Mavrick said:
If it's a first date or whatever, you shouldn't reward for damn near nothing. What did she do to deserve an invitation to a concert, look good? 1st meetings/dates should be something simple and easy like coffee.
I would never ask a woman out to a concert on the 1st date. This is following the "Priming" date, which is essentially coffee, or a quick lunch. Once rapport, and chemistry has been established, I would then venture a second date, to a bigger event, such as a concert. It is, admittedly, a big committment from a prospect. She has to go with me (Not necessarily, she can always drive herself if she doesnt trust me, but we are, after all, dating) in my vehicle to a venue, which is at least 40 minutes away, and spend the better hafl of the afternoon and evening at the show. Then 40 minutes home.
I have expenses associated with this. Gas, the tickets, food, and beverages, both alcoholic and non alcoholic. For her and I both, about a 200 dollar commitment.
For a DATE an interested prospect who is viewing me as a DATEABLE male, not some eunich, genital-less male friend emotional tampon, but a DATE who she eventually might fall into bed with or in love with, she is worth every penny. We could land up holding hands, kissing, making out back to her place after, to a simple good night kiss, and "Thanks, I had a great night"...
But for a LJBF Flake? Sorry, it's "Waiter, seperate checks"
The woman in question always has the option, after the priming date of picking out a typical "You arent getting my panties off" excuse, like "I only see you as a friend" "I dont feel that way about you" "It isnt you, it's me"...It's too soon after Bruttu left me hanging" or any one of the billions of lamed ass excuses they come up with.