Snow's 2007/2008 Bootcamp Journal

[Snow Plowman]

Realization!

I've noticed how far I've come, I no longer "GAME" or "Pickup"...I'm just being me (Conveying my REAL Personality) I went 50/50 with my cousin who I told about all this and got the product that I've been internalizing for the past 9 months...Blueprint.

Today in school I met my vocal training teacher, she was critiquing our voices, I came up and...THEY LOVE it lol
- Good Projection/Loud
- Slight Nasal
- NY Accent (Of Course lol, never knew there was an actual accent lol)
- SEXY (Chicks love my voice as the teacher and class stated, a guy in the community say I have a barry white voice lol)

Partnered up with a French chick in my class, did a exercise with her and 5mins in, it naturally turned more and more sexual lol. They could see the sub-communication which I was just letting go and being in tune with my emotion. (The essence of the exercise)

Now the biggest realization was, after school I hung out by myself and felt no different. Some guys have like an on and off switch when it comes to pickup as if it is a mode.

Basically I went looking for some jeans and then went to nasty mcdonalds...not to go though. To STAY, (A year ago I'd never do that) I actually sat by myself and ate food and didn't feel LAME. (My friends NEVER could do this by themselves) O yea did I mention I interacted with the chick sitting right next to me. I just naturally started talking to her because she was there.

It was big shifts for me...like I don't even TRY anymore, especially in school I have no intention on dating any chick in my school even though I've seen some of the hottest chicks in my school and had some form of good interactions, meaning if I wanted to get with her I most likely could. Currently me and the French chick don't say much we just look at each other and talk non-verbally. She even tried to isolate me by wanting to do the exercise outside of class which I was cool with but schedule got fuked up. Plus I'd end up naturally escalating lol, it's like a light blub in my head switched on when she said what she said.

Saturday will probably be my next BIG sarge session. I can't explain how much fun it is. Me and O10 debriefed today about yesterday...
- About his emotional experience about the 9 chick who he approached on the train 3 weeks ago and it was ON...and yesterday he fuked up on so many levels
- Me actually admitting that I'm actually scared to...VIBE and let a chick get to know me. This stems from years back when I NEVER wanted to open up to anyone. Only one chick this month I opened up to and in my head I actually was hearing "WTF, your vulnerable, she knows you, you dropped your barrier, WTF are you doing"

This explains why I started making excuses and doing half ass approaches, because if I do that I don't have to vibe, but still have fun approaching because I love it. Yesterday I seen vividly how I purposely kill sets that way I don't have to vibe...Just to give an example of what I have done in order to not vibe and let her get to know me

- Go in half assed: This is the latest way of not vibing. Go in half ass and I'm sure they will walk off

- Go in hard and say nothing: I can open REAL GOOD, so when I do I will just look and basically force her to walk off. (I don't do this too often)

- The Monumental Experience: This is the foundation of my game, except I never actually do any of the vibing or emotional rollercoaster part of my game. So all she really experience is part of the "Monumental Experience" which tends to be SERIOUS FUN and Quick Escalation. After hugging her and being close with her in 2-3 mins I go for the # knowing they'll flake because they don't know me. (I do this VERY VERY often)

- Don't Approach: Certain times I won't even approach because the simple fact that I know I will have to open up. It's funny because I know I can vibe pretty well, BUT my past I had NEVER wanted to let people get to know me and I never really let that go. It's just not as bad as it used to be.

But that's enough of rambling...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Once again I come off as someone they like but don't know. It's crazy how this happens...Overall though I was sick today but I wanted to try and have a bit of fun with upset midget.

He was in the area and was going to do night game. I was sick but said **** it if I sarge I will feel better. To my surprise I was feeling better each time I open.

Lineup
Upsetmidget - He got a # prior...had a bit of a rough start but me and Tickler pusehed him in

Tickler - He opened a set, it was ON he tried to kiss, no go but he got her #. He went in state and opened a next chick. He kiss closed on the street in less than 2mins. With state you can do anything.

I was not feeling well but pushed through it...
B&N Chick
- Open direct it goes well I vibe and talk for a bit. I kino quick. Already kinoed her leg...when I touch her shoulder...she REMOVES IT. I would hang in there but was like forget it

Open a bit more, tickler joins us...tickler meets a chick he # closed before the interaction is nothing but **** tests. We leave because cop is following us. Apparently there were a lot of PUAs out and about.

We go to street do sets, we try to push upsetmidget in a set. So we follow them to the shoe store. We get there and I open a set then second set is Hbindian.

HBIndian
- I went direct but then we stopped and was thinking about where we knew each other. This is bad lol. She thinks comedy club I think night club. (I kind of figured it was her) She then goes "O your that annoying guy...get away from me" lol. It was playful but I still disliked how sshe said my wings were lame which caused our 1st interaction to become crappy.

More sets on street...then tickler wants food...In store we find cute chick, I open...

HBExperiment
- Go in direct, do my thing. Friend comes in, I engage her. Things are going well...she goes to bathroom so I really befriend the friend. She comes back and I go for the #. Her response..."Are you serious? Is this an experiment? We don't know each other. This is weird."

Deja Vu all over again. I'm about to start approaching afc conversation wise...because to them I sound too good to be true. All you guys wishing you had super game...at least you could get lucky I don't get sh!t but kino and good reactions.

The chicks really don't know me and my thought pattern actually is "Me messing with the world causing chaos". In school chicks are comfortable being attracted because they know a bit about me through me introducing myself to the class. (even if it's 1% that they know)

How do I know this...
- playfully slapped this chick on the ass HARD. She loved it. Later on she hug and kissed me (cheek)

- Another chick who has a BF rolelayed me and her hsaving pillow talk aster sex. She really likes me and as I left we hugged forever and just held each other.

- All the chicks are receptive to my escalations.

As for Night Game...Right after Hero and upset gets in they start checking IDs...WTF!! Me and tickler can't get in.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Night Game...Finally!!

Seems like I'll be doing night game more often

I get more and more tired typing these posts up...but I'm trying to keep this recorded so I will just run through these quickly...

Lineup
Hero - Day game isn't his thing...night game surely is. Me and him was creating the party. Me, him and Tickler. We did box dance, Claw, Nimbus power up, chode sword, and all sorts of sh!t to stay in state and have fun. He had to go to a co-worker's party see he left early.

Note: Hero, has hung out with Style, Mystery and a few other pretty good guys. (He had showed me pics)

Tickler - He opened some good sets, winged with him a few. He tried amoging some guy but the guy remained unreactive and pointed out tickler as a PUA. Stating that he heard his Routines before...(Tickler doesn't do routines, but you can kind of tell who is community guys anyway) It's funny because tickler opened the set of girls he came there with and the guy was quiet...so we thought the guy was chode.

O10 - Opened and # closed the same chick I # closed, she looked drunk...atleast I hope she was because the way she was walking indicated her being drunk, butO10 said she didn't sound drunk...SO. He also kiss closed a chick on the street. He # closed a chick in the bar. He is going out to sarge with a well known instructor for a day. He amoged tickler in a set just because he said he opened those chicks before tickler early in the night. So he was considering it his set. Tickler was very pissed off about that.

Upset Midget - He did day game with us...winged with him a lot. We could've bounced a hot set to star bucks but I wanted him to hold the set.

The Sets
Today I was trying to open up to sets because if I don't I won't ever get any chicks. I've been trying to qualify more. Hero introduced me to rick shambles who at the time I didn't know it was him. (Me and him were suppose to meet up a LONG time ago) This guy has a nice GF now so he doesn't game, but he gave me some advice on my sticking point. Anyone summary of sets...

HBMarket
- Market outside, I open a 2set. We start to talk about whether they can cook or not and talking about food for a good 5mins. I eject

HbWholefoods
- Opened in whole foods...direct, turned into a 2set. The friend is headed to costa rica, she's Turkish. I talk with my target for a bit, some teasing. It's going great, O10 calls me up that he is here, so I go for the # close, but she's leaving today.

Hbbooty
- Seen a midget with a fat ass and with a dog, I opened direct, she's ugly, I let her walk off after 2min

HBworkers
- I open indirect about a good place to eat...doesn't go no where

HBMarried
- I open a chick in B&N about puzzles and staying home and doing puzzles while eating food...it's going good until she says "Husband tag along". Which I then say he can cook for us while we do the puzzle. I then see the husband. Which I introduce myself...she is still on with the puzzles and I eject.

HBBf
- Forget this set but BF came up, I know I went direct

HbRussia (Married)
- I opened direct, forgot this set, but shewas married

HBRussia (Catching Plane)
- I opened direct, she was trying to hurry because she has to catch a plane...ok

Me and Upsetmidget heads to the street

Hb2set (Upsetmidget wings)
- Nice swedish and german, I open about places to eat, we start talking about traveling. There looking for an H&M, I tell them there going to buy us **** and be our fashion consultants...they can't understand fast english so I tease them and say I'd speak slower. They're looking for a starbucks...I'm thinking this is a great set to bounc, but I want Upsetmidget to get some words in so I go silent, he doesn't talk, they leave...no biggie.

ME and Upsetmidget heads to B&N again

Hbtolle (Upsetmidget wings)
- This was a hot 2set that Upsetmidget wanted to open, at first I wasn't going to do it but I just open "Hey do you know Eckhart...OMG you don't." I start talking about eckhart and tease her a bit. I spin her around. I introduce myself and Upsetmidget. We talk for a bit, there waiting for someone, because there meeting up.

HBTall (Upsetmidget Wings)
- I had opened these two tall asians on the escalator, so I reopen them with upsetmidget. These chicks are into gems, and have some gems...really cool and unique. I'm like these chicks and we go into gems for a bit. Some teasing here and there. Eventually I stop talking and upsetmidget picks up where I left up...nice just what I wanted him to do. 5-6 mins in we leave.

HbKorean
- Upsetmidget wanted to open but he didn't so I open her on escalator...it's on. I say "Welcome to the escalator of glory" and then I ask where she is from, but stop her and say "Let me guess *kino* you don't have a chinese body...Japanese" She says korean, we talk for about 2-3 mins. I go for the #. Now I just got a new phone and it takes a bit of getting used too...I messed up putting in her # FIVE TIMES. She was about to walk off because I couldn't punch it in right. (Stupid phone) Finally we say her # out loud, I hug her and make her leave. I'm dumb because Upsetmidget said I should bounce...I want to find her I can't, so I text and then call an hour later telling her to come eat with me and my buddies. She's meeting a friend so I tell her I'll call her in a week or so.

Hbkorean (O10's approach)
- O10 Opened her on the street as we were heading to hero's house to do night game later. I had realized it was her...she is walking like she's drunk. O10 # closed her after 4 tries. She wasn't giving him the # so he kept plowing. We both like the girl so whoever gets her gets her. lol, this is actually pretty funny.

At bar I'm mainly hanging and waiting...we create the party in our area...I open first set...

Hbdance
- Two chicks was dancing so I danced next to them, hi fived...eventually walked off.

2set (Wing with tickler)
- He opens two older chicks, I come in, introduce myself, Claw, how they know each other, she asks same I say prison. We joke a bit...I don't think my chick is that hot. Eventually after 10mins we eject.

HBReddress
- This chick has a tight body and is hot...I say "Welcome to the party" we are talking it's going well but for some reason I stop talking to her and her friend. She was part of a six set. This was a REAL hot chick, all the chodes watched me approach.

3set
- Orginally opened by tickler, but I end up in the set and so does hero. They were looking bored so we all created the party, by doing the box dance and throwing the box there way. Eventually Hero and Tickler left, the hottest one reopened me. I talk with them for a bit, one is real cute, we talk for a bit longer then I leave to open more sets.

HbPinkHair
- I see O10 he opened some party set, one chick he mentions is bad so I look at her and motion with my finger to come here. I say "I heard you were bad". It's on!!! Everything is going well until when I say "You need a spanking"...O10 tells the chick to spank him (It came off needy) she hated that he said that and eventually ejected. She was pretty cool though.

It's just me and O10 at this point we head to second floor

2set (wing with O10)
- He opened with something, I go in talk to one chick, it's going real well she's with her boss and the girl O10 is talking to fiance. My girl is liking me and points out that O10 said some stupid sh1t about the pool table they were sitting on and implying that he was trying to hit on her friend. Me and this girl is having a great time. Eventually the two guys come in I introduce myself, everything is cool, but O10 motions to eject. We go right into a new set...

3set (wing with O10)
- O10 opens it, I go in and talk to 2 chicks and he talks to one. I say there BFFs, find out there lawyers, were having fun. A bit of kino, I'm holding there attention as O10 spits game. I ask how they all know each other. O10's target is married, there all lawyer's. The guy who was the Boss of the last set, knew my girl from law school, as he approaches her. O10 right in the set says to me "Man WTF why you letting him take the set"...the guy wasn't doing anything bad, he seen an old friend, it's not like he was a threat. His target was weirded out by this. I hung back because I knew once he left she'd come right back. It turns out I was right and one of the two girls was actually dissing his cloth, which I tease her about. This set is going good but O10 wants to eject.

2set (wing with O10...Blownout)
- This was weird, don't know what O10 did but all I know he ignored me when I came in...so I had to go in direct on my girl as if I didn't know O10 because I looked retarded standing there trying to get O10 to acknowledge me. My girl is liking that I went direct...but O10 did some sh!t and the chick eye codes my girl and my girl is now trying to help her friend blow out O10...WTF!? As a result she just says something to O10's chick and they have the freaked out eye code. I then say **** it and kino her real close saying "I'll see her around"...I liked my chick...

2set elevator (Wing with O10...WTF)
- I say welcome to the great escalator...O10 says something about there friend. (I guess he opened there set before meeting back up with me) All of a sudden the chick says something about him not being able to win them all over. Then O10 says "You guys are weird" or some insult that turns them off.

Overall today, O10's been doing some weird sh!t. Really blowing sets up and coming across real insulting. Might be out tomorrow so will see...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Sets I remembered from SATURDAY

One set was in B&N...can't remember much all I know she was from London.

Also while Upsetmidget was commenting on how good I open and asking how I open, I wanted to demonstrate going in hard...

Because if you go in hard you could never get ignored or blownout. So as we walk down the street I just open the first chick walking by and she opened. (she stopped and was willing to be gamed)

This set that I forgot about was interesting. It was in a mexican food place...I never been here and was tring to wait for tickler to tell me what is good at this place.

I see the only 2set that O10 is talking too...he doesn't acknowledge me so I just open as if I don't know O10.

I'm talking to the obstacle asking her what's good here. She has no clue O10's target does...O10 stops talking to her so I engage her. It's on, she makes my sandwich...I had told her I never been here.

But the worker girl seen me herre yesterday in a set lol, so she asks if I was here yesterday. Which I was in a set friday at the same place but never ate. The girl I open says I lied and we talked for a bit and I left to sit assuming she'd sit by us...but O10 said he fuked something up so they never came.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Been very busy with school...like I'm seriously thinking about not doing pickup that much just because I got so much sh!t to do. Won't be able to do any pickup tomor or friday because I'm shooting a video for school. I'm hoping to be able to go on a sarge marathon before this week ends.

I'm in a bit of a situation though, this will be the first and last time I ever talk about this, because I only want to talk about chicks that I've cold approached on an actual outing.

Basically there is a nice European chick in my class who oozes sex appeal. This is our 3rd day hanging out and I'm really convinced that I need to keep the interaction where it currently is at because I'm THIS close to just kissing her and taking it from there.

I won't mention all that other stuff, but today...
- Were in a bar and she gave me some of her drink (Same straw)
- She was feeding me
- We were having laser eyes in the bar (I was about to kiss her)
- She puts her gum in my mouth (This wasn't supposed to happen but I reframed it as something fun and no big deal)
- She kept count of how many times I used my phone (She always comments on me and my phone lol)

...all I have to say is sexual tension is THROUGH the roof...

Reason I haven't closed was because she has a BF, she lives with him, she is a foreigner, and if she broke up with him because of me, she'd have to find a new place to live and everything will be all fuked up.

Then there is a French chick, who is by far the most INNOCENT chick I've ever seen. But she is so sexual, I think I'm the only one who see's it. Lots of kino between me and her, she mentions about doing a porn movie. (Jokingly)

Now the part where I fuk up. I'm walking with her and a next chick while I'm on the phone. It's my time to leave but French chick wants me to stay, and they want me to walk with them to other chick stop and then walk back with French chick to her stop.

My dumb ass did realize I would be isolated with FRENCH chick. No one would've known me and her made out or even hooked up. She was begging me to stay with her but I didn't realize it at the time...which sucks.

Anyway I won't be out in the field probably for this whole week or two. I'm hoping I can go out. Also my wing and I found a nice day2 which I'll probably reveal later on.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Chode Day

Man I don't even want to get into today, basically I unofficially quit at life.

I'm trying to find out what emotion I felt, but all I know I did about 10 sets and then all of a sudden I had this instant feeling/emotion and I wanted to end life. I wanted to quit sarging, quit acting, quit everything.

It was the wierdest sh!t because I told my wings and while they tried encouraging me when I told them this was my last day, I wanted to leave and never come back.

I also felt like a bitvh because I was being the whiny kid and it felt like I was fuking up there mood. My closest wing was telling me I seem very different and noticed a huge change in my behavior.

He did real good today getting 9 #s...I felt like I was kind of holding everyone back with my attitude so I eventually went home.

I didn't really open after I got that instant feeling, even though I winged twice which was sort of by accident and more of a "Fuk the world" attitude.

 

[HolyG]

Look man, its okay to take a break sometimes. Take a week off sarging, and go do what you want to do. If you want a relationship with french chick, pursue that, its alright to do so. Just relax for a while, then get back into things later.

 

[BMX]

You've inspired me..I went out tonight w/o my bestfriend cuz he's AWOL rite now. I go to the mall, approach a chick at a kiosk cuz she's eyeing me. I'm actually interested in the product (proactiv) and I ask her what she uses and if it works. She gives me all the info and as I'm about to leave I ask wut her name is. She stops and really surprised tells me "My name? Sarah." I bounce and head to a car show. I thought to myself, should've done something like the BS apocalypse opener on her. But, she seemed surprised enough that I asked her name. OK considering I'm getting back into the swing of sarging again

 

[Snow Plowman]

Look man, its okay to take a break sometimes. Take a week off sarging, and go do what you want to do. If you want a relationship with french chick, pursue that, its alright to do so. Just relax for a while, then get back into things later.

I can no longer sarge or not sarge, it's more of a personality change for me, so now it's just my personality that is actually the "Game". I can actively take breaks of active sarging, but breaks usually turn into actual not doing...

as working out, spritual things and many other things have become...

Also I don't want a relationship, these next two years was mainly for me to get more and more experience in learning about social dynamics, but I'm getting lazy and content with where I'm currently at.

I can open and get attraction easily...if you asked me to open a set I could easily go in there and gain attraction, but my mind will hold me back and give excuses while in set so I'll eventually fuk it up on purpose.

I'm actually pretty content with how I interact...it's just for some reason I'm very frustrated. It's not only this area of my life that is being affected. On Wednesday I really wanted to quit acting, it was just an unexplained emotion that got me VERY pissed. I have a lot of sh!t to do and at this point I want to just sleep and never wake up again...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Yep out in the field again...might be my last...it's not as fun as it used to.

The thrill of opening the hardest sets, chasing down sets, having a blast interacting.

Now that spark of fun is gone. That was the only thing that kept me in this. I wasn't trying to get laid, I actually was doing this to improve my knowledge of social dynamics but the fun factor is gone so I can't do sh!t.

EDIT - As for the sets done today it's really me saying 2-3 thungs and ejecting.

 

[j0n024]

Aww snowy what are you doing! You cant talk that way you bastard! Come on what happens when you leave and our clique starts to deteriorate right before my eyes.....(uhh incase your wondering the CLIQUE lol is Snow,Cantosie,Microphone,PHAT..and me I think there are more just naming the people I remember) Come on you have to stay, maybe all you need to do is change your perspective on how your feeling....maybe you should think that your sooo good that your becoming a better person then most because you can talk to people easily without feeling weird because of the way society is going these days. Please dont go brother...I mean that man you helped me out when I started to feel like giving up so this is my crappy way of trying to repay you.

 

[Snow Plowman]

lol, I can't quit, this isn't something I do anymore, it's become apart of me.

Today I naturally started talking to a hired gun because it said "Happy bday to me". So I joked about it being my Bday, then lied, then told her we'd exchange presents. Next thing I know were teasing and having a blast together. (I'm not trying anything)

Then I go into another store later on and get free FOOD, plus the hired gun approaches me and we have conversation for a bit. She is really trying for rapport.

As far as me actively sarging, it seems like I've got WORST. I can easily open but I can consciously see that I'm killing the set, sort of like it's on purpose. I am very in tune with the energy level and sub-communication.

Also today in acting class my teacher pointed out that I'm holding back my emotions. This was crazy because this is one of my biggest sticking points. She was making me feel my heart and saying I was resisting and holding back.

We did another exercise and she pointed out that she saw more of ME when I was acting than when I'm actually natural. She said when I'm natural, my body is very stiff and emotionless. (I'm only expressive when talking to chicks and even that comes and goes)

Overall she is pissed that there is a lot of FIRE inside of me that needs to be brought out. She isn't the only teacher who said she needs to bring that RAW personality out of me. Which is true I do hold it back and I do hold it back in a pickup too. Only ONE chick I ever spilled my real personality too, and it was by far the most shocking thing I ever witnessed as far as interacting goes.

I'll be out there tomor. I don't think I can just quit, going out has become a habit.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Aww snowy what are you doing! You cant talk that way you bastard! Come on what happens when you leave and our clique starts to deteriorate right before my eyes.....(uhh incase your wondering the CLIQUE lol is Snow,Cantosie,Microphone,PHAT..and me I think there are more just naming the people I remember) Come on you have to stay, maybe all you need to do is change your perspective on how your feeling....maybe you should think that your sooo good that your becoming a better person then most because you can talk to people easily without feeling weird because of the way society is going these days. Please dont go brother...I mean that man you helped me out when I started to feel like giving up so this is my crappy way of trying to repay you.

2nded.


Anyways, regarding your last post. Congrats on approaching hired guns. Your approaches leading up to your breakdown to me seemed kinda pointless in terms of any actual goal other than piquing initial interest. It's nice to understand social dynamics but imo to call initial approaches social dynamics is a little contrived.


Oh and who is this 'teacher' you speak of? Sounds kinda weird, lol. Are you a member of Scientology by chance?

 

[Snow Plowman]

2nded.


Anyways, regarding your last post. Congrats on approaching hired guns. Your approaches leading up to your breakdown to me seemed kinda pointless in terms of any actual goal other than piquing initial interest.

There was no actual goal in mind, it was just to point out how everything is just autopilot and I don't consciously think about it. I personally don't have any goals, I did before but now I just interact and what happens, happens.

It's nice to understand social dynamics but imo to call initial approaches social dynamics is a little contrived.

Yea I see where your coming from, honestly this whole pickup stuff is a bit different for me, because I'm actually not in it to get laid. I actually was still doing this because I really had a blast seeing the social dynamics of people interacting. It's insane when you can see sh!t that most people can't even see. This is what caused me to test and try out things, I've put myself in so many hard situations just to see what would happen.

Oh and who is this 'teacher' you speak of? Sounds kinda weird, lol. Are you a member of Scientology by chance?

NO lol, I go to ACTING SCHOOL...lol. When I say teacher I'm refering to a teacher who teaches ACTING SKILLS...lol.

Basically two specific teachers basically COLD READ the hell out of me. I do have a problem with letting out my emotions/expressing my emotions. How'd I know because my sticking points are always...

- I'm RANDOM MAN to her, she's attracted in that moment but when she backwards rationalize it, she'll realize I'm just "RANDOM MAN". (I've had chicks personally say "This is wierd meeting like this I don't even know you"

- She has no clue why the hell I actually like her, my qualification is INGENUINE (I've had chicks personally say "But why do you like ME?"

- I come off as INGENUINE in general (I've had chicks personally say "Is this a joke? or some big game?)

The most shocking part is that she can actually see through my internal walls and can see my REAL PERSONALITY. Both teachers are almost fascinated about what I'm holding back. I was telling my wing about all this today and we were going to experiment and see what would happen if I pour my emotions out...which I will be doing tomor.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Today was lets just say different, I don't really know why but it actually seems like I got better. Majority of my sets opened REAL well.

I had about 4 REAL GREAT sets...3 who I # close, 2 of the 3 #s are solid, which I will get into later. I did get blown out a few times on the street but like my wing pointed out...

"There was nothing behind my words, it sounded like you were just trying to say something before she walks by."

I have bad reaction time when it comes to seeing and saying. If the chick is 10ft away from me there is a big chance I won't be able to stop her because I try to rush and say something before she walks by.

The stuff that my acting teacher pointed out actually is what was holding me back. Lets just say I feel these emotions and I honestly didn't want to feel these emotions but I'm starting to learn to accept this.

By coincidence my game has just SHOT up SO HIGH...I'm clearly convinced that I can probably have solid sets majority of the time and if I don't have a great interaction then it means two things...

- Uncalibrated in that situation
- Don't have the reference point of that situation, so wouldn't know what exactly to do in order to make this work

Now off to the sets...

HbInterior
- Met in B&N at the art magazine section. I tapped her on one arm and moved on the other side then went direct. The set blew wide open, were vibing. She does interior architecture, has degree, free lance, independent, etc. I just now realize I was mixing a lot of fun into the vibe. She found out I'm doing acting and we talk about that for a bit. She loves it and wants to come watch me. Eventually I go for the # close, hug and hangout a bit more. I wish I remembered more because this set was REAL good.

HBBulgaria
- Stopped this REAL HOT older chick asking about a board game for my sister. (I actually got pissed cause I lied saying I have a sister but my mouth has a mind of it's own, I'm just flowing) This chick is all into the board game checking it out. I tease her a bit, were vibing. I guess she's from Argentina because she sounded a bit spanish...but I was wrong. She was from Bulgaria!!! Must be some hot chicks there. We keep vibing some more and I ask about logistics. Basically...she lives with BF, who brought her to America so she could be with him...so basically if they break up she goes back home...interesting. I tease her saying her BF cooks for her and buys her all this sh!t, I was 100% accurate lol...poor chode.

...On the street, chick with camera is waiting...

HbCamera
- She was a 8, could've been a 9 easily if she had more feminine hands. This chick had a camera so I joking asked if she goes to my school, knowing fully that she doesn't. She starts telling me how she does camera work and interviews for a music website, she goes on about it being a website made by some famous guy. We joke around for a bit, she's trying to get me to sing on camera and asking me about music. I tell her I don't like music and that I don't sing in the shower.

Also I'd like to point out there was ALOT of SEXUAL TENSION and a lot of SEXUAL sub-communication. She knew what I was doing some comments I remember saying were...

- "Yea were going to make a movie together...what kind of movie? Hey *wing* she wants me to sing to her in the shower..."
- I'd go silent and just do some triangular gazing

Eventually her two camera guys come which fuked up everything because we started doing other stuff and so I just tried to covertly go for the # lol. She wanted to do it but she clearly realized her co-workers were with her and so she stopped and said "Sorry I can't" while motioning at them. I basically say "Yea I understand, just bad timing" and I leave.

Blowouts
- This one I learned something...I clearly seen how friends ****block. I seen a two set but I kind of staled because were on the street with people traffic right when I say "HEY" the friend calls her friend and takes her arm. How fuking amazing was that. I loved how she did it because if that happened a year ago I would've never seen it. I just cracked up and the ****blocker was getting ready to smile.

- This is when I realized I can't try to open when there less than 10ft from me on the street, I open and she has no time to register what I'm saying that she has to keep walking and as a result it seems as if I'm chasing her and so she blows me off saying "I have BF"

Group Set Package - The following are the group sets on the street that I opened...

English 3set
- These chicks had makeup on and were from england. I did a nice cold read on them by guessing england. I hooked the hottest one which was real good but I kind of let her go because I noticed the UG who never hooked was waving for a cab. I did however found out the logistics...there leaving in 2 days.

Swedish 3set
- First swedish women who weren't attractive!!! I opened and held it for about a minute then the left...

Old 5set from Spain
- I like opening big sets to see if I can hold it, these 5 older ladies ranging from 35-50 were a bit standoffish. It was cool for a bit until I stayed longer than they invited me for.

Unknown 3 set
- I seen 3 tall blonds, so I had to open, I messed with one chick about her funky glasses. This set was going OK until they walked off.

Overall I have to go in harder on Bigger Sets...
1. More energy
2. Engage ALL
3. Lead and take charge of the group

At this point I had walked into a manicure store and OMG the reaction these 15 chicks had on there face. I was surprised because I wasn't scared, nervous or awkward. It was more like everyone reacted to me and was waiting for me to insert an emotion. Imagine how you'd look if you seen an alien walk into your store lol...I used this as an opener a few times...

HbStreet
- Chick on street I open about the manicure incident, vibe a bit, she's waiting for BF and isn't willing to have an affair yet.

HBGeorgian
- Open two nice europeans with my wing. I show them a book that says "Porn for Moms" which is one of the wierdest books. She doesn't get it, I try to break it down, she understands porn, but she doesn't get why they called it that. We didn't either. The hotter one was into me so when she seen her BF coming, she quickly said "We have to go bye" and swiftly ran off so the BF couldn't see.

HBShirts
- Open two hot asians with my wing, about a shirt they were looking at. I say all 4 of us should wear them down the street. Everything is nice and smooth. I stop so my wing can keep the convo going a bit. Eventually my wing wants to leave so we are about to and the the most "AFC" or most "HOMO" man comes into set. Think Stereotypical "Anime nerd", he gave me one of the softest handshakes and if the wind blew too hard he'd fall over. We eject, and ended up seeing them 3 times in a row, which the girls were happy to see us.

We head back to B&N and I meet a girl...

HBWindow
- She was sitting by the window, I told her the manicure store. My wing asks her about the book she's reading, the vibe. Somehow she asks me questions and I lead the conversation. Eventually my wing leaves and I'm vibing with this chick for a long time. Were talking about eckhart, my acting, her acting, where we grew up, etc. This set was going real good.

Now at this point in my game I can feel that a set will flake if I go for the # close. This one I felt it and was thinking of interacting still...I instead go for the # close. Now she says "I'll give you my e-mail".

Now my game is very Internal so my reality is like strong and overpowering, which I learned today. Also this isn't good if I'm talking to shy chicks, which in this case I realize she is shy. She gives me the # due to frame control and remaining unreactive.

My wing said I should've instadated, so I want to go back. When I do she says a WHOLE lecture on how she feels uncomfortable with me having her # and how she's not used to guys being so forward. If I didn't say "OK BYE" I'd still be standing there listening to her tell me how it was a bit too much for her.

Overall though it was fun and I'm actually surprised I opened up. I now have to calibrate some things which I'll probably post about tomorrow.

 

[Snow Plowman]

lol I just realized I didn't mention the chick I gamed yesterday who I had # closed and was by far one of my most solid sets. I met her in the music store, I opened direct. I don't want to go into details but the gist of it.

- She was impressed that I was direct, so impressed that she didn't think I was from NY, because NY guys wouldn't do that.

- She talked about creativity which I rewarded her a lot for. Also she had a great sense of humor.

- We vibed about "Office Work", (This was interesting) following your passions, not letting parents hold you back, school, etc. It was real good.

- O yea, she's 27, I'm 18...going on to 19 in a few weeks

Overall, I # closed and today I called her up and told her about the manicure story. I had to go back to class and she had to go too...I got sick so I went straight home, and to my surprise she had called and left a message trying to meet up.

Tomorrow I'll probably meet with her, I'm not 100% sure if I'm going to though. Also me and 2 of my wings are thinking about all going on a day2 together, to the car show.

So basically it's us 3 and 3 chicks we all had met lol. It would be interesting if they all asked "So how do you all know each other?" lol. Will keep you guys updated on this.

I also caused her to lose 50 dollars because she bet her friend 50 dollars that I wouldn't call her...I think she gets a vibe that I'm some sort of player...but she's all for it.

 

[Snow Plowman]

2nd Update

I don't think I mentioned this but Hbinterior and I had set up a day2 for tomorrow. She was going to go watch me do an open casting, but I'm not going so I canceled it, via text.

It was the first time I ever spoke to her too, and she responded so that's good...it really seems like I've moved to the next level ever since I started actually expressing my emotions and letting my personality come out like my acting teacher said.

Yesterday it did feel like I could get with any chick, tomorrow I might setup a day2 with one of the two chicks or I might sarge...who knows...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Live Update...Infield

Wow...I really think I can get anyone. I've done so good right now. It's amazing how just a few tweaks can change everything.

Lets just say in almost every set I have a good interaction. So far today...

- # closed a 9 who was in a rush, going too meet her mother. This was a 3min interaction, so will see what happens.

- # closed a cute professional photographer who I also kiss closed.

Will post full report when I get home...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Quick Saturday Update

Shot a movie with a cute actress...she's an 8. I interacted and # closed, was going to kiss her but I choded. (My excuse was that people were there and it would kick in ASD) Will meet her Monday.

My day2 chick, I'm assuming she flaked, even though I was going to flake anyway.

Overall all my solid sets are kind of fuked up now...not because of them flaking, but because of ME FLAKING. I got sick and film makers had called me up to shoot films.

So basically every chick I had that was a solid set, I flaked on and as a result they flaked on me. I'm assuming it's because they all know I meet other chicks regularly that they sort of think I don't really like them much and just trying to get a notch on my bedpost.

All the chicks have all commented in ways that implied that I pickup women. Even the chick I kissed close the first day I met her. Will see what happens.

Also a funny thing that HB9 gave me a fake #...lol, if you seen how the interaction went she acted REAL well when giving me the wrong #. It was smooth and funny.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Hah last weekend I approached an employee in the mall and chatted her up for like 10 minutes. Everything seemed to be going pretty well so I asked if she wanted to meet up later that night at the bars or something. She said sure and I got her #. Funny thing is I said "Ok, I am going to call you now to make sure you have my #." It rang like 3 times and than some old Latina woman picked up... I was like WTF and then she gave me some bs excuse about how she left it at home and it was probably her mom (she's a blonde caucasian chick). Lies all lies - needless to say I deleted her # immediately after leaving her presence.

lol, I haven't had this often but most of the time it was because the chick was shy and found it weird...then again that was before when I wasn't actually opening up to chicks. The hb9 she gave me the wrong # for the simple fact that I only had 2mins to game her because her mother called to go to CT. I # closed for the sake of it, just cause. I wasn't going to follow up because she's from CT.

Second UPDATE for Saturday
- Chick who flaked called me up, her phone was off or some ish like that. Either way she was with her mother today, we talked for about 40mins. I learned a lot of interesting things about myself and my game. I'll probably post about it tomor. It's still on...