alright Gents before I begin this ...
First I'll tell you my situation. My gf confessed she was bored and wanted a guy to
take care of her and blah blah, but wanted to remain friends and stuff. Same old **** line. However, I've gotten with her before when she said this. Usually, I don't contact her for a week and then come back and show her one of the best times she ever had and look ****ing sharp as **** on that date. This leads to sex and getting back. But I feel this time is different I asked her out and she doesn't want to go out.
Yet I told her to print an application for a job, of course, I didn't care about this application she fights about but agrees to it and the following happens:
She kept saying how much she misses me and hell she even kissed me. She was smiling and saying how it was hard to move on blah blah blah... I'm a good guy...Even bought me food,
but at the end said she wants time alone and started crying and hugged me. I didn't cry tho for some reason just got in the car and left. I was actually really aloof the whole time.
For me is another of her
**** test. I told her that for me is just time away and I never agreed to anything. Which is true I do need some time away for I can start my business and find another job and get scrawny again (I'm skinny fat =/ )
I know I don't want to take care of her and all that nonsense. However, I don't mind taking her on dates and just having a dating vibe. Not ready for marriage or taking care of some chick- I do love her tho and care about her.
That same night we ate chicken together I ****ed up and called her. She angrily blurted out said she just wanted me to be a man blah blah in which I just smirked it off...and kept asking me all types of **** test.
" did you cry?" etc... However, we left on the note that we would see what would happen in one or two months but she keeps poking me on facebook and
texts me just now ahhh!!
When she pokes me on facebook it means, she
misses me....(
trap or no trap) I deleted her poke.
So what do you guys think? 60 days /30 days or 2 weeks challenge not even sure at this point. But I want to get it across to her that....
1) I am a man
2) I'm not someone to be friend zoned unless I'm doing the friend zoning...
3) don't ever disrespect me in such a manner.... also by the way she lost her virginity to me so yeah....