Snow's 2007/2008 Bootcamp Journal

[Microphone Fiend]

Damn, you got back in the field in a big way. Congrats. I read it all, I just commented on things that stuck out to me:

- Haha @ meeting a dude who sarges while you were sarging. The community is getting bigger and bigger. On the bus the other day I overheard these high school kids talking about being PUA and their friend joining a lair


- HBMarried: Why did you bring up age 1st? Obviouisly she is older but if you are attracted who cares right? Maybe to disarm the topic early? If I bring it up, it is to subtlely neg her for being older if she gets uppity or acts like she is too mature for me. As for her. Man I think you got gamed. She made you feel a connection and like you were really opening yourself up to her, and you felt like you made progress you haven't made in a really long time. Hahaha

Ask yourself what was it about her that made you connect and work on recreating that with future targets....
Actually I think that what made her so attractive to you was that she identified with your frame and came into it and made it her own frame. IOW, she meet with you on common grounds and then started leading and you had to get with her on common grounds. Therein lies something you can implement in your game imo. Currently, you open with this larger than life frame but from the descriptions there is no real attempt @ rapport that I've read and you said yourself that you need to listen more while you are in sets. My game strategy does differs from yours, so take this with a grain of salt, but I would be focusing a bit more on rapport. You are getting the attraction with the confidence and C&F (mostly F) but you don't take things to the next level or shift your gameplan once the Attraction is there. The sets I think you did the best in are the ones you had the most rapport or found the most out about the women (HBMarried, HBIsraeli)


-Im digging the time distortion, I see it is a recurring part of your game, good stuff. Im gonna try and implement it in mines as well. Taking the chicks on a journey to Italy and Hawaii where you go surfing together, some easy but effective NLP, niceness.


-What is up with this multiple # close attempts on one chick? Lol. I guess you want to stay in there and be successful, but really I try twice max and then move on. Pride is overrated but talking to the same chick to get her # 5x is a waste of time imo.

-You explained to New Guy how he tried to get the number by explaining logically why she should give it with the Israeli chick I think, but you kind of did the same thing when the hot hot hot chick that said to him 'give me your # instead'. You tried to validate him as a person by telling her all of his good traits or things he has done in the past. If I'm Brad Pitt, I don't need someone to tell the girls that I'm Brad Pitt, the chicks that don't know simply miss out...

- There is nothing wrong with being the life of the party, but don't become the high-five guy like on Scrubs, or the generic PUA doing spins 24/7: make sure you aren't being a tool.


Good stuff and nice to see you out there having fun.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Damn, you got back in the field in a big way. Congrats. I read it all, I just commented on things that stuck out to me:

- Haha @ meeting a dude who sarges while you were sarging. The community is getting bigger and bigger. On the bus the other day I overheard these high school kids talking about being PUA and their friend joining a lair

lol, yea this was real funny how it happened.

- HBMarried: Why did you bring up age 1st? Obviouisly she is older but if you are attracted who cares right? Maybe to disarm the topic early? If I bring it up, it is to subtlely neg her for being older if she gets uppity or acts like she is too mature for me. As for her. Man I think you got gamed. She made you feel a connection and like you were really opening yourself up to her, and you felt like you made progress you haven't made in a really long time. Hahaha

Can't remember what we were talking about that made me ask. I didn't care about her age and I didn't care if she knew my age. To me it was on. In a way you could say she gamed me because after a few mins she was just wanting to know more and more about me. I was steering it where I wanted to go though. For instance she wanted to know about my past and I didn't want to go into all the negativity so I cut that thread and moved in a positive way.

Ask yourself what was it about her that made you connect and work on recreating that with future targets....
Actually I think that what made her so attractive to you was that she identified with your frame and came into it and made it her own frame. IOW, she meet with you on common grounds and then started leading and you had to get with her on common grounds. Therein lies something you can implement in your game imo.

Well the way I went in was pretty playful like she could tell I'm very social/confident because she mentioned it later on. Majority of chicks get sucked into my frame because it's more of my presence that draws people. When I told her my idol was Eckhart Tolle, that is what opened this set up because we found a commonality. I remember joking saying "Ok are you in the NOw right now?" and she's like "Yes, I'm totally present". After this that is when I cut majority of the playfulness and really started talking about different topics. At first she thought all this was some big joke, especially when she found out I'm going to go to school for acting.

Currently, you open with this larger than life frame but from the descriptions there is no real attempt @ rapport that I've read and you said yourself that you need to listen more while you are in sets. My game strategy does differs from yours, so take this with a grain of salt, but I would be focusing a bit more on rapport. You are getting the attraction with the confidence and C&F (mostly F) but you don't take things to the next level or shift your gameplan once the Attraction is there. The sets I think you did the best in are the ones you had the most rapport or found the most out about the women (HBMarried, HBIsraeli)

Very true, chicks do get sucked into it, but this month I wasn't really focused on that stuff, I just wanted to open sets in all sorts of situations for this month. But I ended up meeting up with these guys and I just sort of test things out and run with it. Lately I haven't done much rapport even though I usually mix everything because that's just how I vibe, but I never really push for long sets because I want to watch the other two guys and I also want to wing because this is my first time ever winging.

I should be doing more rapport, the chicks are already attracted which is why all I've been doing lately is just escalating and escalating and then just go for the # for the sake of just asking in every set and plowing. I don't really think the #s I get will be solid even though I lost a few in the phone because I don't know who is who, but I did find one # that was right but who knows whether it flakes or not.

Something I also noticed is I didn't qualify this chick hardcore because it's obvious I had SUPER HIGH VALUE, just from the way she was acting, like when it came down to it she doesn't even know WHY I would talk to her out of the many other chicks walking around, because she was genuinely impressed at how an 18 year old could be so grounded and have such passion to live life to the fullest.

-Im digging the time distortion, I see it is a recurring part of your game, good stuff. Im gonna try and implement it in mines as well. Taking the chicks on a journey to Italy and Hawaii where you go surfing together, some easy but effective NLP, niceness.

lol, never knew there was some NLP in that. (Don't know much about it) I just remember the actual technique and it's internalized into who I am so I tend to come up with some crazy stuff, which always turns out funny. The chicks can tell I'm just saying that stuff to crack myself up which is why it flys, I've forced it once and seen it TANK hard, chicks were ice cold and blew me out.

-What is up with this multiple # close attempts on one chick? Lol. I guess you want to stay in there and be successful, but really I try twice max and then move on. Pride is overrated but talking to the same chick to get her # 5x is a waste of time imo.

Plowing, to me if a chick is still standing in set she is attracted. I always assume this and that is why I always escalate even if I don't get IOIs...heck I don't even look for IOIs anymore, her just standing there and not walking away is an IOI. So when she says know I just keep talking and try a different way. What I noticed the other 2 guys I'm with plows a lot too, so sometimes when we eject we tell each other to go back in and try again. It's been a great learning experience.

-You explained to New Guy how he tried to get the number by explaining logically why she should give it with the Israeli chick I think, but you kind of did the same thing when the hot hot hot chick that said to him 'give me your # instead'. You tried to validate him as a person by telling her all of his good traits or things he has done in the past. If I'm Brad Pitt, I don't need someone to tell the girls that I'm Brad Pitt, the chicks that don't know simply miss out...

His tonality is what was making him sound needy and like a persuader. Yea because when winging I notice you could brag and it wouldn't even matter. We've been doing that a lot with each other. In a way it could come off like that in that particular situation because this was DO or Die get Blown or Blown out. I wanted him to get this set because it was clearly on, and he was able to move her from where she was to another area. Something went wrong somewhere, I'm not 100% sure where.

- There is nothing wrong with being the life of the party, but don't become the high-five guy like on Scrubs, or the generic PUA doing spins 24/7: make sure you aren't being a tool.


Good stuff and nice to see you out there having fun.

lol, I'm assuming your talking about when I'm in virgin music store. Yea that stuff it's pure just me fuking around with the world. I wasn't actually trying to meet those chicks, but I tend to do it and just open.

Today has started to make me think about actually doing longer sets just to make it solid, but I still want to focus on just opening in all sorts of ways and trying out sh!t because I never thoroughly went threw everything which is why I'm going real slow, doing things month by month.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Third Day of Chaos

Today I wasn't too into it for obvious reasons but I still made the best of it...

Summa: This guy has a very upbeat vibe, you could tell he's done some night game. He also handles amogs pretty well even though it was a bit miscalibrated going in, nonetheless he handles them well. Me and him were winging a bit.

"Only 10s": That is the new guy's name, you can guess why...because he only wants to open 10s. Me and Summa is cracking up because some HOT chicks he is talking to and doesn't even consider them 10s, lol. So I wonder what his actually 10s look like. He might be able to get me a fake ID...so that should be real cool. He will open 10s anywhere which is why we named him "Only 10s".

Going into Manhattan sucked, because I had to take a different train and then find out how to get to the meet up spot from this train since it doesn't go to where I want to go. I was really out of it at this point and just sat and watched some guy talking to 3 chicks, I think he # closed. After I get off the train and don't even feel like talking but I just push through it. If I start talking I'll change my whole mood. So thats what I do...

I opened up a few sets asking for directions, joking around and saying there live city maps. Basic small talk just to get me back into that mood. I ring "Only 10s" up and he tells me the street...it's about 6-7 LONG blocks...did I mention it's cold. Get there and we meet up, I'm still kind of out of it.

Summa opens a set I kind of go in but I don't really say much so I just let Summa and O10s chat them up, the girls are young. They are headed to go eat so were walking and O10s see's a hot hot Irish chick with a UG.

I didn't realize how hot she was until later, she looked like she wanted some ****. She was smiling the whole time, her legs were looking great.


HbIrish
- O10 is talking to the hbIrish while me and Summa occupy the UG. Summa asks her if there are any black guys in Ireland which she says yes and how one of her family members is black. She asks me what do I do I tell her I'm going to acting school and tell her we can make videos together which I Claw her. At this point Summa brags about me lol saying all the women swoon for me and not for him, all so she could be more attracted to me...hahaha...now I have this UG attracted to me, o well I attract women in general. So at one point O10 talks to UG and Summa talks to HbIrish and I talk to her for a bit too, find out she's been to Afghanistan and she does work in middle east. She is leaving tomorrow. There was a bit of tension between her and Summa. Eventually we leave but before leaving the UG goes to me "If you ever become a big time actor and you meet pink tell her you met an irish girl in front of the bank, because I love pink." I say ok and give her a hug.

At this point I realized one of them could've pulled because she looked like she wanted company tonight for her last night, but it was 3 of us and O10 wasn't going to go by himself...somebody would've had to take the fatty. But then they didn't bother because they were going to do night game anyway...also O10 said she wasn't hot lol, me and Summa was cracking up...which started the name "Only 10s".

He then opened another hot chick which lasted about 10mins, me and Summa were freezing. I can't remember if O10 # closed, but he said he didn't think she was hot either lol, and that she was a bit too innocent but of course they are always the naughty ones.

We eat and talk, Summa tells us about his lay and shows us some text messages. It was fun, also some lady was sitting there watching me and also had a black doll. O10 told me I should say some stuff to her because he knows I'd come up with something to crack myself up. But I didn't due to her being with her kids and elderly. So I didn't bother.

I also had found out which chicks it was that I # closed or atleast thought. I called the 3 #s that my brother didn't recognize (I'm using his phone until I get a new one) so first one picks up and I ask if we met at B&N it's not her I say bye. I call the other 2 one picks up but I can't hear nothing so I just hang up. I ended up calling later and getting the answer machine which I left a message. The other # I didn't call again because at first I didn't know for sure if it was her.

We leave to walk to time square and it's almost time for them to leave. They open some sets, then Summa opens a nice asian chick who speaks very little english, he ejects and then...

O10 uses his famous words "Hey you come here" he is so congruent to it that they always stop and make a face. Me and Summa is cracking up because it always works when he does that. He talks to her for a bit.

I then open a asian chick and she looks like I'm about to rob her, she's trying to find a way to get passed me, we crack up. Another chick I was going to open who looked hot from the back but not the front. O10 said she was looking at me and checking out my ass...mmm.

As we walk in time square which is packed summa tries to stop some sets but it's packed and hard to stop because you have to move them out of the traffic quick. I walk through a crowd and just open a group

Big Set
- I open what I thought was a 3 set, forget with what but it's open and on. Summa is in there too talking to the 2 other girls, and I talk to the cutie. I'm kinoing, Claw, etc. I like her. We realize that this set is huge everyone in front of us is with them and they are on some Christian trip or something. I say "Her a christian? She's such a bad girl" she's loving it, me and Summa cold read a bit and it's going great but light turns green there group is walking and we let them go...one chick with them comes out of no where saying "My jaw dropped...when I seen you two" lol

We head to virgin store big store no girls, O10 opened two sets, one which a guy interrupted so I go to wing.

Winging in Virgin music store
- I go in saying what's sup to O10 and introduce myself the guy is scared and nervous. He is thinking about how to get out of this and panics saying "ahhh we like ahh have to go you know..." and eventually pulls her away

They have to leave so I'm going to sarge by myself for a bit, but we walk and see a black guy who was trying to get these 2 chicks to go to a comedy club that he was promoting. I didn't notice and I don't think Summa noticed he was working, we thought he was gaming.

Winging AMOG 1
- I open the guy who starts going to the girls "Do you know these guys?" he is trying to talk to Summa but he is ignoring him and saying "cool". I'm chatting to hb#2. I realize the guy had hb#2 hooked on this Comedy club stuff, but I just keep talking to her, which was HARD after awhile. I find out she's from south africa, I hi five her, Claw her...I have her clawed for the whole set. She says she is going partying, I keep cycling and saying the same thing "Were going to partay" every time the guy gets back her attention. Then I say "O look lion King!!" We should go. I then try to pull her to the side so the guy stands there by himself, but I only could move her a bit. She is starting to pay more attention to the guy. No worries...eventually they leave to go to there hotel. Hb#2 tells me to meet her at some club...but I can't get in o well.

Me and Summa are cracking up a bit but then I realize he was working. We see another mixed set with a guy who looks gay but I doubt is gay. He was with the group but Summa thought he was gaming the chicks. So he goes in

Winging Amog 2
- Summa opens and ignores the guy as the guy says "You interuppted my story" he is a bit mad and starts trying to talk to Summa, I come in and occupy the guy and he says "Do you know him?" I say yes, he starts talking I ignore and talk to the girl he was talking too. He tries to but in and says where am I from I say "Time square" and Summa says "Around the corner" lol. I ask her where she is from and then 2 more chicks come in who Guy talks to, I realize one is hot soo...I go to her and hi five her and Claw her. I vibe a bit and then marry her and call O10 in and he says "Yea he only dates models" I laugh and tell her yea so if I find my model I'll have to cheat. She's all cuddling and tippy toeing to get height of a model. She loves the marriage stuff, and I notice guy is just standing there like he just lost his friends so he thinks of a smart move. Get them the **** out of there lmao which I walk with my girl and say to Summa's girls "Hey guys me and her are getting married". Guy then drags them away and says as he pulls them away "That's my wife ha ha ha" which I ignore him and say "bye bye mi love" to the girl which she blows a kiss and I blow one back and wave lol.

Me and Summa are cracking up and O10 points out that he wasn't some player guy, he was there actual friend. At this point the black guy who was working comes and starts cursing and is fuming saying "Why the **** we talked to them" Summa break rapport with him and he is just standing there pissed and walks off. O10 goes and talks to him, I do remember O10 saying "You just need more Game" and the guy was explaining to O10 that he was trying to get them to go to the comedy club and that he was working not trying to talk to them for talking sake.

Then I in the subway and completely forgot that I would open a bit more sets...I assumed there would be people on the train...I was wrong. I fall asleep and on the bus home I call up the chick who I did Apoc on and get the machine...Will call tomorrow and see what happens. Wasn't going to go out on a Sunday but this is addicting so I'm going.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Fourth Day of Chaos PT1

I usually NEVER go out on a Sunday, but I had so much fun hanging with these guys so I came out today. Also "Only 10s" wing came out who we call "Gavin". Sets were really scarce but we tried to make the best of it.

Summa: Winged with him in many sets, he also winged in a set that I opened. As usual it's always fun winging with him. We sometimes mess up the seating arrangements when starting out together but after the first 3 winged sets we basically were going in and splitting the sets.

Only 10s: As usual opening some hotties, I'm not sure if anything stuck, but I do know while me and Gavin were talking he opened a group that was attracted and wanted to meet his friends (us) but he ejected and later they walked by looking for him, but I didn't say nothing. He also opened another seated set that seemed like it was on but he she didn't give the #

Gavin: Met him today, he looks real alpha and smooth. He just started at this a month ago, he knew about it for awhile but had a GF. He had opened a few sets here and there but really wanted to watch us. Me and him were vibing a lot...cool guy.

I had a headache but, I didn't want to ***** out. Summa was on a day2, "Only 10s" didn't get onto the train until I was in grand central. It was a bit dead, I opened a few sets but nothing to serious, I just didn't want to get in my head and just sit around. I took a walk around the area but nothing much.

When I head back to grand central it starts to pickup a bit and O10 and Gavin comes in. Meet and Greet, I open a set...(I think O10 opened something too)

The Forgotten Set
- All I remember is asking her places to eat, I think it was a single set or 2set, unsure.

There hungry so we go downstairs to eat...O10 is already opening sets. I'm just talking with Gavin, O10 comes and sits with us and gets some food. Then he opens another set. Were just vibing and then Summa calls O10. I think I seen a set and I see Summa but end up opening a set. (That was a bit ****ed up now that I think about it)

Train Girl
- I think I said "Where is our train of destiny taking us" She says she's going up state, I said something retarded can't remember and just eject because she's about to get on the train (O10 said he had hoped on a train earlier to open a set lol, it should've closed the door)

All four of us are chatting and me and Summa go to open some sets...it's looking scarce and nothing worth really talking to, but for the sake of being social and getting the experience we go in sets anyway.

Ukraine Vs Russia
- This set was funny, Summa opens and I come in, we take a seat. They are ice cold. Summa says something about them being Russian when there from Ukraine, and they are ICE cold, but Summa is still positive and plowing. I start talking a bit too. The older lady is LOCKED THE **** UP. Her face looked like we were Russian Soldiers and she was going to kill us. All she did was eye code the other chick who as a result never really opened up either. We walk off after and laugh about it.

Head right around the corner and open another seated set

Seated 2set
- Summa opens and I come in with "Are these guys fun? Are they treating you well?" Were talking it's going ok. I forgot most of the conversation but when we go to sit the say they have to catch there train and they leave. We later realized that we should've kept talking while going to sit instead of just grabbing the seats and actually verbalizing that we were going to sit. O well.

As we walk back to sit with O10 (Gavin was upstairs opening sets, which he said they would walk off after the opener) Summa goes into a set which has one girl. So I sit and talk to O10, until I notice Summa is signaling me to come in. It's cool because I treat all chicks equal now, I have just as much fun talking to UGs as I do Hot chicks. Also Summa made the mistake of giving me his chair and getting a new one for himself, so it ended up me sitting next to his target and him next to the UG.

One Set, UG interrupt
- Summa introduces me, I say hello. They tell me there from Upstate NY and I tease them saying there probably from the country and the hotty has a pony. Can't remember much but were vibing with this chicks, it's going real well, but the seating arrangements are ****ed up. I ended up talking to Summa's target more than I should have just because the way we were seated. I can't remember anything now that I think about it but I do know they enjoyed the interaction.

Note: I had analyzed my approaches from last time, and realized that I might already have high value just off of who I am, because I'm starting to notice that chicks see me as high value...So I decided maybe I should just screen and qualify chicks...which is what I started doing and I must say I've got WAY much better results. More Kino, More vibing, more...Attraction?

2set German
- Summa at it again and calls me over. The chick isn't hot but for the experience. (Which I'm glad I came in) I say high to them, talk for a minute and then we split the set. Can't remember much of the start but the chick had said "Summa just came up and started talking to them" I ignore that and just go on my own conversational thread. She then says something about seeing one of us talking to another chick or pointing out that O10 or Gavin was talking to chicks. I once again ignore it and Plow. Eventually I'm telling her to take me to germany and then start push/pull. Telling her she will sleep on the floor. She's sad so I promote to the bottom of the bed. I ask if she can cook and tell her if she likes seafood. She doesn't so I back turn her, tell her I'm going to cheat on her. She laughs and points at some random girls saying if I'm going to cheat on her with them. I say yes and tell her I'll sleep on her bed with them and she can cook the fish.

She's loving this because it's going back and forth, one minute I was the gentlemen, then the jerk, then saying I'd get back with her, and quickly cheating, then pushing her away, but really just love giving her an emotional rollercoaster which is my way of showing love. The whole time were kinoing, hugging, hi fives, Claws, the usual.

After talking about cheating, I tell her she can fish and cook fish for me, I then tell her as a reward we can eat by the lake. Which she loved but also laughed at the fact that she has to do all the work. We also somehow talked about massages which I asked if she has good massages and she said yes, which I told her to show me but her hands were full...Eventually I tell her I'd end up pushing her in the lake, but I'd end up saving her. She then asks why I'd save her, which I respond and act out the whole thing, stating that I'd do it but out of love and just emotional impulse I'd have to jump in there and save her.

Eventually she asks me how me and Summa met since he isn't from NY which I basically expand on our "Meeting In Prison" story. I basically act out and say that me and him were walking right where we were standing and I bumped into him (I bumped her) and then I realized I knew him from somewhere, at the same time an undercover cop tackled him so I helped him and we got arrested. At this point Summa hears it and we joke about this for a bit. I tell her I was joking and that his parents live here and thats how we met. (Very Vague) Around this time we ejected.

It's funny how the stories of how we met or knew each other was constantly changing...first we were a gay couple and then we met in grand central and got thrown in prison and survived only because we had each other lol.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Fourth Day of Chaos PT2

After this I talk to Gavin for a bit and while talking Summa goes in a set which later a guy shows up...(I realized I love winging) Again we made kind of messed up because of the way we were positioned Summa was closer to the guy and I was closer to the girl...so naturally Summa ended up chatting the GUY while I talked to the girl. He said it was on before the guy came and how she didn't want to give her #, which we assume was because she had a BF.

One Set, Interrupt BF
- I notice the guy and I go in. I introduce myself and say "So how do you guys all know each other". They were co-workers and now bf/gf, great. As stated the positions naturally caused it to be me talking to the girl and Summa talking to the guy.

Chick is from Wisconsin so I crack on her. I jokingly ask her if she rode a bike here or walked. I bust on her saying she's no real New Yorker because she's been here for a year. I then start screening her to see if she is a real New Yorker. I started saying something about knowing all the little alleys and ways throughout the city to be a real new yorker, then start talking about having to know the whole Sewer system. (WTF? lol, I say some random stuff and use my imgination) She says no she can't go down there, which I then show her how to walk down in the sewer system and I say I'd push her lol.

We start talking about food, because I love food, she can't cook, so I tell her I don't like her no more. I tell her I'd teach her to cook seafood and she talks about how she can't boil a live lobster because she doesn't want to hear the sounds. I'm hi fiving and Clawing this chick, not sure if the BF realized any of this. Then she asks me what I'm doing...I tell her acting school. (It's funny because before all this Summa was talking about clubs and us going to the clubs and then all of a sudden I'm talking about JUST starting school which basically means I can't get into clubs lol) She starts telling me about how she did animation and editing and I cut the BS and tell her to follow her passion. I ask her what she's doing now...customer service which she hates the company she's working for. So I tell her quit and bust in the place asking for a Editor job.

I ask her how does she sound when she picks up the phone, which she says she acts SUPER Nice, and I make her act it out, I ask her what is a typical question, which she tells me she does customer service for a jewelry place so I say "Hello I have 5million diamonds" which she laughs and says "I'll transfer you to security" I then say "Will split it 50/50 and meet in grand central, I'll be waving like *This*" After Summa was ejecting so right at the end I pull the chick in real close and whisper in her air, don't forget the 5million diamonds.

After this was talking to Gavin a bit more, Summa was on the phone and O10 was looking for sets or opening sets not sure. I see a asian chick who is cute.

Plow It!!
- I opened saying she was cute, the set didn't look like it would hook she was really standoffish. In a breaking rapport tone I tell her "O **** your shy" which she laughs and it opens (Was a nice turn around) she says she's tired and just small talk a bit and ask her what she does...Hair Stylist. I tell her to do my hair for me. Were walking too much so i just eject

Right after this I notice a chick looking at the train schedule I was about to open but she moved so then I moved and opened at a different spot saying...

Blowout?
- "Where are we headed?" out of NO WHERE a chick comes up and grabs the chick away and leaves before I can even say Where. Also what was funny was Gavin was coming in to wing, I guess he seen the chick coming way before I even went to open. I just stood there shocked at how quick all that went down. It wasn't no faster than 2 seconds that the set disappeared and Gavin was stepping in to wing.

For some reason I feel like trying to open mixed sets, so I try it...

Mixed Set 1
- I open asking them where is some good places to eat around here. The chick is attracted and I'm already teasing her...and hi fiving her. She recommended a seafood place which I gave her cool points for giving me a place that mainly was seafood. I hang in there for a bit asking them where there from...they just moved to westchester together. Vibe abit about them leaving the city and I eject... (Mixed sets aren't scary at all, then again I never feel AA anymore...I just thought opening a mixed set would be harder than all the others, despite all the other mixed sets I've been in)

Mixed Set 2
- The chick was hot so I just wanted to open and see what would happen. Nothing much really happened in here. I said something about time square and talked for about a min or two.

While on the train headed to Union Square (It was running and wasn't much of anything) we seen a big set who was leaving so I just said "No don't leave me" to a few chicks and they were just giggling. We then realize were headed the wrong way and we all jump out of the train which a chick is cracking up. I just say some BS about us escaping and we made it, she saved our lives (How I have no idea) I thought they were talking to these chicks because O10 was talking to the chick I was talking too and there were clearly more chicks with her who I didn't turn around to look at. So I was walking quietly until I realized it was quiet and all you heard was high heels so I commented on it being music or some BS.

At B&N, they hit up some sets I only see one set as this place is DEAD...

2set, possible Lesbians
- They are sitting on the floor looking at books, I stand in that section and find a fishing book and just say..."Are you guys good fishers? I'm looking for a new fishing team...have you watched that BASS championship on ESPN" I plow that ****. I start talking about her fishing experience and then go into a story about when I went fishing. Finally the set opens up and I start cold reading a bit. I ask them if they can swim and how I'd push them overboard and then save them. At this time Summa is coming in and I introduce him to them saying how there bad girls and how they said they would push me overboard and wouldn't save me. I also said the other chick wouldn't give me CPR.

We start talking about bars/clubs, there age as they said they were pretty old and were joking around about ages. The chick is saying she is the chicks mother but they look the same age. I ask how did they meet they say a sex club, me and Summa goes into our fetish club experience and how we go to swingers clubs that only has 60+ women. She says she is 45 so we bust on her saying she needs a few more years to get with us and how they can't handle our energy. (She clearly wasn't no 45) We vibed for a bit more and at the time I had cut some space and got real close to one of the chicks.l She showed us two pictures from a book while we were there one was with an animal on the table and another that had guys in those go-go dancer thong pants. Eventually they leave as the place is closing.

Summa was saying how he wanted to sit between them so he could work the set better, overall it was pretty good, he also pointed out they were lesbians as he told me they were calling each other honey.

Overall even though it wasn't much sets we did the best we could with what was there.

Things I learned...
- LISTEN MORE!!!!! I swear I don't remember names for nothing
- Go Straight Qualifying...I'll calibrate it but most of the times I already come off as high value and have them attracted. I think this has to do with following all that RSD Identity stuff and actually internalizing a Identity that I actually wanted to convey to the world.
- If I don't hook initially I should just keep plowing and try different ways to hook because eventually it will hook and since I tend to be unaffected by anything that goes on, they will have to either walk away or stay
- Close on high notes, many of my previous # attempts weren't on high notes and also the sets I were in were pretty short.
- Share more stories to kill time and just overall vibe

 

[Snow Plowman]

Fifth Day of Chaos PT1

Today was a great eye opening as to what is possible as far as transformations go. I got to see someone who was fresh into all this all the way to a guy who is pretty good.

I didn't do as many approaches as usual, I was watching and learning a lot more from the other guys.

The Lineup
Summa: He came much later but had some good sets. At the end of the night he basically was bouncing a chick as I was about to go meet my brother for his Bday. I'm glad I let him go into that set.

UpsetMidget: He is REAL new just started I think friday. Pretty young...but I couldn't tell. I'm assuming he has a bit of AA, he opened some sets, didn't get to hang with him as much as I wanted and he had to leave early to get back home, because of school.

HazePua: Another cool guy I just met, he # closed a real nice looking chick. He says he has AA when starting off but from the sets I've seen him in it seems like the vibe is pretty good. I winged with him a bit.

Saad: Everyone knows he is an RSD intern, Haze bumped into him, I met him we talked for a bit. I was kind of going in and out of sets so didn't really talk much with him. He did see me open a set and he commented a bit about it. Eventually we parted ways.

Basically I get to Union Square, and meet up with UpsetMidget, we talk for a bit and decide to head to forever 21. Right after talking for a bit I open a chick who I realize is with a guy.

Mixed Set
- I open the chick saying "Hey do you know any good places to eat around here." This didn't last that long, I introduce upsetmidget to them, after a bit I eject.

We keep on walking upsetmidget what's to watch for awhile, as I find out he just started Friday. As we walk I see this real nice looking chick.

Real Estate Girl
- I tell her she's cute and I wanted to meet her. I introduce myself, find out she's headed to work and does real estate. So I joke about me buying the whole of Union Square and how she'll be my agent and broker. I play with that for a bit. Talk a little bit more and try to go for the # close. She's engaged...

We head into Forever 21, it's really not my environment at all, but I have to do it no matter what. So I just do it...

2set
- I open them saying there my new fashion consultant and having them analyze my style which they say it's good and no need to change. I start hi fiving and hugging them. I'm not 100% sure what we talked about after, but I introduce Upsetmidget to them (I think this is his first time winging) I talk for a little bit more and then they leave.

3set
- I think I opened saying there my new fashion consultant just like the last set. Do a pose and then just vibed a bit. Some how I end up saying I thought they were high school chicks and saying what high school they go too. Which they jokingly say forever 21. I then reply saying "Yea I've hooked up with about 3 of the teachers here." We start talking about shopping sprees and other stuff. Eventually I just eject. (I honestly don't know why)

After this HazePua Calls up and I meet him out front. We all meet and greet. After a bit I open a chick standing outside

HbEngaged
- I go in direct telling her she's cute, she tells me she is married. I'm not sure what happened her but I do know I was hi fiving and clawing her. I was telling her we'd flee and live in pakistan although, I'm not sure if we'd survive. I ask her if she knows any kung fu because we will need to know how to fight. I go a bit deep into that stuff for a bit. Were having fun with it. She had told me earlier that she was waiting for her sister who soon arrives and I bring her into the fun. I tell her were leaving for pakistan and she can join us. Eventually I'm hugging both of them and talking a bit more. They tell me there meeting the husband's cousin at the corner who I then tell them we should head the other way and get away from him...I then say goodbye to them.

We head to Virgin music store...it's pretty dead. HazePua # closes a chick. (I'm not sure if this was the HOT chick) HazePua had some pretty good sets here. I did see Upsetmidget in a set or two but then kind of lost track of where he was. I had also opened a set...

Hbbarcelona
- I think I commented on the books she was looking at and then told her we could ride on this motorcycle together which she said she didn't like the motorcycle. I backturn her and vibe for a bit. Found out she's from Barcelona, she's leaving in 3 days. Talk a bit more and then eject.

We then head to Barnes and Nobles and while walking...

HbFurry Boots
- I think I commented on her boots, but I opened her when she was real close so it took her to long to realize I was talking to her and she was a bit away from me. I got her to stop but I didn't keep talking to reel her back towards me so she stopped and walked off.

At Barnes and Nobles we end up meeting Saad and two other guys who left a few mins after. We talked for a bit, I had walked off to open a set...

HbMakeup Artist
- I ask her if she could cook because I need a new 5 star chef to cook for me. We talk about seafood for a bit. I ask her what's she doing today...at this point I sit with her. She is meeting a friend, she talks about how she's a makeup artist and her friend is a photographer who is going to be doing a photoshoot. At this point I'm thinking this would be a good chick to know. I vibe for a bit more and just tried for the # it was no go. Plowed a bit, but still no go. So I ejected.

I go back to the guys were talking a bit more. Saad says were all chode crystaling lol. The next floor Saad opens a set. I didn't really see but I do know it opened. I didn't hear anything he said but just his sub-communication you can tell he is pretty good. Heck I could've felt it when I first met him, it's similar to when I see Summa vibing with chicks, except Summa and Saad have two different types of vibes. Summa is more playful, fun, postitivity type of vibe. Saad it looked like a real laid-back, confident, masculine type of vibe. Real Real Chill.

While Saad is in set I open another chick

Blownout
- I think I asked her something about looking for a 5 star chef. (I realize I say this a lot, but I actually do LOVE food so I tend to always bring food up) This went on for awhile but it never really hooked. I didn't like the chick, but it was the only chick around that was decent enough, so I just tried to keep it going, but nothing happened.

After me and Saad talks a bit, he's trying to get into my head to see where I'm coming from. I had told him about the HbMakeup set. I had also went into another set which Saad had actually seen.

Hbboring
- I go in direct saying I think she's cute, I introduce myself, she has food in her mouth so I tease her for having her mouth STUFFED. I'm not sure what I said after but after I just claw her in. I ask her what she does for fun, and she does NOTHING. This chick was BORING, so about a minute later I just eject.

Saad had pointed out my body language and recommended I learn alexander technique. He also pinpointed something about me constantly talking and talking in a way that I'm trying to keep the conversation going and never really making the chick add anything to the conversation.

When I think about it though, Majority of my sets that went real good was because I made the chick invest into the conversation instead of me just talking and talking and constantly talking as a way to keep the interaction going. So it's like if I stopped talking I was expecting her to just leave.

It reminds me of when I first started doing all this back in high school and TD was telling me to chill and stop being the talky talky guy. (Plowing and Talky talky is two different things) When I did it I do remember a chick being super horny.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Fifth Day of Chaos PT2

I started tweaking a bit and seeing improved results in the sets while very subtle it was still drastic at the same time.

Not too many sets, everyone gets split up, Summa is about to meet up with us. Eventually we all find each other again, Saad goes into a set, Summa shows up I introduce him to upsetmidget who was going around opening sets. I also pointed out Haze (He had # closed another chick at some point in B&N) who was in set and Saad who was in set. Me and him walked to go find a set to open, but there wasn't anything.

At this point Summa opened a one set, Haze met up with me, Upset met up with me and told me that Saad was looking for us and he left. Upset had to head back to NJ, so he left eventually. Summa goes in another set, haze is hungry, so we wait for Summa, eventually he ejects after trying for the # a few times. Summa stays a B&N while we go get something to eat.

While sitting down and eating Haze opens the set sitting next to us.

Winging while eating
- Haze points out that there eating something and then tells them this is my first time trying a sauce you eat with sushi. (Don't know how to spell it) We joke around a bit with them Haze mentions Iron chef and I tell them we could do a tag team, me and Haze Vs Them two. They comment about it and haze says we'd surely win.

Meanwhile he had pointed out a set across from us with these two hot chicks...little did I know...I opened her at B&N it was hbmakeup artist and her photographer friend.

Winging HbMakeup artist
- It's funny because Haze introduces me to them and she says "I know you, we met in B&N and we were talking about food. I'm the makeup artist." I then remembered and chuckled, I then went and talked to the photographer about photography. Summa had called me and Haze had signaled for us to eject...good thing...because...

While talking to Summa later on in the night about the makeup artist chick, he realized that he opened her too. It was like..."O I met a makeup artist too, was she wearing a red jacket, blond, yea thats her" and I'm cracking up saying I we were talking to them while I was on the phone with him and if he had came up there and got introduced it would've been funny.

While outside Haze opens a chick who he finds out is underage, Summa opened a chick but was a blowout. I open a chick...

HBmama
- I open direct, she is waiting to meet up with her mother. This didn't last that long but it was the first time I actually started implementing the conversational stuff that Saad was talking about.

After we head to virgin music store...it's dead but we work with what is there. Haze and Summa open sets, I open this latin chick and Blown out horribly. Probably the worst blow out yet...

Hblatina
- "Your cute, I'm distant light"..."I'm distant light" she responds "Yea, ok, I heard, I'm busy", I crack up and just walk off. I should've never repeated myself and should've just plowed like I usually do when I open a chick who is locked up.

While Summa is in set me and Haze head outside where there is a GORGEOUS chick standing on the corner. This guy is trying to sell me and Haze his music and dvd. I'm thinking about opening, so I open and also try to apply the stuff Saad was talking about.

Hbsexy
- I open direct and tell her she's cute and I had to meet her...what's different is I'm not even trying to talk, talk, talk. I look at her and she's giggling. (This was pure sub-communication) I was talking about the most mundane things but just focusing on the sub-communication part and making it a two way conversation...then the ****ing phone rings. I pick it up it's some dumb chick calling me asking if I'm with my brother. I explain I'm not but they are still talking to me as if I'm joking around. I spend 2-3 mins on the dumb phone before I hang up and continue talking. The whole time she was standing there waiting for me to get off the phone. Then the phone rings again and I'm telling them he's not with me. Her friends come at this time and she says good bye and walks off. Haze and Summa are just looking like "WTF? were you doing" lol.

The whole time I'm thinking this damn chick calls me and wouldn't get off the phone. She ended up calling a 3rd time which I had again told them he wasn't with me.

We hit up whole foods, and I open some chick it stuck for a few mins and she then left. Then we are in the nuts section. Summa already opened a chick and I open a chick a few feet away who is looking at nuts.

2set in disguise
- I say something about her looking at nuts, she cracks up. We talk a bit she's just looking around. As she walks towards Summa and his girl we both realize they know each other so we treat it like a 2set. I tell Summa's girl that my girl asked if I had any nuts. This set didn't last long and we ejected.

Haze has to head back to NJ so me and Summa hit up B&N. I think I did one set which I applied the same stuff as with Hbsexy and the chick was giggling for no reason just like Hbsexy. Most of the time I was on the phone while Summa was in set for a good 15 mins which he then bounced her to whole foods. He introduced me to her and I teased her a bit and left.

It was great timing too because I got home just in time to meet my brother and his friends. So that was basically the day. A lot of stuff I learned from watching all these guys, even watching Upsetmidget who is totally new at this. I was doing a lot more watching than I usually do, but it was worth it.

More to come tomorrow...

 

[Snow Plowman]

Sixth Day of Chaos

Today was the most chode crystaling done in a long while. I wasn't feeling it at all today but I pushed and pushed. Did manage to get a # which I know 100% it's a flake, but for the sake of just asking for #s I did it.

Majority of my sets were done real half assed. No effort, not expressive at all, and not even plowing!? I still had fun but just wish I was approaching with the intensity that I had days ago.

So just a basic run down...

The Lineup
Summa: As usually he was tearing it up. In many great sets. He venue changed with a chick to Whole foods. Later on he was with this other chick who he said he tried to kiss, who he was also bouncing around with. I think he venue changed a 3rd chick, can't remember. He left early to go on a day2. Also he said he met 2 AWESOME chicks a dancer/yoga/artist type chick and another cool chick.

HazePUA: He got some good sets too, it's funny because he opened a 2set of Asian lesbians. lol, he really liked this set for the simple fact you don't see 2 lesbian asians everyday and...he loves asian girls. He said the set was going good but he just ejected. He also didn't close a chick who was attracted to him while we were eating. He also # closed a nice model chick when I left. Lastly he pushed me back into a set that I went for the # close. I seriously was being a chode today.

New Guy: This is a new guy we met today, NOT "Only 10s". He seen Summa get blown out and asked us if we were sarging. We talked a lot, started forming a chode crystal lol. He approached here and there, but really wasn't out to sarge he just ended up rolling with us when he noticed us. He said he just got put in the friend zone by his gf today.

HazePua's Friend: He is a cool guy, second time we bumped into him. He was just hangout there not really there to sarge. But we talked a bit. He also gave some good insight.

I had just finished dealing with the school I'll be heading too in march and Summa said he'd meet up with me soon. So I walk a bit and open a chick...

HbModel
- I open direct, introduce myself, she's headed to a casting for a book cover. She is a model, we talk about her modeling for a bit, she asks about my acting. I eject... (This is a common trend today)

Walk towards Barnes and Noble. Meet summa, I'm choding about at this point. He opens a set and starts bouncing to whole foods. I open a chick direct, doesn't last more than 2mins. I'm choding about some more. Summa comes back and opens a chick it went ok. He tells me to go in for the hell of it and I open.

The Gauntlet
- I open her and she asks if I was with that guy. I laugh and say what guy and then say I'm doing a social experiment. I joke with her a bit, she doesn't know if I'm serious or not because Summa had just opened her a few seconds ago and she wants to know if I knew him she then says "This is what you guys do go around picking up chicks" She likes the idea of us doing that lol. I crack up and then eject. She then talks to a guy next to her stating what just happened.

I then open another chick in the travel section but I have no clue what exactly happened. Wasn't anything serious.

I start choding around some more, Summa tells me to open a chick in a red jacket, she's cute.

HbRedCoat
- I open direct, it's on. I forgot what we talked about but it was going good but I wasn't feeling anything all I wanted to do was be a chode lol, so eventually I ejected. Summa is surprised at this because I ejected and she was clearly attracted. There really wasn't any reason for me to eject but I seriously wasn't putting any effort. This truly was stupid of me. I do remember her saying she studies psychology so for the hell of it I tried that pick a # 1-4 thing which I didn't know but just said a friend told me about a psychology test. Which I took her hands and told her pick a # 1-4 and of course it was wrong lol.

Later on I open a chick

Text War
- I open with "OMG are you texting me, is this a text war." it opens I start reading off the text she supposedly sent me, I ask her why she's here, she's waiting for a friend so I tell her here I am and lets go. I eject.

A few mins after while with Summa I open some chicks who have harry potter products.

Team Harry Potter
- I open about harry potter, then start asking them if they have the wand and if they battle each other. One is a Harry potter buff the other hasn't got into it at all. I then ask them what school there from griffin door or huffle puff. Eventually I eject.

After this in the travel section there is 3 chicks who I open

3set Vietnam
- I open about them going to Vietnam (She had the book) I start doing a bit of Future adventure projections about us in vietnam and them learning how to fight. Her friend says the other chick knows one move that is deadly, it's a one hit kill. We play around with this for a bit. It was funny at this point because Summa then comes in and I didn't even introduce him he introduce himself lol. So the chick was WAY thrown off lol. He then asks how they know me and I say that they were plotting on kidnapping me and taking me to vietnam. The girl I was mainly talking to was hooked, the other one was neutral but then wanted to leave, last chick had left a few seconds after I opened but that had no effect on how the set went.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Sixth Day of Chaos PT2

At this point there was a lot of choding around. I'm with Hazepua at this point, Summa is bouncing around with a chick. I talk to Haze about my problem but then just realize I'm just *****ing up and need to step the **** up.

I think about what TD says about approaching like a Lion about to get a bunny rabbit. Not thinking about anything and just going in. So I tell haze I'm approaching a chick, **** it no holding back, and off I go...

HBAge
- I open direct and then comment on her green trench coat. I ask her if she knows kung-fu because I need a chick to protect me from all these other chicks who constantly chase me. We vibe a bit.

Now the weird thing...she is giving me congruence tests like crazy, BUT it's weird and rather different than the congruence tests I'm used too. For example some things she said...

1. "Are you like reading from a script" - This had me cracking up because she knew at this point about acting and she assumed I was already going there. But I backturned her for actually thinking I was reading a script. The thing was I don't actually have routines and never really tried any routines.

2. "It just sounds so polished" - She was implying that the way I talked sounded to perfect...which is actually a problem because it makes me feel like I have a never ending routine stack that is making everything sound perfect. In my head I'm thinking "WTF? is she serious?"

3. "Is that your friend calling, he's like somewhere around here taking notes right?" - I was dieing from this and broke rapport, because she actually thinks I came up to her as an acting exercise.

Anyway, she asks about my age which I tell her I'm 12 and she jokes and says she's 18. When I do tell her I'm 18 she thinks I'm saying that because she said she's 18, so she says she's lying. She tells me to guess her age and at first I don't want too but then I say 99 and then 12, and then I say 2 real ages. She talks about not dating lower than 2 years younger which I then reply "O so you can't handle 12 year olds". She cracks up and says something. I plow it try for the #, no go. I just sit there looking at her, she doesn't know what to do so she just giggles, kinos me and walks off.

This had my head going all over because I'm not trying to sound perfect/polished. It was a big eye opener because now that I think about it the stuff I've been doing/saying weren't really genuine. This is the same problem I had with HBmarried, where she didn't know if I was actually serious about wanting to hang with her.

This chick was complimenting me, impressed that at 18 I could just approach like that, and couldn't see why I'd want to talk to her if I had such confidence. I'm starting to think I need to be more geniune and qualify more/harder. The qualification I do now doesn't seem geniune, but more playful like if I'm testing them.

This was the best set all day...after this set we met the new guy who seen us sarging. We talked for a while I did a few approaches, but don't remember what happened. Mainly me just ejecting for no reason, I really was just being chode and not putting any effort. Downstairs I open a nice looking chick, I also open a few other chicks that I remember a bit of.

Hbcutie
- I opened direct, vibed about Brooklyn, I tease and joke with her for a bit, she ends up ejecting, which I then realize later she was meeting up with her BF.

HBSelfHelp
- I open a chick at talk about self improvement books. Of course I talk about eckhart tolle, she's hooked. I eject...don't know why lol

Hbsearch
- I open a chick on the computer searching for books, when I opened she took off her headphones, looked at me, faced me and everything but what I said was so weak and I didn't even plow. She just put her head phones back on and ignored me.

Later one we see Haze's friend and we start talking while Hazepua goes in set. I'm alittle annoyed at how I didn't push hard like how I was previously and so something told me to open sets so I open this chick who I realized I didn't open due to choding around.

HBboots
- I open direct, introduce myself, ask her what brings her here. We vibe a bit, I'm not 100% sure what it was, but I don't bother plow and she walks off. Haze doesn't like that I keep ejecting and he tells me to go back in. I tell her my friend said I had to come back and get her # before leaving, she says she has a BF...I PLOW!!! Start talking about what we were talking about before, which was pakistan and skydiving. So I start doing a future adventure projection which she adds a bit to it. I go for the # and she tries to say the Bf but then says "Why not" at the same time I keep pumping her BT. I'm almost 100% sure this is a flake because all I did was use BT to get the close...back when I first started back in high school I was big on pumping buying temperature so I have a good idea of pumping emotions and this clearly wasn't solid.

After this I open a chick with a nice ass who like blows me out after I open, it never hooked, I didn't even try to plow. That was basically the last set of the day.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Seventh Day of Chaos PT1

What a day, I tweaked my game HARD and drastically. Choded a bit but Summa pushed me. Also slipped into a BAR so got to open two sets there would've been longer but then I would've risked getting locked out. Now that I'm home I realized I could've stayed, Summa needed a wing.

Things I learned
- My Game = Screening + The Now: After tweaking back and forth today my great sets was a result of this.

- Also learned when I should Offer Value, because like Saad said I was spinning my wheels, now I'm less talky talky. Usually I offer value when I'm going to lose the set or about to do something (Disengage logic, bounce, # close, escalate further, etc)

- Calibrate, Calibrate, Calibrate. After I realized what works for me I started doing it uncalibrated and a set blew up in my face, I was cracking up because it was one of the funniest blowouts.

- The Now: With the whole not thinking when going in set and not thinking ahead, I notice I do a lot of sub-communication. I just look at these chicks saying nothing and there...laughing, kinoing, qualifying themselves, keeping the conversation going, etc. Also stuff just comes to my head and I say it.

So now off to the sets, while walking to Barnes & Noble I see a corporate chick who has a HOT BODY, I want to see the face so I open her which I then realize has a HOT FACE...did I mention it's freezing cold.

HB9
- I can't see her face but she is wearing a short skirt no stockings so I say "OMG I know you have to be ****ing cold." She replies I joke about sitting at her fire place she's loving it...wind hits me and I literally just walk off and hurry to Barnes and Noble

Get to Barnes and Noble I find Summa at the top floor, I see Saad, say Hi and then me and Summa head outside. Which I get blown out a set, he opens a few and then we go to whole foods.

We do that gauntlet as there aren't too many sets. So after Summa opens a set I open right after. (We do this twice in a row)

HbCereal
- I open her about some organic cereal that had a funny name, then I ask her about the Peanut butter panda puffs, which she actually tried before, she was looking for them but couldn't find them, so she showed me this other cereal. I eject

Second Gauntlet...

HbLotion
- I ask her something about a "friendship" card that I seen and read it to her. She asks if I was with the last guy that just spoke to her (Summa) I play dumb and say "What guy" She says nevermind and we talk abit. I'm joking around she's talking about looking for a lotion for her face. Eventually I eject

Summa opens a few more sets, I get blownout twice more we head to forever 21. I open a 3 set which ended rather quickly. Summa gets in two sets for a bit. We head outside and see two guys approaching people so we assume there in the community. Summa asks them, there working.

It's funny because at this point me and Summa are saying guys like them are killing our sets and there complaining that guys like us are killing there jobs because everyone thinks there getting hit on. So we battle to see who can stop who, me and Summa ended up stopping a chick lol. (We Win!!) I went direct and then told her to keep going, meanwhile I watched Summa who # closed despite her wondering what was going on between us and the two guys. Heck Summa even said we were picking up chicks and I introduced myself to her.

The two guys were trying to analyze Summa's approaching saying he's scared and just doing this because of an audience, then saying how he shouldn't touch her lol. (They must not know us) We head back to Barnes and Noble and he pushes me into a set.

HbTraveler
- I opened direct and since we were in the traveling section I talked about traveling. She's french, she starts telling me about where she's been. I'm loving it...yes I like people who travel a lot. We vibe for a good 5-10mins. I'm joking around here and there. Eventually she walks off and I don't plow. When she spoke about Miami I asked about nude beaches which she said she loved it there. Talked about india and the spicy food, which is hotter than the wasabi that hazepua introduced me to.

This is where it started clicking, I realized when I got blown out of the set in forever 21 it was because I was coming off reaction seeking. Like now I can feel and see when I'm reaction seeking. So I had cut that off.

HbTraveler #2
- This chick I opened who was also in the traveling area, she was going to walk off but I plowed and she stopped for a bit. Talked for a bit and then she walked off. We basically talked about traveling she was the opposite of the first traveler chick. The other one traveled in all sorts of countries as the other one just been in the states.

Later on I start choding a bit, looking at some books and Summa pushes me into another set. Which I remember how before I used to always Assume everything. I assumed this would open and...

Textbook #1
- I go in direct. I do the things I mentioned that I learned and this set went GOOD. This chick was cracking up when I did nothing, she was qualifying herself, reacting to me. It was going well. I was screening her about being adventurous, cooking, traveling, how fun she is, what she does. Eventually her phone rings and I think it's time to go for the close or else she'll leave. While she is on the phone I look at some stuff and she's trying to get off the phone quick to continue the interaction. She says "Call me back in 2mins" I tell her we should hang out sometime, she wants to do e-mail, I say "I don't do e-mail" I plow, pump her up a bit and go for the #, I put the phone in her hand, and I call her right in front of me. As her ring tone comes on I spin her then give her a hug.

Forget trying to be in state all the time, being indifferent also works and so longs I don't think about state then I'm good to go. I finally realized my game after this set which I then try it on another set not realizing she is with a little girl.

Blowout
- I open direct, I turn my head and look towards Summa because I thought he said something, then I just ask if thats her kid lol. Right after that I force qualification it felt forced/hesistated. This chick just frame controlled me saying how you come up to someone and ask a screening question. (She didn't say screening question) She then starts saying you said Hi, I said hi and now we go on our ways. I'm so thrown off that I just look at her and I'm clearly taken back. I'm cracking up like crazy and just stand there. She then says "That's it?" and I basically eject cracking up.

That put me in state because that was the funniest thing ever to happen. Summa opens a few sets I sit by the window and we bump into upsetmidget. He said he opened some sets, he wanted to try a mixed set. I was going to wing with him but we ended up not doing it. We basically talked for a bit. He had to go.

Me and Summa head downstairs about to leave but he opens a set and I open a set in the journal area. It went ok but it was nothing serious...

Journal Section
- I open about writing my darkest secrets in my journal. The chick sends me to a section far away from them, so I go and come right back and then pick my own journal and do a future adventure projection about my first entry involving them. Then I eject.

Summa is still in set so I look at the cooking section, this older lady is setting up books and then opens me...

Pro Chef
- This was my type of chick personality wise. I wish she was hot, I really wanted to # close her as a friend because she's been cooking for 10 years and was telling me about a cook book, she showed me something she cooked that she loved so much that she got pissed when she gave the left overs to someone else. I was really fascinated with this chick, real, real, real awesome. She even searched up a beginner book that might be good for me. When I get real good at this I want to meet a chick who is a real good chef. This was my first pro chef I've ever met/interacted with. I really think I should've # closed despite her being old.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Seventh Day of Chaos PT2

We head back upstairs because I want to check this book out and as we get the the 2nd floor, I then open another set and tweak all the mistakes from the other sets...

Textbook #2
- I did the same stuff I mentioned about what I learned...went in direct, asked her what brings her here. The whole time I'm screening and in the now. She says she's headed to the cooking area so I pull out the paper the lady wrote for me and lead her. (I think I heard Summa tell me to bounce her) We walked together to the next floor the whole time I'm offering a bit of value and screening. Eventually I go for the # close she talks about her BF. She was JUST about to do it but she said she really promised her BF that she wouldn't take anyone's #. I'm just looking at her and she's saying how I'm very charming and that she really likes me but promised him she wouldn't take anyone's #. (I'm assuming she's cheated in the past) I plowed a bit but left. Summa tells me go back, I go back and plow because I didn't know where to find the book. I talk about our affair and try to close. She starts talking about how it sounded tempting. I'm In the Now just looking and she's cracking up, reacting, etc. She then tells me I should be in the other section and I bust on her for sounding like my mother. Plow more but she really is sticking to her guns. Nonetheless this set was similar to the other textbook set.

After this set I see a black chick who is working and ask her to help me...

Hired Gun
- I ask for help and then take it out of the whole customer/worker frame instantly. Were talking and joking around. I'm qualifying a bit...surely not my type personality wise. She is studying to become a physician. I'm plowing after she helps me and then I just let her go.

Next set was HOT so I had to open...

HbBrooklyn
- I opened direct, introduced myself but it wasn't hooked yet. I did a bit of screening and found out she's from brooklyn. Did a lot of high fives, we vibed abit, I told her she wasn't a real new yorker. Eventually I go for the # rather quickly which she tells me about her BF, I plow it but no go.

After this set Summa tells me about the Bar, I say lets go for it but I can't stay long since I have no keys to my house so if I stay out to long I'll be out in the cold until 7 in the morning lol.

We head to the bar, and I just walk in like I belong there...I'm 18. Were in there I make him lead since I don't know where to go and I just play the part. Frame control is so key. I get in no problem we head outside on the roof...It's COLD!!!

I must say, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE these lounges, I feel right at home. I thought the loud party clubs that I used to go to with my dance group were funny, but this place is so ****ing chill I'm just smiling so much because I LOVE the bars...heck I love night game despite not being old enough to do it regularly.

Bar Set #1
- Summa opens I come in saying "Are these chicks fun?" I talk to two of the chicks while Summa talks to the other. We talk about the lunar eclipse that's happening, (First time ever seeing such a thing) we vibe a bit. I cold read my chick and the 2nd chick helps me by saying how my target talks about getting in bed with her...(God I love night game) I'm kinoing and telling her I knew she was a bad girl. This is going real well but eventually they head inside because there cold. I tell my girl I'll catch her later.

Summa opens a 4set, the guy in the set was friends with the set we just opened. He's a chode trying to give these chicks a job. I thought he was gaming at first. I come in and eventually chode leaves the set.

Bar Set #2
- I say to summa "Are these guys giving trouble" and hi five him. I introduce myself, I claw my chick and I'm just talking with her. I've pulled her in real close, she just came to new york months ago. We vibe a bit about going into the NYC sewer system. She starts talking about how she's been in a drain pipe in texas where her friend had left weed. I'm doing what I mentioned from the things I learned with the screening. She starts talking about how she likes rats and hate people who tries to hurt them, she starts talking about tackling shop lifters when I asked her if she could protect me from the crazy guys in the sewer.

I'm freezing my ass off, legs and hands are shaking so I stop kinoing and lean on the glass which I'm not scared to lead on because if it breaks I fall off the roof, so I didn't pull her close to me. She ends up coming back close into me. I'm thinking about kissing her, I even triangular gaze her but I'm FREEZING.

I pull her close to me again, talk to Summa's chick for a bit about where they live and brooklyn in general. I go back to my chick and eventually I tell Summa to tell them how we met...he talks about prison lol. They crack up and say were lying. Summa reveals that I'm 18. My chick is going crazy saying "OMG are you serious OMG, this is so cool. How'd you guys get in here?" (She thought Summa was my age too) Again were real close and I'm Shaking at this point, could barely stand. She thought I was 23 lol. The also say how we look so cool and they would've never known. (They thought we were both underage) This set was going good, I heard Summa's chick throwing many congruence tests which he was passing nicely and he even had the 2nd chick help him out a bit. Both of our chicks were on but like the last set it was so cold that eventually they left.

At this point I'm trying to call someone at my house so they can leave the keys outside so I can come home later, but NO ONE picks up. I had to leave, and I really didn't want to. I ****ing loved that place, I wanted to talk to all the hot chicks who didn't come yet, and the hired guns who were looking nice. I hope I can slip in again so I can stay there and do night game, because it's SO much easier for me since I kino a lot. Sometimes in day game I kino a lot.

Both sets I think I could've made out with. The 2nd set I know 100% I could've made out with, but I seriously was so cold that I didn't even want to kino no more. Later on Summa texted me when I was going home saying my chick gave him a congruence test about buying her and her friends drinks. He was in a new set bouncing to another bar which he wanted me to comeback and wing with him because he needed a wing. ****!!! I want to go back.

Nonetheless FUN FUN FUN. I can't even describe how much I love night game, it makes day game look BORING and Super easy.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Today was ROUGH

1. Was being very picky
2. Lots of choding around

Majority of my sets stopped right at the opener or I'd get blown out, only one set sticked for a few minutes. It started with her being locked up and then slowly unlocked. Her train comes up and it's over.

We had hit up grand central and penn station. Certain sets I should've opened I didn't. Can't even remember much of any of the sets. Also went though my #s again. (No callbacks, nothing so far, but I have nothing to lose so I'll just keep calling them up)

I did however get 1 chick to pick up who I closed about a week ago. She is with friends and there LOUD and hyper, she says she's with some 15 year old kids. An then hangs up...call lasted 30 seconds

Later on going home I seen a set that would remind me of her, they were loud and hyper too. It really got me thinking about what I got myself into. A lot of sets I seen that I just thought in my head "**** those sets are hard" it was hard enough trying to open chicks who are waiting to depart to different areas.

Going home was pretty rough, it had me thinking about TD and his whole process and that I just have to go through it...

Meanwhile, Summa had pulled a chick from grand central, so we didn't hang together. "Only 10s" was being picky too, but I was really being selective which is retarded. He had some ok sets but if they don't giving him a tingling feeling then he won't push the set.

I probably opened about 12 sets, 2 which lasted more than 2mins the rest weren't great. I'll be out there once again tomorrow.

Edit - I did wing with Only 10s we did a set that was from Columbia and started saying they were smuggling cocaine. Only 10s was telling them a story, one chick was opened the other one was LOCKED UP hardcore. Like she was eye coding her friend and just staring at her, so I engaged her a bit. She was opening up but then we kind of sounded a bit insulting and they left. I just had fun calling them smugglers delivering packages.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Community Day!?

Ok guys, haven't been out in the past week, been getting my school situation setup...and cousin shows up so no approaching for a good week. All good, went out today, start school this week coming up...so even more days of approaching.

Today was a bit...funny and eye opening...

I just realize how many people are out there in the field learning this or just doing it in general. Just take a guess how many Community Guys I seen today?

Here is a hint...I hung with 8 guys throughout the day...but all together as far as seeing, knowing, saying hi too, etc...22-25 guys all in the SAME place...in the day.

It was crazy because so many sets have been opened and were getting reopened. We eventually left so we could stop opening and reopening the same sets. Everywhere you turned you seen guys from the community.

There were a few WELL Known guys...(One was most likely running a bootcamp) who you could've tell they were in the community. It wasn't peacocking, but you can tell just by the way they dress...they look cool.

Today was cool because Haze's wing basically pointed out my game as far as he sees it. (I see it the same way too, but the feedback was great)

- Basically he was talking about how me opening and getting attraction is SO easy, but where I kill it is I never actually make the energy of the conversation level out and just get to know her. Every set he seen me do he pointed this out.

- Something Haze and a few other guys who've been out with me notice is that I give up sets so easily now. Before I was relentless with approaching and plowing now I don't even try to keep them engaged.

So now on to the sets...

HB9
- This chick was HOT, I opened direct, asked where she was from...Queens. I start talking about Brooklyn Vs Queens fighting, she is saying she's heard bad stuff about brooklyn and kind of teasing me a bit. Were going back and forth for a bit but she starts to walk away and I don't even try to keep her there I let her walk. Haze comes back saying "OMG, why'd you let her go it was ON! Stop leaving sets"

HBCutie
- This set I don't remember but it was something about playing a board game and asking her when is the last time she played a board game, tease her a bit...once again I let her walk off...

I didn't actually think that me making chicks walk away would be my problem. I used to PLOW relentlessly...

HBrush
- This was a SUPER hottie who I opened direct it was going good, but she said she was in a rush so I just let her go...

That was dumb of me, I could've clearly plowed even though later on I did see her and she was pretty busy but that sh!t don't matter.

HbMarried
- I open her direct and start talking about something. Eventually we get into cooking and she says she has a husband who is around there somewhere...I plow and keep the interaction going she's loving me. I'm telling her we can run from europe and leave her husband...The husband comes...I engage him and start telling him how his wife was going to kidnap me and take me to europe with her...The chick is clearly attracted but I eject because no sense disrespecting the guy when he was pretty cool about the whole thing.

After this I started opening real half ass like if I was a pusvy or something. Haze also noticed it, the first set that I started doing this was...

Blowout #1
- I go up and say "So are you a good cook?" (Voice was horrible and no where near as good as when I usually approach) she goes with a disgust look "What!? NO!?"

At this time I start realizing this place is sarged out, while a lot of guys in the community wasn't approaching (Most were talking and listening like a bootcamp) but there were guys who were hitting up sets.

After this I have two more crappy sets but didn't last long at all. For a good while I start chode crystalling because now we seeing all these guys who are in the community. I end up talking to a few who Haze knows...also met Haze's wing. I remember another crappy set...

Crappy Set #1
- I open a chick about a board game call The Dirt Game, we talk for a minute and my phone rings...O and a guy appears who I engage but I pickup the phone and they leave.

Crappy Set #2
- I open a chick direct, she's shy I say that's cute, her phone rings I have to wait TOO LONG so I flip through some books and when she gets off I let her walk off.

O10 is on a day2 and brought her in the area and same place we were in. I was going to meet him and his girl but as I'm about to go I see a HOT chick...

HBSexy
- I go in direct (She was ****ing SEXY) we start talking a bit, she's from some country close to Russia. I'm messing with her a bit until she points out she's with her mother. I talk to the mother and accuse her daugther of being a bad girl and ask her mother if her daughter was a bad girl. Things was going SWEET, but I didn't know if I should try to escalate too much with he mother there. I did escalate a bit but not like I usually do. After about 5mins I just let them go...

Haze was thinking WTF once again. I felt like and idiot for not closing or continuing the interaction because this chick was SEXY. (I've started to notice those unknown Russian Neighboring countries have some HOT women)

After Haze was telling a "WTF?" talk, I started saying "yea I'm a chode" and there just so happen to be a chick right next to Haze and his wing lol...

HBPhotographer
- I say "Hey do I look like a chode?" she doesn't know what that is. I say "You know an unconfident guy who is not social and plays world of warcraft all day". She doesn't know what world of warcraft is so I explain briefly and just cut it off...she says I'm no chode. I start talking a bit and ask if she's a photographer, she is. I tell her I'm thinking about becoming a Male Model (Yea right) she thought I was serious and took my #...(???) I just run with it and eventually tell her I was joking about that I just thought she was cute and wanted to meet her. I try to get the # but she is like she wants to use my for money and doesn't want to mix business with pleasure. I accuse her of conning me lol. She then ejects...if she calls I'll just game her.

I talk back with Haze and his wing for a bit, eventually it's about 7 of us, the place is sarged the fuk out already. Two guys leave to go to another place because there not used to such a huge group of guys out sarging lol. So me haze, his wing and 2 other guys leave to head somewhere else.

For a saturday this whole place is DEAD, were in whole foods it's sort of DEAD. I open a chick buying a sandwich...

HBSandwich
- I think I ask about food she's getting, then start talking about food in general. She can't cook, she can't fight...but she does drama...NICE. Do a bit of FAPs and roleplaying. I say me and her can make a movie together and so I ask what kind of movie we'd make. She is real into it making the plot for us..."Since your talking about fighting we should have an action pack movie, you ninjas attack us, we have to hurry and get our sandwich before they arrive..." It was pretty cool. I talk for a bit more and try to # close...she punches one in and gives me a WRONG #...I called it right there, she then says "This is a bit uncomfortable but I gave you the wrong # sorry" I fuking CRACK UP.

Now note, she was into me, I was escalating, but I had no sort of rapport at all. She didn't really know me, I barely knew her. (This is a problem I starting to realize...and haze's wing pointed it out) Basically I'm escalating and getting them attracted and there ASD kicks in and causes them to flake because when they backwards rationalize it they don't know me but yet they could've got fuked by me if we were isolated.

The chick who gave me the wrong # was actually still standing there as if she was saying "Just game me more and try again" but I personally didn't even want to plow it...even though I should've just for the heck of it. So I just tell her she can go.

I talk with the guys for a bit while haze eats, we spot the guy who might be running a bootcamp. He is with some guys, one of them point us out stating they seen us at the other place. We just nod and they huddle somewhere else talking.

Haze and his wing is in a set so I roll with the 2 guys. While were on the street I open a set but I eject because one of them called me. We go in a shoe store, they open some chicks just messing around and one buys some shoes because there doing night game...we head to the bookstore where everyone will meet up at.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I meet up with O10 he tells me about his day2 saying he didn't escalate with his girl that much, when he clearly could've kissed her but I realize the chick was the same chick he # closed who he didn't want to talk to because she was so innocent and for him it didn't feel right escalating with her. and Gavin comes back after a day2.

I introduce him to everyone, most are leaving to get ready for Night Game...if only I was 21...even though they were telling me to just sneak in like last time, I'm not with it today. So everyone leaves and it's me, O10, and Haze.

We go to virgin music store, nothing much...until I see...

HBExotic
- Sexy, Sexy, Sexy, chick. My eyes kind of pushed back because I wasn't expecting a hot girl to be here. I open direct she's french. Were talking a bit about food, she's a vegen. Were messing around a bit everything is going good, escalation, laughter, etc. Eventually she tells me about tofu and I tell her lets go to some place right now she is sort of with it but...she's with a guy. She said "I'm sort of with..a.a..a guy" *Points around the corner* I'm like "O a BF cool" she goes "Well sort of it's like..." she basically didn't even want to tell me about the guy. I motion to come around the corner so I can take her # but she was really worried that he'd pop out of no where and see her putting in the #...After we were hugging and hi fiving. I just eject after this.

While I head back to the entrance O10 see's me and pulls me in his set...as you know O10 only goes for "10s" sometimes 8s and 9s.

O10 Set
- He brings me in while I was listening its funny because when he pulls me in I start pumping his girl up a bit. Asking if she was a cool chick, O10 says he approached because of her walk so I cold read that she's a model...she is part time. I'm messing with her a bit she's laughing and O10 goes for the # and for her to meet at a club with him...his phone is dead, so she has to put her # in my phone...hahaha. It was weird at first for her because she wasn't going to do that so I pump her up a bit more and go for it. She does it and I eject so he can have one on one time.

It's funny because I can plow and keep the set going when it comes to helping out my wing, but for myself I'm starting to just let sets go and not even plow as hard as I used too.

Next we meet up with Gavin again he just came back from a day2 who gave him the most horrible kiss. We head back to whole foods I buy my food and me and O10 mess with the cashier.

Hbcashier
- I'm just messing with her saying she can't handle me, I realize she's from the same area I'm from but in the part that seperates 3-4 different areas so I say she's not from my area she's from one of the others. I tease her a bit, hi five her and leave.

The last set was opened by mistake, I say that because O10 was going to open them but he wanted to pass a note to them since they didn't hear him calling them he threw the paper at them and missed she was saying some crap about why he threw the paper ball. I just go over there...

2set Indian
- I say "My friend was sending you a note he's a bit shy" she says some crap and starts saying how I'm the cool one out of the three and saying how I actually came and talked to them. Were teasing and messing a bit, she's saying she could beat me up, I say I could beat her up. I'm telling her friend I'd kick Hbindian's ass. I then say "You might stand a chance if you have like pointy shoes on" I look and she does, she goes on to say if she doesn't have them on she'd beat me up even easier. These chicks were fun, and funny but they kept stating that I was cool and not my two friends.

I didn't like this at all so I called them on it, eventually they say they weren't saying anything negative and that it's a compliment to me. I seriously was starting to dislike them, Gav comes in and tells them the story about something that just happened and we actually were talking about before I opened them. Basically he went in the bathroom and thought he was in the wrong bathroom because he seen a tranny...when he went back in the tranny said to his BF that everyone always leaves the bathroom because they think he's a girl.

It didn't really hook because she already disliked O10 and Gav. Eventually I eject but not before talking about age there 101 and 102, they can't party with me because they're to old. I'm young, they think I'm drunk/high for approaching them.

After I see her hats on the floor so I reopen and talk a bit more but again they bring up disliking my friends so now I'm getting a bit piss and start talking. They Hbindian starts to eye code and make it clear that she doesn't like me anymore so I just leave because now I really don't like them...

All in all a great day. I can imagine how this is going to be SUMMER time...if there are so many guys out here right now and it's still winter...then I can imagine Summer. It's going to be loads of fun. I learned a lot more today.

Lessons Learned
- Stop ejecting...Do it like before where it was just "Get Blown or Blown out"
- Keep the energy level at something sustainable and don't pump there emotions too much because these places are very low key/energy
- Dumb down my content even more...all you guys thinking about stuff to say...I have to actually dumb down my content because it sounds too smooth or too good and chicks are pointing this out. (It's mainly from my creativity to use these techniques improv style but it's TOO good)
- Be relentless...now I stale every so often to talk to the guys as before it was just set, set, set, set, set.

I'll be out tomorrow meeting up with Upsetmidget, a few others might come out so will be fun. O also go opened going home, me and this chick only 2 people waiting for the bus at midnight. She wasn't all that so I didn't escalate or try to close.

 

[Snow Plowman]

...Hard Sets

I've been busy with getting my school stuff together. It's all set now, met everyone in my class...of course befriended the people. Happen to also befriend 3 hot chicks.

Today went out with O10, we met another guy called Fierce...

Today was HARD I mean HARD...at times it was dead and I'm being very picky for some reason. Only waiting for the 9s and 10s to pass by.

A few blowouts, but what I really did that was great was I opened huge sets today...
- 2 guys with 2 HOT girls
- 7-8 girls with 5-6 guys
- 3 High energy party chicks with 2 guys

Only sets worth mentioning were Three specific sets
First Set
- Right after meeting up with O10 I open a chick saying "Waiting for me" and I joke about where were going...europe, india, etc. She is playing a long I signal to do arm and arm. It's a go, she's real into me, she asks what I'm doing here and she tells me she's waiting for friends so they can go out and drink, I accuse her of getting me wasted and taking advantage of me. This set was going good but I didn't lead it anywhere. One of her friends come and I let them leave.

HBbf
- I opened this chick stating she looked bored and I start playing around with her, she's loving it. She mentions a BF, but I plow that **** as usual. Do my usual escape out of here and take our helicopter and flee somewhere. This set wasn't too bad, it was fun overall.

HBTraveler
- O10 was suppose to open her but she couldn't hear him calling her. Since I had just opened a 3set while on the wall with good vocal projection, he wanted me to open her. So I just say "Hey!" and point to him, he tells her to come but she's telling him to come. I try to tell him to say "Meet me half way". So I just walk half way and tell her to come.

I forget what happens but next thing I know I spin her, then try to get her to dance but she doesn't want to, I accuse her of being shy. She says she's just tired...then she tells me how she's been up all day stranded because she just flew in to meet a friend and has to fly right out for school tomor.

We vibe for a good 5mins, I had walked back to where me and O10 orginally was and leaned on the wall and talked. I stopped speaking to make her continue the conversation, she does. O10 mentions this architecture in the building.

Note: This is one of the dumbest things in the world, but for the sake of bouncing/venue changing a chick, its MONEY. I thought it was a joke until I seen him bounce almost 5 chicks to that same spot.

I tell her about the architecture and I tell her to come as we go there. At this point I should've went for the kiss, but I honestly wasn't too into this chick. She was cute and all but for some reason I'm being a picky bitvh.

I take her back to where we were at and we vibe for about 5-10mins more then she gets a call from her friend and leaves. I let her leave. Despite this chick being a COOL chick. Chick travels all over the place, heck she came to NY for just a few hours just to meet a friend.

I got a lot of dumb stuff happening lately, it's not like how I used to approach, nonetheless still fun as hell.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Were LIVE!!!!! In the trenches

Finally got a phone and of course I had to get a phone with internet. Why? Because the internet is the only reason I stay in the house.

Now I can stay outside and post

I'm having a ego protection or frame snapback again...I'm choding around playing with the dumb phone. School just started and again I'm ignoring chicks. In class the people enjoy me there but...when there is lunch and class breaks I'm just on the phone relaxing in the middle of the room.

So because of this I'm going to do a llive in the trenches post...I'm sitting out here right now...for the kjs get outside.

This will be complete raw footage...

will post back in a bit

5:53 - Nothing, massive choding. I know this because I fell like sleeping. I can sleep quickly when bored. Pretty dead one chick I was going to approach but bf appeared nothing since. Out the window has chicks but too cold.

6:22 - meeting up with o10 at grand central I feel asleep...now in grand.

6:39 - open first set blew open opened real nice...she's in a rush. this is a prob in grand central chicks rushing for trains.

8:06 - opened a few more sets did a real good set which I will talk about later I might not update no more because I missed a 10!!!!

Im now in a set as I type sooooo.....

 

[Snow Plowman]

today was a bit tough...ego is coming back. We did a lot of fun stuff today. The real highlights though...


- open some chick with this card a cop gave me "if you see something say something". Then I start talking about us being cops. I ask her name and say "the snowplowman and hbgreen task force" She cracks up and then we walk by an opera singer so I take my girl and dance with her lol. I take her hand lead and dance...also add a spin. After I ask where she's from...CT...ugh too far. Notice my whole sarge goes down the drain in two mins.

Some how this chick starts trying for rapport. Can't tell if it was before or after I asked for the #. All I know I seen very vividly her ASD kicked in. She is into it but she doesn't know me at all. So to backwards rationalize it when asking for my age and says I'm too young. I seen/felt the shift.

- That 10...O10 knows her and sarged her on the train 3 weeks ago. He had a big experience...chick is hot but O10 dislikes that she's short...she is fiesty a fire cracker and gives **** tests like crazy. Some alpha guy comes and slams her on the wall and dominants her reality.

- We then walked to time square and I just walked in this show at some bar & restaurant. We don't stay because bouncer stops O10 I am not 21 nor do I have a ticket. He was asking O10 if he knows me I just walk out. We'll be back.

 

[j0n024]

Come on brother! I usually wait for your FR's because they are cool to read but lately you've been slacking! I dont mean no disrespect but come on bud where is the old snowy that I look forward to to give me advice in MY Fr! Hopefully you do good down the road...later.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Come on brother! I usually wait for your FR's because they are cool to read but lately you've been slacking! I dont mean no disrespect but come on bud where is the old snowy that I look forward to to give me advice in MY Fr! Hopefully you do good down the road...later.

Just got back in school so haven't focused on this. Yesterday was first time out in a long time. Also this whole frame snapback and ego BS is like a cold that I need to let pass.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Realization!

I've noticed how far I've come, I no longer "GAME" or "Pickup"...I'm just being me (Conveying my REAL Personality) I went 50/50 with my cousin who I told about all this and got the product that I've been internalizing for the past 9 months...Blueprint.

Today in school I met my vocal training teacher, she was critiquing our voices, I came up and...THEY LOVE it lol
- Good Projection/Loud
- Slight Nasal
- NY Accent (Of Course lol, never knew there was an actual accent lol)
- SEXY (Chicks love my voice as the teacher and class stated, a guy in the community say I have a barry white voice lol)

Partnered up with a French chick in my class, did a exercise with her and 5mins in, it naturally turned more and more sexual lol. They could see the sub-communication which I was just letting go and being in tune with my emotion. (The essence of the exercise)

Now the biggest realization was, after school I hung out by myself and felt no different. Some guys have like an on and off switch when it comes to pickup as if it is a mode.

Basically I went looking for some jeans and then went to nasty mcdonalds...not to go though. To STAY, (A year ago I'd never do that) I actually sat by myself and ate food and didn't feel LAME. (My friends NEVER could do this by themselves) O yea did I mention I interacted with the chick sitting right next to me. I just naturally started talking to her because she was there.

It was big shifts for me...like I don't even TRY anymore, especially in school I have no intention on dating any chick in my school even though I've seen some of the hottest chicks in my school and had some form of good interactions, meaning if I wanted to get with her I most likely could. Currently me and the French chick don't say much we just look at each other and talk non-verbally. She even tried to isolate me by wanting to do the exercise outside of class which I was cool with but schedule got fuked up. Plus I'd end up naturally escalating lol, it's like a light blub in my head switched on when she said what she said.

Saturday will probably be my next BIG sarge session. I can't explain how much fun it is. Me and O10 debriefed today about yesterday...
- About his emotional experience about the 9 chick who he approached on the train 3 weeks ago and it was ON...and yesterday he fuked up on so many levels
- Me actually admitting that I'm actually scared to...VIBE and let a chick get to know me. This stems from years back when I NEVER wanted to open up to anyone. Only one chick this month I opened up to and in my head I actually was hearing "WTF, your vulnerable, she knows you, you dropped your barrier, WTF are you doing"

This explains why I started making excuses and doing half ass approaches, because if I do that I don't have to vibe, but still have fun approaching because I love it. Yesterday I seen vividly how I purposely kill sets that way I don't have to vibe...Just to give an example of what I have done in order to not vibe and let her get to know me

- Go in half assed: This is the latest way of not vibing. Go in half ass and I'm sure they will walk off

- Go in hard and say nothing: I can open REAL GOOD, so when I do I will just look and basically force her to walk off. (I don't do this too often)

- The Monumental Experience: This is the foundation of my game, except I never actually do any of the vibing or emotional rollercoaster part of my game. So all she really experience is part of the "Monumental Experience" which tends to be SERIOUS FUN and Quick Escalation. After hugging her and being close with her in 2-3 mins I go for the # knowing they'll flake because they don't know me. (I do this VERY VERY often)

- Don't Approach: Certain times I won't even approach because the simple fact that I know I will have to open up. It's funny because I know I can vibe pretty well, BUT my past I had NEVER wanted to let people get to know me and I never really let that go. It's just not as bad as it used to be.

But that's enough of rambling...