POF no success for 1 month

[Naughty Ninja]

Prettyboy AJ. I'm getting you numbers. Got a few replies from white chicks. One is pretty decent looking "Mindy" the other is heavy but a big t1ttied chick who is DTF. Two left their numbers. Got a hot blonde I'm working on now she replied: Haha impressive entrance into my inbox I might be blushing! however, I feel like my profile is vague so... Are you making fun of me??

Waiting for her reply then I'm going for the number. I ignored her 'impressive entrance to my inbox' sexual innuendo. she can get that when you meet...

 

[gspshields2]

Update:

Called Chelsea, sounded very awkward on the phone, asked her about herself, she told me about school, work etc. I asked when she was free and suggested we should grab a coffee, I said when are u free, she said all day wednesday, I suggested wednesday and she said ok we'll see.

 

[gspshields2]

If anyone wants an easier challenge, try messaging some girls in Brazil, they will keep trying to chat with you, and are the aggressors. They will actually give you the time of day unlike these chicks.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Prettyboy AJ. I'm getting you numbers. Got a few replies from white chicks. One is pretty decent looking "Mindy" the other is heavy but a big t1ttied chick who is DTF. Two left their numbers. Got a hot blonde I'm working on now she replied: Haha impressive entrance into my inbox I might be blushing! however, I feel like my profile is vague so... Are you making fun of me??

Waiting for her reply then I'm going for the number. I ignored her 'impressive entrance to my inbox' sexual innuendo. she can get that when you meet...

Your legit man. You get the numbers. It's actually good stuff your doing. I might try it with some light skinned bities or something when I have time. But I have my dishwasher filled with over 10 plates and they all need some A.J. in they life!

I'm a very picky person though. I only date light skinned females unless the girl is just an absolute dime. I cannot stand non-light skinned average chicks. there all ugly to me LOL.

 

[Bumsniff]

If anyone wants an easier challenge, try messaging some girls in Brazil, they will keep trying to chat with you, and are the aggressors. They will actually give you the time of day unlike these chicks.

Most likely because they are a few thousand miles away from you, want you to send them money, and hitting the lotto is closer than the chance you'll ever meet them (if it's even the actual user in the pictures and not some 359lb Paco sitting behind the keyboard.) go get em' loverboy!

 

[sigma335]

You're probably sounding awkward on the phone. If I were u, at this point, I would not be calling these chicks. Text them something funny as an opener. Then text "I'm going to be free on (x day and x day), wanna meet up for a drink at 8 on either of those days"

I beg you to do two things.

1. Read up on game(including inner, text, phone, first date)
2. Approach girls in real life in addition to the spoon feeding you're getting here.

 

[gspshields2]

Most likely because they are a few thousand miles away from you, want you to send them money, and hitting the lotto is closer than the chance you'll ever meet them (if it's even the actual user in the pictures and not some 359lb Paco sitting behind the keyboard.) go get em' loverboy!

I confirm they are who they say they are by adding them to facebook, its not that hard. And none of them have ever asked me for money. They are just extremely fond of foreigners because of their reputation. Brazilian women go crazy for guys who can speak English, i've heard this from countless people who have experience from actually being the country.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Your legit man. You get the numbers. It's actually good stuff your doing. I might try it with some light skinned bities or something when I have time. But I have my dishwasher filled with over 10 plates and they all need some A.J. in they life!

I'm a very picky person though. I only date light skinned females unless the girl is just an absolute dime. I cannot stand non-light skinned average chicks. there all ugly to me LOL.

That blonde chick wasn't bad looking at all..I'd take that number when she gives it. The other chick mindy is a fvck waiting to happen. Both are far from fat in their pics at least...No problem with having someone to hit up during a dry spell..

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You right Ninja, But I've never had a dry spell since I lost my virginity. Pu$%y has never been slow for me. I'll definitely hit them up, tell them to bring more white girls and come to the crib so me and the homies can try to do something.

 

[gspshields2]

Update
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Called up the Spanish girl. She sounds very intelligent and westernized. I am disappointed she doens't have a Spanish accent though, most Spanish girls up here don't they are pretty westernized, sound like white girls. (Time to move to LA or MIAMI lol). We make some small talk, I suggest we meet up for coffee, she says she is doing a date with her girlfriend tonight, and will text me when she is free.

This conversation seemed a flow a little bit more than my earlier call with the whtie chick. This probably due to the fact that this Spanish chick was older than the first chick I called up who was 19 and sounded like a dutz.

 

[gspshields2]

Spanish girl texted me back. I am meeting her for coffee tonight.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Update
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Called up the Spanish girl. She sounds very intelligent and westernized. I am disappointed she doens't have a Spanish accent though, most Spanish girls up here don't they are pretty westernized, sound like white girls. (Time to move to LA or MIAMI lol). We make some small talk, I suggest we meet up for coffee, she says she is doing a date with her girlfriend tonight, and will text me when she is free.

This conversation seemed a flow a little bit more than my earlier call with the whtie chick. This probably due to the fact that this Spanish chick was older than the first chick I called up who was 19 and sounded like a dutz.

Just keep it up. Get numbers, learn to talk to chicks normally and set up meets. You may think you've 'failed' at times...BUT there are no failures in life. Only learning experiences. IF you actually learn from them and grow. Good job so far. Update us with progress and meets. If they flake. Doesn't matter. Keep getting new numbers and setting up meets and try again.

 

[gspshields2]

Just keep it up. Get numbers, learn to talk to chicks normally and set up meets. You may think you've 'failed' at times...BUT there are no failures in life. Only learning experiences. IF you actually learn from them and grow. Good job so far. Update us with progress and meets. If they flake. Doesn't matter. Keep getting new numbers and setting up meets and try again.

Meeting the Spanish chick tonight for coffee, will provide full update when I return tonight. Thanks for the help =)

 

[gspshields2]

Update
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Just got back from meeting the Spanish girl. Her face had more pimples than I would like to see, and she wasn't all that. However, she did have some curves on her.

I sat down first and bought my own coffee, as I don't like to buy coffee for the chick, it makes you look AFC when you buy stuff for them. She later came to the coffee shop and I asked her to grab a coffee and come join me.

We talked about where shes from, her hobbies, her job, her travel experiences etc. She said her plan is to quit her job soon and to volunteer in South America.

I made her laugh about 3 times during the conversation. There were no awkard silences, everything seemed to flow well. I asked her if she would like to go Salsa Dancing on Saturday, she said I might have plans, she doenst want to make semi-plans, and she will let me know.

After an hour, I suggested I walk her back to her condo.
I walked her back, and we had a hug close.

Overall I think it wasn't awkward, but its not enough to get a second meeting.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Dude ALWAYS get a kiss close out of a date. That's my method of determining if the date was good from her perspective. Always go for it. A hug-close is a lets be friends to me.

 

[gspshields2]

Dude ALWAYS get a kiss close out of a date. That's my method of determining if the date was good from her perspective. Always go for it. A hug-close is a lets be friends to me.

She positioned herself for a hug, her head was turned the other way?
Sometimes when it goes really bad I don't even get hug lol.

What do you think Ninja, is a hug close a "lets be friends" "I don't like you"?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Update
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Just got back from meeting the Spanish girl. Her face had more pimples than I would like to see, and she wasn't all that. However, she did have some curves on her.

I sat down first and bought my own coffee, as I don't like to buy coffee for the chick, it makes you look AFC when you buy stuff for them. She later came to the coffee shop and I asked her to grab a coffee and come join me.

We talked about where shes from, her hobbies, her job, her travel experiences etc. She said her plan is to quit her job soon and to volunteer in South America.

I made her laugh about 3 times during the conversation. There were no awkard silences, everything seemed to flow well. I asked her if she would like to go Salsa Dancing on Saturday, she said I might have plans, she doenst want to make semi-plans, and she will let me know.

After an hour, I suggested I walk her back to her condo.
I walked her back, and we had a hug close.

Overall I think it wasn't awkward, but its not enough to get a second meeting.

Don't worry about it. You got another number from Melanie in your inbox. I'll PM you. If you see the Latina again.. fine. Try for the kiss close if there is a next time. If not no big deal. Keep going on meets and you'll get used to them and more comfortable

 

[Naughty Ninja]

She positioned herself for a hug, her head was turned the other way?
Sometimes when it goes really bad I don't even get hug lol.

What do you think Ninja, is a hug close a "lets be friends" "I don't like you"?

Who cares. You're not worried about that crap. Zen like my brother. Nothing fazes you. Keep calm, fun, lighhearted and in control regardless. If there's a next time go for a kiss. Keep getting numbers and meeting..the more you meet, the more you learn to interact with chicks no matter how they look...they're people..Give her a call back Thur. Make a plan of where you'll be and tell her to meet you there. (even if it's a B.S. story) if she decides to go then you go.

 

[bukowski_merit]

gsp - just follow what Naughty is telling you.

I'm floored with how good that date sounds like it went compared to what i perceived your skill level to be.

It's no lay report, or even kiss close - but you sound like you did pretty well socially. Which is most important right now.

You might have some game/personality in you after all. (yes that means i retract my previous statement for you not to do this. If you're social enough to carry on what sounds like an interesting 1 hour conversation with a woman you've never meant, and make her laugh - you're skilled enough to do this.)

Keep at it.

Also: It's a safe bet to subtract at least 1 rating point from a woman in her pictures. She is afterall - looking her best in her pics. It's very rare to find a woman looking better. Out of the hundreds of women I've meant online over the last 10+ years, more of them were missing teeth than there were who looked better in person! (ironically, to me - Asian women are the most consistent in looking like their pics or better in person.)

 

[gspshields2]

Update
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Ukrainian girl with very nice accent called me up and we talked for about 20 minutes. She said she would be free wednesday and we should meet up then. She asked me I was looking for a long term relationship.

She is on POF right now after she said she was going to bed (liar). LMAO.
Not sure how this will pan out.