RLE: What A High Quality Woman Looks Like

[TheException]

Between the guys who deal with sh1t women and those who settle for a BPD woman.....I have began to question whether the majority of this forum knows what an actual high quality woman looks like.

Woke up yesterday morning. My girlfriend was feeling extra happy. We went to the gym and got in a killer workout together. Came back, showered up, then had sex. I leave for work at around noon....

At 3pm I get a text saying she is going to make deer burgers for dinner(bomb as fvck and source of lean protein).

At 6pm I get another text saying she
-sweeped+mopped the kitchen
-cleaned living room
-wiped down microwave(yes even inside )
-cleaned all countertops and tables with disinfectant wipes
-took trash out of can and took it outside
*she does NOT live with me

THIS....is high quality. Then when you say "Thanks....you didnt have to do all that"....she responds "I know.....but I did it because I love you".

This is the sort of behavior that gets a woman high on your ladder. Completely done all on her own with no provocation from me. You should find a women who wants to do things just to please you, while having as close to zero problems and red flags as possible....

So my question to you guys........DO YOU HAVE A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN YOUR LIFE?

If not and you are dealing with a sh1tty woman....realize you are not happy, that you will NEVER BE TRULY HAPPY....realize that you CAN AND WILL do better than her......and DUMP HER SH1TTY A$$ NOW!!!!!

 

[sylvester the cat]

either that or shes just guilty about sleeping with the next door neighbour.

 

[RagingBalls]

I can say a woman is of quality when she stays with you on hard times and helped you cope with it. Supports you with what you like to do.
She is committed only to you and her naked body is for you alone.

i'll add more later.

 

[JoeMarron]

What . You mean there are women out there who don't cook and clean? There are men who actually date these type of women?! Damn, sounds like dumpster diving to me.

 

[GotED?]

Sounds like a CLINGY woman (one without hobbies, interests, or external social interests; and her world evolves around the man for her self-esteem and status) - but as long as you BOTH are CLINGY, then it is a perfect match.

I tend to enjoy these types of women.

Exodus

 

[TheException]

Sounds like a CLINGY woman (one without hobbies, interests, or external social interests; and her world evolves around the man for her self-esteem and status) - but as long as you BOTH are CLINGY, then it is a perfect match.

Interesting point. Id have to disagree with the point about the man having to be clingy as well in order to work though.

The way I see it.....a little clingyness in a girl is good. It shows she sees you as the dominant person in the relationship and that she "cares more". There is definitely a thing as "too clingy" though and it will completely mess up the balance of the relationship. As is.....although she has high interest in me, shes not OVERLY CLINGY.

 

[SAYNO]

The spaces In between

At 3pm I get a text saying she is going to make deer burgers for dinner(bomb as fvck and source of lean protein).

Well, its the message that you never received at 4:00 pm,(the spaces in between) that's the problem!! :crackup:

See that's where the real action takes place..

 

[Brighty]

Man seeing some of the responses in this thread makes me feel sorry for some of you guys who have no real grasp on the game at all and are just jaded fvcks.


That said, congrats Exception. Sounds like a great catch and a girl with high interest in you.

 

[Suspens]

"I know.....but I did it because I love you".

That's a red flag to me.

 

[goldengoose]

GotED? has it right. Clingy insecure women always go overboard in their actions. They have to keep doing things for their man out of fear of losing him. A reason why you got all those texts. everything she does is for the man. those women can leave you in a hurry. read up on it. You make fun of guys settling for BPD women but this is exactly how my friend's BPD treated him before she turned crazy. She did everything yours just did. Did nice things for him and she said I did it because I love you. Normal chicks would just do it and not make a big to do about it. When mine was cooking and made a mess, she did it on her own because that is the responsible and caring thing to do. She didn't need to text every little detail about it. BPD's obsess over you and want you to feel loved because they are insecure and are afraid you're going to leave. that's why they act this way and do this for you. then not too long after that it all changes. you seem a bit green in your screening process.

 

[VladPatton]

LOL..no one can with with you SS muddafaqquas!

 

[Jair213]

My current GF. Girl lives with parents. They give her everything but she does her share too. There paying for her university. Shes going to be a psychologist. Has other options.(she knows it, I know it and still wants to be with me) and I have no job yet. Barely starting college in 2 weeks.

She cleans the house, she cooks, cleans the back yard.(DOG **** LOL)

She respects me, shes good to me. She encourages me to get a job.(witch im trying to get one) She tells me how good she feels that I am starting school.

Super affectionate. Never wines or is grumpy. No displayed of red flags from her part. Has a good relationship with her father and mother(she loves her father to death). Shes really patient. Good attitude, and behavior.

The only thing is that she's way too soft, she gets butthurt quickly.

She tells me all the time that she wants me to do good in school, get a job, and to improve my life because she wants use to work out. ETC

 

[donking]

To be honest, it is hard to judge quality unless you've been with the girl for 6+ months, and she's STILL cooking, cleaning, sucking you off.

It's easy for a chick to pull this off for a couple weeks or months. I've had OP's "quality treatment" with virtually all my chicks especially initially, but chicks can't keep it up if it's all a front.

 

[Eph]

At 6pm I get another text saying she
-sweeped+mopped the kitchen
-cleaned living room
-wiped down microwave(yes even inside )
-cleaned all countertops and tables with disinfectant wipes
-took trash out of can and took it outside
*she does NOT live with me

Not to rain on your parade, but who the hell texts you things like this out the blue? Unless you specifically asked her what she's been up to, I don't see the point in texting anyone this. Seems incredibly approval-seeking.

I mean, seriously, this is like going around telling everyone:
-Just worked out for 2 hours
-Just fixed my car
-Just protected my family from a criminal
-Just got this girl's phone number

Its just not something you should need to tell people, if for no other reason, because no one cares. Just do it, and get on with your life. Oh well, live and let live. Enjoy your relationship OP, because personally someone doing this would annoy me.

 

[goldengoose]

Between the guys who deal with sh1t women and those who settle for a BPD woman.....I have began to question whether the majority of this forum knows what an actual high quality woman looks like.

Woke up yesterday morning. My girlfriend was feeling extra happy. We went to the gym and got in a killer workout together. Came back, showered up, then had sex. I leave for work at around noon....

At 3pm I get a text saying she is going to make deer burgers for dinner(bomb as fvck and source of lean protein).

At 6pm I get another text saying she
-sweeped+mopped the kitchen
-cleaned living room
-wiped down microwave(yes even inside )
-cleaned all countertops and tables with disinfectant wipes
-took trash out of can and took it outside
*she does NOT live with me

THIS....is high quality. Then when you say "Thanks....you didnt have to do all that"....she responds "I know.....but I did it because I love you".

This is the sort of behavior that gets a woman high on your ladder. Completely done all on her own with no provocation from me. You should find a women who wants to do things just to please you, while having as close to zero problems and red flags as possible....

So my question to you guys........DO YOU HAVE A WOMAN LIKE THIS IN YOUR LIFE?

If not and you are dealing with a sh1tty woman....realize you are not happy, that you will NEVER BE TRULY HAPPY....realize that you CAN AND WILL do better than her......and DUMP HER SH1TTY A$$ NOW!!!!!

why write in caps? Any thoughtful gilfriend would clean up her mess. You think you have the only one? Her actions are showing BIG RED FLAGS that you should be aware of. Normal chicks don't give a blow by blow account of everything that they did. You are missing the RED FLAGS you're speaking of. Get a clue.

The way I see it.....a little clingyness in a girl is good. It shows she sees you as the dominant person in the relationship and that she "cares more". There is definitely a thing as "too clingy" though and it will completely mess up the balance of the relationship. As is.....although she has high interest in me, shes not OVERLY CLINGY.

hahaha I find it damn funny that The Exception tries to give people a lecture telling them they need to screen women properly. Here he failed to screen his own woman with her over clingyness. You should AVOID clingy women and they shouldn't sneak past your initial screening process. But he just lets it slide and he is making excuses for her being clingy. He says it's ok to be clingy. Who's settling now? He accepts her clingyness for thinking it's high interest. You don't know too much about women if you think being clingy is a good thing. Those women are as annoying as hell and will drive you nuts with all their problems. Also, she will lash out at you when you don't do what she expects for her favors. Learn how to screen better and don't attack other men when you can't screen yourself, way too funny.

Clingy women cling on to AFC's. AFC's think it's high interest because she is doing things for you. Clingy women can jump right off you and cling on to another guy. That's what they do and you failed to screen her before you settled for her. Who didn't screen right and just settled? haha

Not to rain on your parade, but who the hell texts you things like this out the blue? Unless you specifically asked her what she's been up to, I don't see the point in texting anyone this. Seems incredibly approval-seeking.

I mean, seriously, this is like going around telling everyone:
-Just worked out for 2 hours
-Just fixed my car
-Just protected my family from a criminal
-Just got this girl's phone number

Its just not something you should need to tell people, if for no other reason, because no one cares. Just do it, and get on with your life. Oh well, live and let live. Enjoy your relationship OP, because personally someone doing this would annoy me.

No sh1t and other people noticed he didn't screen her before he settled for her clingyness.

 

[foreverAFC]

GotED? has it right. Clingy insecure women always go overboard in their actions. They have to keep doing things for their man out of fear of losing him. A reason why you got all those texts. everything she does is for the man. those women can leave you in a hurry. read up on it. You make fun of guys settling for BPD women but this is exactly how my friend's BPD treated him before she turned crazy. She did everything yours just did. Did nice things for him and she said I did it because I love you. Normal chicks would just do it and not make a big to do about it. When mine was cooking and made a mess, she did it on her own because that is the responsible and caring thing to do. She didn't need to text every little detail about it. BPD's obsess over you and want you to feel loved because they are insecure and are afraid you're going to leave. that's why they act this way and do this for you. then not too long after that it all changes. you seem a bit green in your screening process.

i agree with this guy, great post

 

[Jair213]

GotED? has it right. Clingy insecure women always go overboard in their actions. They have to keep doing things for their man out of fear of losing him. A reason why you got all those texts. everything she does is for the man. those women can leave you in a hurry. read up on it. You make fun of guys settling for BPD women but this is exactly how my friend's BPD treated him before she turned crazy. She did everything yours just did. Did nice things for him and she said I did it because I love you. Normal chicks would just do it and not make a big to do about it. When mine was cooking and made a mess, she did it on her own because that is the responsible and caring thing to do. She didn't need to text every little detail about it. BPD's obsess over you and want you to feel loved because they are insecure and are afraid you're going to leave. that's why they act this way and do this for you. then not too long after that it all changes. you seem a bit green in your screening process.

Agree.

My GF does all that stuff that the exception mentions and never brags about it one bit neither.

 

[Poonani Maker]

TBH guys, the baby boom generation (about to be drawing social security in hordes), caused all these mutha fvckin me me me I I I selfish problems in women. Women used to be the house servant, allll across the board. That's gone now, thanks to these baby boomers who had it All but pissed it away, but not on THEIR backs necessarily but on ours. Not only are they the debtors, but we are the payors to them, the payees, in all manner of their selfishness created, divorce-wise, relationship-wise. EVER see a baby boomer apologize for Anything? I've not. Bill Clinton, nope, all these muther fvckers just burned everything we had to the ground.

 

[ArcBound]

Man seeing some of the responses in this thread makes me feel sorry for some of you guys who have no real grasp on life at all and are just jaded fvcks.


That said, congrats Exception. Sounds like a great catch and a girl with high interest in you.

^ This.

Definitely good quality woman behavior, of course it should be considered in the totality of the circumstances and never in a vacuum. The sex must have been good haha.

To those that say this woman is clingy, this is what normal albeit young high interest women act like.

^ Also this.

The best people in life are GIVERS. Especially when it comes to your SO. GF gave me things and I gave her other things. I have several friends that are 7's and even an 8 who are legit virgins, caring and giving. Even among the non-virgins they are giving to the people in their lives. I know it is fun to think of all girls as *** dumpsters but I don't think that is the case.

There is a saying:
"If everywhere you go smells like sh!t, maybe you should check your shoes."

 

[backbreaker]

The thing is, if you laid it down right, that's just about any girl who is head over heels for you, that's how she's gonna act the first couple of months beucase she has that wiff of new relationship smell

the key is, how does she act when you aren't new. does she start acting disinterested in sex? does she still clean the inside of the microwave after dating you for 11 months? does she still text you randomlly to tell you she loves you or is it just to ***** at you to bring her something to eat now lol on the way home from work lol?

it's impossible to tell a good woman in the first few months of a relationship... you can only spot the bad ones. any girl can act good when she's infatuated. the biggest cvm dumpster I know lol would come over my house and cook me pancakes from scratch every saturday morning when she didn't have to go to work. would come over my house at 3am in the morning (that should have been a sign lol) and let me screw her brains out and would buy me groceries just so i would not have to go shopping. she was in love.

yeah that wore off lol and she got interested in gangbangs lol