The plates are spin spin spinning!

[ketostix]

You want to hear something funny? I bought a really fancy looking bottle of wine for 10 bucks at the grocery store, it was on sale.

I texted the bpd girl that I got her a $170 bottle of wine so she better show up Thursday.

Guess what? She replied immediately that she will call me in a few minutes. She never replies to my texts that fast.

LOL, she is going to think a 10 dollar bottle of wine is $170. It's in a long cool bottle so she will fall for it. Girls are so dumb. Just mention money and the pu$$y drips.

The thing about women is I don't even think they really care if the bottle is $170 or not. they just want to be told what they want to hear and believe. I don't think I could do what your doing here Vlad I would of just nexted her, but it's kind of amusing how some women will eat up white lies.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

The thing about women is I don't even think they really care if the bottle is $170 or not. they just want to be told what they want to hear and believe. I don't think I could do what your doing here Vlad I would of just nexted her, but it's kind of amusing how some women will eat up white lies.

You say you would have just nexted her, but it's not that easy. She has done things to me no other girl has ever done, she has been cooler to hang out with than any other girl has done, and it's all an act to make me fall for her.

And it worked because I am still posting about her. She knows what she has done she is a player. But I am a player too and you cannot play a player right? So this is still getting more interesting.

I just want to see her as a plate. That's what I should have done in the beginning. But now she wants to be more than that and I don't. The can of worms is open.

 

[yuppaz]

You really no idea how damaging what you are doing is to yourself....these vampires are not referred to as that because they are cute little puppy dogs....best case scenario, she f*cks u like a little ho and you start "developing feelings again"...then a few months go by and U are in the same spot you were in, and she still feels no guilt whatsoever. Bro I've been exactly - EXACTLY where you are and wanted my revenge too, banged the girl for quite a while, dropped her at Christmas after making her feel that I forgave her for cheating on me uptine who the f*ck knows how many times....but it didn't help me to move on at all....I'm didn't start seeing any improvement in my life until I stopped seeing the girl period. It certainly messed with my phsychi more then it did hers. You can't move forward until you separate yourself from that sh*t...U just can't, and I WAS spinning plates.

The problem boils down to the fact that she isn't consciously aware or in control of what she is doing, and by you knowing and STILL doing what you are doing, U are now the one being a d*ck...Not a man moving on and into his own...Not doing something to be proud of. You also forget how convincing these girls are, you are playing with fire and are gonna get F*CKIN BURNED!

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

You really no idea how damaging what you are doing is to yourself....these vampires are not referred to as that because they are cute little puppy dogs....best case scenario, she f*cks u like a little ho and you start "developing feelings again"...then a few months go by and U are in the same spot you were in, and she still feels no guilt whatsoever. Bro I've been exactly - EXACTLY where you are and wanted my revenge too, banged the girl for quite a while, dropped her at Christmas after making her feel that I forgave her for cheating on me uptine who the f*ck knows how many times....but it didn't help me to move on at all....I'm didn't start seeing any improvement in my life until I stopped seeing the girl period. It certainly messed with my phsychi more then it did hers. You can't move forward until you separate yourself from that sh*t...U just can't, and I WAS spinning plates.

The problem boils down to the fact that she isn't consciously aware or in control of what she is doing, and by you knowing and STILL doing what you are doing, U are now the one being a d*ck...Not a man moving on and into his own...Not doing something to be proud of. You also forget how convincing these girls are, you are playing with fire and are gonna get F*CKIN BURNED!

I agree. I'm not even sure this woman has the POTENTIAL to be faithful. She has been married twice. She has been divorced twice. According to her, both divorces are the mans fault.

LOL, who is she kidding? I bet she cheated on both of them.

Believe me, I know what I am getting into. I realize it now. Thanks for the warning, but I am going into this balls to the wall. I am not going to catch huge feelings for her anymore. I am beyond that now.

This is an experiment and I am the scientist. Let's see what happens.

 

[yuppaz]

Don't be a scientist...bro she can't help what she does...her fear of abandonment causes her to do what she does. By doing what you are doing, U are the one in the wrong....revenge doesn't come....there will be no moment when she breaks down and apologizes profusely for the horror that she put you through, it isn't going to come. They don't work that way at all. That's why shrinks don't want to deal with them. The best thing you can do for yourself and for her is to just move on. The sex isn't worth it, not by a long shot. You won't be happy until you move on and you can't move on until she is 100% out of your life. Living it now, finally starting to feel like a human ONLY after like a month with no contact, but been broken up for 8 months now.

read this a few times, seriously...I feel that I owe this forum a lot and this advice is a small way for me to pay some of it back.....from the heart brother.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Don't be a scientist...bro she can't help what she does...her fear of abandonment causes her to do what she does. By doing what you are doing, U are the one in the wrong....revenge doesn't come....there will be no moment when she breaks down and apologizes profusely for the horror that she put you through, it isn't going to come. They don't work that way at all. That's why shrinks don't want to deal with them. The best thing you can do for yourself and for her is to just move on. The sex isn't worth it, not by a long shot. You won't be happy until you move on and you can't move on until she is 100% out of your life. Living it now, finally starting to feel like a human ONLY after like a month with no contact, but been broken up for 8 months now.

read this a few times, seriously...I feel that I owe this forum a lot and this advice is a small way for me to pay some of it back.....from the heart brother.

I want to do what I am doing because I care about this chic as a person.

She called me tonight, and she didn't know what to say. She was wondering why I still want to talk to her after the lies she has told.

I just told her to not worry about anything. I told her I care about her, and that in 20 years no matter what happens we will still be cool and can talk to each other.

She ate it up. Indirectly I said to her that in 20 years I'll still be there for her, and that is what she is looking for. She is thinking about the future.

She is on my nuts again and I'm going to have fun with it.. if I gotta lie then fine.

We can beat these BPD's at their own game. It's possible and I'm going to do it.

 

[yuppaz]

Nope, ur just trying to get revenge...ya, you can beat them, and I have too..but it isn't worth the effort of the effect on you or her. Now that you know how they are and how they work, sure of course you can remain detached, but the f*cked up thing is that you may start relating that detachment to ALL women, including those that don't deserve it....bro, just let it go...it looks like your starting to do better with dating and stuff....you are showing that you fear your own success and reverting is an escape for you...just let yourself heal & succeed, you deserve all the best brother!

last post on this thread btw

 

[yuppaz]

seriously, if you felt so inclined to help her you could call her every day for the rest of your life and tell her "you have lots of love, everyone likes you and everyone loves you and they won't leave you" then list off all the people that love her in her life, like her parents, siblings etc. That might help her if you were so inclined to spend the rest of your life dealing with this girl that f*cked u over. Anything else is just a bad idea for both of you.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Nope, ur just trying to get revenge...ya, you can beat them, and I have too..but it isn't worth the effort of the effect on you or her. Now that you know how they are and how they work, sure of course you can remain detached, but the f*cked up thing is that you may start relating that detachment to ALL women, including those that don't deserve it....bro, just let it go...it looks like your starting to do better with dating and stuff....you are showing that you fear your own success and reverting is an escape for you...just let yourself heal & succeed, you deserve all the best brother!

last post on this thread btw

But I don't want any revenge... I just want her as a plate because I care for her as a friend.... that's it... No revenge... If she goes, fine I don't like it but I can accept it. If she told me she met a guy and is going to marry him I would be happy for her. I want her to be happy.

I think this mindset is the key to beating the BPD!

 

[yuppaz]

Yup, but you need to keep detached and never have a moment of weakness ever while you are in communication with her because she might seize that opening. Like living in a jail cell with 3 murderers that you are bigger then...sure you can handle them, but you still gotta sleep sometime...

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Yup, but you need to keep detached and never have a moment of weakness ever while you are in communication with her because she might seize that opening. Like living in a jail cell with 3 murderers that you are bigger then...sure you can handle them, but you still gotta sleep sometime...

That's true. I haven't been with her in a few weeks. But once I am with her again, I will be in love with her.

I hear you, good advice. I have to keep those feelings in check or I lose.

 

[jophil28]

We can beat these BPD's at their own game. It's possible and I'm going to do it.

NO way. Compare the time and experience that you have as a rookie DJ with the lifetime that she has spent being mentally ill. WHo has the odds ?

Maybe you should just continue in your delusion until you get bitten again, and then perhaps you will wise up to the evil that these vampires are capable of unleashing.

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

NO way. Compare the time and experience that you have as a rookie DJ with the lifetime that she has spent being mentally ill. WHo has the odds ?

Maybe you should just continue in your delusion until you get bitten again, and then perhaps you will wise up to the evil that these vampires are capable of unleashing.

Damn, she is a pro! She knows what she has been doing.

All I can do is be aware of it, and keep posting and get advice from you guys.

I am going forward with the experiment! I will be with her again Thursday night, and she is going to try and reel me in.

Let's see what happens brothers. I have been bitten but I am resisting with knowledge! I just have to stay hard and keep the feelings in check. Let's do this!

 

[DJDanny]

We can beat these BPD's at their own game. It's possible and I'm going to do it.

Maybe it is possible, but I think the question is, is it really worth wasting your time on when you could be chasing a quality girl??

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

Maybe it is possible, but I think the question is, is it really worth wasting your time on when you could be chasing a quality girl??

Quality girls are so rare these days that yes, killing time with a crazy b!tch is needed. I am chasing a quality girl. It's the rich, classy older girl that I posted about and met last week. I'm sure she has 20 other guys after her, so I need to distract myself in other ways.

 

[piranha45]

jesus christ people, he's a troll, dont feed him any more.

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

jesus christ people, he's a troll, dont feed him any more.

I'm a troll?

Everything I post is true and from my life.

You are the troll because all you do is hate on me. Why do you hate? Because you have no plates and no women. Right?

It's pretty obvious.

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

This right here is great advice. It have been avoiding mine for the last couple of weeks and let me tell you, it is tough, but you need to do it.

There was another poster on this board who compared BPD's with The Tolkien books and the "Ring". Goofy I know, but in a sense it's true. The more time you spend with this woman, the more twisted and corrupt you will become. Get away.

It's too late. She is supposed to be coming over tomorrow night and she told me she wants to have a "serious adult talk"... I think she is going to try and get exclusive or something. I was planning on just telling her what she wants to hear. I already messed up and talked to her when I was drunk and she thinks I love her and want to be with her exclusively. How the hell should I handle this other than canceling the plans? I think she has in her mind I will marry her and let her live with me. That's why she gave me the sob story about losing her house.


If I play and lie to this woman and she gets attached to me, and finds out I lied in a few months and am seeing other women, there is no telling what she may do. But I can't resist.. I want to play with her anyway.

 

[amoka]

My question is why do the mods allow this attention seeker to have several IDs simply to overflow the forum with nonsense and refused to take anyone's advice.

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

My question is why do the mods allow this attention seeker to have several IDs simply to overflow the forum with nonsense and refused to take anyone's advice.

I am an attention seeker for making 1 thread? Let's see about you:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160452

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=146152

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=160115

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104443

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=128115

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=119241

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=111854


And that's just 1 page! You have 4 pages of threads. What does that make you if I am such an attention seeker with 1 thread?

Leave me the f-ck alone and don't read my THREAD haters. You are all just jealous because you have ZERO women.