The plates are spin spin spinning!

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

It is not too late. Have her come over, fukk the $hit out of her, have the stupid talk that she wants to have (which likely will NOT include her becoming exclusive....that is not the bpd way), and then never talk with her again. Do not reply, do not initiate, do not visit, do not answer your door when it's her. WALK AWAY.

Do you know why anything else is not going to get you to win? It's because she really doesn't care. I know that's hard to believe, but she doesn't. When you are not around, you do not exist. She already has other men lined right up to get a chance with her.

When you think you've hurt her, all you've done is make her "split you out of existence", which is just a coping method that BPD's used to avoid coping with painful memories.....you will have not existed in her mind, she is on to the next in a line of never-ending victims. At this point, all you will be is a connection to her abandonment pain when she needs to feel that again, which is exactly why she will be contacting you after some period of time. Not because she wants to get back with you, but because she needs to temporarily re-experience her abandonment.

The only way you can really win, is to not feed her, because she can never lose....there is nothing to loser in her mind, she has others to go to and she will forget the pain you caused her immediately, and only recall it when she feels the need to feed off of that emotion. Everytime you feed her you are damaging your own psyche. BPD's have a chronic acute form of PTSD, and they have the nasty ability to pass it on. Do not play a game where she can't lose. Walk away, that is the only way to win.

Interesting! Bang her all night and then drop her.

I'm going to try it. If she shows tomorrow.. .She could be bs'ing again.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Well, she's here and she's taking a shower and I'm about to feed her a bottle of wine.

At least someone on this forum is getting laid like a champ tonight.

Keep hating on me though, I love it.

I guess I should have taken advice and never talked to this girl again right? So I could be jerking off to porn tonight like the haters are doing who say I never take their advice.

 

[cordoncordon]

Well, she's here and she's taking a shower and I'm about to feed her a bottle of wine.

At least someone on this forum is getting laid like a champ tonight.

Keep hating on me though, I love it.

I guess I should have taken advice and never talked to this girl again right? So I could be jerking off to porn tonight like the haters are doing who say I never take their advice.

No, its just that most of us have at least an ounce of self respect. You my friend have none.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

No, its just that most of us have at least an ounce of self respect. You my friend have none.

I have plenty and I'm doing great. I beat the recession and found a new job after I got laid off. I will beat this BPD b!tch and bang her to keep me busy until my other plates pan out.

It's all part of the master plan.

I should have treated this woman like sh!t from the beginning, then she would have been obsessed with me. I was too nice. You can't be nice to these BPD psychos. They want to be treated like sh!t. I will start now but it's too late.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I met a saucy little latina tonight from craigslist!

I like this girl! She is under 5 feet tall, very cute, 25 with no baggage. A sexy little accent, and very feisty! The date started rough we met for coffee late tonight and she had an attitude and a poker face. I was trying to break through by acting ****y and funny, she even threatened to leave once but said she was joking. I thought she was going to walk out.

I recovered and got her laughing and we changed venues to a bar with music and videogames. We played some games, it was fun. She was touching me alot, the KINO was going.

I went for the kiss but I got the cheek after the date. She is playing the conservative game. No problem we are going out again tonight.

She lives out of state unfortunately and she is leaving in a couple days but she is talking like she'll be moving here soon. I wonder if I can get her back to my crib before she leaves but it will be tough to tap it before 2 days when she leaves.... but I'll try.

I like this one. Now I can officially dump the BPD and not think twice. Thank god! I've been in a good mood since I met this girl.

Craigslist. Who woulda thunk?

And I got another girl from there I am meeting Thursday.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I tapped the peruvian.. FR will come later.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

What a crazy week! I wanted to post the FR this morning but I would rather not have my supervisors knowing about my escapades... my new job monitors internet use like a hawk.

I met the Peruvian princess last night for the second night in a row. We have been meeting up late because of my new schedule. We met up for food at the restaurant. I am the only one who had a drink, she stuck with Pepsi.

I tried to get the first kiss in the booth and she still resisted. She started telling me she won't kiss until the THIRD date. That was her story, and she was sticking to it. She said she was just looking for a guy to "hang out with" and she is not the type to fool around with someone so fast. Things were not looking good at all.

Still, I never flinched and just stayed calm happy and cool.

We went to sit outside. She started saying that she wants to hang out more but in a different place. It was almost midnight. She didn't want go to my place. Where the hell are we going to hang out? I read the signals she was giving out and I got an idea.

I told her I don't feel like driving all the way home, and I'm staying in the Hotel across the street. I told her we can go chill at the hotel bar. She resisted, saying there is no way in hell she will stay with me at the Hotel.

I told her that's fine, I always stay at that Hotel (which is not true at all, I just made it up) and we can just chill in the bar and she can leave, no problems. She agreed. We went to the bar, I started with a huge Long Island, she had a Corona light and she refused to even taste my long Island.

In the bar I was acting not very interested and I stopped trying to advance on her. She loosened up and started advancing on me. She was like "Ok I can kiss you now" so I finally got the first kiss in the bar and we made out a little.

She only drank half the beer and she started talking about having to leave because her sister is waiting on her and in her culture it's very bad to be with a guy so late. I told her "you are in America now" It was funny, but she insisted on leaving so I just stayed cool and said "fine, go. see ya". I made a joke about calling that 45 year old cheating wife to come to the bar and keep me company. I think this may have struck a nerve with the girl because I told her about the cheating wife who wanted to meet me.

She left. I just accepted it as a loss. I gambled that she would change her mind and stay, but she didn't. At this point there is no way I could drive. I was going to have to drop 150 for a room because I was not going to drive after a big ass long island.

She left, I ordered another long island and was cutting my losses. 20 minutes pass and the phone rings. It's her!

I answer and she has some story about her sister not being home because she is visiting someone in the hospital. She told me to come outside because she is out there.

I went out, we talked for a minute I told her to come with me so we can get the room. She went with me, and stayed until 4am and then left. She did what the man usually does and left after the deed lol.

Was her leaving me at the bar a huge sh!t test to see how I would react? To see if I would turn into a b!tch and beg her to stay? I think the way I handled the situation made her think about it and come back to the room with me. I had some great game last night.

I saw her again tonight, she is heading back home 1000 miles tomorrow. She will be back though, she is calling me her boyfriend. She is going to come over tomorrow morning before she leaves.

When we met tonight we were walking into the restaurant and I found 60 dollars in the parking lot. What a crazy week! Now I have to go meet the indian girl Thursday evening... I still haven't seen a pic but she said she is hot and she wouldn't lie right?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

take a look at my princess... I'm an AFC turned Pimp.


http://img20.imageshack.us/img20/1930/myprincess.jpg

 

[ketostix]

Nice Vlad. The way you handled her resistance with indifference is I think the way. I can't believe she left and came back that fast though lol.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Nice Vlad. The way you handled her resistance with indifference is I think the way. I can't believe she left and came back that fast though lol.

I tried to send you a pm tonight it said your box is full.

 

[ketostix]

I just cleared some space.

 

[Kingpin]

...

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

So I haven't heard from the Indian girl in a few days and still haven't gotten a pic. I haven't tried to confirm the date or anything and I am feeling too lazy to do so.

I wonder if I should even bother showing up.

She's probably a HB10 or something.

I looked up her email on myspace and she has a page but NO PICS at all. It's weird.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

What kind of weirdo chases a girl who he hasn't even seen a pic of? Not this weirdo.

That's why I don't feel like confirming the date. In fact, when I agreed to meet her today I told her "I still need to see a pic....."

I never got the pic therefore I don't feel obligated to show up to the date and if she says I stood her up I'll say I never got the pic which was contigent on the date.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Nice Vlad. The way you handled her resistance with indifference is I think the way. I can't believe she left and came back that fast though lol.

She had to come back fast because she was only in town for another day. If she was a local resident I would have never been in that Hotel in the first place. She is talking about coming back this month before classes start.

I wonder how her boyfriend back in her hometown is doing?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I just called a girl I met online and have a date tomorrow night. This girl is from South Africa. Anyone know anything about South African girls? I know nothing about South Africa any advice will be appreciated. I'll make sure to read up on it.

Tried texting the Indian girl, no reply lol. That one is dead in the water. No suprise, I totally stood her up but she never called or anything so I doubt she showed either.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Here's another shot of the babe I banged this week. I didn't just bang her, I straight up seduced this girl using some top notch game. It would have sucked so bad if she left that hotel bar and didn't come back.

She went from saying she won't even kiss me at the beginning of the date, to my hotel room until 4am. I am proud of this one. I had to work for it. And she wasn't drunk at all, she had half a Corona all night. She was a log in the sack, but she just needs some training. Banged her again right before she hit the road to go home.

http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/4691/j2222.jpg

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

I met the new girl tonight. It went well we had a 3 hour date which consisted of a couple drinks, food and talking. I can tell she wants to get busy but since it was the first date I did not try and advance on her.

We already made plans for another date next weekend.

The Peruvian was blowing up my phone all night, sending me texts "what is wrong with you why dont you answer the phone". OMG, she is getting clingy already and she is a LDR.

Not a good sign but she told me she is flying back here in a couple weeks to see me.

So this is plate spinning eh? This is fun as hell!

Then I tried to hit up the BPD to make it a 3 plate night, and she ignored me LOL.

Can't win them all.

I'm finally succeeding at this plate spinning man, it took me many years of failure but it's happening.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Last night the peruvian said she is flying here on the 25th.

This morning she said she bought a ticket to come here THIS WEEK and I already made plans for the weekend with the new one.

I told her too bad, I'm busy this week. Told her to change the ticket. She said it can't be changed or get a refund. Now I have to tell her not to come.

What gives her the right to think she can tell me she is coming one week, then change it up without even asking me?

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Alright. I can see my thread gets no replies anymore so I will stop updating it. Here is my final update. If anyone wants to know what happens then ask because I am done with forums for awhile.

BPD chick - This girl has fallen off the radar she is a completely different girl from when I met her. She never initiates calls anymore, she never texts me first, she said someone in her family is terminally ill but I can tell she has lost interest. Talked to her today and tried to run game and treat her like a girl I just met. She said she will come by this week but I know she is lying. She won't come. She is just trying to string me along because she knows I still care.

I turned into an AFC with this girl. She was on my nuts hard before this happened. Once I turned AFC, she was never the same. I tried to go back to acting Alpha, but it's impossible. The damage has been done.

Peruvian chic: She tried to switch up the plans on me and come here a week earlier. I told her I can't do it but I changed my mind tonight. She is still coming and we are going to meet up. My only obstacle is the new girl I met. I have already made plans for Saturday with the new girl.

I can either flake on the new girl or tell the Peruvian I have to work this weekend (lie). I don't know yet how I will handle this.

New girl: She called me this morning and wanted to get a slurpee at some concession stand. I've got a slurpee for this girl but it's not at any stand. I didn't see her because I was at work but we had a good talk on the phone. We have plans for Saturday but I am thinking of flaking so I can spend more time with the Peruvian. The only other option is lie to the Peruvian and I hate lying, but when you spin plates there is no choice.