POF no success for 1 month

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Listen dog. I know you want to be successful at POF and what not but you gotta let that complement the game. It seems like your go to method of obtaining a female is to get the online. Well I'm telling you if you go out you can pull girls that 1. live in your area 2. are not on dating sites (less likely they are crazy) 3. You can actually peep their steelo/swag.

Now there's nothing wrong with POF but gsp it's the weekend brother. Get outside your crib and get you a good weekend worth of macking. Read my journal. I know I go out on the weekend and get my mack on. and when you get your mack on in real life your confidence increases.

I wouldn't say I'm too successful with POF. I mean I get hella numbers from cute chicks but no dimes so I'd say it's failure. Way easier to go out and spit some izm to the ladies.

Good luck in your conquest though.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Update:

Got numbers from:

1 ugly Hispanic girl (which i asked for the number right away),
when I called she hung up (short interactions are short lived).

1 ugly Asian girl

1 black girl.

0 white girls.

So far the upgrade in the profile has gotten more attention, however, the problem is still mostly getting attention from primarly black girls,
which I am not interested in, no offense to those who are.

Black girls usually give their numbers away with out any game, sorry if this offends,
but white girls require some real gaming.

Getting 0 results from white girls still with the updated profile ,

we'll see what happens as the spamming continues lol

Let's acknowledge the elephant in the room shall we? As far as POF 'dating' goes most chicks are looking for the above 6' "10" white guy, who has the edgy Tattoos and will make their friends 'jealous' or boost their 'ego' by pumping and dumping them.

These chicks are chasing a deluded fantasy...and it's all for their 'advantage'. Don't take ANY online chick seriously...when they reply..just PRETEND you do.

I used your profile and got a few more replies that I replied to. I don't know how your phone voice is..maybe your accent is too thick? Doesn't matter. Chicks online don't live in the real world. Only their own media brainwashed, fantasy land. Trust me. Whoever doesn't respond is doing you a favor. If you piss your pants and throw a tantrum over not getting an IMMEDIATE reply these chicks will eat you alive and ruin whatever 'confidence' you most likely DO NOT have to begin with. You SURE you want and would actually go through with meeting them?

What are you trying to accomplish? Getting replies from white chicks using your FRIENDS pictures?? To prove what? Seriously dude if you need to resort to online dating as the only way to meet and talk to women and get emo over it....You need to SERIOUSLY work on yourself before you attempt to try to get a chick to make your 'world complete'. FACT.

 

[cablecow15]

Hey babe the names Cablecow! Im 6'5 185lbs, with hazel eyes. In my spare time I like to curl weights and drink protein shakes. I can also solve rubiks cubes blind folded, make paper aeroplanes out of cling wrap and once during a trek through south east asia I carved the chinese national anthem onto a single grain of rice using my cousins diabetes syringe. I have also been known to toss baseballs into the stratosphere and make women orgasm with a two-verse song on the banjo.



I copy paste that to everyone im interested in.

It does multiple things .

1) it weeds out b!t@hes , cause they always take it seriously

2) it lets me see who has a good sense of humor , something im attracted to

3) mild sexual humor , and if there really interested they will mention the sexual joke in their reply

I prefer real game , but ill admit im not where id like to be at it , and cant afford to go out every night atm

 

[gspshields2]

Listen dog. I know you want to be successful at POF and what not but you gotta let that complement the game. It seems like your go to method of obtaining a female is to get the online. Well I'm telling you if you go out you can pull girls that 1. live in your area 2. are not on dating sites (less likely they are crazy) 3. You can actually peep their steelo/swag.

Now there's nothing wrong with POF but gsp it's the weekend brother. Get outside your crib and get you a good weekend worth of macking. Read my journal. I know I go out on the weekend and get my mack on. and when you get your mack on in real life your confidence increases.

I wouldn't say I'm too successful with POF. I mean I get hella numbers from cute chicks but no dimes so I'd say it's failure. Way easier to go out and spit some izm to the ladies.

Good luck in your conquest though.

Problem I don't have too many wingmen. Last time I went to a club, it ended up in a massive fight between the group of guys I was out with and another group of guys that outnumbered us by 3 times.

Clubbing usually ends up in guys getting pissed because none of the girls are talking to them and them taking it out on other guys.

Its nearly impossible to approach good looking girls because of the many "shields" (i.e. friends/guys/whatever) that are blocking your way, you need to befriend the whole group until you are able to get in.

POF has been more successful than real life because of these factors.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Problem I don't have too many wingmen. Last time I went to a club, it ended up in a massive fight between the group of guys I was out with and another group of guys that outnumbered us by 3 times.

Clubbing usually ends up in guys getting pissed because none of the girls are talking to them and them taking it out on other guys.

Its nearly impossible to approach good looking girls because of the many "shields" (i.e. friends/guys/whatever) that are blocking your way, you need to befriend the whole group until you are able to get in.

POF has been more successful than real life because of these factors.

How has POF been 'successful' for you? And why are you using your friends pictures?

Clubs aren't bad. Learn to talk to chicks just by saying hi to as many as you can and being normal. You don't have to take nonsense. But don't act like some "alpha" fraud or use any PUA DJ ninja tactic BS. Start by forcing yourself to just say hello, smile and wave to chicks... one or even a few may stop and want to talk....then you'll find yourself up sh1ts creek won't you?

 

[gspshields2]

How has POF been 'successful' for you? And why are you using your friends pictures?

Clubs aren't bad. Learn to talk to chicks just by saying hi to as many as you can and being normal. You don't have to take nonsense. But don't act like some "alpha" fraud or use any PUA DJ ninja tactic BS. Start by forcing yourself to just say hello, smile and wave to chicks... one or even a few may stop and want to talk....then you'll find yourself up sh1ts creek won't you?

Well I consider POF to be more a success than real life, because we actually got a few numbers from that profile.

If girls are only looking for a 6'10" white guy with tatoos on pof, that is a reflection of the real world, because these girls would have the same preferences in real life, not just online.

I'm using my friends pics right now because I'm a bit paranoid, some people will see my pics and recognize me on this thread right now lol.

I wanted to see if there was anything different, someone else, besides me could say to a white girl to get a phone number from them, right now there isn't.

I don't have an accent at all, I grew up here and the only language I know is English, I talk like a white guy.

I called her and said hey this is "so and so" from POF and she just hung up right away.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Well I consider POF to be more a success than real life, because we actually got a few numbers from that profile.

So you've gotten numbers, and gotten 'success' but not gotten 'success' and are using your friends pictures and a new profile to get 'success' but not the 'success' you want. LMFAO. Good Lord you sound like a chick on POF!!

If girls are only looking for a 6'10" white guy with tatoos on pof, that is a reflection of the real world, because these girls would have the same preferences in real life, not just online.

Online is a chicks fantasy world to the 100th power. Meeting chicks in real life you can HOPEFULLY determine if she's a cuckoo bird...that is if you aren't one yourself.

I'm using my friends pics right now because I'm a bit paranoid, some people will see my pics and recognize me on this thread right now lol.

You're paranoid over dudes online seeing you try to pick up chicks online? I'm not buying it. If true. You aren't going to do jack if you meet any of those chicks in real life and you know it.

I wanted to see if there was anything different, someone else, besides me could say to a white girl to get a phone number from them, right now there isn't.

You've gotten replies from white chicks. Stop lying.


I don't have an accent at all, I grew up here and the only language I know is English, I talk like a white guy.

I called her and said hey this is "so and so" from POF and she just hung up right away.


Maybe she was getting banged by a white guy when you called? Hahahaha

 

[gspshields2]

I wanted to see if there was anything different, someone else, besides me could say to a white girl to get a phone number from them, right now there isn't.

You've gotten replies from white chicks. Stop lying.

Yes I have gotten replies, I don't deny this, but out of those replies 0 numbers from white chicks
since i've signed up. If there is one I would gladly report it.
Sadly white chicks like to reply in order to waste other people's
time, that is their main objective. 0 numbers from white chicks.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Yes I have gotten replies, I don't deny this, but out of those replies 0 numbers from white chicks
since i've signed up. If there is one I would gladly report it.
Sadly white chicks like to reply in order to waste other people's
time, that is their main objective. 0 numbers from white chicks.

You want your precious 'white chick' who's going to put out in A.S.A.P?

Save your time, and money you would waste on some cvm dvmpster you meet online and hire an escort. Problem solved.

white chicks, asian, hispanic, and black chicks are mostly replying, sending out numbers and meeting to fvck the most aesthetic, shredded, tatt'd up, over 6ft dudes they can find to boost their obviously low self esteem and non worth. Of course if asked that they would lie out the gazoo. But guaranteed if you could see their inbox replies to who they're talking to and what they're talking about it would be a huge eye opener to the clueless fools who think their 'princess' awaits them online.

If you wind up meeting a chick in real life and she tells you she had or has a profile on Plenty of Fish or any online dating site for that matter...either wrap up or take it as a full warning of what she brings to the table...and it's more than a 'pink cookie' I can assure you.

Listen up dude. You've got problems. And you looking for the 'solution' on Plenty of Fish is like a black dude asking to be invited to a KKK cookout.

 

[gspshields2]

You want your precious 'white chick' who's going to put out in A.S.A.P?

Save your time, and money you would waste on some cvm dvmpster you meet online and hire an escort. Problem solved.

white chicks, asian, hispanic, and black chicks are mostly replying, sending out numbers and meeting to fvck the most aesthetic, shredded, tatt'd up, over 6ft dudes they can find to boost their obviously low self esteem and non worth. Of course if asked that they would lie out the gazoo. But guaranteed if you could see their inbox replies to who they're talking to and what they're talking about it would be a huge eye opener to the clueless fools who think their 'princess' awaits them online.

If you wind up meeting a chick in real life and she tells you she had or has a profile on Plenty of Fish or any online dating site for that matter...either wrap up or take it as a full warning of what she brings to the table...and it's more than a 'pink cookie' I can assure you.

Listen up dude. You've got problems. And you looking for the 'solution' on Plenty of Fish is like a black dude asking to be invited to a KKK cookout.

So what percentage of guys are actually having success on POF? 5%?

 

[gspshields2]

What do I say when I call the girls, can anyone provide verbatim examples, they are gonna see that im not this funny on the phone lol!

 

[roman81]

What do I say when I call the girls, can anyone provide verbatim examples, they are gonna see that im not this funny on the phone lol!

Dude listen to what Ninja is telling you why are you so foooking stubborn what's wrong with you. Improve your situation by acting on the advice of those more experienced than you, stop being a douche!

 

[gspshields2]

Dude listen to what Ninja is telling you why are you so foooking stubborn what's wrong with you. Improve your situation by acting on the advice of those more experienced than you, stop being a douche!

Update got about 5 numbers now, very nice!

This is a first for me, i've never gotten past stage #1
which is to get the number.

Stage #2

Set up the meet, on the phone.

I am totally confused, what do I say?
I reread every bit of advice on this thread, but could not find any information regarding what you do after you get the number, how you get to the meet.

Need to get from obtaining the number (Stage #2) to > meet (Stage #3)

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Update got about 5 numbers now, very nice!

This is a first for me, i've never gotten past stage #1
which is to get the number.

Stage #2

Set up the meet, on the phone.

I am totally confused, what do I say?
I reread every bit of advice on this thread, but could not find any information regarding what you do after you get the number, how you get to the meet.

Need to get from obtaining the number (Stage #2) to > meet (Stage #3)

Quick call. A few minutes TOPS. ASK THEM QUESTIONS ABOUT THEMSELVES. BE an EXCELLENT listener so if you bring something up they've said on the call in the future they'll be impressed you remembered. Chicks love to shoot off at the mouth. Don't talk TOO much about yourself. Keep a bit of mystery. ( I know it's hard as hell ESPECIALLY when you feel like conversation is flowing effortlessly, the connection is strong, and the chick is beautiful.) You have to realize that T.V etc. use cliff hangers or don't tell the whole story (blow their load) right off the bat on PURPOSE. If you reveal too much or talk too much it will slowly KILL interest.

Keep upbeat but not over the top in trying to impress them or trying to be a clown. Chicks aren't looking to date a clown. Someone who makes them 'laugh' = they find ATTRACTIVE and gives them butterflies. If they find you cute enough they'll laugh at your dumb jokes.

HAVE A PLAN. You MUST have a plan to meet up and hang out BEFORE you call. Write it down if you must so you don't forget.

Make sure YOU 'have to go' first as you will talk to them soon. (I've had chicks 'had to go' many times because personally I don't know when to S.T.F.U.) sometimes it doesn't matter...but it's better to leave more to talk about in the future.

Rinse, cycle, repeat with every chick you talk to and keep spamming and getting numbers. Don't rely on one, two or even three chicks. GET NUMBERS. SET UP MEETS with brief calls. It becomes a routine after a while and you'll start getting so used to it it'll become like tying your shoelaces. (You have learned to tie your shoelaces haven't you?)

 

[Naughty Ninja]

What do I say when I call the girls, can anyone provide verbatim examples, they are gonna see that im not this funny on the phone lol!

Follow my phone call post. Dude sometimes I swear if I could I would reach through my laptop screen and strangle the life out of you.

 

[Kawai]

Seriously, the advice here is spot on. You have to have a short but catchy profile that makes you look like mr adventure. For my account I generally say my job is secret squirrel business...because it is. But if I tell the truth and paint a picture that I sit around all day creating briefings it just sounds boring. I'm by no means the best looking guy, but I rarely chase. I normally just sit back and let them bite and then work it till I I get it.

 

[snowdog]

No, I really am not sure... Maybe you can explain better.

Sounds a lot like you said dating sites are for faggots. Sounds a lot like you're calling a bunch of us in this thread a faggot to me?

There ya go.

That was a pretty popular sentiment here in 2007 (although "pvssy" was more commonly used). 2007? Doesn't that happens to be when you started your journal on cold approaching? And in the four years of you cold approaching women before you finally lost your virginity... Do you want to take a guess how many women I laid from Myspace, Plenty of Fish, OkCupid, Craigslist, Zoosk, and Facebook during that same period?

Yeah, before I finally lost it, you f*cking pompous douchebag.

Sounds like you've bought the PUA marketing machine hype that cold approaching is the ONLY way.

That's a shame, because it's not the only way brother.

I do cold approaching.
I do social circle pickup.
I do work game.
I do text/phone game.
I do one night stands.
I do fvck buddies.
I do relationships.
and obviously...
I do online game (and ill proudly say this is mostly what i do).


And i can offer advice on any of them to anyone who asks; yourself included.

Free of both charge and insults.

That's all.

Right. It's very gracious of you that you're offering your undoubtedly awesome advice for free. I can give you some advice too, but you'll have to pay for it, and it wouldn't be insult-free. Hell, I will take a sh*t on your lawn just for the hell of it after I gave my expensive and insulting advice to you. How does that sound for a deal? :cheer:


In all seriousness, I have a very good reason to have this whole attitude towards this online dating thing. It is because it should be the very, very last thing to focus on.

There are a ton of guys on here who are socially cripples. Some of these poor ass-holes aren't even able to look girls in their eyes or even try to have a normal, random conversation with people in general. I know this, because I once was one of those guys.

Of course it crossed my mind several times throughout my journey to sign up for some e-dating website. But every time I faced that registration page, I said to myself: "No. This isn't way it should be done. I need to take care of the basic foundation levels first.". It's exactly the same story with hookers, of course that also crossed my mind, but I also never did that. And hey, now we're on that subject, isn't going to the hookers just another way to get laid?

When I look back on all that, I'm really glad I didn't go through that route. Why? Because I would still feel like a loser right now for taking the easy, pu$$y-ass faggot way out.


And for the record, I never bought into any hype. Don't talk sh*t like you know anything about me. I simply took what worked for me from a variety of schools of thought.

Cold approaching is what builds your character and teaches you how to get things done. It really is by far the best way (and also the hardest) to get your sh*t handled in this field. And it's good that it's the hardest way. The weak-minded give up after a while. Survival of the fittest.


Don't worry, I'll still be your friend. <3

 

[d!ckmojo]

Would any one be so kind as to take a look at my okcupid profile and give me some pointers?
I have three pics up there and I got my best face report: 1 pic is 78, another is 60, and another is 53.
If anyone is interested, I'll PM my login details to you and you can have a look at my conversation threads with various HB's if you would spare the time. I would be especially grateful^^

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Mr. Chow I just got you a white chicks number on the second reply from the "toughest area worse than L.A" like you claimed. Check your inbox. She wants you to print out her profile and put it on your fridge. Do it. And take a picture of it and text it to her. I'm spamming out more. Trust this sh!t is EASY WORK. I'm a friggin BEAST at this. More numbers coming your way..were up to six numbers so far and several replies.



OP clear out your private message inbox on here...It's full and I can't reply to you..

 

[don't]

get a black belt, learn to TEACH, and women will never again be an issue for you. They dig the hell out of such men, I mean it. Even Elvis lost Prissilla to Mike Stone and had to go buy her back.