Here's my thing humble ninjia,
that's cool you are entitled to your opinion. however, this is my thing. how come i'm held to this highe standard than everyone else on this forum?
everyone on this forum has posted stupid **** at some point in time. Desi with his ex and the whole karoke thing. I remember that well. Bible Belt with the white trash threesome lol. If you are who I thnik you are,and you are lol, you've posted some stupid **** too. **** even the great jophil posted that situation about the girl and the shrink telling him to break up with him that got pretty out there. I'm not perfect. It may be 'stupid' but it's no less real and it was a problem at one point.
But at the end of the day, this is my life. it is what it is. this is my situation i'm in, i'm not going to sugarcoat it. This is how i feel about the situation.
My point being simply, danger, a few others, made some very valid points. I just did not agree with them. That should have been it. I posted a situtation that happened, i got advice, i didn't take the advice lol, and i chose to live with the consequences if any of me not taking the advice. the situation has worked out by the way perfectly fine if you are wondering.
but when it goes from, okay you don't agree whit me best of luck to, i'm going to stalk your female friend in real life like malice admiitted to (and the mod did nothing) that's when i withdrawal. at that point, if i have to worry about making posts and if if it's not alpha enough, have to worry about posters, digging through my real personal life and my friends and emailing them and ****, what's the point of even opening up? Why be honest? It turns the entire site into a **** measuring echo chamber, because people are afraid to get honest and get help for fear of being, "outed' or some **** like that.
when malice contacted my friend in real life that was the line right there. i would have been happy to talk to that thread for 100 pages i don't' mind you disagreeing with me. but that told me right there, i was not dealing with sane people. To make matters worse, mod did nothing about it either even after saying they would
I know bb wouldn't want to snitch and he doesn't know who did it anyway but if I ever find out who did it I'm going to nail him (or her) hard.
Everything's fair game on the Interwebs (after all, it's just words), but when someone invades one's real life that's entirely unacceptable and an act of aggression in my book. You might not agree or even like me, but that does not give you the right to hack my personal life up to hell. '
but that is what this place has be
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2100097&postcount=39
not calling out AS, I don't care at this point, but it's the principle of the matter. That's why this forum has gone to ****.
we have forgotten how to be civil and we have made it too hard a place to get hone and open. if someone here doesn't like you they make it to where you can't get hone and open with no consequences. Most people, don't care enough to fight back. they ust leave and make the place that much more of an echo chamber. **** rollo doesn't' even post here anymore. It grows on you the negative ****.