POF no success for 1 month

[Z Man]

I text the pretty nerdy chick(HB6) explaining to her that I will be 30 minutes late, to which she texts me back "I am not impressed". Ok I meet up with the pretty nerdy chick and we go for coffee.

We sat there for a good 4 hours talking, I was trying to leave after the second hour but, she just kept talking and talking. She drops me off at my place and we hug and now she is texting me this morning. I hope she is not a stalker. I had some girl stalk me before and it was crazy as ****...

Did you miss the earlier post about getting up and moving the girl around with you while talking?

GSP, did you make a move on her? After the 1st hour of her babbling, you could have gone in for the kiss, just to get her to shut up!

 

[Zarky]

Is it possible to be working on POF for 1 month, and have no results. Everyday for the past month, I put in 5 hours of work, msging as many ppl as I can and still no success. Anyone have similar outcome? P.S. I am good looking and muscular

hahahaha I've gone years without "success" in online dating. I've been doing it a decade now (come October) and in all of 2006 I didn't have any dates from it.

 

[juicywa]

GSP, just out of curiosity... how much money are spending on average for every date?

 

[gspshields2]

I just had 5 dates in 6 days thanks to Naughty Ninja!!!! Ninja is Legend!!

 

[gspshields2]

GSP, just out of curiosity... how much money are spending on average for every date?

Date with Spanish girl: 2 dollars (coffee for myself)
Date with Korean girl: 6 dollars (coffee for us both)
Date with Ukranian girl: 6 dollars (coffee for us both)
Date with nerdy pretty chicK: 6 dollars (coffee for us both)
Date with Curvy white chick: 50 dollars tonight(I took her around town)

 

[Z Man]

Um.. okay.. Why is the curvy white chick getting special treatment!?!

 

[evan12]

I just had 5 dates in 6 days thanks to Naughty Ninja!!!! Ninja is Legend!!

@gspshields2 : can I know the population of your city and how old are you , because this is a really good success

 

[gspshields2]

@gspshields2 : can I know the population of your city and how old are you , because this is a really good success

In my twenties, I've been trying in multiple cities, and you pretty much get the same results. Really no difference from city to city.

 

[gspshields2]

Um.. okay.. Why is the curvy white chick getting special treatment!?!

We seem to hit it off the best, and she likes to party, whereas the other girls didn't want to party.

 

[gspshields2]

hahahaha I've gone years without "success" in online dating. I've been doing it a decade now (come October) and in all of 2006 I didn't have any dates from it.

If you put work into it, you could probably get a date everyday if you wanted, the problem you will run into girls that will stalk you eventually.
And you would probably get sick of dating. It is also very time consuming, those are the negatives.

 

[gspshields2]

The nerdy chick is texting me like 24/7 non-stop, it's really annoying.

 

[Poonani Maker]

The nerdy chick is texting me like 24/7 non-stop, it's really annoying.

You can't block her? I have so many women blocked (like 20) it's unreal, and they try to contact me in other ways after they find out I've blocked them. I block them out in all those other ways too. If they show up at my doorstep, I call 911.

 

[evan12]

@gspshields2: after you changed your profile as jinja suggested , how many girls you have to send message for to get a response like is it 10 to 1 or 5 to 1

 

[TonyBaloney]

Spent all nigh plugging away on POF, for this piece of sh it convo!!!!

I would have had more luck jumping on a train, with a cheap bottle of wine pissed outta my head, doing random approaches. POF IS LAME



6/10/2012 11:25:25 PM

Hey there xxxx ! Like your outrageous pics What do you think to mine, especially my Land rover decorated for Jubilee Hot or Not???? Do you know xxxxxxx thats where I am, how about you? Tony


6/10/2012 11:39:51 PM

I'm curious - why are my pics outrageous?


6/10/2012 11:42:07 PM

Ok fair point they are not I will be honest and hold my hands up that I am sending a template to girls I feel attracted too.....

Now you answer my question - what do you reckon to the jubilee landy?


6/11/2012 12:06:47 AM

So what kind of photos do the usual girls you send it to have??

Well yes, it has bunting. Any more decoration would've required painting it. What's the obsession with the vehicle?


6/11/2012 12:06:47 AM

I guess its a kinda outlet, as I'm single at the mo..... I do have other interests...... first one i can think of is a nal.....




Fook those tardy, flippant replys.

I'm sick of it. Tonight i delete the account - Forever!!!!!

 

[incognito42]

I think you're approach is a little off. I'm having a good bit of early success, and it's simply due to me NOT straying from the formula naughty ninja has set forth in this thread

Keep it simple, keep your messages more or less limited to 2 or 3 messages where you end up getting the number or move on to the next one. Keep it brief. Read back over naughty ninjas posts and you will find success. I'm no great looking stud by a long shot, but I am getting results because of that guy

 

[seasonedplayer]

Is it possible to be working on POF for 1 month, and have no results. Everyday for the past month, I put in 5 hours of work, msging as many ppl as I can and still no success. Anyone have similar outcome? P.S. I am good looking and muscular

How tall are you? If under 5 10, online dating a waste of time...

 

[OC Speedball]

I don't use any online dating, but I'm curious, why does everyone seem to prefer POF over OK Cupid?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

How tall are you? If under 5 10, online dating a waste of time...

So you put 5'11.

99.999% of chicks profiles are all fluff filler, pics taken at myspace angles or even if not are nut jobs, slvts, etc.

Play the game. Fvck em if they don't like it.

 

[Zarky]

How tall are you? If under 5 10, online dating a waste of time...

You've said that before and it's false. You might have fewer women interested, but "waste of time" it's not.

 

[Robert28]

ok, I made up a POF profile today to try out some of NN's emails to see how they worked on "southern women" and here's what I'm noticing so far.

girls between the ages of 18-24- they read it and never respond, read and delete it, I've had 3 unread and delete it and 2 of those never looked at my profile, I've had 3 respond with only "huh?" or "what?" which leads me to believe their sense of humor is non-existant.

girls between the ages of 25-29- the ratio of them replying is significantly higher then the girls between 18-24 but these are some SKEPTICAL b!tches. you can tell instantly they are damaged goods because they mostly reply with "is that the email you send to every girl?" or something along those lines. some respond positively but I'd guess it's about 50/50 so far.

girls between the ages of 30+ respond to it positively, most seem to find it funny and actually write you back an email you can work with.

I've sent this message to what I consider the top looking girls (7's and above) and so far it's reeling in older women, which is fine, but I don't think it's the type of message that can be used on just any female on POF. the hotter and younger they are the less chance you hear back from them or they are so dumb that they don't have a sense of humor, which there's really nothing you can do about that. I've mostly sent the message to girls that look at my profile, with the exception of about 10 women that didn't look at it initially.

What I did do was put up about 6 pics of me, but 3 of them are pics of me with HOT girls that I have either dated or are friends with. I figured maybe it would give me some social proof online, but I think all it's doing is intimidating most of the women on there because while they think their sh!t don't stink on pof, they see pics of me with women hotter then them and know that I can't be fooled into falling for their foolishness.