Snow's 2007/2008 Bootcamp Journal

[Snow Plowman]

Article I made few days back (Part 1)

This is a cross post of an article I had made when I realized that my game bumped up.

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This is mainly for me to document everything in the past week because I really feel like I have arrived to a new level. Just the other day I was infield and it hit me that I can pick out anyone and have a great interaction.

I want to get this out my head before I forget it all, and who knows it might help others...

I've arrived to the next level, I finally can say that I think I can consistently have great interactions. It just clicked a few days ago. Last two times I went out sarging I had WONDERFUL experiences. One day I went 3 for 3...meaning I had 3 solid sets where I # closed all 3 of them. (One is currently still live) Last time I went out I met a chick and kiss closed before she left. Today I # closed a HOT actress I was working with.

I just got off the phone with the chick who I'm going to meet up with soon and had some insane realizations. When I gamed the actress who I did a film with...I started using "The power of Eye Contact" which showed me a lot.

You're Unique
As far as I know, you are the only person with your finger print...how unique is that. You are also the only person with "That" personality. No matter how similar things may seem, if you go deep you'll see that everyone has different thoughts, behaviors, verbals, non-verbals, mindsets, lifestyle, etc.

You have a specific personality, but like Tyler has talked about before you really need to go and find your real personality first. It's funny because the chick I was speaking too today she was talking about quotes saying she loves how people have there own little way of talking and laughing, etc. (Chicks dig my laugh...)

Chick's love all that **** that you might think is dumb just because to you it's not "NORMAL". It's sort of like your saying "This is really me, deal with it". Don't change just because it's not normal...what is normal? Being the same as everyone else?

Having Values
Everyone has values they just don't look deep enough to find out there values. Value your values and cherish that ****. I don't know how to pound this home but again like Tyler says if you see a chick find out if she is fun...IF YOU VALUE FUN that is.

I realize in all my interactions now I'm just interacting and as the interaction unfolds and they ACTUALLY hit something that I value then I go crazy and reward them. For example the actress chick talked about food...from FRANCE...EXOTIC FOODS...SNAILS...she described it...I seriously couldn't take it anymore and she could tell I seriously have orgasms thinking about food.

You can't fake legit values, and if she is the opposite of what you value then playfully joke about her falling short of your expectations. Do this in however way you see fit. Like my acting teacher says "Not everyone will respond the same or do the samething it will always be tailored to that person."

Chicks love the fact that you have REAL VALUES and your not just trying to **** her. Again like Tyler said he values beauty...we all value beauty but that's one of many. If beauty is all that makes you want to interact more with the chick then in a way your not much of a validation boost nor a guy worth chasing after.

Suck her in your reality
Why betray your Identity? You know your personality, you know your lifestyle, you know your boundaries, you know what you like and dislike. So why betray your identity when you see a hot chick walk by. Why all of a sudden your not worthy.

Your a store and you have the door open for chick's to come inside. They can go in the store and look around to see what this store is all about and maybe they will BUY something, heck they might even work there for a period of time...or they might want to work there way up the ladder.

Stop packing all your **** in a truck and driving around trying to pay RENT in someone else's store. Just stop, your spinning your wheels because you will never stop paying rent in that store, she can choose whether to make you rent the store or not even look at you.

Your store is like an open house, people can come in and browse around...

Being Completely Unaffected
Who cares what happens? If it happens, it happens. Why are you even worrying about that if you don't even know if she meets a decent amount of your values. Just because she's hot you want to **** her silly? O she has a unique laugther. Ok so she has a unique laughter and she's pretty so now your willing to **** her silly.

See even if it was just that one other value, you wouldn't be going into sets thinking "Ok I can't mess this up because I want to **** her". No in this case you don't care if you get blown out because you don't even know if she has a unique laugh. Eventually as you interact with her you notice a laughter that is a bit unique now you wouldn't mind it going to sex.

Flowing
It's hard to explain this but DAMN...it's like I can't get myself to shut up. If your just there being things just come out and images and words just come out. Everything is just clicking and clicking...

I talked with one chick twice. Both times it was for about an hour...do you know I didn't realize I talked that long. I didn't think about ANYTHING.

I don't know how to go about this, but basically just submit to the NOW. In meisner class we have to be completely focused on the person. NO THINKING is allowed in meisner class because it cuts off the flow. Put your 200% attention on the people your interacting with. Notice the Expressions of the face, body, voice, thought, etc. Each time you interact the person is giving you something.

Speaking From The Heart
I know we are men, and act like EMOTIONS are for girls. But **** that REAL MEN can put there personality on the line and speak from there heart, other wise known as speaking with RAW emotions.

I blame acting school for making me be able to let my emotions go, there were many occasions where I almost cried...I guess my new quote should be "Real men CRY".

My teacher was massaging my heart and had me try and speak from the heart. It was more of a visual thing, then she had me think of something humiliating and speak some sentences. I felt a surge of energy...which was actually EMOTIONS. Emotions is an energy...

Don't block that flow of energy let it out and make it saturate the world...

Vibing: Stories, Values and Emotions
Vibing is purely emotional, if you can just FLOW and speak from the heart then the energy will go into the environment and saturate the interaction. This is how vibing is. What emotions that get evoked depends on the person.

Stories happen to be a great tool when vibing because it can bring out so many forgotten memories and emotions. You can basically relive the emotions then and there. The funny thing is, is that as you relive the story the people is reliving it too. So it is very vivid. It's insane how good this is.

Values also happen to be great because when values have been hit or missed in the interaction it makes the vibe even more intense because a spontaneous surge of emotions gets saturated into the interaction. It's like a surprise.

This whole vibing thing has got scary for me because I easily get wood now and at some point it always feels right to isolate and have sex with the chick just to further saturate the vibe.

The Power of Silence
Like Eckhart says, the silence isn't just silent...there is stuff happening in the silence. Your sub-communication is actually transferring between each other. If anyone has ever listened to Eckhart...how many times have you heard silence and actually said something in your mind or anticipated what will happen next?

You can use silence for a wide variety of things, but again it depends on the person's personality as to how they use silence. Start finding out how you use the silence.

The Power of Eye Contact
Those eye's the can say a lot...you are sending signals, emotions, etc. To the other person. This stuff is very subtle but you can actually consciously play around with it. Of course you have to have control of your eyes because if you don't then you can't hold eye contact.

During the filming for me and the actresses shots...we actually kept doing eye contact. We sent playful messages, sexual messages, naughty messages, serious messages, inside joke messages. It was by far the ONE and ONLY interaction that I did a ****load of different communications with my eyes.

The Power of Voice
Who doesn't know the voice can be played with to send certain signals...Similar to the eye contact, change it up...everyone uses and does things differently with there voice...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Article I made few days back (Part 2)

The Real Personality: Bringing out your true rhythm
Like I mentioned from the start bring out that RAW Personality. The man not the chode who was built upon an ego. All of our personalities have a specific rhythm, many have multiple that we cycle through unconsciously.

Like my speech teacher said, my voice sort of has a musical beat to it. We all have a musical beat when were flowing. That beat is our true rhythm, not our reactive hesitating rhythm.

I'm like, Come on...if your True Rhythm is like a musical beat, how many times do you think you've played that musical? Just certain times and certain situations you refuse to play that musical and try to use a different musical that is KNOWN as popular. There isn't anything that stands out about the rhythm because everyone who doesn't want to play there masterpiece plays the popular pieces.

The Enjoyment of Interaction
Enjoy the interaction for what it is, it's a shared experience. Like seriously look at how much stuff is going on in a simple interaction...

- Emotions
- Experiences
- Verbal Content
- Physical Content
- Memories to be placed in your archives

Why can't you just enjoy it? Stop being so predictable and worrying about the negatives. Only predictable people worry about the negative because they constantly wish for all positive stuff, when positive and negative isn't good nor bad. It's just an experience from another perspective.


Good Times + The Now = Natural Smooth Escalation
Honestly if your having a great vibe, speaking from the heart and just flowing then the escalation will naturally happen. It has to because it's only right that it happens.

You set the pace...Do what you want...
Your the owner of this store so you choice the products, the staff, the decorations, the equipment, the furniture...You choose and lead everything because that store is an expression of yourself.

Your personality is the store that everyone can see. Do you want to be the average Deli or do you want to be the unique store that people flock too because it's...

One of a kind...

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Update...At the time I might have mentioned me only have one of those chicks still live...it's actually 2. Both want to get laid, one of them I'm meeting today after some miscommunication TWICE. I really hate this phone BS, but I'm trying to stay calm, I have to admit it had got to me a lot...

Because the 3rd chick who I remembered the most due to her body, she sort of thinks she isn't good enough for me, as she thought I wasn't going to call, and then she tried to invite me out with her and I FLAKED!!!! Ever since she's stopped speaking...O well.

The actress chick I forgot to call her and forgot to meet up with her for lunch on Monday. I seen her friend though and she said Hi. Might call her today...

Currently setting up Day2s, phone game and school is taking up most of my time, but I should be doing approaches in between breaks and the slight free time that I have.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Wow, I realized I never recorded anything for this week...

I'm not sure if I mentioned this but me and O10 did a challenge to see how many Day2s we can set up. I ended up having an insane experience. I won't coin it good or bad.

All I know I was very pissed. Basically I did a day2 and I coined it as a **** up, even though I pulled her back to her house. I wanted the textbook lay. (Approach chick, day2 get laid)

Then a unexpected day3, she took me out to eat...I had school so I just stayed on the train as she tried to hint for me to come to her place.

Day4, which was yesterday...I left a party at midnight to stay at her house until 3:30 and watch a MOVIE. I realized at this point that I don't even want to have sex with her.

But I must say the emotional rollercoaster I went through was crazy. I'd go deeper but I really don't want too.

All I'll say I purposely started fuking it up. I purposely stopped escalating, and did all sorts of other stuff. All because I said the day2 went all wrong which if I was looking at it from a positive perspective, I just didn't have sex with her.

Also all the negativity that I started going on about now causes me to get blown out in EVERY set. Yes that is right not one set opened in the past week, even though I haven't opened much due to trying to get day2s.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Farewell

Farewell

It was a good run, I enjoyed it but this is where it ends...

I have problems way bigger than improving this area of my life...I'm basically falling back on doing spiritual practices that I sort of stop doing for almost 3 months.

My main focus will be on my spiritual practices, because I realize it is the only thing that I do where I actually have a wonderful feeling and have no problems. My acting school is about to go to sh!t, my overall lifestyle is very limited because now I slip into sleep or trance fairly easy...off school days I'm sleeping 14-16 hours. On trains, in class, whenever I'm idle I'm falling asleep.

So yep, once again I'm getting into all that stuff and I think I'll be focusing on that for the rest of my life...so peace and later...the journey ends today...

 

[Microphone Fiend]

you had a good run man and gave good advice, its been good man. Have a good life :yay:

 

[Snow Plowman]

I swear I've gone too deep into this. Regardless if I stop or not I'm going to keep approaching...meeting people have become apart of my life.

Right after I posted that I'm focusing on more spritual stuff...after that...

- 3 of my wings call me and can't understand how I'd quit...one who is currently in georgia

- I met up two more times with the chick who I claimed fuked me up

- Hot actress chick tried inviting me to club, we ran into each other and we kinoed a lot and as her friends came I handled it well...one of her friends were from Romania...who I seen the next day and played with.

- Hot chick, sitting in one of my acting class...I naturally go by her and interact. After the class she is trying to keep the conversation going hoping I keep it going...I should've # closed but I genuinely wanted to be somewhere.

- The chick who I met with multiple times...worked on vibing for HOURS and for the chicks in school I work on keeping the vibe purely playful.

Overall, it worked out well, its been crazy...I can't stop anymore. Even though I now realize I was always trying to revalidate myself for a week. So I became outcome dependent and I got blown out more times this week than the whole time I*e been at this.

Today is going to be...insane, I'm going to be out for 7-9 hours...LONGEST time ever.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Something has happened...I no longer want to approach, it was a pain for me to do an approach.

I went out early and started chatting the security guard and an officer...for almost 2 hours. Met up with my wings and we go eat, one of them opens a set, which I talk too and try to keep her there as he go get his food. He already # closed.

It took me forever to open my first set, I was resisting SO much...but I pushed myself.

LA 4set
- These chicks look like LA chicks...there cute I opened indirect and then started playing with them for a bit. The 2 hottest opened WELL. I eventually let them go

That was my one and only set...We went to a different place to sarge and I was so out of it. My wings tried to get me in state, tried to push me in set...everything...

Why wouldn't I just approach, I have no AA...finally my wing begs that I open one set atleast...

HBJapan
- I open a sexy asian, went in direct it was ok but she was trying to test me as to why I approached and why I asked that question, I didn't even notice these tests. She is into it after about a min. I vibe with her for a good 5mins. She is waiting for a friend, she starts asking me stuff it's going good. Eventually I eject with asking for a # or anything.

HBMyspace
- This chick I opened acting as if she was my myspace date I was meeting up with. I crack up and then as she walked away I go direct. I start talking and some guy shows up, hugs her and then I engage him...and start talking for another min.

HBCT
- This chick I opened direct, it was going real well. Found out she's from CT so my interest dropped...she loves suburbs, likes CT better than NY, and overall rarely comes to NY. She's only here for a BDAY party. I go for the # anyway...but she says it makes no sense since she barely comes to NY. I almost forgot to mention she said she was waiting for her sister when I opened her...haha, she actually was waiting for her BF.

The next set, something weird happened...she was walking by and I was leaning on the wall.

HbWalk
- I say "Hey!", and do a *come here* motion with my finger...she comes and I go direct. This chick was so sucked into my frame. We talked for about 3mins then my wing just ask for her # and gets it...he did nothing but she gave him her #. We drew a conclusion that I sucked her into my reality so it was so easy to get her #...he said what I did was REAL good.

HBBday
- Opened direct, found out it was her BDAY and gave her a hug and vibed a bit...found out she wasn't that hot...I eject

Mom and Daugther
- I do the same leaning and "HeyS stuff, but this time it was indirect. I find out there from Australia. They leave in two weeks. The mom hooked first because I addressed her, she then eye codes her daughter that it's ok. So it worked well. The daughter is HOT, the mom is cool. We talk for about 10 mins, about theater, Australia, NY, clubs, etc. The whole time I was sub-communicating with the daugther. My wing tries to close...but they have no NY #s.

Club Chicks
- I saw a 2set dressed HOT, everyone was looking. I catch up to them right as I hit they hit he bathroom door. I open high energy, they tell me about this new club, there club promoters guestlist...I tried to keep it but they walked in the bathroom and I wasn't going to wait for them to come out.

HBblack
- Opened a Hot black chick who I mistook for a european...she was a bit hesistating because she never had a guy come up to her like this...I eject after I see her face...I've had enough black chicks in my life...unless it's my ideal chick.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Update
Guys become an attractive man...

Stop trying to do stuff in order to get women into bed. Disconnect your mind from yourself. You are not your mind as I learned 2 days ago.

This is incredible, probably one of the best weeks ever, which was 2-3 weeks ago, I was at a point where I knew I could approach any chick and have a GREAT interaction. I'm not joking when I said ANY.

To my surprise one chick who I thought flaked because I flaked when she tried to set something up, actually texted me today...after 2 weeks of me calling and texting. I probably texted/called 4 times within those 2 weeks. Also another chick from CT also is doing the same thing, except I've been on the phone with her before and she's very busy so haven't met up with her or contacted her much.

Now during these rough times after that one particular day2 which I rarely talk about now lol...I was still practicing with chicks I knew and chicks in school. My main focuses were...

A. Creating a more fun and monumental vibe
B. Being more comfortable escalating
C. Playing with Buying Temperature

I did this with the chicks in my class and we've now become very touchy feely and playful. It worked out great. Today one chick triangular gazed me.

Now I don't actually like mentioning my school life but for this update I had too, I also seen the actress chick again, if I didn't already mention that in earlier posts. I met her friend from Romania and her other friend. Did I mention I started talking up the Romania chick.

Also I don't know if I mentioned this chick I gamed who was visiting my class and opened me after class...well I seen her today she said something to me. But you know I didn't remember her. A girl is just a girl now...it was funny because I was with 3 chicks and this hot chick comes up to me and I had no clue who she was. Then I remembered...and then roleplayed that me and her were gf/bf because I gave her this heart piece and the other girl asked why I gave it to her, so I joked and said I broke up with her to be with this girl who I forgot I spoke too.

I start telling her I want shrimp and lobster for dinner, then I let her go, I now realize I should've # closed because I don't know when I'll see her again.

For some reason while I said I wouldn't mess with any chicks I've come to the conclusion...

HBActress - HOT, Rich, HOT and awesome girl...I like her the most, she oozes female sexuality and is very sensual. My type of girl...Unknown Russian country. Her personality is so cool

HbRomania - Friend of Hbactress, she looks almost like a MILF spanish chick. I'd have some passionate sex with this chick. She is also a cool chick, not as hot as Hbactress, but she also oozes female sexuality also and is exotic. I really thought she was latina but she wasn't.

HBNympho - I call her this because I've been looking at her since I first met her. She is like a 6-7 at most, This chick looks so fuking dirty...but in a good way. She was showing a bit of cleavage today and I was thinking of nothing but sexual thoughts. First time we ever held eye contact and I was just smiling at her because I would seriously fuk her until my dik fell off. This chick is not that hot but just dresses hot and comes off like a serious nympho. Great for a fuk buddy.

HbForget - The chick who sat in my class once, she is real cute and fashionable. I'm attracted to her, I feel stupid for not # closing atleast.

Hbswedish - One of the hottest women in my school, HOT...end of story...

Honorable Mentions - There are 2 hot black chicks, one who I always say hi too even though we never actually spoke to one another. A small petite big breast chick, I dislike small chicks but this chick has me looking at her...A few random european looking chicks I see every so often walking by.

I want to also mention that I'm going to start internalizing PU Artistry tricks...it seems like it will help my game 100x more because I will now know how to handle certain situations. It seemed like I was learning so much blueprint stuff that I forgot a lot of the little PU tricks that is taught in this community which allows you to do some insane stuff. Back when I first started I knew a bit of it but never was an actual attractive man.

Now it's an attractive man who is competent doing those little things so now it shall really help my game.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Today...what can I say, I guess I'm just learning to be more...social. It's funny haw far I've come...

This has truly become a lifestyle...without a doubt. Random chicks saying "hi" a few chicks who approached me that took me awhile to realize where we'd met.

Today...I kind of met up with my "Female Friend" I say this becaue if it was to anywhere it would be in the horrible BF/GF frame...

Which I surely don't want...so I text her saying I need a sidekick...before this though everyone wanted to meet up.

Batmapua, a new guy I hang with...he came out and we were sarging at first...I had opened a set first.

Note: You can open with anything

HBSmartass
- I open with "I love John Johnson h's my father". Incoming sh!t tests, she is getting reeal smart, very ****y and funny. I had commented on her sexy leather jacket and asked her if she had a motorcycle, she jokes and says yes. She caught me, then she starts trying t dominate...

...ask what my binder is, takes it and starts trying to get me to read stuff...This chick is a total badass. I kept kinoing her and pushing her away. Lots of Push/Pulll...

...At one point she asked my age and was Shocked at my age. I was PEACOCKED for a shoot so I liked pretty stylish, and they couldn't believe how young I was...Then comes the whole where do we live, she tries to say I'm from queens since my area is close to queens. I then realize she's not even from NY but were having a BK vs QNS war...

For the heck of it I tried to get the # but it was at a very uncalibrated time. I can sense when it's good and bad to kiss or go for the #. The kino was spot on though.

After the one and only set I did I had HBfriend meet me. When she came we looked for BatmanPUA, we find him then go to the front of the market to meet sealdan who is in a set lolI play like I don't see him and wait. I intro batmanPua to Sealdan, then we go to B&N to meet another PUA. After all the intro's after randomly meetiing another PUA (Every sarges nowadays) I break from them and take HBfriend with me.

We go to the makeup shop to get myself Makeup...Yes me makeup and no I'm not gay!! Or am I...dun dun dunnnn.

Anyway I naturally game the worker girl who is cute and does my face. I hug her and pull her close. I also marry her.

After this we think of watching a movie, but her cool 50+ friend comes along. She is the coolest older lady ever. She was attracted to me too. She took us to a french place...to drink wine and after leaving I went ahead on my phone and I heard her commenting...

- Implying that HBfriend is lucky cause I'm handsome
- Mentioning her dating life
- Mentioning she is a great cook but wouldn't ever say that if we were dating because her EX's all call her still.

We then went for dessert, more talking then I go home...Overall fun.

I would go into detail but tired...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Plans for rest of Week

Been talking with my wing O10 about plans this week, we had a few good things lined up today, but I actually want to watch the blueprint...because I've been so busy that I haven't watched the blueprint since the first week I got it.

Today I was suppose to go on a day2 with a chick who I thought was a flake but really she was always into me, she was just sick. She wanted to go to a gay/lesbian bar because someone she knows work there and some chick invited her...That is one place I can't go, my parents would disown me.

Also me and O10 were thinking about those 3 Asian chicks we met up with and he took to the club. We had seen one of them 2 days ago, and she was SEXY, like I got a boner looking at her. O10 creeped her out a bit, so me and O10 decided that we'd try a double day2...

1. First we meet up and swap chicks, I'd take the girl he creeped out and he'd take the other. (I found his girl the hottest but he said the other is hotter who I don't even remember seeing)
2. We venue change to grand central, then walk to time square
3. In the crowd we get split apart and I hang with my girl and he hangs with his girl. From there we can check out all the places around time square.

I have other options too, such as meeting with the actress chick but for some reason I never call her up to meet. Also the chick from CT I haven't been calling. I really want to start getting more #s so I can have more/new prospects.

 

[schttrj]

Well yes I had a lot of thought patterns that are messing me up. Since I started learning this I tried so hard not to ever come across as needy. But I took it too far.

Some examples:
- I wouldn't approach a girl because I thought it was needy
- I wouldn't say hi to a girl I knew unless she said so first because I thought of it as needy
- I wouldn't escalate because I thought I was needy
- I would tell friends not to call girls over because they know they are hot and it comes off as needy

You see my thoughts. Now the times I actually do approach is when I'm in state and I don't think about that needy crap. I realized that today and now I can see myself doing way better. I never knew I used to think this, but I wouldn't ever escalate because I thought it was needy and really it makes me look asexual and gay.

If you were my friend for instance and I was talking to a girl and found out you wanted to talk to her I'd completely stop talking to her so you could have a chance. An even if it took you months I'd still never try to go for her. This happened recently when a girl gave me her # first time we ever talked and I never called because 2 of my other friends wanted to talk to her. We shall see what happens tomorrow.

i face this same problem too. but dont really have any reason if they are wrong. still havent got enough reasons as to why approach at all at certain situations.

 

[Snow Plowman]

i face this same problem too. but dont really have any reason if they are wrong. still havent got enough reasons as to why approach at all at certain situations.

Yea, I've got passed this problem a long time ago...

Now the reason I approach is because the chick got my attention some how. Either she was cute, she looked interesting/intriguing, or she oozed female sexuality. Those three factors always cause me to look at a chick and approach.

When I go in I'm seeing if she is fun, if she is cool, and overall if she meets my standards as to what I value in a woman. It's funny when you go in like that because the chick starts gaming you.

 

[schttrj]

Snow Plowman, dont take me otherwise. I have done some cold approaches, I have always taken in note fo every mistake I have done but still am not convinced that it is good. To be honest, I am not out in the field much, so not much experienced in cold approaches.

I have a question for you. I believe strongly in a point. If you want to talk to somebody, they will most probably talk with you. It is natural human nature. But could you take it to the next level? And you be honest here, in this forum, who understands women a little also, will know that one who crave attention or just kinda slvts, would talk to any badboy that comes their way and will even talk about sex. but there is no real gut level attraction there. did u ever feel taht u got that kinda attraction from the ladies where she would show some compliance to ur value? like she will give u a drop in her car to ur home, just for an example?

Please help me out, since I suck at cold approaches and all you guys who are doing it can motivate it a little.

 

[Snow Plowman]

So it seems like I flaked on all my chicks and haven't called them in so long that they flaked...I lost 4 solid chicks easy because of me not following it up.

Today was UNIQUE because I learned so much...I was in shock...

1. I learned what actual self amusement was about.
2. I learned how to actually create my own fun
3. I realized if I just let go and show my true self, then people would love me.

I realized I didn't post about my weekend but that's ok. I had learned a lot but this is more eye opening as opposed to calibration insights.

Today I was doing two new cool things with a friend:
- The walking on water
- The southern gangsta accent

This was awesome and totally spontaneous. There is an inside joke about a teacher in my school who has a cool walk. It was funny, so we replicated it and found it as the most comfy way of walking...then add the accent...and you have pure fun.

Three Key Moments
- I open a chick, direct with the accent and she is cracking up.
- The walking on water is the best thing ever
- I seen John Kerry in B&N and I was super excited and walking around saying "OMG its john kerry". This was funny was hell...

Overall fun sh!t. Then I meet up with HBfriend and the realizations kicked in.

To make sure I mentioned this...I will mention it again...HBFriend is a chick I cold approached, day2ed, went to her house and got a kiss...I purposely befriended her after that because I wanted a text book lay. Now I hang with her to work on my vibe and get past my sticking points.

I advise all to cold approach a chick and purposely befriend so you can do what I do.

NOTE: Even though she is your friend she is still attracted...

Now back to the realizations...

We go around eating a lot so we eat and something big she pointed out. I come off as ingenuine/joking all the time so she never knew when I was real or fake. What was try and what as lies. I had to call a friend so she could believe me that my niickname was real. She couldn't believe anything and started mentioning Liar Liar. I then tell her I won't lie until midnight.

She asks me all sorts of questions...she is loving this.

Then the biggest realization...

Somehow we talk about mannerisms and I mention I love copying peoples mannerisms. She jokes about my lack of expression. For a flash second I showed her some...

SHE LOVED IT!!!!!

...then outside a second flash of expression an she went APE SH!T...She grabbed me and was shocking saying "Wow that was the real you as opposed too..." she imitates how I act which surprised me so much. I couldn't believe that is how I act...

She then pointed a point where I wanted to express myself but I held back...I then basically told her I guess she seen the real me so I might as well bring it out.

We then was playing around as she crossed the street. She was going all mental as I scared her and messed with her. I actually felt free from being so uptight and sort of anal.

I was smiling and expressing myself the whole train ride because I realized it was better to be like that and show that REAL side of me that is full of expression.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I've been Slacking

O my...

...Seems like I haven't been keeping this journal up to date...I have a lot of sh!t to post on this journal. SO many new things I've learned, can see, and have experienced...

I'll post it all tomorrow...all I can say right now is...
1. I have a day2 tomorrow
2. I had a rather interesting challenge today, in order to continue what turned out to be a glorious day.

I've been doing some real good sh!t, and I just fuking realized a chick in my school I was suppose to # close...is finished with my school. I'm an idiot I forgot about her. O well...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Wednesday Enounters

I had got out of school and went off to sarge...my eyes catch the chess players. A wing of mine who I haven't seen in ages spots me.

He's with his cousin and h wants me to show his cousin how it's done...My wing got blown out 20+ times today

NOTE: I'm going to try and be more depth because I'm starting to see more and more stuff going on and I'm doing crazier and crazier things.

Wing asks me to open this 2set...

2set Moving
- Both cute, I say "Hey you guys seem fun...my name is snowplowman."

(Now at this point of my process I can open REAL good if I put full effort. I also can see right off the start who's RAS is focused and not focused on me)

HBA is hooked, HBB is unsure. I engage HBB for a quick second this cases them to eye code each other confirming I'm cool. I find out they do ballet, live in NJ, there roommates. We vibe for about 5mins and I go for the #. I get it...

(On the surface it looked good but I had a feeling they'd flake because I can now see when I lost my windows of opportunities. Also if I think in set then I lose the set or atleast start to lose it.)

HBBlond
- This chick was standing on the corner I go direct. She lights up...I vibed for about 2mins...she is looking for her friends. I find out she's from North Carolina, I go for the kiss. She backs up but is real attracted and I felt a state booster. She giggles, and says that was real smooth how I approached her and then mentions a BF who is coming up to NYC to play.

Blowout1
- Chick comes out of cab wing tells me to approach...I don't want too cause she's too far...I chase her down, people traffic, I know she knows I'm coming...I open she doesn't even respond.

Moving 7set
- I open with "You guys going to the PARTAY" One chicks RAS is on me. Now what I do is probably one of the most bizzare things I've ever done. I tried to hook all the chicks in as quick as possible I manage to hook 4 out of 7.

(This was insane how I did it and how I could see it all while interacting )

I hit the decent chick first then my target, then the hot friend, then the 2nd hotest frind, then I stopped for 1sec and lost the set.

Basically the opener hooked the chick I first spoke too. Forget how but I hook my target and then hook the 3rd by asking her about my. Then as I joke about body guards and having stalkers I hook the 4th...BUT I stopped walking and my target then says bye...

HBRussian
- One of the hottest chicks I ever # closed. Surely a 9. She got out the train went on the phone I open direct and she cuts the phone call before it goes through. She's russian we vibe about food, travel NY, joke around a bit and I # closed. I kiss her on the cheek...

After this it's time to go home because I was going to meet up with HBfriend because I wanted to practice on freeing my personality...She had forgot to meet up with me because she went to go do classwork and calls m at 11 wanting to still hang...

Before going home I get a smoothie and seetwo chicks...

2set Line
- There looking at the funky flavored water bottles. I joke about the bottles but dragged on for to long. It still went a bit well so I keep it going and eject when I get my stuff

Lessons Learned:
- Be Totally unreactive
- Express your personality freely
- Be dominant and go for what you want
- Suck people into your reality
- Don't try and game
- Assume the best
- Always push for the escalation...# close and kisses
- Going for the kiss makes her more attracted even if you don't get it
- Women love you..go approach

 

[Snow Plowman]

Another...Adventure...

I had a few field reports to post but I'm too lazy it was about 30 sets, but I can't really remember any realizations or things learned.

This week is hell week and one of those weeks where it is impossible for me to go out and sarge...I got one homework and 4 scripts I need to memorize...

So no more sarging for this week...Luckily today though I got what I could get...

Three sets...

First Set
- Hbass, my acting mate seen her, I open direct...BUT I mess up badly...I go in my head and say a reaction seeking comment. She walks away as result...I say something and she stops but she leaves because she can tell I wouldn't her to stop.

Second Set
- Chick from Spain, I act like I know her...poor english, I keep going, we vibe a bit but she's leaving today and is with family. I verbally and non-verbally conveyed my intent

Third Set
- 2set, cute...I was with acting classmate...I open with an accent on some crap. I then start vibing, some how she ask me for recommendations on her report for acting. At this point her friend' RAS isn't focused on me...

...I noted this...I was correct when I heard her say "Just take this book, I don't know why you care about a stranger's opinion." My target is already into me so the friend doesn't matter...

...Eventually it comes out I go to acting school, she is studying fashion, and her friend is artist. This is where I say "Me and my boy are CIA operatives, you guys are our girlies in afghanistan...can you survive." I say the friend can because of her boots.

NOTE: Now I want to point out I'm working on doing things physical in nature. This stuff has helpped my escalating so much...of course creativity is a must.

I teach the chick a move by asking her if she knows any good moves. She does a knee to the nuts and I laugh saying all of them wear cups, which I show her a move which is the one hit kill...silly but wonderful.

Eventualy my 2nd classmate shows up and I say intro him and talk with him. We both tell two stories one that has to do with us shooting a film with a big fetish model and having them guess what happened...They said everything in the book, rub breast, get naked, sex, etc.

In the end she # closes me by asking me to teach her things. It's obvious it's chick logic because I told her my boy knows way moe about acting than me he's done theater for 2-3 years...I started fresh about 2 months now...

Overall, this is one of the few times I seen MASSIVE attraction. They were willing to hangout more, but I ejected after a big group hu with me and the two girls.

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Get Blown or Blown Out

School has offically taken over my life...I try to sarge whenever possible. Lately I've dropped my rules an boundaries...so that means I can lay the hb8...

She is a 9 with makeup on...very sexy and seductive. Now I really with RSD Instructor Ozzie...

"A pickup is messy" If you want the girl you have to proactively get her and don't think its BAM BAM...lay.

I realized this on this challenge...

Background
Hb8...just my type a 9 with makeup on. French, ooze female sexuality. One of those chicks that knows she is out...She was leaving my school on friday. So I had a deadline.

First Interaction
It was at a final presentation...I sat 2 seats from her. Spit off 2 comments and joking gave her this heart prop that I walk around with. It was dark...little did I know I gave her it hile she was crying.

Second Interaction
It was about a day after...I seen her at a play on line. I interacted with her and her friend. This went ok...friend was trying to cblock.

Third Interaction
It was on friday I had to go to a party and # close because it was my last time I'd ever see her. I go in a # close instantly. I want to fclose but she passes out 5mins later...I called saturday but no pickup.

Fourth Interaction
I randomly see her hug her...joke about her passing out and wanting to make out...I later see her in a room by herself...Vibing tim, while on the phone. This was real good, real good...

...I go in sexual state and get ready for the kiss...someone starts coming and she goes back on the computer. I realzied if she wanted to get out of our bubble she'd purposely go back to editing...

...I realized later that her nipples were perky and hard...This was so hot...I was kinoing massively...using a bit of shock and awe...

She starts showing me all these sexy pics...it was insane...but then she had to go to class...and I tried calling her but again nothing. I'm keeping that hope alive.

 

[j0n024]

LONG TIME NO SEE BUUUUUDY! Good luck man.....I think I stole some of your luck...lol but youll get it back soon, I am glad that you didnt stop your journal...

 

[Snow Plowman]

FR: Feel Good, Be Happy

It's back...and better than ever...remember those 2-3 days where it felt like I can open anything, I feel it coming again. I've come full circle.

I have to mention now I offer value to everyone. I interact with about 50 people a day now just being social.

Since I don't have much time to sarge, I just do very short interactions...sometimes I'l actually do an approach whenever I find time.

Thursday's are usually sarge days...but I had rehearsal and had to go to a play. I manage to get 4 decent interactions that might be worth mentioning.

HBDestiny
- I saw this chick walking down the street with her friend...I accuse her of texting...it opens and I mess with her a bit saying what's or dinner and I cheated on her for her best friend. She is headed to work, I let her go and I say "If we meet again then it's destiny and we might hook up again." I joke with my classmate saying what if I waited at her job entrance. magically we see her again and I just walk by saying "OMG it's destiny" and she gives me a sexy look...which I then realize she has a gorgeous face, but she's short...

HBCIA
- A chick I seen walking infront of me and my classmate...2 blocks later I say. "Wow, I seen you two blocks back are you following me, are you Cia." She hooks instantly and says maybe. We play with it a bit saying the gun is in her purse and how I'm going to call my helicopter and escape on the tip of the church's highest point. I let her go as usual but a block later she reopens me saying I'm following her now which I mention I am so I can find the CIA HQ...she gets to hr job and I say bye.

HBFood
- I was with classmate in bookstore, in cooking section. I see a chick and open..."What are you cooking tonight"...Vibe about food...I cretae tension through silence, I'm calm, I'm oozing masculine polarity. She is trying to stay with the convo and reengages me twice because one time I look at my food book, another time I talk to my classmate. She wants to know about me, I # close. I tell her I'm busy as sh!t...she mentions that I should have some free time...which my classmate confirms how intense it is. I mention a play that have to go see and my classmate pointed out that she expected me to invite her, I wasn't looking at hr at he time but I did feel that she wanted too.

Overall Kino was real good...I was inches from her face in less than 5mins...could've even kissed her but I didn't want my classmate seein such things happening so fast. She basically threw her # at me when I went for the #.

I know I'll lose her for being too busy...

Something I'm noticing is that my Masculinaty is raging now. I seen a chick I kind of know and just grabbed her and kissed her. The thins I do when I see chicks is insane, it's like I must approach now...

...but I try hard to resist when I'm wit classmates because I don't want them to be fully exposed to what I'm doing...