At this point it’s a 50/50 deal. She’s either hurt/lost interest or she’s willing to give you another bedtime chance.
That's what I believe as well, thanks. I guess I'll wait a few days and then decide.
Life and love are always a gamble, just stay in the game, be willing to take risks, and play your best hand…
Then you hop back in and fool around for round 2 .... and 3... I'm 44 and have never used viagra... 2 or 3 times per session is the norm for me... and gettin her several times is between (often ladies first though anyways)... if I drinking.... 1st one takes a while.. and 2nd one can take forever.... so... there's that..
Very well said, thanks brother!
Haven't heard from her OP?
Nope, it's been 2 days since I left her place, and I have not heard anything from her.
I get exactly what you mean, but don't worry, I'm not catching feelings. Just wanted to see what people here think wrt how to go about the contact.
Well, two days so far is nothing. If she doesn’t contact you, I like the general 1st date follow up rule of approximately 5-7 days. The remainder of this week is out as you would seem too eager and she may have prior plans for this coming weekend. I would hit her up sometime next Sun - Tues.
At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.
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Did you text her? Just keep in mind that you did t lose her because of this bedroom mess. You probably just fulfilled a lonely gap in her mind that night and you were just at the right place at the right time. It’s not uncommon to get ghosted after a ONS so sex wouldn’t have saved you.
A college chick before invited me in for coffee after a club pull at 3am. I speared her on her bed like Goldberg. We were play fighting. The sec she tried any nonsense LMR or **** ****, I pick up my phone... "hello?" Followed by G2G ... [INSERT RANDOM GIRLS NAME] needs a ride home.
That's pretty much the way I was thinking of going about it. When I first started this thread, I was thinking of texting her roughly a week after our last encounter.
Ain't that the million dollar question...? I think we all wish we could answer it in every one of these situations.
No, I was thinking along the lines of what Billtx49 wrote above, that 2 days would be too early/too eager. But who really knows..?
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
sounds like you have oneitis lol. Get well soon OP
I think there's some competitive frustration as well. This is a game, and we want to win dammit.
From my experience, when you are trying to calculate how many days you should wait to contact her to hopefully raise her interest level, the game has been lost. OP is planning his 4th and 10 right now.
If you can hide it well, it's 3rd and 15.
This is actually exactly the reason!
