Should I text her first or wait it out?

[HaleyBaron]

Why do you need to make her think you got things to do, if you don't got things to do?

To pretend you are someone more important?

Women see through that **** quicker than anyone.

Better advice: Work to become someone that has **** to do, so that you don't have to pretend and be pathetic.

I give that phrase to most people on here because they are coming here learning how to be independent. A starter is making them walk the walk. Even if it's pretending, it's still training wheels. I also tell men to pick up actual purposes in life so that they can no longer pretend.