So the BPD wants to move in with me and is trying to manipulate me into letting her.

[Solomon]

This morning I found out some revealing information.

I couldn't understand why she is so crazy because her parents are still together and seem happy. Well, that isn't the case at all. When she was growing up her mom was out partying banging other guys and her dad was running around too.

Neither of them were around and they were cheating on each other and she knew it.

BPD to a tee. Now I know why. I need to get rid of this girl but I do care about her but I can't let her ruin my life. She will take me down into hell with her.

What can I do with her at this point? Even when we have sex she is not really "into it" anymore because I won't give her what she wants. So unless I let her move in this is a lost cause.

This thread is hilirioaus how did I miss this?

*Goes back to page 1*

 

[Solomon]

Oh God I'm on page 3 now, this thread is classic
This needs to be archived ASAP!!!

The responses are hilirious!

 

[The Champ]

Okay, Champ. I'm going to be a little more serious with you this time. Don't take it too hard because it is meant to help. Sometimes one has to be cruel to be kind.

I've followed your escapades for a while and they've been humorous to torturous and everything else in between. You are an accident waiting to happen and it hasn't donned on you that you might be just as fvcked up as all the women you've been obsessing over.

It's time for some self-evaluation and self-healing. These BPDs are a reflection of you and the hidden pain and insecurities in your soul. You seem like a good guy but there's a little chip in your brain that isn't working.

I suggest you get to the root of your problems and heal thyself. Do whatever it takes, but do it. Chasing whacked out BPDs in search of what you're lacking in yourself will be the end of you.

You're still fairly young and have a lot of life ahead of you. If in 10 years you're the same person you are now you'll be deeper into the pit of psychological torture. Time waits for nobody. It's time.


Cheers!

I have dumped her several times already but I am too weak to follow through. She always ends up back here. She has dumped me too and she can't follow through either.

She tried fake crying the other night to get what she wants and she tried to make me jealous saying guys approach her everywhere she goes.

I'm just going to ignore her now and maybe she will go away. She's on the hunt for a chump who will let her live with him. I don't want any part of that deal.

Besides, I'm sure it's over now because by not letting her move in I am telling her to look for someone else.

EDIT: I may have to go read that "how to get rid of a BPD" thread... they make you addicted to them that's why I can't get rid of her.

 

[romangod]

EDIT: I may have to go read that "how to get rid of a BPD" thread... they make you addicted to them that's why I can't get rid of her.

They don't make you addicted to them. You allow yourself that displeasure by being an "addict" in the first place. It's not her, it's you! :nono:

Until you get that through your head, you're a lamb being led to slaughter. You're totally missing the point. It's not about her, it's about you.

It's time to stop questioning her motives and actions. It's time to start questioning yourself.:yes:


Cheers!

 

[The Champ]

Now she is telling me she might not be losing her house at all and may get it all to herself.

I don't know what the hell is going on, I'm just glad I stood my ground and didn't let her move in. She was ready to start packing.

 

[romangod]

^^^^^^^^^

This is what drove everyone nuts at the other place. You just don't listen. Enjoy your misery. :crazy:

You deserve everything that you get.:kick:

Cheers!

 

[The Champ]

^^^^^^^^^

This is what drove everyone nuts at the other place. You just don't listen. Enjoy your misery. :crazy:

You deserve everything that you get.:kick:

Cheers!

I'm not miserable. The point of this thread is I would be miserable if she moved in with me so I couldn't allow it.

Now her story is changing and she might not need a place to live. If she can keep her house and stay out of mine I'll be happy as hell!

As long as I don't have to live with her I kinda like the chic.

 

[The Champ]

will you be tearing it up in the near future?

Already did this weekend so I'm sure I will be.

Yes, she's a crazy b!tch but she's MY crazy b!tch at least she better be.

 

[The Champ]

Update:

The BPD disrespected me again this weekend by flaking on me at the last minute. She has done it before too.

I cussed her out to let her know I wasn't happy. She said "maybe we should go our seperate ways then".

I told her "F--- you" and cut her off and haven't contacted her again since and erased her #.

I then went out the next day and picked up a new girl and she is showing very high interest. So I have replaced the BPD already, and this new girl has pretty much let me know it's in the bag when we go out this week.

Can't wait till she feels the pain in her ego from me not calling and she starts lighting up the phone. I am going to tell her to go sit on a dildo.

 

[Da Realist]

Now I realize who you remind me of: Vlad the Impaler. Kept rambling about some bp woman and how he had dates lined up. In fact, it was written almost exactly like this thread. Save us the trouble and just end it.

 

[The Champ]

Now I realize who you remind me of: Vlad the Impaler. Kept rambling about some bp woman and how he had dates lined up. In fact, it was written almost exactly like this thread. Save us the trouble and just end it.

A real man doesn't tell the b!tch it's over. A real man doesn't say anything. A man is supposed to end it by going silent and that's what I intend to do.

I do have another girl lined up. She already threw a sh!t test at me tonight. She said "I'm in my bed all warm don't you wish you were here?"

I told her "I'm not sure yet, we still have to find out"

That answer made her wet and she admitted she "just wanted to see what you would say. But I really do enjoy sex".

I got this in the bag. The most important thing is I have this new girl so I am distracted and don't think about the BPD. This is key.

 

[Da Realist]

A real man doesn't tell the b!tch it's over. A real man doesn't say anything. A man is supposed to end it by going silent and that's what I intend to do.

I do have another girl lined up. She already threw a sh!t test at me tonight. She said "I'm in my bed all warm don't you wish you were here?"

I told her "I'm not sure yet, we still have to find out"

That answer made her wet and she admitted she "just wanted to see what you would say. But I really do enjoy sex".

I got this in the bag. The most important thing is I have this new girl so I am distracted and don't think about the BPD. This is key.

Same way he would have said. Some new girl comes up, the old one somehow weasels her way back, you **** her down, the others fall off, you tell how you have gotten over on her, act like you're winning while she's getting back into control, and then it just repeats. Whatever.:yawn:

 

[The Champ]

Same way he would have said. Some new girl comes up, the old one somehow weasels her way back, you **** her down, the others fall off, you tell how you have gotten over on her, act like you're winning while she's getting back into control, and then it just repeats. Whatever.:yawn:

How do you tell the b!tch its over then and end it?

Text her and say "its over"... nah I prefer the silent method and let the b!tch think I'm dead.

 

[Da Realist]

He said the same thing...

 

[The Champ]

He said the same thing...

How do you end it officially with a girl you have been banging for 6 months and have a fight with. You gonna call her up and tell her "its over" cuz she is special? You said to end it, so how do I do it?

 

[Da Realist]

I meant end the thread. The girl doesn't exist.

 

[The Champ]

I meant end the thread. The girl doesn't exist.

Maybe yours doesn't.. so you can't comment on your own advice and resort to the old troll insult.

I get more a$$ than 90% of sosuave. That's why I get hated on so much.

 

[Da Realist]

Said the same thing...

 

[romangod]

I get more a$$ than 90% of sosuave. That's why I get hated on so much.

That's why you're The Champ! :rockon:

I'd bet some of that a$$ is even from women.

Cheers!

 

[The Champ]

Talk all the trash you want fellas. My new hottie is blowing up my phone night and day.

You should be giving me some dap. I just pulled off an Immediate Move On.. (IMO)

The girl gives you trouble? Just pull an "IMO".... the immediate move on will leave her like this