The Game Continues, my approach journal

[DonJoseCantosie]

Week 11: Sausage Fest Weekend! Blah!

Well this weekend, the two parties were sausage fests.

On Friday, there were nothing but like 20 guys and maybe 7 girls. One of them gave me IOIs, but whenever i tried to just talk to her, something would distract her or try to prevent me from doing so. Another girl, who i've known for a bit, was surrounded by a few guys. I just flat out told her, "Hey...lets go back to my place later" I just decided to give it a shot. She asked me, "Is this a joke?" I tell her "No" She tells me that her dad is there for the weekend. I then tell her, "Ahh i see...so your dad comes down every weekend, eh?" So i decided to leave that.

On Saturday, was a toga party but there weren't really that many girls. The ratio still wasn't that good. Most of the sets i went up to, it started out fine...but there was too much drama going on in the fraternity house. Whenever i was talking to a girl, it was at the time when they just had to deal with drama. So just bad timing.haha.

One girl i went up to, she seemed to have interest. Did some sexual innuendo, talked to her later in the night...did the boob touch to see how she would respond but it wasn't that good...and then after realizing, she wasn't feeling me. She even said, "Oh...we can see each other in Quadfest" I told her, "Nope...tonight " And she said, "no". Meh, its all good.

I've also realized something, i've got to stop "Hoe Chasing" so to speak. What i mean by hoe chasing is to keep trying to repeatedly game a girl after a few attempts. If i get an IOI from a girl after maybe the first time i go up to her doesn't go well, its fine to go up to her again. But after that, no need to go up to her anymore. If she's still looking at u, doesn't matter. Just don't go up to her. I mean, it prolly means she has interest in some level, but if its not gonna develop into anything...why bother? She wasn't really feeling u the 2nd time(even when plowing and are confident)...so why go up to her again? I've noticed some kind of trend, for some girls...they give IOIs throughout the night, i'm talking to them...im not noticing a hook...yet doing kino...they aren't responding THAT HIGH of interest...they leave with the friend somewhere but i go up to them, they're not really haivng interest. BUT, they're still looking. So i've decided that if u truly try the 2nd time, to just flat out not even go back there again unless she's physically comes up to you and touches you.

I'm not gonna try so hard to the point i waste so much energy just for one girl.

To any posters who say("Oh ur thinking negatively"), i don't care. I deserve to speak my thoughts and don't tell me frustration has never hit you.

The party just wasn't that good. Sure, maybe i thought i didn't do well and was mad at the fact that some of the girls seemed like b1tches, but i've realized something....

It was just one night, some nights are good, some nights are not. Doesn't make my skill level any lower just cuz some of the girls weren't really feeling me much.

Analysis
1) I did improve getting through the ****blocking which was good.
2) When one of the friends was trying to drag the target girl away, i literally held the target girl's arm...telling the friend "I'm not done with her yet". I wasn't gonna give up that easily. The target girl still went with her friend, but i still felt some satisfaction.
3) Last night when i went back to my room, i was telling myself, "Its not fair! Its not fair. I try hard, yet its as if everything is trying to prevent me from getting what i deserve, lays" BUT...i then realized that it was all in my head. There weren't enough targets to go around. Why do I say this? Because if u've noticed in my FRs, the best nights are usually when the ratio is good and the not so good nights are of parties that there aren't that many girls to choose from.
4) My persistence and resiliance is good. Its a great thing in the game to never give up no matter how u feel.


My university Mardi Gras Weekend is coming up! I'm gonna be going out 5 nights this week, if possible. Right now my faith is topsy turvy, BUT if i keep going...it'll stay alive.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Epiphany of Week 11 Party Night

A lightbulb just hit me and i realized some situations which will def help me coming up.

1) With the girl who i direct approached and saw at the party. Did i have belief that i could pick her up that night? No i did not. I assumed that i wouldn't be able to pull her, beacuse i thought that she would've been distracted and that no matter what i said, i couldn't keep her interest. There you go. I did not have the belief that i could pull her. Hence why i wasn't able to, i didn't flat out try or believe i could.

2) With another girl whom was with a friend, who i met. She was being friendly and was responding but not of "OMG i want to **** you tonight" more like laid back. Did I believe i could flat out pull her? I believed it was possible but not that much. How would've i behaved if i believed it? I Would been more sexual, had my arm around her...look at her seductively in the eyes, talk to her that she's mine for the night. Did i do that? No

3) Her friend i was dancing with. Did i go for the kiss close? No I was afraid of rejection. I was afraid that it would just be a repeat performance.

4) The girl who kept looking at me when she was distracted. Did she flat out reject me? No. Did i game her in the manner that she was mine for the night? No. She could've wanted to be taken home, yet all i most likely had to do was flat out seduce her. Extract her and her friend to the diner near by. And keep running game.

I'm very glad that tonight i realized of the previous night of what i definitely could've did, and it will help me for QUADFEST a.k.a my University Mardi gras party! Will be the event of the year.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Whats good man. I read your journal often although I don't reply to every post. I think you have some recurring issues that you need to address. You often say 'Lesson Learned" and then make the same mistake two approaches nights later. Stop ejecting early; instead make the ho say no. Make her reject you outright instead of you leaving because she turned her back or talked to another guy who you thought was her bf.

Also, sometimes you come across guilty of overanalyzing interactions.

If i get an IOI from a girl after maybe the first time i go up to her doesn't go well, its fine to go up to her again. But after that, no need to go up to her anymore. If she's still looking at u, doesn't matter. Just don't go up to her. I mean, it prolly means she has interest in some level, but if its not gonna develop into anything...why bother? She wasn't really feeling u the 2nd time(even when plowing and are confident)...so why go up to her again? I've noticed some kind of trend, for some girls...they give IOIs throughout the night, i'm talking to them...im not noticing a hook...yet doing kino...they aren't responding THAT HIGH of interest...they leave with the friend somewhere but i go up to them, they're not really haivng interest. BUT, they're still looking. So i've decided that if u truly try the 2nd time, to just flat out not even go back there again unless she's physically comes up to you and touches you.

I think in this instance your looks are getting you noticed but your game is getting you ignored.


Also, don't call out BS excuses (Chick whose Dad was visiting her for the wknd). If you are dating her, then yea, but if it is a random girl it means that she is not attracted enough. Exposing her lie is not goin to do you any good.

But yea, keep up the progress man. it is not about entitlement, its about laying a good rap and getting the pvssy. life isn't fair and seduction is even worse. Deal with it and good luck with your future hunting

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Thanks Microphone Fiend

Hey Fiend, thanks for posting man. I thought no one really cared about the journal, hence why i kinda stopped posting in it for a bit, till later when i racked up more experience.

Whats good man. I read your journal often although I don't reply to every post. I think you have some recurring issues that you need to address. You often say 'Lesson Learned" and then make the same mistake two approaches nights later. Stop ejecting early; instead make the ho say no. Make her reject you outright instead of you leaving because she turned her back or talked to another guy who you thought was her bf.

Yea man, i agree. Whats the point of lesson learned if i haven't actually learned the lesson yet? Now its good if i solve the issue right afterward...but why do it twice? But yea, i'll stop ejecting early until i damn well know she's not interested. If she's talking to another guy, i stick in there till she says no. Cuz i never know.

Also, sometimes you come across guilty of overanalyzing interactions.

This is do agree with but at the same time, i'd rather analyze than not at all, as what if the same situation came up again and i didn't remember "Oh thats how it is?" So yea, the analyzing is good but overanalyzing, yea...got to go.

I think in this instance your looks are getting you noticed but your game is getting you ignored.

I wouldn't say ignored, per se...i just don't sense the interest much anymore BUT 1/2 the time i just assumed rather than know for sure. Also, maybe the girl WAS still interested, i just had to be the man and continue on gaming her til she said "No". The strongest man wins, and for some of the approaches the girl chose the other guy because he was the more dominant one. I'm "supposed" to be the better of the two. Why? because i'm learned the game and by law, i deserve it. And no i aint accepting anyone telling me otherwise. Eventho sometimes a girl will choose him no matter how good u may be which then he deserves it.

Also, don't call out BS excuses (Chick whose Dad was visiting her for the wknd). If you are dating her, then yea, but if it is a random girl it means that she is not attracted enough. Exposing her lie is not goin to do you any good.

I feel ya. I just didn't want to leave without letting her know that im not stupid, just a pet peeve of mine. Partly i was frustrated, so it was just for me to feel better, but it didn't help really at all in the long run.

But yea, keep up the progress man. it is not about entitlement, its about laying a good rap and getting the pvssy. life isn't fair and seduction is even worse. Deal with it and good luck with your future hunting

Damn right son! Thanks for ur advice. It helped me alot.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Hey guys as u've read, i've been going out there quite a bit for these past 12 weeks to parties and what not. Also have been doing some day game. I'll update with how my day game has been next. Gonna be pretty long.haha.

But i would say my biggest problem is not being dominant and leading at parties and not going for the close when the iron is hot. I have to admit, i've gone for kiss closes but they were of girls who weren't that interested, plus it wasn't in the best case situation. Also, another would be being dominant and leading.

Here are some examples of approaches i've done from My Quadfest weekend to the end of this weekend.


#1 Was a brunette girl. She was tall and thin. She looked like a really cute i saw on campus. so i opened up with her being "Ahh...there u are.." I asked her if she had braces and she said no. She was responding a good deal receptively at first. The kino was good and the interaction was good. What happened after? She left with her friend. Why? Because i wasn't leading her


#2 Was a sorority girl outside her sorority house, this was the next day. She had a nice big rack, cute face. I just did a social opening. Did she know i was into her? Prolly not. She walked with her other sisters to do stuff. Did i lead and be dominant? No.


#3 Another sorority girl outside. i flirt with her and her friends. I qualify her by telling her friends, "hey..c'mon now...tell me she isn't cute? She's been a good girl so far" They're laughing. Im doing the claw and she's receptive to it. I'm talking to her a little further(I find out she's from Tech) until she goes with her friends. Her friends pull her away. Did i interact with her as if she was mine to take home with? No. Yes...she went with her friends, but it was still necessary to convey that i was gonna sexual seduce her, not just talk to her


#4 Was another hot girl. She saw me game other girls and showed intrigued. I said hi to her, but she responded neutral. Did i interact with her as if i was gonna seduce her? Nope. I gave up too fast


Do i sound negative? Maybe...but this is necessary to show where i def need to improve at.


#5 Was a blonde who was thick. I came up to her, went to her direct. She was all for it . I looked at her rack and said to her deep in the eyes, ****ing sexy. She giggled. I then did the claw. She was facing me. I was talking to her for a few min but she left. Did I just go for a kiss close when she was giving me her undivided attention? No. Did i tell her that im done yet and would've gone for the kclose then? Nope.


The Wednesday After


Was a hot 1/2 latino blonde i've known. She was giving IOIs quite a bit. hell, when she went back to her friends. I told her "Come with me" I took her hand and she had a confused look and i isolated her over to a nearby area. She was talking to me, facing me directly, and hell...even when she touched her breast, i playfully touched hers and she playfully said "Ahhh " Did i try to make out with her now? NO! I ****ing pussied out. And she walked off but it was on good terms it was like "i brb" I then decide i'm gonna make out with her again by hugging her, but i had the belief that since her arm was between me and her that she was reject me...but boy was i wrong. I pussied out again.


Was another girl i talked to downstairs. Her interest is aright, she is curious when i notice what she's wearing and what not...but i believed she wasn't interested because she didnt' contribute THAT much and that i didn't see much signals, but boy was i wrong. She was just shy, thats all.


Oh yea, in this night...a girl "accused" me of feeling up her ass...which was bull**** and i almost got kicked out. She was like "Why do u keep on hitting on all these girls?" I tell her, "Because i have a right. I rather talk to whichever girl will like me back rather than stand like a log and do absolutely nothing" she tells me "You need to leave" I tell her, "No." and i walk away. A frat bro tells me that she told him that i was feeling her ass and ****. It was a lie, the most i did was the claw and thats it. Nothing more. The frat bro talked to me and told me its not a good idea at the very beginning and he tried it but didn't work either. But that night i saw another girl i wanted to game, but did i try? No. Why? because i feared i'd get rejected. Your catching on now.


Thursday Night

I held back here with kino, because of hte previous incident. That same girl saw

Was a girl i knew before hand. me and her are talking good. She's a good deal receptive to talking to me. Im doing the claw, she's not resisting. I turn her around to check out her body, tell her to move a little bit. She does. Tell her that her last outfit had shown her cleavage and i liked that. Before i could get further, one of the frat bros in that house took her away from me but i let him cuz i was tired of trying to stop girls from moving.


Saturday Night


The same girl from Wednesday Night saw me. said that she missed me quite a bit. I tell her i missed her. She was hugging me. Did i go for the makeout? NO! I pussied out.

I did try to kiss a girl i was grinding with. She rejected it, but i acted as if it never happened. She stuck in there a little longer while i was still talking but she left.

Some of the other girls weren't feeling me at the party. I didn't really get the hook from quite a bit of them. Another girl i gamed, she was pretty receptive to my touch and *** ..even bringing her head closer. Her friend dragged her away. But did i try to go for the makeout soon? NO! I was an idiot.


The party beforehand, a hot dark brunette was excited to see me. Did i keep seducing her? No! I just flat out said i'd be right back, thinking that i'd get to talk to her again. :-\


Another girl, was a girl i direct approached a blonde, who was in a sorority but said she had a bf when i tried to get her number. She's hot. She was like "I remember you!" I just say "yea" with a smirk. She gives the embarrased laugh. I didn't know till now that it was an IOI. I wanted to game her but i held back.



Aright...here's the sum of this:


1) I am a coward! I am scared of feeling shame of getting rejected that i hold back. Yes, i've got the confident now to approach girls at parties consistently but i need to start attempting to close girls more. I tried closing some girls BUT it was of girls i wasn't intersted in. For the girls that were showing interest, i waited too long and used the past of getting rejected from the k close as an excuse to hold it out. yep, i'm being a coward and i need to be a man. A guy can approach quite often, but it takes a true man to approach + k close a girl


2) I am holding back in interactions cuz i feel if i don't do a certain something that i won't bring the girl home. I need to stop being so concerned about pulling one specific girl as there are too many in one place. All i need to do is assume attraction, know its on. When i sense that she's a good deal interested, go for the makeout anyways....even if i might not get a specific signal. Even if it may seem too early. If a friend tries to drag her away...i hold on to the girl telling the friend that i only need her for one more minute. then once i hold on to her, i go for the close.


3) I can only keep the party/fun convo for a bit, then when i run out of things to say...i go to rapport...but at parties...girls don't care much for rapport. Here will take practice, just be more in the party vibe and state. Once im "truly" in this state, keeping that fun/party vibe won't be that hard.


4) Go for the CLOSE! If u sense good interest and a girl is responsive to ur touch, even if its early in the interaction...GO FOR THE CLOSE(AKA MAKEOUT). Caveman: Hug her and then go for it.


With this lesson, I will no longer be a coward. I've done great so far keeping at it and improving bit by bit. But this is the crucial next step, truly going for the close. I will no longer be that coward.

 

[j0n024]

DUDE! I care about your journal man! Fvck everyone else here dude....they dont acknowledge your journal then fvck them ...same goes for my journal I dont care if noone posts in there except for the "Clique," (lol) . You gotta remember to not care about anyone else except yourself (and select few....for me its family and nothing else) including here dude just do it for yourself.

1. Your not a coward....you actually called the b1tch out by saying you were a man and not gonna just stand in a corner like the rest of the girls with d1cks.
2. I get rejected alot myself...I might not put it in my journal(I might start again) but I get rejected alot myself but that doesnt stop me and it shouldnt stop you bro......it's not like she will remember in a month that she rejected you anyways.
3.Yout gotta become spontaneious and you have to learn how to adapt to the situation....you say you missed something then hell adapt and keep on with the convo until you either dont need what you missed or bring it up later.
4. I have no skills at night game yet...(very little) so I cant really help you...except give you something I would do....if you feel yourself going down I would start to dance with her right there...maybe twirl her around make her start laughing or time out lets go get a drink....go but remember dont pay for her drink and ask her what kind of drinks shes had what's the craziest that sort of sh1t.
5.I'll be waiting for your next update good luck dude....and since we lost a man we have to pull up the slack brother....good luck.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Thanks Jon! I really appreciate you and everyone else who have posted here's feedback. The dancing right then and there, i'll try that. Doing the twirling stuff and ****.

But which man did we lose?

 

[j0n024]

last page

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125061&page=7

 

[Snakk3]

men... i read this page and i can say that i have some of your problems, the ones that i don't have is maybe because i have a lot of fear to aproach.
i have good looks etc but... yeah i'm afraid damn it. :\

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Haven't updated alot of the approaches i've done since then. But yea, i've improved...still had trouble getting the lay but man oh man, i def have made improvements since then. Have met up with a fair amount of girls since then. I def should update this. But hey dude, one thing is...don't factor ur looks in the game, u'll get easy lays here and there cuz of ur looks....but ultimately it won't have much to do with it, in the long run.

 

[Snakk3]

Haven't updated alot of the approaches i've done since then. But yea, i've improved...still had trouble getting the lay but man oh man, i def have made improvements since then. Have met up with a fair amount of girls since then. I def should update this. But hey dude, one thing is...don't factor ur looks in the game, u'll get easy lays here and there cuz of ur looks....but ultimately it won't have much to do with it, in the long run.

yeah i know, i'm just said that to tell the fact that i'm not afraid of my looks. that doesn't "put me down".


update this when you can

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

^I'll be more than glad to

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Gaming during Summer School: A Reboot!

Aright, this is from 7 months ago till now, i'm gonna update all that i've done.
I can honestly say im not a coward anymore

Last Two Nights of Spring Semester

For Friday, was a sexy blonde. She was giving e/c before hand, so then i went up to her and her friends, went up direct with "Your ****ing sexy, i just had to meet you" The convo started good and she was pretty receptive, did the claw, she didn't resist. But i backed off and did it again, didn't feel much from it. But me being drunk at the time...i lost words. She kept looking back, which i then regretted that i drank so much. haha. But i do go up to her again. I think went up to one more girl who gave IOIs, it started out good but it kinda died down as i talked about boring stuff, like her graduate school stuff(I actually showed some interest as she looked like another woman i found attractive...thought they were the same person).

Got drunk thinking there wouldn't be that many sets around and i didn't want to be bored as hell but there turned out to be some and i did approach but just me being drunk, surprisingly i was more afraid to game than when i was less drunk.

Saturday went up to a 35 year old hot blonde. She seemed on the more receptive side, she even said "U can see the rinkles on my face " I was like, "Yea but some young people i've known have gotten rinkles too" I the immediately befriend the male of the group. I think my attention was shifted toward him too long as she walked away from the set after a minute. He was a friendly, down to earth guy.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Day Game For the Month of April Part I

#1
Was a long dark haired brunette with a white outfit. I do the stop hand motion and tell her "Your so gorgeous...i just have to meet you" She smiles, takes off her glasses. She asks me my name, i tell her mine and get hers.

Me: So where are u off too missy?
Her: Oh im off to class, don't want to be late ...i think i've seen you before.
Me: Where?
Her: Your in PSK aren't u?
Me: Yea, i was. I left tho.
Her: I think there's a toga party tomorrow
Me: Oh if there is...im def goin to that ****!
Her: Yea, should be fun!
Me: I'll def see you there...wats ur number...just in case?
Her: <gives it>
Me: <I hug her> I'll see you there tomorrow
Her: You too

I see her at the party the next night. We say hi to each other and hug, but i was feeling that i wouldn't be able to hold her attention cuz of the drama and craziness that was happening at the party. Plus i asked another girl she was with two dance, but she's like "Yea right " I call this girl the next day saying, "Wat u doin now cutie? " No reply.

#2 Was a girl with pajamas on. I stop her while she's walking just about past me. I say, "I find u cute and want to meet you " She's on the somewhat receptive side. I can tell she's tired. I say "oh man...u rockin the PJs eh? Wats the deal? " She says that she just wanted to put something on quick. I compliment her by telling her that its great that she doesn't really care what people think and that my roommate wears them too sometimes. I then tell her that ive got to go to class too. The convo lasts about 2 minutes. I get her number and i tell her i'll call her.

I texted her the next night with the same "What doin now cutie? " line and she asks in the text, "Hi. Who's this again?" I tell her who i am and where i met her. No reply

#3 Was in a cafeteria. Was a curly haired brunette. Nice cleavage, nice outfit. I give her around an 8. I think she's with her friend. I turn her a little bit as she's getting food. "hi I find you cute...and i have to meet you" She has a smile with raising her eye brow and look of curiousity and says, "Why? " I tell her in a breakish rapport way, "Because ur cute...thats why
>" We get introductions and that sort. I am very friendly with her friend and they're both a good deal receptive to me. I invite them to eat with me. The target girl asks, "Where? " I tell her over there. After i get my food, we sit down and eat. I forget the conversation. But we just mainly talk about each other and just let loose with conversation. Commonalities. That sort of thing. It was going good, she looked at me every minute or so when i was also talking to her friend. I believe her interest was good. They both weren't guarded or anything. I then get her number.

I text her a few days later, with the same "Wat u doin now cutie?" Text message line, she replies knowing its me. I ask how she is, she says she's doing good. She doesn't respond to one of my texts at the time, but she texts me the next day asking if i said anything and that she didnt' get it. She asks how i am. I tell her amazing. Afew days later i message with "Happy Quadfest!" She says thanks. I then try to meet up with her, telling her "We're gonna watch a movie together at my place" She says, "She's busy" I tell her to hit me up when she has free time for it when texting. So then i wait a week and then tell her, "We're gonna watch a movie together...it'll be fun" She asks, "And why is that?" I tell her, "Because we get to have 1 on 1 time." Didn't get a text ever since.

#4 Was a cute redhead. Stopped her. She was somewhat shy but receptive. We just had some small talk about where she's living in her apartments, and i make a few jokes about that area and stuff. She's giggling a little bit. I tell her that we can hang out sometime, and that i'll call her. She says sure, and says that her phone is bleh.

Afew days later, i text her:

Me: What u doin now cutie?
Her: Hanging out with two of my friends on the porch. We drinking some jooses.
Me: Ahh, ur charlie's angels now. I bet each of u have a joose that matches ur hair color.
Her: Charlie! give us a mission!
Me: Aright Your mission is for you and me to watch a movie together at my place early next week. Failure will not be tolerated
Her: Charlie...if its not with my friends...i have to decline the mission...
Me: I just want it for u and I
her: We'll see...

I text her a few days later, telling her what time is good for her. She doesn't reply back.

#5 Computer Lab. Was a curly good looking thick girl with a black and white dress. As she's standing up, i say "I find you gorgeous and i have to meet you" She's somewhat receptive. We get introductions. I tell her, "Yea...i noticed that dress of urs....it caught my eye" She says, "Yea...i just decided to wear it. I haven't in a while." I then ask her, "Ahh...so ur starting to wear ur summer fashion before ur done?" She says, "Yea " But then after that i ask thats he's graduating and what not. Then she says she gotta go to class. I tell her, "Put down ur number" She gives it to me and i give her mine.

I texted her with the usual text message opening, don't get a reply. I call her a week later, she says, "Hello?" I say, "Hey Nicole......" before i continue my sentence, she hangs up.

#6 Was a hot thin blonde girl that i've met before but she doesn't remember me. I stop her. I go flat out direct on her. She's pretty intrigued asking my name. We get introductions and i ask her where she's off to. She tells me that she's off to class but late . She's receptive. I then just go into rapport and we found where each of us are from. She's contributing in the conversation. I think she's got some interest, but i wasn't 100% sure. So then i tell her, "Aright...here's my stop. Whats ur number?" She then says "Sorry, my bf wouldn't like that" <I doubt she had a bf> Im like "Meh....we'll have fun.." She says, "Sorry" I tell her it was good to meet her.

Here i was wondering, what i did wrong. She was a sorority girl and they're generally nice. Sometimes with them its sometimes hard to tell if they're nice and receptive because they are interest or just cuz their friendly. They're harder to judge at times. But always assume interest, no matter what.

#7 In a cafeteria, was a hot small blonde girl. I turn her around, and tell her "I find you so cute...i want to meet you " She lights up alot and is very nice. Her friend is responding well to me. I forgot what the conversation entailed but she was very receptive. I get her number. Call her phone so she has my number. Afew min later while she's gone, she calls my number saying she's sorry she didn't answer it before and that she's just chilling with her roommate. I talk with her for a min. Then i text her the next day tryin to set up plans to watch a movie with her. She says, "oh im sorry i didn't tell u before! i have a bf. He's coming this weekend" IT turns out that she was being honest and genuine. I then see the next day another guy approaching her. But it was more in a situational/indirect way. Their convo lasted for only a minute. She was just being friendly. I then realize that direct opening was a really good way.

#8 Cafeteria,Was a thin very hot blonde/brunette. I was like "DAMN!" Definitely liked what i saw. I was very attracted to this girl when i first saw her. While she's getting food, i turn her around, tell her, "I find you so stunning...i have to talk to you! I have to!" with such a charming face. She's looking at the cafeteria woman serving food like, "Really?" She was very receptive. We introduce names. I ask her if she knows the girl she was talking to. She says, "Yea...i was talking to her for a minute" She also says she's just going to bring her food up to eat with her roommate who's with her boyfriend, and then i indirectly ask if she has a bf like, "Ahh u got a bf too?" She says, "Yea"

Note: Here, a girl will never say she's single.

So then i lose motivation and i just use a time constraint with "I'll let u eat ur food it was good meeting u " But then a apart of me back at my table, i was thinking, "Steven...go back there!" I do feeling regret, and tell her, "I've realized...that im done talking to u yet" Her reaction is more of caught off guard/don't know what to do. We just talk about the upcoming festivities being Quadfest weekend(A mardi gras thing) i tell her i'll see her there, she's like with a confused demeanor "Yea...right..we'll see each other Steve "

To this day, i feel like a big idiot for not getting her number. At times while saying she was about to get back up to her dorm, she stayed and kept talking. Each day sometimes i wonder if i'd see her again. :-(. Not oneitis by any means but i regret not getting the info. I believe she was interested

#9 Was a thick brunette, whom had big tits. I liked what i saw. I go up to her directly, she's shy and neutral. We introduce each other. Her gay friend talks to her about Business Fraternity Stuff, i introduce myself and ask about the fraternity name on his shirt and what not. He's pretty cool. I then keep talking to her for another minute about that fraternity. I then tell her it was good meeting her(Since it seemed she was very deadset about going back to her table). I try to get her number but she says sorry. I smile and try to persist more but same answer. Then while she's sitting down with her friends. Her friends keep looking at me while im sitting down eating. The target girl also does keep looking at me

Note: Here what i believe happened was that the friends asked about who i was and if she knew me. Then she said nah just met him. Then thats when they realized i was bold and confidentally went up to her. Then her friends put the situation in a positive light that a guy went up to her in a romantic manner. Every minute she looked at me.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Day Game For the Month of April Part II

#10 Was a cute pretty faced brunette with good cleave. Im on a hill, while she's down. I say "Stop! " She has a caught off guard/curious look. I go direct. She's receptive. I ask her what she's off to. She says she's gonna get something to drink in the dining hall. I tell her, "Lets go there together...i was on my way there myself" She says that she has a bf. I believe she was honest cuz she was an upperclassmen and she said it genuinely. I tell her, "Aright...it was good meeting you "

After about 3 weeks into doing day game and not having a day 2/lay...i felt frustrated. I was in sad mood that and thought it wouldn't happen for me since i tried so hard. I was starting to get tired of college girls. The logistics frustrated me and deep down inside i was growing a lil bitter. I questioned, "Whats the point of me going out here if im just not gonna get a result? I know that direct approaching is a good thing because they're attracted but whenever i try to meet up with them...they don't want to" Just the frustration of being in the game for so long and not getting a success added to this doubt. But then i told myself, "Keep going! U'll never win if u give up now" So then i felt motivated again to continue

#11 Was that same day i felt sad. Stopped a curly haired cute girl. She was pretty receptive to my direct approach. I ask her what she's going to the library for. She says biology. I then say "A ha lindsay gonna be a doctor!" She smiles and says that she's def tryin to get into medical school. I then tell her that i wanted to do it at first, but it is too much work and way too hard. She's into the conversation and from the vibe i get, she's actually seems a good deal interested. She asks questions about me, my major etc and we just go on that. After about 5 minutes, i tell her "Hey...the next time im gonna be in the cafeteria. I'll give you a call" She gives me her number and i hug her.

I text her with the same line, no reply. I call her to see, no answer.

I wondered if i did anything wrong here. But sometimes u don't.

#12 Was still that same day afterwards, was a pretty cute long haired brunette. I do the stop hand motion as usual. She asks me if i wanted to say the name on her shirt. I say it and then say my direct line. She's receptive and friendly. I forget what we talk about it. But it was just about the Mardi Gras event that was coming up. We just talked about that for a few minutes. She was smiling and pretty receptive. I tell her that i'll hit her up when i get a bite to eat.

I text her as well, no reply. I call her, no answer.

#13 Was a brunette girl who had a nice ass and i'd give around an 8. I said hi while im on the bench on campus. Its about to rain. She says hi back. After a minute, i chase after her...directly stop her. We're talking about 4-5 min. She says she's gotta clean up. I then say, "Oh clean off your body? " She says, "oh no haha clean up and stuff" I think the convo is good, not sure of her interest level. She's friendly and then her friends see walking by. I believe her ASD kicked in somewhat. So then as the convo stops i say, "Lets hang out sometime....wats ur number? " She says "Sorry" I try getting through the resistance but she doesn't budge.

#14 This approach is persistence at its most, sweet god. The approach was only about 2 minutes, but i was try to persuade her that long. Was a girl with big tits i liked with midlentghed hair. I directly stop her while she's walking. She's receptive, but she's on a rush. I tell her, "I'm on a rush too...i would like to talk to you more...wats ur number..." She then says, "She normally doesn't give it out to strangers" I tell her i'm the exception. She says that she just met me and that she'll see me around. I tell her i'm not sure if i'll see her again, and tell her that wat if i don't see her around, i'd regret with not atleast being able to contact her. She is skeptical still but i think she was thinking about giving it. Her friend texts her that she was gonna meet, so then she said sorry and left.

#15 Was a cute girl it took 2 minutes to catch up to. While she's about 10 feet ahead of me, i say loudly "Stop! " She looks back, smiles and i tell her, "I really find you cute...i want to get to know you " She gives some IOIs. I forget how the interaction went, i just notice her nose piercing, told her that i tend to like girls with nose piercings, Qualifier We go into it for a minute or so. After that, i get her number, she gladly gives it.

I text her, don't get a response. I call her, and it turns out she never got it. I attempt to set up plans with her. She's receptive over the phone and everything, she tells me she's in Roanoke. She says for me to call her afew days later, cuz she didn't know if she was busy or not. I call her afew days later to see, no answer. I leave a voice mail, didn't get one back.

#16 Was a redhead walking through campus on a friday. I stop her. She smiles i tell her she's very very cute. She takes her glasses off and has a mesmerized smile. I say with a charming demeanor, "Yea, look at ur hair. I really like redheads " She tells me she just cut her hair not too long ago. We get introductions from each other. The rapport was good i'd say. She tells me that she was graduating and she was 23. I ask her if she's going to the bars this summer, she says yea, and thats where she was going. We talk for a few more minutes. []I interacted with her a bit longer than needed[/b] I then tell her, "Hey...lets have drinks sometime...give me ur number " She thinks about it for a second and says sorry. I ask her why not playfully. She says that its ok and that she'll see me around. I persist again but she declines.

Afterwards, this approach bothered me a lil because i felt i didn't really do much wrong. And i was like, "Why are these girls so hesitant to give their number out? Its like they think they're walking the line of death" haha. But i realized that its a numbers game and even if a girl likes u...conditioning may poision her brain into declining. Or maybe, she just didn't want to. Who knows?

I did a couple more approaches before school went out. One was a cute mixed with black girl whom i set up to eat with, i texted her, didn't get a response for a few days later, she said she was sorry but that she was busy as her friends came down. She seemed genuine about it tho. Another was a pretty cute girl with a good body i like. I had just some small talk about our majors. Got her number. I texted her, didn't get a response. But i called her, she answered. Just talked to her for afew minute about each other's summer. Thats all. Gonna hit her up again. I was planting the seed, so to speak by this point as the semester ended already. But i plan to meet up with them in the fall

 

[Snakk3]

well men, you made a good number of aproaches... and someones i think were great.
it's frustrating to not seen any good result yet .
keep doing it

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Snakk3, trust me...it gets better ;-)
This is only April...i have to update with May and June next lol...then the other months.

RemoteControl....i agree with absolutely everything ur saying, this was back in April...the "insta-date" i was able to do more often as the months went by.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

May Day Game

#1 Was a curly haired brunette on a bench. I said hi and told her she was cute. I asked her to take off her sunglasses, was kinda cute girl. We have whatever conversation(i forget what its about). I talk with her for like 10 min. I try to go for her number. She's like, "oh so thats how it is" I tell her, "Its just a number. Wats the big deal? Its just contact information" She gives it to me.

I text her 6 hours later telling her that its just to make sure i remember her name by saying it over and over.haha. She doesn't respond, text her again afew days later. No response. I call her, she answers, i say something, she hangs up.

#2 Was a blonde girl with a dress. As she's ahead of me. I tell her stop. She smiles but is still walking. I then decide to continue to talk by telling her i find her cute and i want to meet her. She says like, "oh my name is so and so" I then tell her my name. I decide to walk with her to the library. I just talk about how the summer is, how old she is, if she's going out this weekend, etc. But from what i'm judging, she doesn't seem really interested.

Last week in one of the nights going out, she notices me from like 30 feet away and whispers to her friend. I think she was saying to her, "Over there...its a guy who was hitting on me/went up to me yesterday. If he goes up to you, don't talk to him" or something like that.

#3 Blonde girl who was in the library. She was working on stuff. I got e/c from her. She smiled. I went up to her just asking her what she was working on the computer. But she looked pretty busy, so i didn't press further. Was more like she was being polite.

There's been a black girl i've seen around. I think their attraction between us. I told her i wanted to see a movie back at my place but she told me genuinely that she's super busy each day, but when there's a break between summer session 1 and 2, she'll def be free. She gave me her number so i can hit her up then. She sees me the next day while im working and she's happy to see me. Man, if things work out...im gonna bang the living **** doggy style with her and gonna grip her braids tight while doing it. Got a really nice ass


This week i was pretty frustrated with Day Game. For some approaches, the girls were resisting trying to give out their number. They'd give things like "My bf wouldn't like that" or "How about facebook?". For here, i wasn't too happy. So i was like "i guess i could just do facebook :-\"

#4 Was a sexy fine blonde girl who i've seen throughout the year but never got to approach. I finally do while doing a run during work. She's walking ahead of me, i do stop. Tell her, "I find you so goregous...i have to meet you " She says, "Really?! " I say yea. She is excited. Asks me my name. I tell her that i saw her around repeatedly, but never got the chance. Turns out she lived in my apartment complex and told me of the cookout i missed they were having. She told me to hit her up on facebook. And i gave her a hug.

I hit her up on facebook, add her as a friend. I message her with,
"Next week whatever ur plans are, free up Tuesday or Wednesday .We're gonna be having drinks together" Waited 7 days, no response. I decide to write on her wall "Ahh...so ur pretty good at the art of playing hard to get now are we?" Haven't gotten a response yet. So prolly "next".

#5 Was a dyed redhaired girl who i've seen before but never went up to. I do the stop hand motion as she's walking toward my direction. She says, that she thought i was one of the bible peope who are out on campus trying to recruit people. I tell her, nah...that she's cute and i want to meet her. Im talking with her about her dyed hair, wat colors she likes. That kind of thing. She receptive but im not sure if she's interested tho to be honest. WE are walking together for about 3 minutes. So then i ask her, "Is there way to contact you?" She says, "Oh yea...u could prolly hit me up on facebook or something"

After this approach, it bothered me i didn't want to get a facebook at all. I wanted their number. If they were really interested they wouldn't mind, even if there would be a little interest.

#6 Good approach. Was a hot brunette with sunglasses. I do the stop and cute opening i usually do. She was pretty receptive. I tell her to take off her glasses(I usually do that with girls who wear s to see what their eyes look like). I then tell myself, "She's definitely a hot one" This girl was pretty receptive. Conversation was free flow. She tells me that if she had a straight face, its just that its just her normal face. I tell her that there's no need to worry, people with straight faces are usually in good moods...just that they're thinking on stuff. she smiles. We talk about the nightlife of her being 20 and that she uses her older sister's ID to get into bars. She says she'll prolly be at the club/bar thursday night. I then tell her, "Tell me about urself...since i want to get to know more about you " She says, "But we just met " I tell her, "I know " I say, "U must be a Virginia Beach girl" She's like, "Yea...how'd u know?" I told her, "Just a guess. I either meet northern va people or va beach people here " I tell her about hte first time i went to VA Beach and stuff. It was good rapport. So then i get her facebook and tell her i'd prolly see her at the bars and what not.

I haven't added her on facebook yet, BUT when i do...im gonna attempt to have drinks with her . I was still hesitant to go for numbers again since i was frustrated.

#7 Was a blonde girl with a cap on. She was pretty cute. She was pretty receptive. She was opening the library door. Told her to stop. We talked for a minute, telling her i see her around campus and stuff. I see her again in the library, she's working on a paper. Talk to her for another minute. Next time i see her, going for the digits.

#8 Was a thick blonde sorority girl wearing a white dress. She's across a street. I cross it stop her as she's walking toward my direct. She's pretty receptive. I comment on her dress telling her i noticed it and it strikes out. I asked her what hte big occassion was. She's like "Oh! Today i just wear it! Im not allowed to? " I tell her, "Yep ur not " haha. But then i tell her, "Its great it stands out, i wear clothes that stand out too sometimes. The polo im wearing, i go for the pastel colors. Hell...why don't i try the rainbow while im at it" She's laughing. She tells me she's too young to go out to the bars, only 20. I tell her that she's almost there, just two months. After another minute as i'm walking with her, and im going back to work. I actually try to number close her. I tell her, "It was great talking to you...give me your number and we can talk sometime " She tells me, "Oh my bf wouldn't like that " I tell her, "My gf wouldn't like that either..." then i try to get it from her again, but she says "Thats ok " I tell her i'll see her around.

#9 Was a redheaded older woman. She had nice breasts. I stop her, tell her she's cute and want to meet her. She says her full name and i say my full name. She tells me she's a professor and about to teach a class as she's walking to her class. I tell her, "Wow...i didn't know that " Man...i still drool now and then when i imagine the black top she had with those breasts

By now im frustrated and i feel its a no win for day game. I feel that if i try to get the number from girls, even if their attracted, they def won't want to and if i give in and do facebook, they won't respond.

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

May Night Game

I Thursday: Bar with Dance Floor
Aright went to a bar with a dance floor. Got a bit tipsy here. Tonight i went up to some girls.

One was a sexy brunette. I mean her cleavage was "God Damn" She was a sorority girl. I stop her as she's walking. I just say hi, my name is Stephan. She's looking off to the side. I"m holding her hand as she looks like she's bored and trying to leave. Turns out that she showed some IOIs when i was grinding with another girl. Tonight i was in state. I grinded with quite a few girls. Took the lead. Some were standing there, i took their hand, drew them closer and dacned. I talked to some. Danced with a redhead. Kissed her twice. She was like "Aright " haha. It was more of a peck on the lips tho. Was a fun night.

Another i was dancing with, I turned her around. While she was talking tried to kiss her.haha. Was funny. She was still pretty receptive tho.

II Friday: Regular College Bar
Tonight i was feeling a bit sick and out of breathe at the start. Took me twenty minutes to be fine. One blonde opened me as i was walking through the bar. Turns out i gave her a ride home when i was DD as she was very drunk. I talked to her for a few minutes but i ran out of things to say

Throughout the night i was nervous and was just concerned about talking to girls foremost. I remember going up to one more girl in particular. She was a long haired gorgeous short brunette. She looked just like another girl that im into. I opened with "I find you gorgeous, i want to meet you" She's receptive and i tell her, "Oh man...ur so cute. Look at u " It was my playful side taking course, and i decided to introduce myself to the group sitting down she was with. I was talking to her for afew minutes. But then yep, it was time to move her away but i didn't. She said it was good meeting me and i to her as well, BUT it was good as i'd see her again in the next week .

III Saturday: Regular College Bar
Aright tonight, there were less girls than before. Turns out the gorgeous blond i went up to the previous week on Friday, she had kidney problems after leaving the bar, why she was not in a good mood after. She was very receptive to me. We did cheers. Talked for a minute, but her friend came along(Who i knew). I told her, "I only need one more minute with her" at first, but then i let them go.

While i was talking to the blonde, the brunette tapped me on the shoulder as she was getting a drink(Indirect way of her trying to get my attention). And man, was she ****ing sexy tonight. She was talking to another guy later on but Damn!

Had some AA for about ten minutes throughout the night. Go up to a tall thick woman. She gave me e/c earlier. I eventually go up to her. She's receptive. We have a few minutes of good convo. Its on and off talking to her u could say. She says, "I be right back. I"m not blowing you off " It was true, she wasn't. I try to isolate her five feet away from her friend who's talking to a guy. I tell her, "Don't worry...u can still keep an eye on her. We'll be over there" She says, "Thats ok " So it all good.

Talk to another cute girl, i know her from class, she's not with anyone. I try to isolate her too, but she's like she can't. BUT, she didn't leave. I'm playing along with feeling bad. i"m like, "Ah! This sucks! I so wanted to talk to you over there!" She was showing interest still and there actually was no need to isolate her. lol. She said she had a bf.

Saw a hot blonde girl with glasses(What i love, hot girls with glasses). She was pretty receptive. Here i just talked to her and her friend. Lets say i was drawn to the friend, even more. She was a redhead

Tonight pretty much was just to see where i was. I figured it out. It was time to take a backtrack. From the previous semester i was so concerned about closing, it screwed my gaming up. Now i've decided to do it the right way, work it one step at a time.

IV Thursday: A Night I Want To Redeem!

Aright, tonight i went to the club/bar for my uni. The night went good so far. Saw some of the same hot girls from the previous week. I got a bit drunk too early. But one thing i do remember was the fact that i doubted my ability of game that night.

Why? Because all i wanted to do was grind and dance and not talk. The way i use to be before taking an active effort with night game.

To start, was a girl i tried dancing with. I took her hand and tried to pull her to the dance floor she declined but she was still pretty chill though. I try grinding with her but she's too shy. She then introduces me to what she said was her bf. I was a bit fed up with the bull**** and didn't believe her, i walked away midsentence and she was like "But it is my bf! " But then i was like, "Thats ok".

Also, a girl went up to me, touched my shoulders. She was just asking to be closed. I thought she only wanted to dance and she left. Can't believe it took me a minute after to realize what happened.

Could've kissed another girl i was grinding with. Hell, she even complimented on me by saying "ur one of the only few guys who can grind face to face".

Could've kissed another girl yet again, i knew her 2 years ago. She told me she likes me. I thought she was just being friendly...but man...i didn't realize till later. But i learn the next day she was very drunk.

I did some approaches but still i was having trouble. Some girls i was trying to grind with, were friends of other girls i know. They had a weirded out look and took them away from me. Deep down i was pissed. Not mainly at the girls but more myself for lack of gaming. Afew girls i wanted to game, were occupied with other guys, so didn't get a chance.

All i can say about the night was:

I want to redeem this night!

The night taught me a very valuable lesson: You got ur good nights and ur bad nights. The bad nights teach you lessons!

V Friday: The Isolater

Tonight i used Machismo and ozzie's advice on leading. Literally pull the girl away, go to where u will both be 1 on 1. Before i was just say "Lets go over there" but this time i would actually literally take their hand and have them come with me. That was the plan.

Firstly was a hot blonde with glasses that i met a week before who was with the redhead. She was sitting down with her two friends. I just had a regular conversation. After 5 minutes, i took her and told her "Lets go over there" She said "Oh my dress will get messed up, its why im sitting down" I told her, "ur dress will be fine" She's standing up and i literally take her hand again and am like "Aright...lets go" haha. She declines again but in a friendly way. I took it she wasn't really interested. But the redhead was showing more interest...so next time i see them...im gonna game her.

Second was a short haired blonde. She was cute. Was in her late 20s. I just introduced myself. She was with two guys. I had chit chat with her for a few minutes, i forgot what it was about, but then i flat out isolate her to a sitting area. While we're walking there, she's like "Who put u up to this?" I'm like, "Me, myself and I. Why u ask?" She tells me, "Oh...just a couple of guys asked me who i was talking to" While we're at the table, she tries a couple of times to leave. She's like "I'm 29 and its a good reason why we shouldn't be talking" Meaning, "I Feel like i'll be judged if i talk to a guy 8 years younger than me" I then tell her, "Fine wine tastes greater with age " She laughs quite a bit there. She then tells me she works with cosmetics. I tell her its great that she can match make up with her skin naturally like that. She then tells me she's got to leave, her bf is in the pool room(This was def bull**** as if her bf was in the room, i wouldnt' had been able to isolate her). But then after her 3rd attempt to leave, i then let it go. I was just very happy i was able to flat out isolate a new girl. I felt very happy.

Third was a girl i've met and knew. I try isolating her but she wanted to go back to her friends.

Fourth was the sexy blonde from two weeks ago. Her friend was talking to another guy. After afew minutes of talking to her, i try to isolate her, but she says she'll gonna stay and listen to what the other guy had to say. I knew she wasn't really interested otherwise i would've persisted more. But turns out after her friend was talking to the other guy, seems like she showed some subtle IOIs to me and the good thing is, that she's just about as good looking.

 

[Heyjose25points]

June Day Game

Aright....im using my old username since i reached the daily post limit with the other one....

Turns out that one of the girls i got a number from and quickly met up wtih, decided to decline for us watching a movie back at my place. I figured out that the possible problem was that i didn't talk to her long enough when i met up with her to eat...and assumed that since we talked for a little while that she be down. Oh well, lesson learned. If u want to hear exactly what happened, in my blog...its in the post 6/9-6/10 and the one above that.
Anyhoo...on to the approaches:

#1 Was a hot wavy haired brunette in the lab. She notices me looking at her as she’s picking up a piece of printing paper. I felt a “I want her!” feeling in my body. She has a really nice body and great rack. I was excited. After a minute, I go up to her. I ask her in a funny way, “ I haven’t met u before have i?” (I did this cuz remember the girl I approached but felt a bit embarrassed as I didn’t know I went up to her before? I just wanted to make sure) She says, “I don’t think so :-S” I then say, Aright just checking”

She gives a confused laugh. I then tell her that I really find her gorgeous and that im talking to her. She is receptive I’d say. We introduce each other. Im feeling a bit more confident doing lab approaches. I ask her what she’s working on, she tells me a paper and how its due on Friday. She says she’s graduating. I do a little kino by giving her a hi five when she mentions she’s graduating. She laughs. She tells me politely that she’s gotta get back to it in a nice way. I understand, so I decide to leave. I was still a bit afraid to go for the number while people were still in the lab, but that fear will go away.


#2 Was a tall skinny girl on campus. She’s cute. I stop her. I tell her that I do find her cute and that I want to meet her. She’s receptive. We get names. I tell her, “So tell me about urself ” She then says that she’s really late to class. I tell her I understand. We were both late for class haha. I could’ve attempted the number. :-\ oh well.

I see her around each day following, to where the next time i see her around. She tells me about herself for a minute. I go for the number since we're about to be late for our respective classes, she tells me she might the next time she sees me around. I see her a day later, about to go in my classroom, i tell her to give me her number, she says she has a bf. I didn't care if she was truthful or not, didn't feel like persisting

#3 Was a short haired cute girl walking throughout campus. I tell her, “Stop for a second” She’s walking a head of me. She smiles and says in a laughing tone “Stop for a second?” I say, “Yea ” I opener her. She’s receptive. We are walking together across campus. I tell her, “Tell me about urself ” She says, “What do u want to know? ” I tell her, “Everything but lets not get to that so soon ” She then says, “Aright I am a 5th year” and so and so. It was about classes and stuff, but i was actually glad talking about it. Didn’t bore me to say the least. I just said whatever I was thinking of. I hugged her when I opened her and when we parted ways. I then tell her as we are about to leave, “hey…its great talking to you…lets continue this further Lets go get a bite to eat together in a few days ” She says her phone is broken. I ask, “Are u sure? ” She’s laughing and says yea. I then decide to just get her facebook.

I look her up on facebook and it turns out that she was taken. But hey, glad I know now

#4 Was a cute blonde sorority girl in the lab. What is it with always finding sorority girls when I approach. They are 10% of the total University population but jesus Christ! Well then as we meet e/c she gives a smile…I raise my eyebrows and smile. I then go up to her but she’s on the phone. I’m like, “Oh I didn’t know u were on the phone haha” She smiles. So then after she’s off the phone and after a minute, I go back up to her. I smile and say I really find her cute and im gonna talk to her. She’s receptive and we both have our names. I ask her what she’s working on, blahdy blah. I ask her if she’s gonna be in summer II(There’s not much time left till Summer I is over) She tells me she leaves Friday. So then Im like “Awww man and I wanted to meet up with u before then ” She finds it funny and is laughing. So then I do “tell me about urself ” She says there’s not much about her. I decide to sit down and tell her, “Ur so lying u live in Charlottesville right?” She tells me nah, in Fredericksburg which is an hour away from me. I could tell she wasn’t really facing me during this, so I guess I lost motivation. I decide to eject.

#5 Funny approach. Was hot blonde who was in the lab. As she's leaving. I follow her and say "Stop for a second " She seems and smiles. I then tell her i really find her cute and im talking to her. We get introductions. She receptive. She tells me she's student teaching high school and i tell her she's got guts with those monsters. She laughs. She also says she has a year left. I'm like, "Yea got a semester left...so close" So then she says its good meeting me but i tell her im not done talking to her yet. She says "Ok " I then tell her, "Tell me more about urself" I mention tubing and she says she doesn't like to swim. Im like "Why not? " Its not that bad. As im about to go into that more. I see a guy who goes up to us, and then i ask him, "How do you guys know each other?" He says, "We both have sex!" I couldn't help but to laugh incredibly hard. She laughs too. I then tell him, "Oh i didn't know u guys were dating " Im just startled by the situation but he was a nice cool guy, just being funny. He asks me if i want a ride. On the way, he tells me he's a vegetarian and stuff. I ask him about that life style and want not. Its pretty interesting how their lifestyle is. I had to mention after this approach as this was and still is funny as hell to me.

#6 Was a cute brunette girl i was on my way to class. I open with hi, she says hi in a pretty friendly way. I tell her i find her cute and am wanting to talk to her. We introduce each other. I ask her where's she's going to. She says she's doing an intership, i tell her i'm late and then i say to her, "Hey...we can talk somemore...whats ur number? " She says "Thats ok...i'll see you around "

Learning how to persist through that, i tell her...that its rare i'll see her around campus again. She asks me if i have facebook and myspace. I tell her i don't got any of these ;-). Its funny, cuz we were walking together discussing this. So then i take my pencil out and am about to write it down on paper. She says, "Aright " and gives it to me. I talk to her for a few seconds after.

I believe she had some interest on some level, and i've improved in dealing with resistence. All you do is just take the number down as if u assume she will give it. It'll be hard for her to resist. I told her that its a fail-safe, just in case i don't see her again. Im glad i've improved with that. Will she flake? Maybe. Who cares? I don't as much anymore as i use to.

#7 Was a gorgeous latin woman. She's in an empty computer room. I tap her, she jumps a little but laughs. I tell her that i wanted to meet her. She's pretty receptive. I immediately sit down with her. We just discuss that Summer I is ending and how she won't be back for summer II. I'm like "Aww man". So then i ask her, "Tell me about urself" She says she's busy. I then just ask her, "You're not single are you? " She says she isn't but that she's living with her boyfriend. I tell her, "So when's the wedding? " She laughs and says that they prolly won't but have a very close relationship. She was seeking some more rapport with me. Find out she's colombian, do a fake latino accident repeating her name. My eye contact has improved, she had good eye contact to. Good approach i'd say. I forgot to mention, we joked a bit so it wasn't a boring approach.


#8 At the gym, was a blonde girl. She's in the mat area. I turn her around. Tell her she's cute and how i want to meet her. She's pretty receptive. We get introductions. I just roll with conversation. She says she's leaving in a couple days. I act disappointed and tell her, "Its a such a shame...we could've hung out...now im gonna be all bored and ****" she laughed. I then ask about herself. She says, "What do u want to know?" I tell her, "Everything...but first let keep it simple " She then says likes to swim during the summer. She asks me how i have fun around here. I tell her that since im 21 that i easily find time. She tells me she's 20, im like "Just a year ....yea...just a year where it comes way too easy...way too easy" This lasts for about 3 minutes, i tell her, "Hey...lets get together when falls starts. Wats ur number?" She asks if i can remember. I say sure and remember it. After i leave, i forget her area code, and ask her lol. But all in all. Good approach i'd say, simple and to the point.