Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
It’s exhilarating but, ultimately for me, not sustainable long term.
You are kind my dear Scarra. Your contribution is valuable. For myself and others. Thank youHi BeExcellent,
@Scaramouche...Oh that will never do,call me Scarra,all my friends do....Yes since being "debauched" at 12 by Older Boys who got a vicarious thrill out of sharing a Gang bang with two young guys...I enjoyed the experience and from the age of 16 have always had an active Svex life....I like Women,can't live without them,the great thing is it gets easier and easier as the the aging demographic tilts things your way....Your own Ben Franklin had a penchant for Older Women wrote an essay on the little Darlings,he also opined that in aging the only thing you may rely on is a Good Woman an Old Dog and cash at the Bank...thanks to the grace of God I have all this and am grateful....Sure I am a Philander,there are 134 Synonyms for this word,one being a Don Juan,suggests the phenomena is very wide spread...These days I appreciate a Lady who finds pleasure in giving service an encounter with a Chinese Medicine Doctor some years ago opened my eyes to the delights of the Erotic East...As a young Man the Abdication of Edward the King Emperor was fresh in the minds of people around me,he gave up an Empire,at that time,the Worlds greatest economy for a rather plain Jewish Divorcee...Why? because for a few mispent years she had visited Shanghai Bordellos to learn the Ancient Art of pleasuring a Man...She had learned the Shanghai Squeeze,the art of controlling an ejaculation by subtle pressure on the Sphincter and more...For one brief Afternoon I was also an Emperor,scales were lifted from my eyes....A woman doesn't have to be young,nor beautiful to please me and be valued as long as she is willing to learn.
PoeticHi BeExcellent,
@Scaramouche...Oh that will never do,call me Scarra,all my friends do....Yes since being "debauched" at 12 by Older Boys who got a vicarious thrill out of sharing a Gang bang with two young guys...I enjoyed the experience and from the age of 16 have always had an active Svex life....I like Women,can't live without them,the great thing is it gets easier and easier as the the aging demographic tilts things your way....Your own Ben Franklin had a penchant for Older Women wrote an essay on the little Darlings,he also opined that in aging the only thing you may rely on is a Good Woman an Old Dog and cash at the Bank...thanks to the grace of God I have all this and am grateful....Sure I am a Philander,there are 134 Synonyms for this word,one being a Don Juan,suggests the phenomena is very wide spread...These days I appreciate a Lady who finds pleasure in giving service an encounter with a Chinese Medicine Doctor some years ago opened my eyes to the delights of the Erotic East...As a young Man the Abdication of Edward the King Emperor was fresh in the minds of people around me,he gave up an Empire,at that time,the Worlds greatest economy for a rather plain Jewish Divorcee...Why? because for a few mispent years she had visited Shanghai Bordellos to learn the Ancient Art of pleasuring a Man...She had learned the Shanghai Squeeze,the art of controlling an ejaculation by subtle pressure on the Sphincter and more...For one brief Afternoon I was also an Emperor,scales were lifted from my eyes....A woman doesn't have to be young,nor beautiful to please me and be valued as long as she is willing to learn.
Your observation is valid. Caleb Jones (Alpha Male 2.0, Blackdragon) had a similar observation in this 2015 article.What I have observed in every player/playboy type I’ve ever known, is that they all typically give up that lifestyle in time and find a stable LTR or get married even. They may chase tail for years or even decades but in time they want more meaningful connection than an endless rotation of women provides.
The men who have stronger seduction skills eventually get a motivation to pursue a more meaningful connection with a woman as they age and this typically starts around one's early to mid 30s.3. Be a player forever
This option means you stay in Charlie Harper mode forever, well in your old age, even as a very old man, eventually switching to paid sugar babies or hookers as your looks deteriorate.
This option is barely worth talking about because very few men will choose this option. The vast majority will chose to settle down and pair bond in some form or fashion. Regardless, it’s still an option technically.
The only big problem with this option is loneliness. I have never seen a guy choose this option and not wrestle with recurrent feelings of loneliness. Some form of pair bonding is more conducive to long-term happiness for a man, particularly as he gets past age 35.
Part of this is true. The player lifestyle is often exhausting, expensive, and demoralizing.Spinning plates is:
-exhausting
-expensive
-demoralizing
-time consuming
-hard keep track of everything you talk about with each girl
-leads to errors since you are likely to treat each girl the same (which is a critical mistake)
-unnecessary to cultivate abundance
True abundance comes from the self-assurance that you know you can find another, better girl.
I like your approach on ‘lovers’I don't 'spin plates'. I just have multiple lovers. Different approach, way less 'exhausting'.
It shows that you're probably good company outside the bedroom too.They know they aren’t the only ones and do bring it up from time to time, but they still stick around.
Enjoying the company of multiple women is similar to being a Hezbollah operative, tasked with regularly raining rockets down on a neighboring state... IT can be exhausting, if you don't find immense enjoyment in doing such a thingSpinning plates is:
-exhausting
-expensive
-demoralizing
-time consuming
What about kids?in aging the only thing you may rely on is a Good Woman an Old Dog and cash at the Bank
If you mean 'gain experience' with 'nothing surprises me anymore', I'd say 7.3 years. Approximately.How many years would be enough to gain experience, would be an interesting number to know
There you have it. Set your timer boys....you should each emerge from your cocoon some 7 years hence as erudite gentlemen well versed in the seductive arts.If you mean 'gain experience' with 'nothing surprises me anymore', I'd say 7.3 years. Approximately.
There's only one critical condition for that estimate. You have to be pro-active and not hang around here soaking up seduction information and not taking action (watching videos isn't taking action). And don't forget to read the small print.There you have it. Set your timer boys....you should each emerge from your cocoon some 7 years hence as erudite gentlemen well versed in the seductive arts.
Simple. Combine young hottie with deep loving emotional connection. Those girls get wifed up young boys. And typically don't come back on the market unless the husband dies or does something dumb, like cheat.Definitely agree that a man should find a deep, emotional, loving connection with ONE women and commit to her forever and ever and ever.
I only have one condition: The man is allowed to have a young hot mistress on the side to make love to on the weekends, preferably hot Chinese or South Korean.