The offical Sosuave no fap challenge (Let's get it!)

georgie24

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went on a binge last night

started fresh today, going to hold off for as long as possible now
 

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You guys need a psychiatry primer.

Bottom-line is: In order for masturbation to be a sexual disorder that is outlined in DSM-V (like the proposed hyper-sexuality disorder in the following paper), it needs to meet the following criteria:

A. Over a period of at least 6 months, recurrent and intense sexual
fantasies, sexual urges, or sexual behaviors in association with 3 or
more of the following 5 criteria:
A1. Time consumed by sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors repetitively
interferes with other important (non-sexual) goals, activities and
obligations.

A2. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression,
boredom, irritability).
A3. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to stressful life events.
A4. Repetitive but unsuccessful efforts to control or significantly
reduce these sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors.
A5. Repetitively engaging in sexual behaviors while disregarding the
risk for physical or emotional harm to self or others.

B. There is clinically significant personal distress or impairment in
social, occupational or other important areas of functioning

associated with the frequency and intensity of these sexual fantasies,
urges or behaviors.
C. These sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors are not due to the direct
physiological effect of an exogenous substance (e.g., a drug of abuse
or a medication)
is an excerpt from:

http://www.dsm5.org/Documents/Sex and GID Lit Reviews/Paraphilias/KAFKAHD.pdf

Now Solomon et. al. must ask themselves whether they are at all close to meeting the criteria outlined above. If the answer is no, you are doing self-torture for no reason, and losing your confidence in the process - because you keep failing a futile challenge.

The key is functioning in a lot of newly proposed disorders in psychiatry. IF you are functioning, your diagnosis could be different from a guy who exactly engages in the same behavior, but cannot function.
 
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Solomon said:
day 3

I'm suffering guys

I've been going ham at the gym doing HIIT, I literally feel like a walking hormone

nights are the hardest, I can't sleep....

I don't know wtf to do....aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrghhhhhhhh
You must exhaust yourself @ day time, if you have trouble sleeping at night you've already screwed yourself.

You can also choose to sleep 2-3 hours later, not ideal but i don't see another option. Thats how i always dealt with it if i ****ed up @ day time.
 

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Boilermaker said:
You guys need a psychiatry primer.

Bottom-line is: In order for masturbation to be a sexual disorder that is outlined in DSM-V (like the proposed hyper-sexuality disorder in the following paper), it needs to meet the following criteria:



is an excerpt from:

http://www.dsm5.org/Documents/Sex and GID Lit Reviews/Paraphilias/KAFKAHD.pdf

Now Solomon et. al. must ask themselves whether they are at all close to meeting the criteria outlined above. If the answer is no, you are doing self-torture for no reason, and losing your confidence in the process - because you keep failing a futile challenge.

The key is functioning in a lot of newly proposed disorders in psychiatry. IF you are functioning, your diagnosis could be different from a guy who exactly engages in the same behavior, but cannot function.
A2. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to dysphoric mood states (e.g., anxiety, depression,
boredom, irritability).
A3. Repetitively engaging in sexual fantasies, urges or behaviors in
response to stressful life events.
I think this is the reason for many compulsory masturbators, masturbation is no longer a sexual release but a stress reliever.
 

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I am on day 9 now. A girl I went on a date with started wanking me off yesterday for few minutes but it was only a little pre *** that came out so technically I am still on 9 days without masturbating/no orgasm.

I have noticed that girls do seem to be looking at me more and speaking to me more from around day 6 onwards. Even a couple of guys started chatting to me at the bar and bought me a drink before saying I seemed like a cool guy to chat to. I also feel I have a lot more energy for exercise and I don't need as much sleep.

Lets see how many days I can last.
 

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Dedication said:
You must exhaust yourself @ day time, if you have trouble sleeping at night you've already screwed yourself.

You can also choose to sleep 2-3 hours later, not ideal but i don't see another option. Thats how i always dealt with it if i ****ed up @ day time.
I work a office job....

On another note the last month I haven't fapp'd much at all, I've been getting loads of ass left and right

;)
 

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Day 11 now for me! I wonder how long I will last? What is the longest anyone has lasted trying this?
 

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Rocky92 said:
I am on day 16 and something has scared the **** out of me. For the first week and a half I felt great. But today I saw the finest female in these tight yoga pants...something that I would have gone crazy over before, but I felt nothing!!!? Has anybody experienced this? I am on the verge of calling it quits and need advice. Ishould have a raging sex drive at this point right??

Has anybody experienced this? I would appreciate advice from experience rather than a theory because I know many of us are hyped up on the positives of it(as I was too) but I need to kno for sure, I dont wanna end up with ED or some ****. Mayb its because ive been completely dry (no gf at this point). but I have heard alot about this 7 to 10 day peak and then dropp off point. Idk, I am confused at it all. but I dont know wat to do. Has anybody experienced it but kept going and felt it return? Im very motivated but if I feel that my **** is goin dead than ill jump off thw wagon rite here

Somebody please help me out!
Hey man I wanna help you out! Can you gimme your e-mail or msn? Something like dat.

Who is still in this challange? I am in day 3... What do you do to stop the urges? Exercise only? I like to change my diet...
 

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Yo guys, I've been sick for 2 weeks and didn't actually fap. Well I would touch myself here and there but no ejaculation. I was training myself to get really close to ejaculation then stop.


So I decide on 2week and half to empty myself. DAFUQ

I didn't unload ****loads of it, whatever, my fire rate is lame and load is not that big. I tried fapping multiple times. Nothing. Doing every second day, nothing.


My sex drive is going down. Which I think is a good thing since I seem to go into Asexual mode...
 

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Day 12 and I admit I was a little tempted earlier but I went straight outdoors when I did.

My current goal is 21 days which will end the Sunday 4th November. I am going on a lads weekend away on the Friday 2nd November and coming back Monday 5th November so I want to be at my most energetic/confident etc next weekend :D
 

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When someone keeps gun on your head and asks you to do something, at that point can you think of masturbating???

Have tasks and complete them at gunpoint urgency….

Porn and other trifle things fall apart….no need of any challenge….
 
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The most I ever did was 68 days of no fap, I felt alpha

I think I'm going to shoot for 3 months starting today.
 

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It is now early into day 16 for me 01:30 here in the UK. I will be going to bed in a minute but I am surprised and proud I am now in my 3rd week. I never thought I would go this long on my first try of doing this.

I have noticed the last 2 nights I have had quite sexual dreams about girls I know, one was my ex but luckily I didn't get a wet dream. I will see if I have another tonight. Before attempting this I must say that I have not had a sexual dream in years.

Also yesterday morning, on day 15 I went into McDonalds for a strawberry shake and 2 of the girls working there starting blushing when speaking to me and we chatted a few minutes. Not only that but 2 girls sitting down looked straight at me when I walked in the door and could not stop looking and smiling.

I heard the 3 week period is when you really start noticing the effects, I guess your testosterone is at boiling point and girls can smell it a mile off.
 

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I know this is everyones favourite topic and will celebrate the bump.

I'm on this again, I have completed day 10 and now past halfway through day 11.

This is much easier to do now that I have a week job and and not at home alone with the sexy laptop all day.
 

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im on day one and all i can think of is Jada Stevens
 

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