Jack Wealthy said:
I don't know what you did exactly to get suspended, or why, but t sounds like you were a ****. The way I see it girls are far weaker, smaller, slower and less coordinated then us. They also have less control over there emotions. Since I'm actually a man and not just a **** with a body I can put up with getting hit a couple of times by a girl without having to retaliate at all. Defending yourself, proving a point and being a petty douche are three different things and very often you seem to confuse the first two with the third.
I don't mean to make you all defensive, I'm stating a simple fact. Hitting a girl is like hitting a 12 year old. I'm no saint, maybe in the heat of the moment if a girl hit my eyes/testicles I would hit back without thinking. But if I had 0.1 seconds to register it was a girl in front of me I'd pull it back and do something else. One of the million other options. A bear hug. A tackle. Tripping. Running off. Throwing my shirt at her.
This is another thing that happens: If a girl wrongs my friends, I have no excuse to hit her. I do however have the explicit right to yell at her. A lot.
You should learn this lesson man. When a girl is in front of you, or in your arms, think about how much weaker then you she is. Most likely a girl will never be a viable threat to you, if she somehow becomes one (a weapon, martial arts training) then sure, defend yourself. I would too. but otherwise think, back to yourself 5-6 years ago, think about you now versus you then in a fight. If you can seriously justify that I'm going to stop reading your journal.
As much as I appreciate your opinion I will risk it to justify this...she claws me, kicks me, punches me, among other things. I have no problem with that. I thought that meant that I could mess with her a little bit as well. The "kick" I administered her was one of the weakest hits I'd ever dealt anyone. Adding to my reasoning was the fact that she was wearing a backpack filled with books on her chest, which was the place I chose to kick her. On camera my kick didn't push her back AT ALL and she walked away with no signs of an injury. She was being a baby and a snitch. I think you're confusing "hitting a girl" with "beating a girl" and if that's your perception, fine. But that is the furthest thing from the truth. And no I didn't "kick" her because she hit my friend, I didn't even know she hit my friend. I was just surprised that she didn't get punished for hitting somebody on camera much harder than I had hit her on camera.
So I hope you can at least understand my rationale here...I thought it was something playful between friends. I "hit" other of my girl friends with the same amount of force and the response is usual a laugh, playful retaliation, or something else along those lines. I value you opinion and I hope you can still offer it, but I won't look like a d*** for something so petty. I think you deserve to understand what happened here.
Moving on...
5/9/12
Alright so let's skip through today and get to my predicament, because my day was overall quite a regular one.
Remember HB Kaitlin? The flakey one? Well remember how she wants to be my prom date but didn't hang out with me the way I wanted so I could trust that she would come?
Well she assures me that she would come no matter what, even taking work off. Tells me she won't stand me up because that would be a major b**** move. So I'm not worried that she would flake on prom.
What I am worried about is the fact that HB Esther asked me to prom about a month or two earlier and I told her I would go with her if I ended up going. Truthfully I didn't want to go with her (or the other two girls that asked me) so I decided that I wouldn't go to prom and told her this, so she doesn't think she would go either.
But now that HB Kaitlin is still here asking to go, I'm really considering it. I would rather f*** her than HB Esther, and I think I hold a special place for her just because she was my first and I'd want to revisit her and have a little more fun that we did our first time.
But if I go with HB Kaitlin, HB Esther would almost surely find out. Now when we had sex we both understood that we weren't in relationships with each other and could mess around with other people. But if she finds out that I took another girl to prom when I told her what I said above, her degree of being pissed off could be very high...
This in turn could mess up senior week, which she may not even go to if this happens.
HB Kaitlin needs to know today if I would go to prom, because it's in about a week and she would need to prepare.
One of my natural friends tells me I should not go to prom and just try to hang out with HB Kaitlin that next weekend. That's a good idea, I'm just concerned that she wouldn't miss work like she would for prom, and would instead flake.
So tell me how to handle that.
Also had a long FB conversation with HB Cassidy, I'll update this later if I feel like mentioning that. Gotta go to school soon, looking forward to replies.