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Single men just don’t care about sex anymore, study says

2Rocky

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Explains why less fat people years ago even though gyms were not as widely avaliable and less advanced equipment.

But that's not the case for everyone. I don't have low t. I want to bang, but it's a problem when about 85 percent of the girls under 50 are not attractive. I'm not lower man standards for a fattie and I can't pass the boner test with ugly women.
Mainly because you don't qualify to be with attractive women because of your poor social skills. classic Sour Grapes response.
 

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Now you know how it is like to be Black in your home country.
Oh really....you been held up at gunpoint and robbed 3 times in 2 months by police? Don't start with that weak race stuff. Do you have actual violent police encounters to back up your "tough being black card?"

I have been to jail a few times in the US when i was younger and got tazed once by an officer over mouthing off to him when drunk. Like i said though Mexican police are on another level....i wouldnt want to cross a Columbian policia the wrong way as well but at least they dont seem to seek foreigners out.
 

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Oh really....you been held up at gunpoint and robbed 3 times in 2 months by police? Don't start with that weak race stuff. Do you have actual violent police encounters to back up your "tough being black card?"

I have been to jail a few times in the US when i was younger and got tazed once by an officer over mouthing off to him when drunk. Like i said though Mexican police are on another level....i wouldnt want to cross a Columbian policia the wrong way as well but at least they dont seem to seek foreigners out.
Other than a couple of the large tourist cities, I would go anywhere near Mexico. Hell, Cancun had those murders at the beach a few days ago.
 

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The pandemic has helped the single men realize how unfruitful any attempts they might make at sexual activity will be. They realize that even in lockdown nothing has actually changed for them. When restrictions got lighter again, all the singles said “yay, covid is going away, time to get back to my sexually active lifest— oh wait…”
 

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Other than a couple of the large tourist cities, I would go anywhere near Mexico. Hell, Cancun had those murders at the beach a few days ago.

Yeah it's getting pretty bad it seems. Medellin in Columbia is having a lot of similar incidents as well.
 

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I agree with the original post, if having sex with modern women was a business deal, men would liquidate the company within 2 seconds..


Western women and the total hassle it takes to even get a mediocre one out and her fried dopamine receptors are a terrible investment.
 

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Oh really....you been held up at gunpoint and robbed 3 times in 2 months by police? Don't start with that weak race stuff. Do you have actual violent police encounters to back up your "tough being black card?"

I have been to jail a few times in the US when i was younger and got tazed once by an officer over mouthing off to him when drunk. Like i said though Mexican police are on another level....i wouldnt want to cross a Columbian policia the wrong way as well but at least they dont seem to seek foreigners out.
I am not black enough to get that type of attention. I did get stopped by police in 2011 but all I can complain about is the officer's tone and type of questions. I had a hoodie on at that time.

But there is plenty of news stories out there on black and leftist news channels.
 

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The pandemic has helped the single men realize how unfruitful any attempts they might make at sexual activity will be. They realize that even in lockdown nothing has actually changed for them. When restrictions got lighter again, all the singles said “yay, covid is going away, time to get back to my sexually active lifest— oh wait…”
Stop with the defeatist attitude. You're better than that.
 

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That is a good point that I missed making. If we are being honest, we are seeing various trends in women for the last couple of decades and especially in the last few years that deters men from being interested (or genuinely interested for that matter) in engaging with women romantically/sexually:

1. Female empowerment: Strong independent women that don't need a man. They can do it all, including having a family and children I guess. This is not a feminine trait. It has masculine energy all over it. No real man is attracted to a masculine energy woman.
2. Perception of beauty: While I agree the media has falsely implanted a distorted image of beauty, there is a trend in women to let themselves go. One thing is if you are natural, another completely different animal (no pun intended) is to simply look obese and unhealthy. No man is going to be attracted to a female that looks on the verge of dying of diabetes or heart attack in the next few months. I, personally, prefer my woman fit/healthy.
3. Mentality/Mindset: Most (not all modern women have a rather toxic or nasty mentality. We see this often in tik-tok (I don't have it but from what I've seen from other members and Youtube) which has become a candid and public diary for women. They expose their nasty mentality/mindset about dating, men, themselves, etc, etc for the world to see. No real man will be attracted to that. In fact, most men will be repelled and disgusted by that.

I'm sure there are way more trends that come into play.


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Females like this should be put in check. However, she's just a few months out of pregnancy, but @ 235LBS, that's just way too much. She's got 45 LBS on me; and I'm 5'11
 

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Females like this should be put in check. However, she's just a few months out of pregnancy, but @ 235LBS, that's just way too much. She's got 45 LBS on me; and I'm 5'11
What do you think of fit women, but with big muscles, like the later wrestler Chyna for example? I see that extreme lately too. Women with huge muscle, look more like a muscular Chad than a woman. That's a huge turnoff too.
 

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What do you think of fit women, but with big muscles, like the later wrestler Chyna for example? I see that extreme lately too. Women with huge muscle, look more like a muscular Chad than a woman. That's a huge turnoff too.
How many women really look like that in your everyday life? I can think of a grand total of zero that I see at the gym I go to. But apparently these type of women exist in regular numbers out in rural Florida. Or did you relocate from last year?
 

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How many women really look like that in your everyday life? I can think of a grand total of zero that I see at the gym I go to. But apparently these type of women exist in regular numbers out in rural Florida. Or did you relocate from last year?
No, I don't live in rural FL lol. I live in swfl. I got a couple who come into the grocery store like that. One is a fitness trainer snd the Tyrone who works in my dept is always drooling over her lol.
 

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A lot of this attitude going around here lately - and not just with that particular poster.
You ever stop to think that maybe there’s a reason for that? Defeatist attitudes don’t just randomly pop up out of thin air. I get where they’re coming from honestly. I had one too but then I learned that I was caring too much. So now I don’t. Women can get hit by a bus for all I care, and I’ll keep walking minding my own business.
 

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You ever stop to think that maybe there’s a reason for that? Defeatist attitudes don’t just randomly pop up out of thin air. I get where they’re coming from honestly. I had one too but then I learned that I was caring too much. So now I don’t. Women can get hit by a bus for all I care, and I’ll keep walking minding my own business.
There's always a reason for it. The question is do you act like a man and take it in stride or do you let it get you down. I am glad to hear you no longer let it affect you. However, you are actually one of the more negatively charged posters on here.

I have said this before but I would say most of us here at SS arrived here due to a bad experience (or multiple) with a woman or women. We came here seeking answers. Repeating mantras about how terrible women are, without offering advice on how to stop the bad experiences, is doing a disservice to the posters who are seeking answers as well as to the one making the statement.
 

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I am not black enough to get that type of attention. I did get stopped by police in 2011 but all I can complain about is the officer's tone and type of questions. I had a hoodie on at that time.

But there is plenty of news stories out there on black and leftist news channels.

Don't get me wrong, i am sure there are in fact plenty of racist white cops who do **** around with black people or at the very least just assume they have weed or something on them hoping to catch them for something bigger. But i would imagine after last year, especially in Atlanta, police are more scared to be accused of doing that as much lately.

The worst cops tend to be ex war-vets chasing their legal killing fantasies and combat highs in my experience.

I really don't like police and airport tsa.
 

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A lot of this attitude going around here lately - and not just with that particular poster.
Truly a shame. They need to work on the self-worth.

What do you think of fit women, but with big muscles, like the later wrestler Chyna for example? I see that extreme lately too. Women with huge muscle, look more like a muscular Chad than a woman. That's a huge turnoff too.
Chyna was a freak of nature. Not sure how any dude could fvck her. HHH dropped her for McMahon; so there you go.
 

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This. How much more enjoyable is sex than masturbation? Obviously every guy would prefer sex if it were as easily attainable. However, consider how difficult it is for a sub 70th percentile man to get casual sex. I have to admit I can't claim the effort is worth it.
Yeah that’s the other thing. Some say 55 percentile guy might be able to get sex, but definitely not casually. He’d almost have to fake wanting a relationship with some HB4 or HB4.9. And then he’s kinda stuck with her for a while.

Relationships are good if it’s someone you’re attracted to, but nobody wants to feel “stuck” in a relationship with a “slump buster.”
 
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