The Life and Times of a Philly College Kid

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 6, 2012

Field Report: Annoying nerd room-mate and his nerd girl-friend hookin up all the time. I have to wake up to them kissing and **** and its gross. I wasnt happy about this today and i'm gonna have to do more than just 'shhhh' them to be quiet. Real men are not afraid of confrontation and respect themselves not just others. I need to stop fearing being on my room-mate's bad side and next time they are making out with me in the room I need to tell them to quit or when his nerd gf is around I need to tell them to go to her room some times. So today I went to the 76ers game and watched Philly beat Chicago. This was sweet because I got the ticket for free. Then went back to campus and chilled. Went to play basketball (didn't perform as well as I could have) and then saw Jaclyn a few times. Talked to her and had a good convo. We had a second convo as her, Lauren, and I all waited for the elevator. The elevator was crowded and I talked to other people/didn't give her all my attention and displayed Alpha behavior. Again, this journal and site has been a real help because I wasn't acting I was simply being myself and as myself, I was alpha. We said our goodbyes and now we have class tomorrow where I'm gonna sit next to her and invite her to do something with me

School: Did some studying for Chinese with my chick friend Caydee. Also did half of my assignment due Tuesday. tried to do some econ but got distracted by two chicks. I'm not personally interested (one is def fvckable though) but they are fond of me and i figure it was good practice. flirting ensued and i ended up getting sweet back massages from both of them. They wanted to take pictures but i was like f that. Then they took my number but I don't plan to do much with them but they really want me to party with them and their other girlfriends (one who has a huge crush on me) on friday. We'll see what happens

Workout/food: Played a game of basketball and went scoreless. Basketball is defintely a game of aggresive behavior and not passive behavior (which totally flys in soccer) and i need to drive more with the ball. I have a sick handle so i should be able to do well but so far i'm very inconsistent. Only when I'm angry do i play well. I plan to look up youtube videos on basketball tricks and tips to help me up my game. Back at the YMCA at home i was notorious and here i'm just another face on the team. Need to find a signature move.............

Hobbies: I do love basketball <3

Goals Reached:
1. Soccer on thursday!!!! I'm gonna ball hog and go aggro and do me like i do back home. It's the only way, being passive and only passing is NOT successful. Tried and failed that way.
2. Got two phone numbers. Pimpin'
3. No sex...yet
4. Super social, elevator convo was great
5. Going to office hours monday
6. Adding running to this category of swimming and rock climbing- going for a run monday
7. Business meeting this tuesday
8. No job

"Always desire to learn something useful"

Today I'm grateful for:
A. Free basketball ticket. Other person couldn't go so I went instead
B. Those back massages
C. The extra day in my weekend

I AM GOING TO DO MY WEEKLY REVIEW AS A SECOND POST. GOTTA RUN RIGHT NOW SO I'M OUT OF TIME

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 7, 2012

WEEKLY REPORT
Ok so this week what i think I should focus the most on is being more sexual. i've talked to the hot girls i've listed all below but my lack of flirting could lead me right in the friendzone. it also appears i'm quite lucky. As of late my phone has been working which means i'm texting both Elizabeth and Jaclyn tomorrow. These two convo's with hot girls will be great for confidence (need to make sure i don't ego trip) before i do this though, i wanna go over my text messages i had with melissa a while ago and study them. I can learn a lot about whats right and not right by doing that. I also need to stop dominating conversations and rambling on too much. Can be boring as hell to the ppl i am talking to. Overall I had an awesome week. Very happy me and john are cool again

Field Report: Tried talking to same blonde girl in COOP 101 and i did HORRIBLY :crackup: :crackup: These experiences are good though because it shows that it's not a big deal. I almost forgot that this happened today until i read last week's post of me trying to talk to the same girl then. A year ago, I thought having the experience with a girl like the one I did today would be similar to dying. I was so scared of awkward mumbling and fumbling and thats EXACTLY what happened today. Once I turned away, I smiled at the hilarity of it and then practically forgot it happened until now. GO AND GET REJECTED PEOPLE, its never as bad as you think. never. I then went to the gym, went to extra help, english (with Jaclyn), Chinese, and chilled for the rest of the day. Oh, Julie (friend but with weird sexual tension) told me about how a friend of hers wants to go to a social with me. Need to follow up, even if she is ugly i think it could be fun and i can make a name for myself in front of the sorority girls.

Jaclyn [high]- So i walk into class late again but almost all seats were taken up so i couldnt sit next to her. Gonna go in EARLY next time...But in class i was being alpha as usual,at first i'd keep trying to sneak peeps of her beautiful face but i stopped and just focused on me, and answered a lot. I had kickass body language and my chill attitude was on point. Because i was sitting where i coud see her, i saw her look at me multiple times. Then as class ended i caught her eye, give her the 'wussup' nod and a ****y grin. BUT this is where the great stuff ends, the rest is just average. So we walk back all the way to the dorms and our convo is not the best. She's trying to talk about me and i'm trying to talk about her and neither is trying to be the focus because game tells us to focus on the other. This was very difficut to balance. Also, i found myself keeping pace with HER rather than her keeping pace with ME. I was walking faster than normal and not my chill normal walk. next time she's slow walking with this bad boy lmao. I also was kinda fidgetty now that im thinking about it, didn't hold much eye contact cuz i didnt want to run into people and i was nowhere near flirty enough. I talked like i do to a friend not a girl i want to hop in bed with. I NEED TO BE MORE SEXUAL. TESTOSTERONEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. I did do some good . Good kino and early on in the relationship (being ambitious here ), always positive to have her used to you touching her. Also we are going to get together and study for a test next week. Need to figure out when but we established starbucks (open for change tho) and I'm feeling pretty good about this. Just can'tbe sunday cuz im going WHITE WATER RAFTING:box:

Elizabeth [high]- thought i saw her far in front of me (keyword=though) but I was with friends and she was 25 seconds ahead and i was 50/50 whether it was her or not. I didn't take the chance to find out. Don't real;y mind though cuz im texting her tuesday

Workout/food: Went to the gym with Nate and he showed me his routine for Monday's. Did a god core workout and did chest. Could have done triceps with him but i was busy with office hours opening soon so i had to go to the extra help instead. Then played tennis in the evening and shot a basketball around. Found my flow for my shot= high ark, jump up wile jumping forward, ball held slightly above eye level) follow that formula. the food i ate was almost all good except some pizza

School: extra help shows i care about my grade. Also clarified some issues i had

Hobbies: basketball and tennis. Played some fifa (not a real hobby) and got smacked. Talk about an ego deflater

Goals Reached:
1. Soccer starts tomorrow
2. Got those two numbersfrom last night
3. No sex
4. Talked to everyone (even F.O.B asian girl). mostly good convo with Jaclyn
5. Getting help for my econ class
6. Didn't run today and instead i'm going running with the drexel running club
7. Business meeting is cancelled and im instead running with drexel running club
8. I'M SO BROKE. got an e-mail though saying i should get my money from catering wither tomorrow or the day after. AWWWW YEAHHH

"There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path"

Today I'm grateful for
A. Borrowing my friends tennis racket
B. Borrowing my friends long board to ride to the dining center
C. My professor helping me

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 8, 2012

Field Report: Average day in terms of gaming. Had its ups, had its downs. I went to econ but Joana wasn't there sadly. Then I went to the library to print some stuff out and saw Natalie (cute girl from last term's english class) she looked at me as i looked away so it was not the best as it could of be. Might see her tomorrow in univ 101 class and i'll try to talk to her if she is there. Went to eat lunch and the hot spanish girls where there again. I went to sit near them, watched the liverpool-chelsea game, and overheard them talk in their sexy accents. They are both so fine. Then i texted Elizabeth cuz the phone was kinda workin and i got no response the whole day. Also texted friend Julie about the formal dates. I wanted to know who they are but i'm very bad at communicating things about dates and girls to others in the real world so the convo went to sh*t. I realize now that most people would want to get into detail about who the hell they would take on a date to a formal and i've been kinda aloof. Went to rock climb in the evening and saw cool chick Alex. She was there after yoga and goes to do that stuff a lot. Flirted with her decently even if she was surrounded by a bunch of guys. Also kicked ass climbing the wall and had a cool part where i had to climb with only my arms while my feet hung and i did pretty well which was great. I then went to play basketball afterwards and she called out goodbye as i was playing. Then was in the study lounge and talked to this girl who is drexel hot and i found out her nanny was trini. We clicked well with my friend whose from the Virgin Islands also joining in the fun. She went up in my book and became hotter just like that

Elizabeth [unknown, prob low]- I waited two weeks to text her once i got her number. I could not do it prior due to the broken phone/wanted to appear un-needy. Now i have to suffer the consequences i guess.

jaclyn [prob high]- i need to escalate/be more charming/stop being too friendly with her. I saw her today as we walked by each other and said hi. I need to bring out my inner cool..

Workout/food: Ate pizza a lot which is not great but i did an awesome workout with the rock climbing and basketball shots.

School: did well in class, but didnt really pay too much attention on econ. Fearing this will come back to bite me in the ass.

Hobbies: Went rock climbing:box: and worked on my basketball drive and shot

Goals Reached
1. Soccer this thursday
2. No numbers. Could have asked the girl who knew trini stuff but she told me a story about a guy asking for her number that weirded her out. Threw me off lol but shes interested i think. Didnt text Jaclyn but i did text Elizabeth
3. Virgin
4. Could have talked to more people but i did a-ok.
5. Lucky i dont have midterms this week
6. Went rock climbing like a champ. Didn't run with the running club toda though and im going tomorrow
7. Going with the running club tomorrow and DIBA is on thursday
8. Didnt get the check today

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”

Today I'm grateful for
A. Going rock climbing. Wasn't planning to until my friend suggested to.
B. Sleeping in
C. Online advice to help me finally GET LAID

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 9, 2012

Field Report: pretty rough day. Was feelin down in the dumps. Jaclyn wasn't textin back and I realized that my approach to game was too friendly. I am afraid I wasn't alpha enough and this has been a recurring theme i have with girls. I initally get them attracted and we flirt great at first but over time my inner-afc core is revealed and i am shown out. I don't do stupid afc things though like beg, have oneitis, and such but my lack of experience with girls is what i mean. I do/say something not good and over time the girl loses attraction. For Elizabeth and Melissa, it was not contacting them enough/only texting them/never really inviting them to spend casual time together. With Jaclyn I think I act to unmanly and it becomes obvious that besides all the cool things I do and the great things about me, i'm still a rookie in the game. Did flirt pretty well with hot girl on the second floor though which is awesome. she's hot and interested but i dont know her name. Then I went to my first meet with the running club and my friend who runs it (no pun intended) thought i was a novice so we only went to run 4 miles but 4 miles is cake for me and i ended up with more energy at the end than my friend i came with. THen i went to work on my jump shot, found that place of mental stillness/no-mind/ 'in the zone'/ extreme concentration and I was sinking every shot, some where bombs from deep in three point territory. I'm perfecting my shooting technique and I find myself slowly and steadily becoming a shooter. I used to drive a lot and dribble with the ball but my creativity/knowledge and effectiveness of my handle has steadily become worse and my shots improved double fold. I can become a great dribbler again with watching youtube clips like i did in high school to refresh my memory but i currently dont have the time.

Jaclyn-did end up texting me back late at night but im gonna go no-contact except in person in class/across campus

Workout/food: banged out 4 miles and felt like i just did a warm up by the time i finished. Then shot around by myself and i followed my own technique and i was shooting like a sniper. Ate well, had my salad and avoided fattening foods.

Hobbies: Went running. I truly love running. It frees the mind and I feel so alive during so.

School: 100 on my IAS assignment lets go!

Goals Reached:
1. Intramural game thursday!!!!!
2. No numbers yet
3. No poonani yet
4. Started off the day pretty sad so i was reclusive but by then i found my courage again and was pretty social
5. Thinkin I can do well in econ
6. Went rock climbing earlier on monday and running today. White water rafting this sunday
7. GOAL REACHED! Now a member of the Drexel Running Company and board member of the Drexel International Business Club. Fvck yeah for campus involvement!
8. Expecting that paycheck but i still dont have a job

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 10, 2012

Field Report: Better day. In econ, didnt talk to joana even though i had the chance. then went to eat and saw hot girl from second floor with Julia's roomate but i didnt say hi to either. Wasnt too happy about these but as i came out of studying i saw hot girl joana again, talked and flirted as usual and the convo was great. Lookin forward to seeing her again so i can nab her number. Then had an intramural soccer game in the evening.Took a couple of shots prior so i had the liquid confidence running through my veins. I played amazing, like i do back home. I megged, skilled, and owned the other players. Played a lot of pressure on the other team and had the assist for our goal. They scored too though and we ended up going to penalties. Me being me, i volunteered for first penalty. I took the ball, spun it like i knew what i was doing. Then i placed it down gently, looked the goalie dead in the eye, walked back slowly and blasted it into the net. It took a deflection off the keeper but i still scored. Drama aside, we ended up winning and we went crazy. I was so happy

Joana- forget elizabeth and jaclyn. There holding onto their high school boyfriends (facebook pictures/posts tell me so). What a waste of college experience. I laugh at dumb girls who think their high school relationship will last through college. The poor souls...........Talked to joana today, she seems kinda slowish but i dont mind, i just want to have my **** inside her.

School/workout: played tons of soccer. was best player on field

Hobbies: same

Food: had pizza. Keep doing this ****, it aint good

Goals reached:
1. Scored a penalty in the shoot out. 1/5 goals for the season
2. virgin for now
3. no numbers this day
4. Talked to people but could have talked to more (2nd floor chick. Jaclyn earlier)
5. blaaagh fvck school
6. went rock climbing this week.
7. GOAL REACHED! joined two clubs
8. didnt get the damn paycheck yet

"There are two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle"

Today I'm grateful for:
A. scoring my penalty. Goalie could have saved it
B. Running into Joana. she's honestly becoming the new flavor of the week (watch how first it was melissa, elizabeth, then jaclyn, now this girl....why is this happening? im doing something wrong here)
C. Good food at dining center

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 11, 2012

Field Report: went to meeting with study abroad advisor about my and my friend going to china, very succesful. Then ate, and studied. Then went to workout and went to party at night. Apparently the camera people from 'I'm shmacked' were there and they video taped me doing a keg stand (i was sloppy, was my first one) and i had lots of fun there. Realized how truly i am on the course to running my campus. Every five seconds, someone came up to me, hugged me, called my name, gave my a five. I know mad people and i am on my way to the top. I was the life of the party ... Took tons of pictures with girls who want (but i play hard to get to make them crave the d even more) and i tried to dance with some hot girls on the dance floor but was regected. No worries at all,im totally used to that now. Thank god

School: Studied very hard. Super progressive.

Workoutid a good abs workout then played basketball. I wasnt on fire like the other day but i still had great drives on my friend i was 1 on 1-ing with. Also had a great longboard run with my other friends. Im honestly in love with longboarding..........

Food: ate mostly well. dont remember too much but i had a lot of beer which s bad health wise.

Goals Reached:
1. One goal dwn, 4 to go... literally
2. Got 4 numbers at the party (maybe 3):box: They were girls i knew before hand so its not that amazing. just never had their numbers yet
3. no sex though sadly, despite the outrageous kino
4. very sociable
5. productive ass day
6. rock climber and proud
7. goal reached biatch
8.broke
9. made a mistake and f'ed my dry streak. not the drug one, but i was mad drunk and barely remember it happening. still had pizzaz for sunday

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 12, 2012

Field Report: I woke up hella hung over and decided to get **** down for getting fvcked up last night. Didn't really get around to being productive as I thought i would be and had to put stuff off for Sunday. Ended up drinking with some friends on the floor before heading to Upenn. Looked around the barren place they had their graduation for something cool. I don't like stealing so i didnt take anything but my friends found some stuff. We ended up sneaking into some Upenn alumni event where there was tons of people and loud music. Turns out it was the class of 2007 reunion and us drexel kids were very underage and very underdressed. They were too drunk to care though so we walked right past the front desk and went to the open bar and fiested on the delicious and free drinks they had. Any alcoholic beverage ive never had but wanted, i had that night. It was almost too easy that it was unfair. We left hella drunk and went back to the dorms. This one medium chick hits me up on fb chat and i tell her to come over but she replies 'what?', i know she wants the d but i didnt like that answer so i shifted the convo to watching a movie then when she said yes she will come by and said i changed my mind and went to bed. Had to wake up mad early for white water rafting.

didnt talk to the girls that i liked at all today

School: not much done

Workout/food: went longboarding twice. I have developed a serious passion and ive improved pretty damn well. Probably better than some of my more experienced friends. ate well and followed my rules.

Hobbies: sneaking into a 21+ event for another school= lots of fun. Also longboarding is sick

Goals Reached:
1. 1/5 goals
2. virgin. dont know if i should lower standards and **** the lower/medium chicks or keep my same flow. I have yet to get any even though i have had opportunities for beat girls
3. got medium girl's number from facebook chat. 5 numbers this week:box:
4. could have talked to people at the event but i didnt want attention on me
5. didnt do too much school wise when i should/could have. kept getting distracted but i did do some hw so that still counts.
6. did a swimming test today for white water tomorrow
7.JOINED TWO CLUBS
8. No paycheck yet. being sent out today i hear

"Someone is happy with less than what you have"

Today I'm grateful for
A. Being lucky and getting into the party
B. being reminded that stealing is wrong. did have a moment where i admitted i might have taken something
C. Zak letting me borrow his board

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 13, 2012

Field Report: keep finding myself thinking of what would be the most awesome scenario to every situation (simple day dreaming). I always forget that if i really wanted to, i can act out that scenario. Today on the water rafting trip, there were 4 hot girls together. The most awesome thing to do would be to introduce myself, talk to them, get to raft with them, get to know them. I was with no friends with campus so i easily could have and that would have been that but instead i'd only ask little questions (always do this with hot girls) instead of trying to have a convo. Did talk to the 4th hottest for a bit then the 3rd for a while at the end of the day but the two hottest intimitated me too much. while we rafted, whenever they came near i wanted to keep going forward. I hung out with the nerdy crew instead and realized that my personality is still very beta despite my alpha behavior/actions. Shy people are naturally viewed as p*ssies and im naturally shy. I need to work on myself seriously. While i do all these great things on the outside, my inside remains the same and i still am a bit of a whimp. I ran into Dani and she thought i never kissed a girl before. This wasnt a sh*t test, just that i am kinda whimpy. And this is not cool...have to figure this stuff out soon

Jaclyn texted me about hw, i texted her back when i got the message. Phone was dead/not allowed on the raft so i couldnt text her back till late.

School: studied and did some good hw.

workout: rafted 9 miles. serious shoulders action..................

food: ate past10:30 but i was starving the whole day cuz i didnt have a lunch to go.

Goals Reached:
1. scored a penalty in the shootout. final game Thursday
2. virgin
3. numbers this week but i think im friendzoned in almost all of them (except for chick who hit me up last night)
4. didnt talk to raft girls. did talk to a lot of other people
5. did some good work
6. swam and climbed this week
7. golden
8. broke and jobless

"A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life."

Today Im grateful for:
A. Catching up to date on this journal. hectic weekend so ive been putting it off
B. the nerd kids at the rafting thing. Its mean that i say that cuz they were only nice to me and offered me good things. Really good people. They are not nerds just smart
C. Getting studying done

 

[FairShake]

2. virgin. dont know if i should lower standards and **** the lower/medium chicks or keep my same flow. I have yet to get any even though i have had opportunities for beat girls

You absolutely should.

1.) Medium girls try harder and you can have a great time with them. And sex isn't about validation or showing off the hottest girl but having a good time.

2.) If you're a virgin you don't know what you're missing. Once you find out what you're missing you won't have as much approach anxiety because you KNOW the ends justify the means.

3.) We all bang medium girls.

Edit: Cool thread by the way. I like the personal touch with goals and things you are thankful for.

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

Thanks FairShake. Good advice is always appreciated. As of this week, I've spent time with medium girls instead of trying to just go straight to the hot girls. I think I used to go for the hottest girls just to impress which shows how messed up my ego is. I had to have the best of the best. But girls are people too not trophies to show off to friends. That was my flaw..so to begin the craziness that was this week.

Field Report: Did my own thing today. Went to the dining center after co-op 101 and the front desk dude (whose our age) and I hit it off and wanted to chill and smoke later when he was gonna chill with some other drexel kids. I quit ganj so I was like nah. Then in english jaclyn didnt pay attention to me but i dont really mind. We were taking tests and long ago ive stopped taking these things personal. Meanwhile, average girl Anne (chick who hit me up saturday) and i started textin and i was fluid as fvck.

None with the hot girls. realizin that ive been attracted to them because how they would make me look like in the eyes of others, not that they are cool people or even pretty.

School: went to class and took my english midterm. Kinda afraid of how i did. not my best work

workout/food: ate well. dont remember my workout...think i didnt do anything cuz of the rafting the day prior. i could be wrong, im writing this on the following friday

Goals reached:
1. 1/5 goals in soccer
2. Got Anne's number for the week. Textin well
3. Still a virgin
4. Very sociable. feels good to talk to others
5. could have studied more for chinese and english
6. going to go climbing a different day
7. in two clubs
8. waiting for that paycheck

"Blessed are they who see beautiful things in humble places where other people see nothing"

Today I'm grateful for:
A. Borrowing Zak's longboard
B. Seeing my friends in the dining center when i went alone
C. Meetin a friend's friend who is hella cool

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 15, 2012

Field Report: Oh yeah, last night I stayed up till 5 studying econ so i was exhausted when i woke up. Took the econ midterm and i did good on multiple choice but im worried about the short answers. Ate and chilled then skipped ias class o ) and played soccer all afternoon instead. Then in the evening I had a crazy adventure. I started hanging out with the 5th floor kids who have a very similar mindset to my own and they took me to this SWEET ass bonfire hidden in fairmount park. There was a main bonfire with hippies and crazy drugs going around but we had our own further into the woods. We drank beer, smoked hookah, and they had their weed to toke up on. great conversation and good times followed. Sadly the rain started to come down and we had to ditch camp. They had bikes and i had the longboard i rolled in with so i sketched (it was BADASS) a ride from multiple 5th floor kids and i felt so incredible zooming down the empty streets, late at night, with the wind in my ears and rain all over me. We were thoroughly drenched (might have to throw away the shoes i used that night) but it was very much worth it. After showering, they smoked up in the bathroom and we raided all the kitchens in the floor looking for munchies for them to eat. It was hilarious because i knew exactly what they were going through whenever they found delicious leftovers or unguarded goods. I was still drunk so my morality meter was not at its usual level but it did make for some good bonding time with the kids.

School: Took econ exam and skipped ias (NOT GOOD!!) not gonna do that again

Workout: Soccer, longboarded some serious distance, build a campfire and climbed trees to get firewood

Food: Generally good. had hooka which is opposite of good though, for my health atleast

Goals reached
1. soccer still the same. 1 goal for me
2. no new numbers but i did grab anne's (who ive been texting steadily)
3. virgin
4. did activities with 5th floor kids and made great new friends
5. skipped class. not good
6. another day
7. still broke

“love the life you live.
live the life you love.”

Today I'm grateful for:
A. The bonfire exerience
B. fun time playing soccer
C. good food at the dining center

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 16, 2012

Field Report: Since i stayed up again till 5 i crashed and woke up an hour before my 4 o'clock chinese class. Hung out with friends i ran into the hans and i studied some. Then went to class and came out as the running team was leaving. Not wanting to miss out, i grabbed my friend who is also interested and we both did our own run and ran (no pun intended) the actual team. Did a good 4 or 5 miles and now i know a new route. Chilled in the night time and didnt do anything too ridiculous.

School: had one class today, mad easy

Workout/food: ran and eat decently

Goals Reached:
1. 1 for 5
2. anne texted me hard. she wants the d
3. could potentially win this goal with anne. sex is sex.
4.Was very social today. talking to elevator people is a norm for me so i dont even really bother to count that anymore lol
5. studied ton of chinese. always good to do this
6. went running!
7. but ni check..

“I have always lived violently, drunk hugely, eaten too much or not at all, slept around the clock or missed two nights of sleeping, worked too hard and too long in glory, or slobbed for a time in utter laziness. I've lifted, pulled, chopped, climbed, made love with joy and taken my hangovers as a consequence, not as a punishment.”

Today I'm grateful for:
A. Being able to sleep in
B. A good run with my buddy Aaron
C. the sunny weather outside

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 17, 2012

As I write this 48 hours later, these past two days have been epic..

Field Report: So i had econ today and ias. Nothing really happened between the two but afterwards I met up with my 5th floor friends. We bouldered the rock wall for a while and i found out these kids were badass climbers! We then went to yoga for an hour and i had a similar moment to when i was riding the streets that rainy night earlier this week. True bliss, serenity, and satisfaction with life. The peace from within. I love yoga cuz it always does that but this was my first time doing it publicly, with a bunch of people, while not being afraid of the 'gay' stigma. I then ate with them and went back to the dorms. chilled for a bit and then Anne hits me up, wanting me to come over. I get nervous but i remember that its nbd so i went and we talked and hung out. Her roomate was there so i felt that i couldnt make too much moves but there were times where i had my arm around her in a standing spoon position. We chill till 5 (she had an 8am, willing to barely sleep just to see me) and i piece. I hoped i was gonna get some booty but it wasnt to be

School: easy classes. boring

Workout: Yoga and rock wall.

food: all good stuff

Goals Reached:
1. no soccer this week
2. talked to anne a lot. Then she invited me over
3. couldnt get the hook up but im trying for sex
4. social skills take you far
5. not much done school wise
6. rock wall and yoga!
7. no money

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

Today I'm grateful for
A. practicing 1 on 1 time with a girl
B. Yoga. I plan on going more often now
C. 5th foor kids for being cool

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

This Day

NOTE- cuz i got lazy and waited till now to update, ive gotten my info wrong. the whol anne and me potentiay gettin it in thing happened wednesday. Yesterday was different. after yoga and rock climbing i played late night soccer with the crew. that as awesome and we were up till 3 in the morn. best part was that a ton of people were there. i might have come off a lil ****y which is bad

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 18, 2012

Field Report: woke up extra early to get home for the weekend. went to the ENT's to see what's up with the sinuses. then went over Juan's (penn state kid, theyre already out) and played fifa.Played soccer again for the second time in 12 hours with a bunch of ppl.Then went over to stefan's with juan and two other friends and chilled. c-grams, hookah, and cigars. Then we decided to check out an open gymnastics gym. I learned so much cool stuff I did the run up the wall backflip, double backflip/front flip off the tramp into the foam pit, jesus christ flips, backflips off of regular stuff, webster flips, aerials, etc.... IT WAS NUTS. Then anne texts me 'hey cutie' and i talk, tell her ill let her know when im in town and she says 'she cannot wait!'..time to lose the v card

School: did some small stuff, nbd

Workout:lots of soccer and gymnastics

food: delicious. love being home

Goals reached:
1. soccer final is next thursday
2. anne wanted me to come over, she said so
3. i can lose my virginity
4. had a blast with friends
5. on the way to good grades
6. did rock wall earlier this week
7. broke

“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”

Today Im grateful for
A. Learning new tricks!
B. Hanging with old friends
C. Free alcohol

 

[FairShake]

Less hobbies, more parties. Parties and after-parties in an empty dorm room are where this stuff takes place in college. Not on the basketball court or soccer field.

Basketball is awesome but it won't get you laid.

 

[loveshogun]

Basketball is awesome but it won't get you laid.

I beg to differ.

You might not be a star, but you will stay in shape.

While you're in shape, you'll be happier.

While you're happier, women will matter less.

Because women matter less, you will make better choices.

Also, the least attractive quality in any man, next to whining and boredom, is desperation.

 

[FairShake]

I beg to differ.

You might not be a star, but you will stay in shape.

While you're in shape, you'll be happier.

While you're happier, women will matter less.

Because women matter less, you will make better choices.

Also, the least attractive quality in any man, next to whining and boredom, is desperation.

In theory yes. And in practice yes...sometimes. But not always.

If you want to get laid you need to go where the drunk girls are. You can play all the basketball you want but you will never get laid on the basketball court (well...possibly afterhours on the way home from a party or a bar).

I know TONS of guys who have a lot of hobbies who never get laid. I don't know many guys who go to many social events and drink and never get laid.

 

[loveshogun]

I know TONS of guys who have a lot of hobbies who never get laid. I don't know many guys who go to many social events and drink and never get laid.

And I know even more guys who have nothing going on and get laid even less.

I'm not arguing that you have to go out to get laid. But don't give up the things that make you interesting. That's just bad advice. As if tang is really worth that much.

 

[TriniBoySmooth]

May 19, 2012

I agree that vag is not the end all to all my problems HOWEVER it is the goal for this journal. That said, I've never been as happy/in shape/satisfied with life than I have been now. I love my hobbies and I plan to keep them in order to make me the best i can be. While I am trying to get laid, the focus on both this journal and my life is me. Girls are second to my self improvement, once I become this guy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVwG1t-NVAA they will flock like sheep.

Field Report: Drank all day. btw kinda messed up my porn streak when i got the messages friday cuz i got all excited from the girl basically textin me to bone her. That was a first and it got me all ready to go. so that streak is starting over again, fvck porn and masturbating! anyway, went over stefan's and drank. Was social with his intimidating dad which is good. not much else happened this day.

Girls- not much really

workout: goon soccer with the bro's

food: delicious home food. ate decently also

school: ignored

Goals reached:
1. practiced for the intramural finals of the day this thursday.
2. im gonna nail Anne
3. im gonna nail Anne HARD (but no new numbers so far)
4. talked to stefan's dad who i once got really belligerently drunk with during high school and caused him to dislike me (i think) but its cool now more or less
5. grades grades grades=priorities. gotta keep em movin
6. swimming monday potentially
7. broke

“You can never be overdressed or overeducated.”

Grateful for
A. free food, drink, tobacco at stefan's house
B. chilling with old friends
C. Juan spotting me drunk snacks at seven 11