Seems like most women I meet now are fvcking crazy

[Pandora]

Men can move past trauma and find normalcy easier than women imo.
Men can go from playing the field, spinning plates to being in a committed relationship. When women start getting tossed around, fvcked and tossed, they get permanently damaged.
Men can leave a toxic relationship and get their bearings back. Women seem to crave toxicity after being in a longer toxic relationship.

I believe men can rewrite their script easier than women. Women tend to let things get engrained easier than men.

So when you are dating in your late 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond, most women have become completely fvcked up emotionally from past relationships and trauma. You can screen them harder all you want. Some are good at hiding it and some will tell you covertly how messed up they are on date 1 if you pay attention.
The only thing you can do is play the game and use her for what she's worth if you're strong enough to be able to quickly walk away, or RUN at the first signs that a woman is whacked in the head.

Big facts

 

[Ricky]

What i've noticed over the years and this won't be a surprise is that women moods are more volatile on average than most mens. There are plenty of good biological reasons for this that we don't need to rehash.

Taking this into account.. you realize that the outcomes you have with a particular woman can depend on how she is feeling that day. Unfortunately if you catch her on the wrong day and you say the wrong thing, you can easily tank a relationship with them.

It would be great if there was some way to know which version of the woman you are getting on a particular day. I'm sure one of the simplest screening questions would be "how are you feeling today". If she isn't feeling well, its not a good day to see her.. period. (ironically i didn't mean to use the word period there).

If its a more serious sickness, showing some empathy and caring and offering to bring her something could win some points and is the right thing to do. I've been criticized for not caring enough before so i'm a little more sensitive to it now.