"Sexually Invisible?"

[Maxtro]

Luke what do you look like? I seriously have a hard time believing men can get past the page of 21 and still be virgins.

The way a man looks is pretty irrelevant. Unless he is very good looking or very ugly or dresses like a complete weirdo.

I was a virgin till 23 and I'm still doing very poorly with women at 27. For men personality (includes values and beliefs) is 90% of what matters. The only thing preventing me from banging a new girl every week is what I do and say, not how I look.

I'm certain the same could said for Luke unless he is ugly or fat. Neither which I think is true.

 

[nightcrawler]

The way a man looks is pretty irrelevant. Unless he is very good looking or very ugly.

I was a virgin till 23 and I'm still doing very poorly with women at 27. For men personality (includes values and beliefs) is 90% of what matters. The only thing preventing me from banging a new girl is what I do and I say, not how I look.

an un-kept, overweight man will gather as much sexual attention as your average, run off the mill bum with an arm missing.

What you need is sexual prowess. That thing that makes women say "I'd do him". You don't have to look like a model to have sexual prowess. You just have to not look like a chump. Lots of ugly people (and good looking ones!) look like chumps. Here's the thing though: with good looks comes sexual prowess.

Sexual prowess is what you, luke, and other posters (including myself!) lack. If you want to get laid, you have to be sexually desirable to women. There's no other way about it.

EDIT: I should've just sited the article lol

5) Cultivate the “appearance” of a sexual person (one that defines you as a unique sexual being).

Chumps don't have the appearance of a sexual person

 

[Alexander the Great]

I'm sorry, I like to be respectful and understanding to everyone, even Luke, but with every progressive post by him I feel more and more like my leg's being pulled. His last one just tipped the scale.

Luke, I have no way to know this for a fact, but I believe you are a troll. Most likely you are a previously banned poster. One of the female ones perhaps. Maybe even one who still posts. Someone harboring feelings of spite against this board and the people on it.

Whatever the case, you get some kind of enjoyment out of seeing people respond seriously to posts you make, where you show a complete ignorance for any of the advice given or questions asked. As you just did. For the nth time.

However, you've just been found out. What you just posted is simply so absurd that it's laughable. It's a joke. Nobody is as dense as you are. Nobody. I believe you are simply making a caricature of the people here by incorporating all the extremes guys go through we see passing on this board in your story and getting a good laugh out of it. You do have a lot of time on your hands, don't you?



Luke Skywalker is someone to be ignored. Noboby should post in this thread anymore, nor respond to anything he posts anywhere on this forum.

If he's not a troll, which I strongly disbelieve at this point, it'll serve him good and perhaps force him to seek help if nobody pays any attention to him anymore.

A mod should close this thread. I regret having wasted my time posting here so seriously.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Please use the report button!!

It's right next to the rep button. Let's get rid of this motherf*cking troll, Luke Skywalker. We can do it!

He contributes nothing and is a bother to all members. We don't need to hear about his crazy mother, flesh lights, in depth analysis of imaginary women, stories about how he lives at home and strokes himself.... etc.

 

[Evzone]

Please use the report button!!

It's right next to the rep button. Let's get rid of this motherf*cking troll, Luke Skywalker. We can do it!

He contributes nothing and is a bother to all members. We don't need to hear about his crazy mother, flesh lights, in depth analysis of imaginary women, stories about how he lives at home and strokes himself.... etc.

That's what I've been saying for some time. Even if he doesn't get banned, ignore him and do not respond to his posts.

Look, even assuming that he isn't trolling, SoSuave isn't the world's free psychology clinic. Assuming this isn't an epic troll, he needs to get professional help or get out.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Luke, right now, the only smoke screens in your life are made by you and your self-defeating excuses. With the blame you put on others, you merely demonstrate your denial of self-responsibility.

There are some things in life you are just not in control of.

YOU are the creator of everything in your life, even luck. No one else is. Remember that.

Nope, don't buy that. But, you know what, as wierd as this sounds, you may have a point that I can relate to religious wise. You've got this preacher, called Joel Olsteen, and I've been reading his books -- Becoming a Better You. He says you can change any circumstance in your life by confessing the word of God and talking to mountains. This is something that I'm currently testing out in my business. I'm confessing the word and singing songs that have the word on them.

Get help. Don't make excuses that you have no money for it, it's just a veiled means of saying you don't want to. Another smoke screen.

How do you figure? You don't know my budget.

Don't take your mom on a date. Think for yourself for a change. That's all it takes to start detaching yourself. Moving out is just step two or three.

You have to address money issues first. You think it's a smoke-screen. I think that it's an issue. If you have a secure full-time paying job or have a regular and predictable income, then it's a great time to move out. That's the point I'm raising here.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

If you had money, you would be just as miserable except you would have a nice car and house.

You would be able to move out and sure, nothing wrong with having an "Infinity" brand.

So tell me Luke. If you're not going to do anything that this site teaches, why are you here? This is the 4th time I am asking you this question you coward.

Why don't you tell us more about yourself...why are you on here?

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I'm sorry, I like to be respectful and understanding to everyone, even Luke, but with every progressive post by him I feel more and more like my leg's being pulled. His last one just tipped the scale.

Luke, I have no way to know this for a fact, but I believe you are a troll. Most likely you are a previously banned poster. One of the female ones perhaps. Maybe even one who still posts. Someone harboring feelings of spite against this board and the people on it.

Whatever the case, you get some kind of enjoyment out of seeing people respond seriously to posts you make, where you show a complete ignorance for any of the advice given or questions asked. As you just did. For the nth time.

However, you've just been found out. What you just posted is simply so absurd that it's laughable. It's a joke. Nobody is as dense as you are. Nobody. I believe you are simply making a caricature of the people here by incorporating all the extremes guys go through we see passing on this board in your story and getting a good laugh out of it. You do have a lot of time on your hands, don't you?



Luke Skywalker is someone to be ignored. Noboby should post in this thread anymore, nor respond to anything he posts anywhere on this forum.

If he's not a troll, which I strongly disbelieve at this point, it'll serve him good and perhaps force him to seek help if nobody pays any attention to him anymore.

A mod should close this thread. I regret having wasted my time posting here so seriously.

Anyone can review my posting history and see that I'm consistent. Go back to 2006. I got hurt by an attractive girl that year --- a oneitis. Lots of posts concerning her and my adventures of getting late experiences - encounters with women, ranging from kissing, etc... AFF-November, etc...

If I have over 2000 posts, then there has to be some element in the story that will show there is a contradiction or lie -- but you wont be able to find one. I also post on enotalone, with a different slant, but analogous to what I post here too.

The only point I'll concede to is that I don't believe in pre-maritial sex while I'm on this board -- but I don't think you need to have sex to be a DJ. Like even you said, it can be degrading if it's with the wrong girl.

This is ridicolous. I may be different from everyone else on here. But I ain't no troll. Just a wanna-be-player like everyone else.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Now, where were we. Oh yes. I'm proud to say that I don't feel sexually invisible with this girl from North Manitoba.

People, like Alexander the Great, who were expected to support the fact that I'm not sexually invisible have turned to suggest that it's degrading to be sexual if you are not sexually attracted to the girl. But, what the heck, I thought we are dealing with sexual invisibility issues. You are either sexually invisible or you are not.

I'm growing in attraction to this girl, slowly, but surely, like a photograph negative developing a picture. It's good to know there is a safe base or someone that can see me in terms of sexual. Even my mom around doesn't kill things. That is the ultimate test. If a girl still sticks with you even if your mom is around -- then hey -- it's all good.

Hopefully this will blossom into something wonderful. Well, although people on here weren't very helpful and things worked out naturally, I do appreciate the insights that people have shared with regards to this particular situation.

 

[Alle_Gory]

Why don't you tell us more about yourself...why are you on here?

You can't answer a question with a question, you pvssy.

Besides, I've already answered this before in response to izza. Do a search and quit avoiding my question. You owe everyone an explanation.

 

[Evzone]

You can't answer a question with a question, you pvssy.

Besides, I've already answered this before in response to izza. Do a search and quit avoiding my question. You owe everyone an explanation.

Alle_Gory, don't feed the trolls please.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

You can't answer a question with a question, you pvssy.

Besides, I've already answered this before in response to izza. Do a search and quit avoiding my question. You owe everyone an explanation.

I told you, like everyone else on here, I'm just another wanna-be player.

I have an alter-ego that I indulge in these fantasies mentally with women using a fleshlight (at least in the past), where these women secretly want me, I have a harum, and it's like I feel awsome. In reality I'm a shy person and am on pins and needles around women and have very strong reasons not to get involved sexually and just give off low-status vibes most of the time.

This results in a conflict. This means -- I want to find if there is any way to bridge the gap between who I am and this alter-ego player that's in fantasy world. So the question I would ask myself is what is the block between who I am and that alter-ego concept? Just like what seperates clark from superman when he goes into a telephone booth and becomes superman. Maybe I think being a player is superficial and will miss out in depth? I don't know.

In this case, I have a live women who is interested in me. Since she's sexually available, and recognized by my parents, I'm not having any fantasies about her since I know I can have her.

The point of this board is to understand this alter-ego identity and if it's tenable in my own real life -- and if it can be activated somehow.

 

[Alle_Gory]

The point of this board is to understand this alter-ego identity and if it's tenable in my own real life -- and if it can be activated somehow.

The point of this board is to teach guys who want to get laid, to get laid. This is done by following the guidelines and teachings. Strive towards success in alll areas, don`t be afraid to show who you really are, be sexual with women.... etc.

You follow none of them, AND you spam. So why are you here?

There's lots of other forums that can help you activate your alter-ego.


Here's a hint: There's no alter ego. There is your ego, and then there is the fake sh*t you put on for someone else. Like makeup.

 

[The Logical Player]

Luke has been twice as active on enotalone.com for the past 3 years, his username there is Luke Skywalker, and he has posted some absolutely creepy GOLD on that site, far exceeding anything that he has posted here. He gets coddled and accepted over at enotalone.com because it is a perfect site to help this lonely mentally ill virgin remain in a safe zone and ensure that he stays that way for life. Enotalone.com is ten times more pvssified than loveshack.org, and I am pretty sure that Luke posting over there is what is keeping him so lonely and mentally ill.

troll or not, there is no reason that he should NOT be banned from sosuave

 

[Alle_Gory]

troll or not, there is no reason that he should NOT be banned from sosuave

I'll tell you why. Lazy moderators.

 

[Alexander the Great]

Well, I can't believe I did it but I had to see it with my own eyes. Indeed, Luke's been posting a lot at this Enotalone.com site. The nature of that material is even worse than what he's been posting here. It was also very insightful. So was that little explanation about the alledged schism between his ego and alter-ego.

I no longer believe he's a troll. He's probably for real, as absurd as it may seem. It does mean that instead I am even more convinced he needs professional help.

While it is very tempting to make assumptions and speculations about the how and the why of Luke's view on the world, I won't presume to judge. I do know that Luke is in a very unhealhty situation. As anyone can see and does. Despite that, I'll venture a modest attempt though.

This schism between your ego and alter-ego, Luke? To me it sounds like this alter-ego of yours is the healthy young man that you still are deep down, who has been muted by religion and years of living at home under the control of the views of your mother. This alter-ego pops up because that is the independent, thinking-for-himself Luke with healthy masculine appetites that wants to get out. You simply don't know that consciously. Because you are so engrossed in this unhealhty world where you are not in control of yourself and your life, you think it's some forbidden fantasy. Much like the typical religious people who've been led to believe sex is bad, yet they secretly indulge in it. So far for my cold floor psychological theory.

Luke, once more: you are in a very unhealthy situation and you need help. Professional help. Leave this forum and seek it. You don't belong here. At all. This forum is not for you. A wanna-be player? Are you for real? That mindset is so far removed from you today, I can't even begin to explain it. Just get help. We cannot help you, you don't want to be "helped" since you believe in the validity of yourself and your views, and we cannot give you what you seek. You'll not find the answer to your questions here, I assure you that.

You are like the AFC who gets stood up on prom night by his date and yet continues to make her homework the days after because "he loves her". When his friends tell him he's nuts, he'll think them jealous and ignores them.

Good luck Luke. You'll need it.

 

[imaginemypotential]

I have took 20 min to read this entire thread, this is by far a very interesting topic. First off hats to everyone trying to help him

Luke I cant knock your perspective on life, and your situation you've put yourself in ...

Good luck on your journey is all i can say

Also its seems like like religion and your mother are getting in your way our your true happiness, religion was made by someone to interpret the bible no one knows the bibles true meaning its a combinations of many stories, from years back...simple but true

am a mothers boy also, but she stopped picking my girls at 15 and she still trys to do it, but i always put my foot down

 

[Alle_Gory]

Luke reminds me of an elephant.

In India, elephants are used like horses for work. When a baby elephant is trained, its small and the trainer has to use a very small rope as a leash to control the elephant. Over time it becomes tame and complacent. When the elephant grows to be an adult, the trainer still uses the same thin leash and the adult does not struggle thinking its still to weak to break the rope.

 

[Evzone]

Luke reminds me of an elephant.

In India, elephants are used like horses for work. When a baby elephant is trained, its small and the trainer has to use a very small rope as a leash to control the elephant. Over time it becomes tame and complacent. When the elephant grows to be an adult, the trainer still uses the same thin leash and the adult does not struggle thinking its still to weak to break the rope.

Regardless even if he isn't trolling, SoSuave isn't the world's free psychology clinic. Every thread that he posts in gets sidetracked. This has been going on for over two years. It's time for him to go.

 

[Jaggs]

I think Luke is a troll etc etc

I have gone through this thought process also, but reading through his posts and other accounts shows that he has dedicated a lot of time to "Luke Skywalker" and has a definite authenticity to it all.

But fvck it's hard to believe. I have wanted to post what you guys are now posting but have not out of respect and a desire not to make the mans situation worse.

He has NO idea at all, not even a tiny bit consciousnesses of the thousands of things that are clouding his perception of the world. He just accepts them and tries to work through them from an IMPOSSIBLE angle. It's pathetic, degrading and humilating. It hurts just to read his stories. I literally face palm myself while I read. I can't actually believe it.

I don't know if you will ever escape Luke, but this site really is not the place for you to be. Get off it, forever.

You are worse than Caped09, because of the intricate details you supply and in depth analysis.

You REALLY need to reboot your whole self. Change EVERYTHING.

Obviously there is no point even giving advice because it has done before with no results and he is so far down his own rabbit hole for us to be able to pull him out. It's sad.

With one glimpse of truth Luke, you would understand. Understand these dirty fliters clouding over everything you do and say, and realize why deep down you are lonely and depressed...And that it stems from the things that you think make you 'happy'.

I can't go on reading this...:crazy: