your terms. Plus, it'd always be conscious control. NOT conscious "power struggle".
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