Single men just don’t care about sex anymore, study says

[Grounded eagle]

They'd care if what was on offer was worth the hassle.

Certainly worth considering.

 

[zinc4]

Single men just don’t care about sex anymore, study says

We’ve gone from a slutty summer to a flaccid fall. According to a study by Match, a stunning majority of single dudes said sex is now less important to them.

nypost.com

This is BS.

Sex really is one if those things in life that if you feel like you are in a big slump or just cant get it then you would do anything for it in those moments however if you have it in abundance or are used to having it in abundance, then you really can just take it or leave it.

Sometimes you might even try to avoid it out if laziness or pressure to perform. It is a great trick of the mind imo. The guys this article is referring to do not fall into that latter group.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Why don't you start posting your field reports?

Been here about a week. Give it time.

 

[metalwater]

This is BS.

Sex really is one if those things in life that if you feel like you are in a big slump or just cant get it then you would do anything for it in those moments however if you have it in abundance or are used to having it in abundance, then you really can just take it or leave it.

Sometimes you might even try to avoid it out if laziness or pressure to perform. It is a great trick of the mind imo. The guys this article is referring to do not fall into that latter group.

if no sex for some time and no strong physical and or manly activities and not being around sex ideas, the test can go low and no more want. it happens. usually also will then be out of shape and get slower at thinking.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Yeah, agreed 1000$ is ridiculous when you can get it for 50$ or less. Paying more doesn't necessarily mean a better experience - just that the biatch has a sky-high opinion of herself (which is often a negative thing). The best girls are those that are relatively inexperienced and somewhat amateur.

If someone lives in the USA, then you have to add the cost of a flight to the $50. There is nothing in the USA you can get for $50 that isn't disgusting.

Yes I agree about the relatively inexperienced amateur girls being the best, but that can involve a lot of searching and trial and error. Perhaps the best way to do that in the USA is sugar babies but that is usually more trouble than it's worth and most of the girls just trying to get something for free.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Doubt they don't care about sex , i don't know many red blooded males that don't care about sex

Its the supply vs demand that's the problem in the last 15 years demand for pu$$y has rapidly outstripped supply

Pre 2005 your average male would probably see a genuine HB 8+ a handful of times a year ...... he would be lucky to see one naked in real life maybe once in a blue moon

Basically men were used to seeing and interacting with " normal average women" that were in their immediate vicinity the equilibrium was balanced

Now thanks to social media / only fans and all the other hyper connected channels .....women can appear to be in extremely high demand "beautiful" women are now literally everywhere and whatever a mans into there's a girl on Instagram for him to simp over

What happens next ? men's thirst naturally for these women starts going through the roof ......demand for women and pu$$y starts going parabolic across the board

Women quickly realise the landscape has tilted in their favour , and adapt their behaviour accordingly dismissing any guy who doesn't beat the competition or meet her ever increasing requirements

Thing is in any market when demand outstrips supply the price goes up

So if we were looking at a technical stock chart , we would see now the opportunity cost of having sex with HB 7/8/9/10 is nearing an all time high , this knocks on to the lower HB's too they realise their value is increasing as men who dont have the value to "afford" the higher hb's search for sex with lower value ones or just don't bother at all

I do believe all this will swing again , and it will be interesting when it does

Until then men have a choice compete or retreat

The best way to combat competing is just trying to be in the right place at the right time , but sometimes guys get so fed up they can't even be bothered to do that

 

[SW15]

You can read the full report cited in the New York Post article here....

Singles in America | Home

For Match’s 13th annual Singles in America study, we asked all the questions about self-worth, sex, relationships, and love — and over 5000 singles across the country answered in detail. Keep reading to explore the ever-evolving terrain of today’s dating landscape, including what’s hot (shared...

www.singlesinamerica.com

One amazing quote...

"Despite local restrictions and worldwide uncertainty, 74% of singles say the pandemic hasn’t negatively affected their dating life."

Translation: Most were not getting laid before the pandemic started and most aren't getting laid after.

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Single men care about sex. Why is male thirst at pandemic like levels? Why did OnlyFans have a huge rise in popularity?

Single men want to bang average (not fat) women, cute (slightly better than average) women, and the top tier most attractive women.

Same as always.

 

[bat soup]

If someone lives in the USA, then you have to add the cost of a flight to the $50. There is nothing in the USA you can get for $50 that isn't disgusting.

Yes I agree about the relatively inexperienced amateur girls being the best, but that can involve a lot of searching and trial and error. Perhaps the best way to do that in the USA is sugar babies but that is usually more trouble than it's worth and most of the girls just trying to get something for free.

The closest thing to the USA if you live in California is Tijuana. But I'm sure there must be other places.

It's true there's always a bit of trial and error involved. It's like finding a good restaurant.

 

[bat soup]

I dunno man I still see some cute girls out here and Im definately not in Miami

It's not that there are zero attractive girls. It's just that a hell of a lot of women in the USA are fat and not every guy can get the top girls.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Doubt they don't care about sex , i don't know many red blooded males that don't care about sex

Its the supply vs demand that's the problem in the last 15 years demand for pu$$y has rapidly outstripped supply

Pre 2005 your average male would probably see a genuine HB 8+ a handful of times a year ...... he would be lucky to see one naked in real life maybe once in a blue moon

Basically men were used to seeing and interacting with " normal average women" that were in their immediate vicinity the equilibrium was balanced

Now thanks to social media / only fans and all the other hyper connected channels .....women can appear to be in extremely high demand "beautiful" women are now literally everywhere and whatever a mans into there's a girl on Instagram for him to simp over

What happens next ? men's thirst naturally for these women starts going through the roof ......demand for women and pu$$y starts going parabolic across the board

Women quickly realise the landscape has tilted in their favour , and adapt their behaviour accordingly dismissing any guy who doesn't beat the competition or meet her ever increasing requirements

Thing is in any market when demand outstrips supply the price goes up

So if we were looking at a technical stock chart , we would see now the opportunity cost of having sex with HB 7/8/9/10 is nearing an all time high , this knocks on to the lower HB's too they realise their value is increasing as men who dont have the value to "afford" the higher hb's search for sex with lower value ones or just don't bother at all

I do believe all this will swing again , and it will be interesting when it does

Until then men have a choice compete or retreat

The best way to combat competing is just trying to be in the right place at the right time , but sometimes guys get so fed up they can't even be bothered to do that

Add to this the fact that these "top tier" girls don't have any real value in the first place. Putting on makeup or being born "pretty" and taking Instagram photos of yourself is not any real value.

The entire "market" is utterly ridiculous and nonsensical.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

The closest thing to the USA if you live in California is Tijuana. But I'm sure there must be other places.

It's true there's always a bit of trial and error involved. It's like finding a good restaurant.

There's quite a few places you can fly to in a few hours.

In Mexico, I'd recommend Monterrey. And of course there's Colombia.

Peru, Chile, and Brazil if you don't mind going that far.

 

[bat soup]

There's quite a few places you can fly to in a few hours.

In Mexico, I'd recommend Monterrey. And of course there's Colombia.

Peru, Chile, and Brazil if you don't mind going that far.

I'll have to try Monterey some time. Also, Costa Rica and Panama can be fun.

 

[Willie Naylor]

I'll have to try Monterey some time. Also, Costa Rica and Panama can be fun.

Belize is beautiful too.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I'll have to try Monterey some time. Also, Costa Rica and Panama can be fun.

Costa Rica is good but I found it overpriced. I was still paying $100 at least. To me, that's too much if I'm going to travel. Panama is nice, but same problem unless you go to this real nasty brothel I knew about.

I definitely want to go to Panama again for other reasons than girls. It was one of the first countries I went to and I liked it, but I used to drink back then and I was basically drunk the whole time. I'd like to see it sober.

 

[zinc4]

There's quite a few places you can fly to in a few hours.

In Mexico, I'd recommend Monterrey. And of course there's Colombia.

Peru, Chile, and Brazil if you don't mind going that far.

Am in Cartegena, Columbia right now. Came here for business purposes but also have a gem of a new gf here just from originally playing around on dating apps. PNDed a lot who were not gf material just for sex.

She is nice, very religious and absolutely beautiful. Took 5 dates to finally lay her. Definitely not an easy girl at first but the sex is amazing now that she thinks i am not just using her for that. Tbh i was trying to at first but now just have a tonne of respect for her as a person in general after knowing her a bit more.

I have to go to Panama in 2 weeks then back to the US for Christmas. Will suck to leave her but will have a vacation house in Panama after this so will be here again. Am kind of wanting to go back home for a few weeks as well. Cartegena though is a beautiful city altogether though and tonnes of history and good wildlife here.

As far as paying for sex goes. A lot of guys come here for that, but i feel like it is a total waste of time and money when there are so many beautiful normal girls here. It def takes some effort though to get a good one. Columbian women are very lively and sensual fun loving people in general....the big obstacle is the language though and fact that foreigners have a bad rep here for only wanting prostitutes. You have to at least have mediocre level Spanish.

You can def smash lots of low quality women though...i got all kinds of good looking skanks in my whatsapp....all free non pros who i met on either apps or just beach pickup. I just don't respect women who bang so easily though. I pnd and move along. All these same ones love to drink and party as well and are obsessed with selfies and social media. Same story around the world in every country lol.

I stayed in Mexico for 3 months last year. **** tier women and people in general. Words cant describe how much i dislike ethnic Mexicans in general.

Mexico getting more dangerous by the minute. I was held up at gunpoint and robbed 3 times there. Its not worth it......and the women are **** tier and their culture is not interesting and boring altogether.

Got to be very careful travelling anywhere in latin America though...especially during this scamdemic. With that being said i just did a big jungle tour out in the sticks 3 hours by taxi away from here yesterday. The taxi driver on the way back home refused to let me roll down the windows because he said bandits could see me and target us. Probably not the safest idea but was effin amazing if you like adventure and wildlife.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Am in Cartegena, Columbia right now. Came here for business purposes but also have a gem of a new gf here just from originally playing around on dating apps. PNDed a lot who were not gf material just for sex.

She is nice, very religious and absolutely beautiful. Took 5 dates to finally lay her. Definitely not an easy girl at first but the sex is amazing now that she thinks i am not just using her for that. Tbh i was trying to at first but now just have a tonne of respect for her as a person in general after knowing her a bit more.

I have to go to Panama in 2 weeks then back to the US for Christmas. Will suck to leave her but will have a vacation house in Panama after this so will be here again. Am kind of wanting to go back home for a few weeks as well. Cartegena though is a beautiful city altogether though and tonnes of history and good wildlife here.

As far as paying for sex goes. A lot of guys come here for that, but i feel like it is a total waste of time and money when there are so many beautiful normal girls here. It def takes some effort though to get a good one. Columbian women are very lively and sensual fun loving people in general....the big obstacle is the language though and fact that foreigners have a bad rep here for only wanting prostitutes. You have to at least have mediocre level Spanish.

You can def smash lots of low quality women though...i got all kinds of good looking skanks in my whatsapp....all free non pros who i met on either apps or just beach pickup. I just don't respect women who bang so easily though. I pnd and move along. All these same ones love to drink and party as well and are obsessed with selfies and social media. Same story around the world in every country lol.

I stayed in Mexico for 3 months last year. **** tier women and people in general. Words cant describe how much i dislike ethnic Mexicans in general.

Mexico getting more dangerous by the minute. I was held up at gunpoint and robbed 3 times there. Its not worth it......and the women are **** tier and their culture is not interesting and boring altogether.

Got to be very careful travelling anywhere in latin America though...especially during this scamdemic. With that being said i just did a big jungle tour out in the sticks 3 hours by taxi away from here yesterday. The taxi driver on the way back home refused to let me roll down the windows because he said bandits could see me and target us. Probably not the safest idea but was effin amazing if you like adventure and wildlife.

What city in Mexico did you get robbed in? Was it one of the tourist resort cities?

I actually didn't like Cartagena. I was there just about 3 months ago. I much prefer Bogota. Even the hookers in Cartagena are expensive because they know tourists there have money.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

To me, at this age (mid-30's)... The act of having sex just isn't worth putting much effort into.

I'm not going to waste energy over some delusional wannabe princess, ya know?

 

[zinc4]

What city in Mexico did you get robbed in? Was it one of the tourist resort cities?

I actually didn't like Cartagena. I was there just about 3 months ago. I much prefer Bogota. Even the hookers in Cartagena are expensive because they know tourists there have money.

See i didn't like Bogota. Was just there for a week, but it seemed like just another huge overcrowded city to me. And pretty dangerous feeling as well. My spider senses were always going off there...even in the most upscale parts. I much prefer bigger Asian cities than Bogota.

Like i was saying before, i dont know why anyone would come here for the hookers. I can see dabbling around once or even a few times with them just to see but any more than that is a waste of time and money imo.

Mexico was crazy for me man. I stayed right outside of playa del carmen for 1.5 months went to cancun and tulum for 1 week then visited mexico city and monterrey the rest of my trip. Mexico city was also too big for me.

2 of the 3 muggings were by mexican police. And two of them happened in the Rivera. I can see why most travellers choose to stay in fancy resorts. But watch out for mexican police ...especially when walking alone at night. They love threatening gringos for money hoping to find drugs or even kidnapping them for ransom. Im sure you know this already but its different after you experience it for yourself. I will never go back to Mexico for many reasons actually.

I also had not 1 but two taxis pull the old no car handle in the front passenger seat trick and had to jump out of the back seat early when i was skeptical of where they were taking me. If something doesn't feel right always tryst your gut instincts.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

See i didn't like Bogota. Was just there for a week, but it seemed like just another huge overcrowded city to me. And pretty dangerous feeling as well. My spider senses were always going off there...even in the most upscale parts. I much prefer bigger Asian cities than Bogota.

Like i was saying before, i dont know why anyone would come here for the hookers. I can see dabbling around once or even a few times with them just to see but any more than that is a waste of time and money imo.

Mexico was crazy for me man. I stayed right outside of playa del carmen for 1.5 months went to cancun and tulum for 1 week then visited mexico city and monterrey the rest of my trip. Mexico city was also too big for me.

2 of the 3 muggings were by mexican police. And two if them happened in the Rivera. I can see why most travellers choose to stay in fancy resorts. But watch out for mexican police ...especially when walking alone at night. They love threatening gringos for money hoping to find drugs or even kidnapping them for ransom.

I also had not 1 but two taxis pull the old no car handle in the front passenger seat trick and had to jump out of the back seat early when i was skeptical of where they were taking me. If something doesn't feel right always tryst your gut instincts.

That's weird. I never felt in any danger at all in either Colombia or Mexico.

I've never been to any of the tourist resort places like Cancun or Tulum, and I have no desire to. Next time I go back to Mexico, I want to see Guadalajara and Oaxaca. These 2 places I didn't go to last time because someone suggested Puerto Vallarta, which totally sucked just like any tourist trap.

I always use Ubers.

 

[biggoal]

Doubt they don't care about sex , i don't know many red blooded males that don't care about sex

Its the supply vs demand that's the problem in the last 15 years demand for pu$$y has rapidly outstripped supply

Pre 2005 your average male would probably see a genuine HB 8+ a handful of times a year ...... he would be lucky to see one naked in real life maybe once in a blue moon

Basically men were used to seeing and interacting with " normal average women" that were in their immediate vicinity the equilibrium was balanced

Now thanks to social media / only fans and all the other hyper connected channels .....women can appear to be in extremely high demand "beautiful" women are now literally everywhere and whatever a mans into there's a girl on Instagram for him to simp over

What happens next ? men's thirst naturally for these women starts going through the roof ......demand for women and pu$$y starts going parabolic across the board

Women quickly realise the landscape has tilted in their favour , and adapt their behaviour accordingly dismissing any guy who doesn't beat the competition or meet her ever increasing requirements

Thing is in any market when demand outstrips supply the price goes up

So if we were looking at a technical stock chart , we would see now the opportunity cost of having sex with HB 7/8/9/10 is nearing an all time high , this knocks on to the lower HB's too they realise their value is increasing as men who dont have the value to "afford" the higher hb's search for sex with lower value ones or just don't bother at all

I do believe all this will swing again , and it will be interesting when it does

Until then men have a choice compete or retreat

The best way to combat competing is just trying to be in the right place at the right time , but sometimes guys get so fed up they can't even be bothered to do that

The problem is there are very few hb8 and up women to begin with now! Don't see many of them IRL and old they're as rare as a golden unicorn. Women are getting fatter and nastier in general. In addition to fat they have more tats and piercings as well.