Seems like most women I meet now are fvcking crazy

[Pandora]

Men can move past trauma and find normalcy easier than women imo.
Men can go from playing the field, spinning plates to being in a committed relationship. When women start getting tossed around, fvcked and tossed, they get permanently damaged.
Men can leave a toxic relationship and get their bearings back. Women seem to crave toxicity after being in a longer toxic relationship.

I believe men can rewrite their script easier than women. Women tend to let things get engrained easier than men.

So when you are dating in your late 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond, most women have become completely fvcked up emotionally from past relationships and trauma. You can screen them harder all you want. Some are good at hiding it and some will tell you covertly how messed up they are on date 1 if you pay attention.
The only thing you can do is play the game and use her for what she's worth if you're strong enough to be able to quickly walk away, or RUN at the first signs that a woman is whacked in the head.

Big facts

 

[Ricky]

What i've noticed over the years and this won't be a surprise is that women moods are more volatile on average than most mens. There are plenty of good biological reasons for this that we don't need to rehash.

Taking this into account.. you realize that the outcomes you have with a particular woman can depend on how she is feeling that day. Unfortunately if you catch her on the wrong day and you say the wrong thing, you can easily tank a relationship with them.

It would be great if there was some way to know which version of the woman you are getting on a particular day. I'm sure one of the simplest screening questions would be "how are you feeling today". If she isn't feeling well, its not a good day to see her.. period. (ironically i didn't mean to use the word period there).

If its a more serious sickness, showing some empathy and caring and offering to bring her something could win some points and is the right thing to do. I've been criticized for not caring enough before so i'm a little more sensitive to it now.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

I don’t think all women are crazy and trust I have had my fair share of females with hard indicators of a certain breed of nutty. I have had chicks pull out a knife on me and another one pull out a gun on some dudes trying to pack me out etc. Yeah my 20s were rough.
They are just crazy when you apply male standards of logic and reason. We all know that women are more emotional than men, but that doesn't mean they are all looney. I think men saying "all women are crazy" say it mostly as a joke to write off female moodiness around a certain time of the month, when a woman is pregnant or other times of extreme emotional swings.

Chemically, women have much higher highs and lows at any given time than a man does. That makes men appear stable in comparison. That doesn't mean women are crazy, just more volatile. I don't think a woman's emotionalism is craziness, rather just another task on how to handle yourself as a man. For a woman that is just emotional but not always mentally ill, a little bit of comfort plus amused mastery goes a long way to calm her or better yet cool off her ovaries.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Missed the forest for the trees on this one. May I add that tats and piercings are still most definitely a traditional reliable indicator of nutiness in a b!tch. Yes even small tats on the wrist are an LTR disqualifier for me . Girls are just outing themselves easier now with all that mutilation. In a way, we can be glad they're being upfront about it, before you'd actually have to invest time and interact with them to find out their degree of batsh!t crazy.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

 

[Vending Machine Veteran]

Always have been

 

[Rainman4707]

Let me be clear: I'm not saying they're crazy as some sort of post-hoc gotcha moment, they tell me they're crazy from day 1 with all the shvt they say about themselves, all meds they take, and various diagnosed (or self diagnosed) mental/personality disorders.

I'm trying to take responsibility for it and there's basically three reasons:

a) I am not screening hard enough for mental illness/instability/ignoring red flags
b) I am dumpster diving for good pvssy at the expense of my sanity
c) Something about me is attracting crazy women specifically

Does anyone else experience this, and how do you deal with it? It's starting to become so frustrating and disappointing. For starters I think I am going to stop meeting women on OLD, because in my current location it's worse than ever. Going to focus on meeting women through pre-selection/social groups and good ol' cold approaches, but I am increasingly skeptical that women in the "real world" are any better.

There are risks yes, me personally i chose to take those risks, the pu**y is unreal and good for company until i find something better. Like they say though,,the crazy ones are always the biggest turn on.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Men have been groaning "B-tches be crazy!!!"since times immemorial. It's true, just as it's true that A List celebrities are more shallow than your kitchen sink, and don't hesitate to reveal as much publicly

on a regular basis

There's very little we can do to "cure" such things, and for-the most part-they're simply annoyances, rather than threats to our survival