Sh0t said:
Girls go out a lot. They just go to better places than you do. They get invited everywhere. You don't.
General population statistics are useless because men die earlier. Are you sarging 70 year old widows? More men are born, but toward the end of life, there are many more women living.
Check out a link like this:
http://www.latimes.com/theguide/la-icumap,0,2003683.htmlstory
Look at how skewed things are in the prime ages.
And like those famous articles about UNC chapel hill, even if a college has 65% women, the bars are still sausage fests because the women don't want those guys. They go to better/exclusive parties where guys without connections will not be.
+1
Naturally, there are 105 boys born for every 100 girls. And this is
before sex-selective abortion, infanticide and artificial pre-birth gender selection, all of which skew the numbers even more toward a higher proportion of boys. So right off the bat the numbers are against us and we're at a huge disadvantage. Combine that with women's programming to be hypergamous and you've got a real problem if you're not in that top tier of the hierarchy - women would rather share a top-tier man between them than settle for someone lower in the hierarchy.
I noticed this when I was in college - supposedly, my school had more women than men. Yet, EVERY SINGLE bar and house party I went to were total sausagefests, and I went out multiple nights a week. I'm talking a 2-4:1 guys per girl ratio or worse. Clubs were a little better, but consisted mainly of groups of hot girls hanging out with the alphas they came with and not open to talking to anyone else. My classes were the same ratio or worse; I'm assuming all the girls were in sociology, psychology, or whatever other hobby degree since they don't have to get real jobs after they graduate.
It's even worse once you're out of school. I feel like I'm surrounded by guys 24/7 with no real way to meet women. Going out by myself is going to be even less productive than going out with my college friends, since I'll just be that "creepy guy by himself". There's online dating, but the numbers are even worse there and the girls are very low quality. I'd rather masturbate to porn than have sex with a fat girl.
I know guys on here say not to have a "scarcity mentality", but how can you not when you've got so many guys competing over so few women? The same way I've been out of school for 6 months and can't find a decent job - every job I apply to I'm competing against THOUSANDS of other people. When the numbers are stacked against you this badly, it's impossible to make any progress.
****, this is depressing as hell