POF no success for 1 month

[Naughty Ninja]

Update
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Ukrainian girl with very nice accent called me up and we talked for about 20 minutes. She said she would be free wednesday and we should meet up then. She asked me I was looking for a long term relationship.

She is on POF right now after she said she was going to bed (liar). LMAO.
Not sure how this will pan out.

You tell her you are looking for a long term relationship. Tell every chick you meet that.

Why do you care that these chicks stay online? You think you're going to meet your wife on that site?!?! Ignore the nonsense. Worry about yourself. Not about chicks who need online 'dating.' Wise up grasshopper.

 

[gspshields2]

UPDATE
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Called up Melanie and made some small talk. I suggested we meet for coffee on Friday, she agreed. Minutes later she texts me saying "are we going to talk more before then, I am shy" I responded sure.

She also mentioned alot of guys on that site have an agenda, and guys that have an agenda
like those guys are wasting their time.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

UPDATE
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Called up Melanie and made some small talk. I suggested we meet for coffee on Friday, she agreed. Minutes later she texts me saying "are we going to talk more before then, I am shy" I responded sure.

She also mentioned alot of guys on that site have an agenda, and guys that have an agenda
like those guys are wasting their time.

Lame.

She's running game on you. Trying to figure out if she has a possible guy with a good body (per your shirtless pic) to be a provider and doormat to her...or what everyone is really on that site for = quick fvck and chuck.

Ask yourself (don't ask her) why if 'most' guys have an agenda is she still on the site? She really doesn't think guys are going to not want sex...at least at some point? I never say anything. I judge their actions. Observe grasshopper.

She's playing 'good girl' who is a 'great catch'. Play along with it like you believe her. Meet...then escalate slowly. She wants you to go with the game of her being a 'good girl' so if she does sleep with you eventually. "It's not her fault because she thought you were a 'nice guy'. You have to remain ZEN like to the nonsense. Don't push sex. Play it cool. Wear a nice button down with the top three buttons opened and your BEST colonge not cheap stuff. If you play it cool and smooth and remain in control she'll start coming on to you. She knows she wrote back because of your shirtless pic. Ignore it and play her "I believe you're a good girl game." Trust me..if you don't eventually wind up fvcking her...someone else off the site WILL. If they haven't already.

Get in touch later on with that Shawna chick. She was the one who mentioned right off the bat of liking 'scary movies and cuddling' that you mentioned in your profile...you play it correct and you'll be over there with a bottle of wine, cuddling, and fvcking shortly afterwards.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

GSP sheilds. I just got you another number from Lauren. Pretty cute white chick who's into Asian stuff per her pics. Nice little body too. Check your POF inbox..She looks goth in her halloween pic = Freaky times if you play it right!


Update for Solomon as well: you got another number from a chick in your inbox. I'm waiting on another..lmao.

 

[Solomon]

Ninja how you got all this time brah? lol I appericate it keep doing what you doing brah

 

[gspshields2]

Update
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Went out with Kim the Korean FOB. She was an HB5, she was actually better looking than her pics, I was expecting a disaster. Although someone did mention earlier that Asians usually look better in real life than their pics.

She just arrived from Korea two years ago and she is on a student VISA or something like that. Her English of course was rather limited, but she understood the things I was saying and replied back to the best of her abilities. I kept asking her questions, e.g. what are your plans while you are here, what do you like to do, do you like it here more than Korea, what is your favorite food. I tried to tell some jokes but she couldn't understand what I was saying.

I was bored out of my mind to be frank. It's like talking to a robot or something. Theres really nothing you can do be smooth with a FOB, unless anyone has any tips on that lol. There is no such thing as Game when talking to a FOB.

I walked her back to her condo and said goodbye. I am glad to be out of there because i'm sure we were both bored out of our minds. I think she should go for a Korean guy instead, she has in her headline "I want a white guy", please don't go for a white guy, you will bore the **** out of him. The end

 

[incognito42]

Cool thread, I've never heard of POF or considered online dating for whatever reason but having just finished reading this entire thread this shines a new light on things. Let me know if ya wanna hook me up too ninja dude

On a side note, is it a terrible idea to ever use shirtless pics taken in frontof the mirror?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Cool thread, I've never heard of POF or considered online dating for whatever reason but having just finished reading this entire thread this shines a new light on things. Let me know if ya wanna hook me up too ninja dude

On a side note, is it a terrible idea to ever use shirtless pics taken in frontof the mirror?

Yes. UNLESS you are shredded like a God, and have good looks. Then the chicks on there simply don't give a fvck that you had a mirror pic as they're too busy thinking about meeting you. If not. Then a beach pic...or even last years beach pic is good (if cut up and not looking like crap). the thing with mirror pics is chicks think you're just looking to get laid. (Even though they are themselves on there.) You fly under the radar with an 'innocent' shirtless beach pic to give them a taste while not appearing to be looking for sex with a mirror pic. You don't escalate anything till you meet them IF you feel like it or they will FLAKE. If they think your hot enough and just send you a n00d pic while texting...Just reply: "Very sexy. But you should save that till after we meet. " Too many dudes let their hormones go berserk and these chicks will flake before meeting and possibly fvcking you on the first meet (depending on how good you look and how 'in control' your horniness is in person).

The MAIN thing is your pictures. Put up a quick profile with your absolute BEST pictures, parties, athletic, outdoors. One or two shirtless outdoors is best. I'll handle re-doing the profile and sending the messages.

Once the profile's done I search for the best looking chicks and start spamming the opener. After they respond next message I ask them how the site is treating them. Once they reply it's "I'm not on here much. Been busy with intense training at the gym. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. =).... they reply with the number.

The better you look, the better the pictures, the quicker the responses and numbers handed over. Usually I get them in three messages. Then all you have to do is read the message thread in your POF inbox. Quick read their profile. And call them up to set up a quick meet. Easy work.


Keep in mind: EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. 99.999% of the chicks on POF are damaged goods, nut jobs, and slvtting it up on there. Don't be fooled by anything. Play the 'believe I'm a nice girl looking for a good guy" game. Always remain in control and never let them see you sweat it OR them. Act normal. No need to be an 'alpha' clown. And if you meet them and wind up 'hanging out'. WRAP IT UP. Double bag it. SERIOUSLY.

 

[gspshields2]

So im texting this cute nerdy chick right now, since I am a bit of a dork I love video games and stuff like that, it seems we actually have found a goood looking girl, whos intelligent, and appreciates anime, video games, and nerdy stuff like that. Usually this is reserved for very nerdy ugly looking dudes, think comic book guy from the simpons. But, we have actually found a smart girl who happens to be very stunning.

So far I find her to be much more interesting than the Fobby Korean Girl that didn't speak English.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

So im texting this cute nerdy chick right now, since I am a bit of a dork I love video games and stuff like that, it seems we actually have found a goood looking girl, whos intelligent, and appreciates anime, video games, and nerdy stuff like that. Usually this is reserved for very nerdy ugly looking dudes, think comic book guy from the simpons. But, we have actually found a smart girl who happens to be very stunning.

So far I find her to be much more interesting than the Fobby Korean Girl that didn't speak English.

GSPsheilds: You sir are a BEAST. An ANIMAL. Keep up the good work and update with the progress!! ***Make sure you don't forget about the other numbers you haven't called as well as new chicks! And don't kill interest by talking too much. Set up a meet with the Lauren chick as soon as possible. Perhaps after you meet for coffee you can suggest going to your place to 'play video games' and challenge her? Then show her a few MMA moves...WINNING.

 

[gspshields2]

Why do some whales think they can actually get into a relationship with someone who is not a whale themselves?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Why do some whales think they can actually get into a relationship with someone who is not a whale themselves?

Tell them they need to date the Gorton's fisherman.


Incognito...PM me your name...I've already gotten replies two minutes after setting up your profile...WINNING.

 

[Robert28]

another tip I'll share that no one else has touched on. for those of you that have been on there before (POF) and are getting on there again. The girls on there have NO memory whatsoever on that site. NONE! the first time I was on there I remember getting into this HUGE argument with this one girl, she ended up blocking me. I didn't care. Few months go by and I got back on there again, guess who looked at my profile? same girl.lol I decided to play it aloof and sent her a message as if I had never talked to her before. the b!tch didn't remember me!!!!!! I had up the SAME pics as before except added 3 more new ones and my profile was different. anyways, long story short I ended up exchanging numbers with the girl who a few months ago cussed me out, yet ended up giving me a bj. funny thing is I never reminded her of who I was.LOL!!! so just keep in mind that just because you failed on there with a girl once, if they happen to look at your profile again, try again. don't remind them who you are, just act like you're "new". they'll never remember. I swear to God I think some of these girls have someone telling them to breathe every 2 seconds. theyre THAT stupid.

 

[gspshields2]

Watchout for trolling from bodybuilding.com, they are posing as whales and seeing how desperate guys are that respond to them lol.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

another tip I'll share that no one else has touched on. for those of you that have been on there before (POF) and are getting on there again. The girls on there have NO memory whatsoever on that site. NONE! the first time I was on there I remember getting into this HUGE argument with this one girl, she ended up blocking me. I didn't care. Few months go by and I got back on there again, guess who looked at my profile? same girl.lol I decided to play it aloof and sent her a message as if I had never talked to her before. the b!tch didn't remember me!!!!!! I had up the SAME pics as before except added 3 more new ones and my profile was different. anyways, long story short I ended up exchanging numbers with the girl who a few months ago cussed me out, yet ended up giving me a bj. funny thing is I never reminded her of who I was.LOL!!! so just keep in mind that just because you failed on there with a girl once, if they happen to look at your profile again, try again. don't remind them who you are, just act like you're "new". they'll never remember. I swear to God I think some of these girls have someone telling them to breathe every 2 seconds. theyre THAT stupid.

You ain't lyin either. Pay attention kids!

 

[gspshields2]

The Ukrainian girl texted me last night and said lets meet up tomorrow at 8. I asked her where and didn't get any reply, then I see her on POF last night and today, that is weird, how could she lose interest so fast with me even replying.

Shauna the cougar is now ignoring me after she initiated with me, and she hasnt even had a chance to talk to me on the phone.

The pretty nerdy chick im going to meet for coffee tomorrow night or on the weekend, she keeps seeing me online and doesnt like that at all lol.

Women are very weird creatures indeed, there is no logic behind any of their actions.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The Ukrainian girl texted me last night and said lets meet up tomorrow at 8. I asked her where and didn't get any reply, then I see her on POF last night and today, that is weird, how could she lose interest so fast with me even replying.

Shauna the cougar is now ignoring me after she initiated with me, and she hasnt even had a chance to talk to me on the phone.

The pretty nerdy chick im going to meet for coffee tomorrow night or on the weekend, she keeps seeing me online and doesnt like that at all lol.

Women are very weird creatures indeed, there is no logic behind any of their actions.

Tell the ukranian chick to meet you at your place or you can go to hers to hang out. She what she replies with...


I told you to STOP calling or texting the Shauna chick at least for a few days. They can SMELL desperation. Trust me these chicks want it to be all their way.

Think about it. the nerdy chick just happened to be online to see if YOU were online? I'm not buying it. She was online reading messages and looking for upgrades. Since nothing 'great' is in her inbox...She got pissed that she saw YOU online. Get it? Ignore it. Set up the meet and hang out with her for a movie or video games at your place or hers. Period.

Meet the nerdy chick for coffee...suggest watching a movie after if all goes well at your place or hers. Then pick up a decent bottle of wine. Or take her to your place to play video games..then talk about and show her 'MMA moves' to 'protect' herself...I told you they are all INSANE on that site. And do NOT tell chicks off there you 'like' them or you will kill it. Don't worry about chicks not replying. DO NOT KEEP TEXTING OR CALLING THEM. Think of it this way. YOU have a life. They should too. If they don't get back to you. Keep going for more. Sometimes they'll pop up after you haven't bothered them and THEN you set up to 'hang out'.

 

[incognito42]

Ninja is there a way to see the messages/convos taking place? Can't figure it out

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Ninja is there a way to see the messages/convos taking place? Can't figure it out

You'll see them when you get replies in your inbox. If someone replies read all messages in the email (there's a link.) I sent a bunch of emails yesterday. you need better, clearer pictures. The gym pic is good but one at the beach is better...because you took it alone in the gym. Find better pictures..and the responses will increase. Pictures at parties, outdoors, doing athletic stuff. Clearer and or closer pictures. It's MOSTLY about your look in pictures. Dressed up well etc. If you have any good ones on a digital camera, off Facebook etc. save them on your computer then upload them (you can add up to eight).

 

[gspshields2]

Update
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Ukrainian chick texts me saying sorry she can't make it today she has to study (ok but she has time to go on pof). Why text me saying to meet today and then the next day cancel, very rude.

She now says "maybe friday evening"