Hey Cheeks,Cheeks said:You're being led around by this girl. A break is just an excuse for her to jump on another guy while keeping you on the back burner. 6 years is a long time but try not to let your emotions erode your self-respect. Read the basics on here and at therationalmale.com.
I would ignore all communication from her and return the ring to wherever you bought it. Don't let her have it.
She wants to and insists to give me the money for the ring..I wasn't mad that she went in a date on the break tbh as we were on a break. Apart from a missed call I haven't heard from her at all although I've only been doing nc since Friday. There are other reasons she gave for the break up such as not sure if she wants children with me after I let her down once and reacted badly to her being pregnant , also the fact she says she has fallen out of love with me although she still thinks I'm good looking etc.
Don't get me wrong I know our relationship wasn't perfect but we never argued and always had fun together, trusted each other and I wanted to propose and instead of talking about it maybe I should have just done it.
What do you think she maybe thinking of me not contacting her etc?