Yea, it sucks. Most of the white girls who are just into black guys have generally not been to my liking. Or they've decided they're so far down the hotness scale that they'll take anything they can get.
Looks-wise, the fake profile's average girl was roughly my top end. Even the girls coming up under the "My Matches" bar just looked better in general.
It's possible somebody tried the opener before me. But as far as most of the replies went, they might comment on how funny of a copy/paste it was. I'd follow up with the next message in the script and they wouldn't say anything after that. I also had a handful of girls who just never gave up the digits after the third message, which is expected. I tried using marmel75's intermediate message which would get a reply, but the overall success rate in actually getting a number for me was still pretty low in that regard.
I had to start attaching shirtless pics just to get a few more replies. Of the two numbers I got using your opener, one of them had
already dated black guys before and the other didn't reply to my phone text. I got a third number yesterday using my method. Still working on a few other girls.
When I said three paragraphs long, I'm talking about this one:
My roommate came into the room while I was looking at your profile and told me that if I didn’t message you, she would.
Now, she’s straight, so that’s probably an empty threat but she does have an eye for pretty chicks so I’m totally going to trust my mom’s judgment on this one.
Let me know if she’s correct or else I swear to sweet baby Jesus I’m going to fulfill my promise of shipping her off to the “resting” home...It's up to you to be a super heroine and save mom or else: Jello time for my mommy...and a side order of strained peas and carrots..
It doesn't look that big on here, but due to the small width of the message space on POF it actually comes out looking like this:
My roommate came into the room while I was looking at your profile and told me that
if I didn’t message you, she would.
Now, she’s straight, so that’s probably an empty threat but she does have an eye for
pretty chicks so I’m totally going to trust my mom’s judgment on this one.
Let me know if she’s correct or else I swear to sweet baby Jesus I’m going to fulfill my
promise of shipping her off to the “resting” home...It's up to you to be a super heroine
and save mom or else: Jello time for my mommy...and a side order of strained peas
and carrots..
That in total is
110 words plus an emoticon. In today's fast-paced ADHD online society I don't know how many of the younger girls are going to spend a lot of time reading something that 'big'. One of the girls I'm texting said she gets
about 75-100 messages a day. Closer to 200 when she first joined. Looks-wise I wouldn't say she's anything special, but yet she still gets that many. And she admitted
most of them never get read, which she felt bad about because some of the guys were pouring their hearts out to her and she'd just glance at the message or his picture before going to the next one. She usually checks her profile at night after they've all accumulated throughout the day, so it's pretty much the luck of the draw or the thumbnail picture in her case. My fake profile was getting replies usually within five minutes, but I was only messaging girls who were online at the time.
That's another tip I should add.
7) Do a search or advanced search, or choose "My City" and refine for "Users I've Not Contacted", then only look at the "Online Now" profiles. If the girl is online at the time you message her, then there's a good chance your message will at least be on the first page of her inbox the next time she clicks back to it.
And after my last post, I actually had some fun with the fake profile. Changing my headline to "I want to bust it wide open
" and finding profiles of girls I hadn't already talked to and said stuff like "hey sexy!" or "hey there sexy!"
Girls who said in their description that they wouldn't reply to one-liners were replying anyway. And it was funny because they just treated it like a regular message, replying with something like "hey what's up" or "how are you doing?" Keep in mind my headline says "I want to bust it wide open." They thought my profile was funny.
If they don't think the guy looks good, they'd call it creepy.
So clearly the looks of the guy in the fake profile overcame any reservations they had about answering. I still went for the number close on the 2nd message and it worked like gangbusters.
A few of them said they normally wouldn't do this (which means they probably do) and gave me the number anyway. One girl said she normally would chew guys out for what I did but she'd give me a free pass. Didn't give me her number (which I could easily get if I kept talking to her), but she didn't stop talking to me either.
I think if the girl replies favorably to anything you say that is very blunt or graphic, the ball is pretty much in your court from there. One girl actually said "bust it wide open eh?" I said "hell yeah! What you up to?" to which she replied with a normal answer. I told her I should get her number before she heads out. She said she wanted to see a pic of what I'd be busting her wide open with. Almost choked on my soda reading that one.
Quick edit: My apologies...I think I may have gotten one if not both of the original two numbers using my own spam message, not yours. I started using yours exclusively after the first or second day after I joined. I got more replies with yours than I was getting with mine, but possibly no numbers.
