So the BPD wants to move in with me and is trying to manipulate me into letting her.

[romangod]

She was acting nice and sweet this morning and she was telling me to come over tonight.

I resisted, but finally told her I can stop by late. Then she said "can I still get that $50?"

I said No. Then she got an attitude and completely changed and no longer wants me to come over. I didn't want to go anyway.

Wow, Larry!

Do you think she wanted the $50 more than she wanted you? I think you're worth more than $50. Maybe even a couple of hundred or more. What is she thinking? Guys like you aren't a dime a dozen.

Cheers!

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

She was acting nice and sweet this morning and she was telling me to come over tonight.

I resisted, but finally told her I can stop by late. Then she said "can I still get that $50?"

I said No. Then she got an attitude and completely changed and no longer wants me to come over. I didn't want to go anyway.

Unbelievable. They are only nice and sweet when they think they can get something out of you. She is really starting to turn my stomach.

Oddly enough, this startling revelation reminded me of that scene from "The Jerk" where Steve Martin says "Ah Hah! It's a profit deal..."

 

[bmp2cpm]

Why am I so crazy? The broad needs to see a shrink.

Who else is going to get her help? I don't want to see her completely destroy herself... I gave her a chance to get help let's see if she takes it.

I want to see if she does it, and sees the shrink to save our relationship. Maybe I am on a power trip or something.

No one has power when a mental illness is involved. You want to help her? OK, here's EXACTLY how(seriously):

I've heard Borderline Personality Disorder described as "third-degree burns of the heart and emotions". She'll need both a psychiatrist and psychologist and 3 or 4 years of trial and error to find the best meds that actually work. Also the meds will most likely produce diabetes, weight gain, and whole host of other side effects.

But wait, there's more, if you're really serious about getting this woman help and being with her, YOU need to

1) Become a member of the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)
2) Attend a bunch of their meetings and classes
3) Learn exactly what you're dealing with and how to help her

If you want to stay with her, go full speed ahead with her, her psychiatrist and psychologist, the meds, and NAMI as a support group. It should only take up about 10 to 20 hours a week. Triple that amount of time if her mental illness gets her in trouble with the law.

Personally I think that

1) A guy can never save a woman, especially one with a mental illness
2) 99.9% of the time the woman doesn't want to be saved
3) When you try and "save a woman", she'll totally screw you over, worse than you could possibly imagine

But hey, good luck!

 

[The Champ]

I ended it with her. I told her I am leaving the relationship and she needs to move on because I can't be with her.

And I mean it with my heart this time, she disgusts me. I don't know what she will do. Hopefully she will dissapear.

In case anyone was wondering, this is Larry. I wasn't banned but someone took away my ability to post for some reason.

 

[The Champ]

Haven't heard from her since I dumped her over 24 hours ago. Do you think she will just go away for good, or will I hear from her soon? I'm sure she had another d!ck in line and she already hopped on it.

So far I know I made the right decision. I already met a new hottie and I am going to meet her Wednesday. I got her cell # and we already set up the date. She's married but I don't care. She says she is separated.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Edit: Didn't read your recent post:


GOOD FOR YOU BRO!!! DON'T SETTLE FOR A WOMAN WITH NO INTEGRITY OR CONCIOUS FOR HER ACTIONS!






PIMP

 

[The Champ]

Edit: Didn't read your recent post:


GOOD FOR YOU BRO!!! DON'T SETTLE FOR A WOMAN WITH NO INTEGRITY OR CONCIOUS FOR HER ACTIONS!






PIMP

I put her out on the curb so the trash man can collect her in the morning.

I'm over her already and I don't care if she is out banging the town to get back at me. I'm sure she is doing just that.

She thinks I am going to call, she is wrong as hell. I feel relieved. Should have gotten rid of her a long time ago.

 

[romangod]

I put her out on the curb so the trash man can collect her in the morning.

I'm over her already and I don't care if she is out banging the town to get back at me. I'm sure she is doing just that.

She thinks I am going to call, she is wrong as hell. I feel relieved. Should have gotten rid of her a long time ago.

Larry! :cheer: Larry! :cheer: Larry! :cheer:

That's why you are The Champ. When will these BPD chicks get it through their head that they're dealing with the king of BPD? She'll realize it as the trash man carts her away into oblivion. Maybe she'll bang him first.

Trash men need some loving, too.


Cheers!

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

No one closed this godamn thread yet?

 

[romangod]

No one closed this godamn thread yet?

Huh? Why would they close it? This is a valuable discussion of BPD. :yes:


The Champ is sharing his wisdom. We should be thankful. :flowers:


Cheers!

 

[The Champ]

Huh? Why would they close it? This is a valuable discussion of BPD. :yes:


The Champ is sharing his wisdom. We should be thankful. :flowers:


Cheers!

I have a date with a new girl tomorrow who is clearly NOT BPD.

She's just married (seperated). It's still better than BPD.

 

[Brandonc662]

Wow, Larry!

Do you think she wanted the $50 more than she wanted you? I think you're worth more than $50. Maybe even a couple of hundred or more. What is she thinking? Guys like you aren't a dime a dozen.

Cheers![/QUOTE

is this a f*cking joke. Either it's a joke, this dude is retarded, or he is 12 years old. Is roman and Larry the same dude. Larry will write somthing unimpressive like he is giving a bpd chick $50 and roman writes somthing like how big a Mack Larry is by saving $100 not understanding if Larry was someone to look up to as a "master" he would not give this garbage chick $2. I've never seen mediocrety championed like this before. But I have laughed my ass off at somthing that was not wrote to be funny. So it was not a waste of time to read.

Btw I love Romans exessive use of Y:rockon:

 

[romangod]

Is roman and Larry the same dude. Larry will write somthing unimpressive like he is giving a bpd chick $50 and roman writes somthing like how big a Mack Larry is by saving $100 not understanding if Larry was someone to look up to as a "master" he would not give this garbage chick $2.

Larry and I is not the same dude. I could never aspire to somthing such as his mastery of BPD women and your mastery of spelling and grammar.

He's the King! :rockon:


Cheers!

 

[Brandonc662]

Larry and I is not the same dude. I could never aspire to somthing such as his mastery of BPD women and your mastery of spelling and grammar.

He's the King! :rockon:


Cheers!

typos are an easy fix, retardation is forever. I was married to a cluster b woman and I can tell you by reading this larry is no master. Anyone with half a brain could see this.

I bet Larry would even tell you he is not a master. Earlyer in the post when you were praising him he even said that she got him.

And if you want to talk **** about my spelling and grammer you should not start out wit Larry and I is not....... It should be Larry and I are not..... See everyone makes those mistakes but I thought it was funny you started out your post with a grammer mistake then tried to take a shot at me.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

typos are an easy fix, retardation is forever. I was married to a cluster b woman and I can tell you by reading this larry is no master. Anyone with half a brain could see this.

I bet Larry would even tell you he is not a master. Earlyer in the post when you were praising him he even said that she got him.

And if you want to talk **** about my spelling and grammer you should not start out wit Larry and I is not....... It should be Larry and I are not..... See everyone makes those mistakes but I thought it was funny you started out your post with a grammer mistake then tried to take a shot at me.

Brandon: If you know Roman like we know Roman, you'll know he is being extremely facetious with all his responses.... we all know Cluster B's, which is why we are constantly baffled by MNIN's constant pursuit of the wrong woman. Whether it be for his own attention or some other reason.

But with all that said, I applaud him for walking away, IF he truly is walking away, somehow I'm not holding my breath on that one.




PIMP

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Brandonc662 you gotta learn how to read between the lines man. If you've read any of Roman's stuff you'd probably know...you'd PROBABLY know that he MIGHT be a little sarcastic in this thread.

Btw, I'm committed to filling up my signature space with all of My Name Is Nobody's aliases, so people won't be fooled.

 

[Brandonc662]

Well if it was ment as sarcastic humor. I wholeheartedly apologise. I'm man enough to admit when I am wrong. Romangod I am sorry my bad dude.

 

[The Champ]

Yes, every one of Romans post in this thread is sarcastic and he has been saying the opposite of what he means. I think Roman is cool so I don't care what he says it was funny. I knew what he was doing from his very first post so the humor was never lost on me.

I never went out with the married chic. I didn't get any sleep that night so I flaked on her and tried to reschedule but I think she was p!ssed and is acting cold now. Besides, I don't need a husband coming after me and stabbing me. I don't need to get laid that bad.

And yes, I do suck. I am hanging out with the BPD this weekend. Pimp-Sicle is correct. My "walk away" has failed and she is coming at me with "I love yous" and I am going to tear it up this weekend. And she still wants to move in. And I know I cannot let her do it.

So you are all right. I am weak as hell. I will see how the weekend goes.

 

[The Champ]

This morning I found out some revealing information.

I couldn't understand why she is so crazy because her parents are still together and seem happy. Well, that isn't the case at all. When she was growing up her mom was out partying banging other guys and her dad was running around too.

Neither of them were around and they were cheating on each other and she knew it.

BPD to a tee. Now I know why. I need to get rid of this girl but I do care about her but I can't let her ruin my life. She will take me down into hell with her.

What can I do with her at this point? Even when we have sex she is not really "into it" anymore because I won't give her what she wants. So unless I let her move in this is a lost cause.

 

[romangod]

BPD to a tee. Now I know why. I need to get rid of this girl but I do care about her but I can't let her ruin my life. She will take me down into hell with her.

What can I do with her at this point? Even when we have sex she is not really "into it" anymore because I won't give her what she wants. So unless I let her move in this is a lost cause.

Okay, Champ. I'm going to be a little more serious with you this time. Don't take it too hard because it is meant to help. Sometimes one has to be cruel to be kind.

I've followed your escapades for a while and they've been humorous to torturous and everything else in between. You are an accident waiting to happen and it hasn't donned on you that you might be just as fvcked up as all the women you've been obsessing over.

It's time for some self-evaluation and self-healing. These BPDs are a reflection of you and the hidden pain and insecurities in your soul. You seem like a good guy but there's a little chip in your brain that isn't working.

I suggest you get to the root of your problems and heal thyself. Do whatever it takes, but do it. Chasing whacked out BPDs in search of what you're lacking in yourself will be the end of you.

You're still fairly young and have a lot of life ahead of you. If in 10 years you're the same person you are now you'll be deeper into the pit of psychological torture. Time waits for nobody. It's time.


Cheers!