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hey i was thinking about this thing i can do , just kinda like our own bootcamp, theres no weeks... and theres no END....

there is excercises but their made up by people that are going to join. and excercises can be daily monthy hourly weekly just when ever.

anybody can join at any time and not be left behind.

all we need is to be commited to is to tell our experences that you think other people would benefit from if they knew.


so i want to start this now , this thread right here will be the experence thread. ( everybody goes through experences each day so not having an experence it kinda ... something)

ANYBODY WHO WANTS TO JOIN CAN JOIN

were gonna grant one person the access to tell us our excercises, and he will give that power to someone else when ever he wants, and the other person must take it...


fawkin simple

anybody willing to join me?
 

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I already started a new Bootcamp series.. You can find the introduction in the HS Forum..

And I also planned it exactly as you said.. when I run out of ideas.. I'll let anyone who wishes to continue it..

But I'll make the first few parts simple.. for beginners (like me, lol) :)

So if you want.. you can help me out with ideas, etc...
 

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naw naw man, yours sounds totally different


but that doesent matter, i posted this to see who wanted to join !!

i mean yeah i would like to help you but i think they way im looking for this to go is to be NEVER ENDING, LIVING IN THE MOMENT. when theres set things people need to accomplish yeah they might accomplish it but they might get TOO SATISFIED with them selvs and they start where they begun.

this is more like the spur of the moment type boot camp, you dont need to read anything or accomplish missions just LIVE, and bless us with your experences.
 
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I need to go through boot camp and go back to basics so I can sort of redefine my skills a little bit. I'm in motherf*cker!
 

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am i allow to join this BC even tho i am currently in another BC already
 

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alright cool we got 3 people so far

yeaahh! dead skin mask.. whats up bro
but yeah.. just to let you all know.. this boot camp, theres no ending, you can quit when ever you want , you can join when ever you want , you can quit then join , you can join then quit, you can observe it doesent matter.


let see if we can start this on monday. just in case any other people want to join.
 

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now r the objectives similar to the regular BC or different?
 

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Ok were going to start this thing on monday, but anybody can join at any time.

You might want to write your experences of your days in a journal because who can rely on internet now a days? and it really helps to look back on your past experences.

I wanted this to be more like an experence bootcamp, just telling your experences, you know what i mean. Things that happened to you that you learned things from.

Try to adleast post 3 times a week, but dont feel thats the maximum.

Heres the first mission.

The first mission were going to do is called mindfullness. Were going to start of small. Mindfullness is just watching your thoughs and actions from a detached perspective. Dont make judgements about anything you see. Dont look at your actions as good or bad.

If your having an assembly at your school and you trip on your ass infront of the Whole student body, dont think of that as bad or good, just think of it as an experence of tripping on your ass.

If a fine chica mamma commes up to you and says " hey DJ i wanna suck your **** right here right now " dont think of that as good or bad, just think of it as an experence of some chick comming up to you , wanting to pleasure you.

Be aware of everything that you are doing. Say that you walking. Listen to the steps you take, feel the wind as it passes by you. What are the sounds that you hear. Look at peoples expressions ( not judging them , just observing ) Hear the voices when people talk to you . What does it sound like. What does it smell like when you walk into a room.

The purpose of this is to live in the moment. Dont think about what you need to do. Dont think about what you think people are thinking about you. Dont think about your thoughts. Now this might be hard for some because usually we dont live in the moment. Were usually thinking. and thats cool because its a habit, juSt have PATIENCE.

Say your washing dishes. Turn of the TV and feel the water running over your hand. Listen to the sound coming out of the drain, ect ....



The next mission is to SMILE at 50 people!

Just smile, whather its a sly smlie or a gay smile or a what ever smile just smile at 50 people, this might seem weird but youll se why later on. Just smile

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What i suggest is that you read the missions and thats it. Dont think about the missions to hard when your out in the field, remember live in the moment, dont think about the ammount of people you have to smile to just do it.

And also dont think you only have to do this. If you want to approach a chick go right ahead, were just starting out small at first so we can build up!

Remember im stating the missions now but we can give that up . Say i dont feel like saying a mission, i can give it up to one of you who want to tell us to do a mission and so on, so be prepared to give missions. Or if one of you want us to do a mission that you've though of.

alright good luck , you might want to favorate this, and check it just incase, theres a new mission , because the missions are not weekly.

any questions post them up!!!
 

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One day, while walking through the wilderness, a man encountered a vicious tiger. He ran for his life, and the tiger gave chase.

The man came to the edge of a cliff, and the tiger was almost upon him. Having no choice, he held on to a vine with both hands and climbed down.

Halfway down the cliff, the man looked up and saw the tiger at the top, baring its fangs. He looked down and saw another tiger at the bottom, waiting for his arrival and roaring at him. He was caught between the two.

Two rats, one white and one black, showed up on the vine above him. As if he didn't have enough to worry about, they started gnawing on the vine.

He knew that as the rats kept gnawing, they would reach a point when the vine would no longer be able to support his weight. It would break and he would fall. He tried to shoo the rats away, but they kept coming back.

At that moment, he noticed a strawberry growing on the face of the cliff, not far away from him. It looked plump and ripe. Holding onto the vine with one hand and reaching out with the other, he plucked it.

With a tiger above, another below, and two rats continuing to gnaw on his vine, the man tasted the strawberry and found it absolutely delicious.

This story is all about living in the moment. Despite his perilous situation, the man chose not to let unrealized dangers paralyze him. He was able to seize the moment and savor it.

The story is full of metaphors. All the major elements in the story are representations that possess deeper meaning.

The top of the cliff represents the past. It's where the man had been and where he came from. In terms of your personal timeline, this metaphor refers to all of your experiences and memories from the life that you have already lived.

Climbing up the vine, toward the top of the cliff, would be to revisit the past. The tiger at the top represents the danger of dwelling in the past too much. If we constantly beat ourselves up for not being able to do certain things as well as we should have, or if we wallow in regret and shame over mistakes we have made, then the tiger has wounded us with its sharp claws. If we cannot let go of negative experiences from the past that make us timid and afraid, or if we feel like victims because we come from a traumatic or perhaps abusive background, then the tiger has taken a painful bite out of us.

The tiger also represents the impossibility of going back in time to fix something. Sometimes we wish we can turn back the clock and do certain things over. Perhaps you think of the perfect comeback long after the right moment has passed; perhaps there was a special someone from high school that you should have approached but didn't; perhaps you said something hurtful to a loved one and would do anything to take it back. Unfortunately, the pathway of time is a one-way street - the fearsome tiger guards the top of the cliff, and mere mortals may not pass.

The bottom of the cliff represents the future. It is the undiscovered country, the unwritten chapter. The future contains all of your dreams and fears, aspirations and disappointments, potential victories and possible setbacks. It is the mysterious and uncertain domain of tomorrow.

Climbing down the vine, closer to the bottom of the cliff, is to look ahead, anticipate and speculate about the future. The tiger at the bottom represents the danger of being excessively concerned about that which is yet to come -- particularly at the expense of our ability to act, or to maintain peace of mind.

Many of us have had the experience of worrying endlessly about an upcoming performance, speech, or job interview. We think about all the things that can go wrong. We cannot get a good night's sleep because we're too nervous about the next day.

So what happens when the event comes around? Our inability to relax disconnects us from the creative genius of the Tao. We are not able to be at our best. We cannot channel all that nervous energy into effective action; instead, it turns right into tension and stress. We have climbed too low on the vine and gotten too close to the tiger, thus allowing it to cause us damage.

The tiger at the bottom also represents the ultimate finality of death. Death waits patiently for all of us in the future. It knows that sooner or later we will be within its grasp. When the tiger roars up at us, we feel the chilling winds of mortality.

The man's position between the two tigers represents the present. Note that he hangs suspended in midair. In the same way, we too live suspended between the past and the future.

This thing we call "now" or "the present instant" can be quite an elusive concept. As soon as you point to an instant and define it as "now," it slips past your finger and is no longer the present. Another instant, equally elusive, takes its place. No matter how hard you try, you will never be able to pin it down.

The present also defies definition, just like the Tao. Even though we can measure time with great accuracy, our technical precision gives us no help at all in isolating that infinitesimal slice of zero-duration time. Although we have the technology to build an atomic clock with error margin less than ten billionth of a second, all the atomic clocks in the world cannot capture the magic of the present instant.

Although an instant of time is beyond our grasp, the paradox of existence is that the present is what we do have. Indeed, it is all we ever have. You can never have the past or the future; one is irretrievably gone and the other is yet to come. The present is here and now, and it is yours completely and unconditionally. No one can take it away from you, and you alone have the power to decide how to use it.

The vine represents life in the material world. Just as the man holds on to the vine with both hands, we too cling to physical life stubbornly. Our survival instincts compel us to literally hold on for dear life, and we won't let go without a struggle.

Climbing down the vine isn't an optional activity. The man, chased by the tiger, has no choice but to climb down. Similarly, once we are born into this world, we have no choice but to live out our lives from one moment to the next. Thus, the vine can also be seen as the main component of samsara - the cycle of birth and death.
 

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The two rats represent the passage of time. They are black and white in color for the simple reason that they symbolize day and night.

The rats gnaw on the vine, making it weaker and weaker. This represents how each cycle of day and night brings us a little closer to death. When the vine breaks, the man plummets toward certain doom. In the same way, when a sufficient number of days and nights have passed, the physical life we cling to will be broken, and it will be time for the ultimate finality of death. We will have no choice but to confront the tiger.

Just as the man tries to shoo the rats away, we try to forestall aging and keep disease at bay. We have entire industries devoted to various measures to keep us young and healthy or, at the very least, to maintain the appearance of youth and health. Consider all the vitamins, supplements, treatments, health spas, hormone replacement therapies, face lifts, liposuctions, hair transplants, all manners of implants... the list goes on.

But just as the rats keep coming back, time marches ever onward and slows down for no one. Despite our best efforts, our time in this mortal plane remains limited.

The strawberry represents the astounding beauty, bliss, energy and vitality of the present moment. It is always there, always available for those who have the ability to see it and experience it.

For instance, at this very moment you can reach out with your awareness and feel this miracle of communication that allows thoughts and ideas to pass between us. You can feel how amazing it is that this interpersonal connection is possible at all. There is a wonder and marvelous beauty right here that we cannot easily put into words.

Step outside and place yourself in communion with nature. Bear silent witness to the genius of the Tao at work. Perceive reality as an endless interplay of natural forces, swirling around you as well as within you. From the macrocosmic to the microcosmic, sense how natural processes go about their business, regulated by an intrinsic intelligence far beyond our grasp.

There is so much beauty and goodness in each present moment and the infinite instant, that if you were to take in too much at once, you would be hopelessly overwhelmed. In the language of our story, we might say that the strawberry is full of incredibly delicious juice.

To pluck the strawberry is to seize the moment. When you do so, you are being mindful of the present, directing your attention to the flow that moves through you, and choosing to immerse fully in the river of the eternal now.

To taste the strawberry is fully savor the flavor of reality. When you do so, you begin to appreciate the miracle of existence and notice a beauty that is ever-present no matter where you look. This fills your heart with gladness and gratitude.

Plucking and tasting the strawberry may be much easier said than done. Most of the time, most of us have trouble tapping into the powerful state of mindfulness that allow us to seize the moment and savor reality. There are obstacles that get in the way.

The first obstacle, which most Tao cultivators have overcome, is the lack of awareness. Many people live each day mired in the past or worried about the future, unaware of the treasure of the present that they already possess. In terms of the story, it is as if the man is so busy looking up and down that he never notices the succulent fruit right next to him.

The second obstacle is more difficult, and most of us encounter it from time to time. Consider a scenario where the man sees the strawberry, but because he's too concerned about the tiger above and fearful of the tiger below, he has no appetite. Although he knows quite well where the strawberry is, he has no interest in getting it.

Someone who's faced with this obstacle may say, "It's great to understand the metaphors in the story, but there's a difference between that and putting the understanding into actual practice. I can see now that my goal should be to live in the moment, but how exactly do I do that?"

The story offers a clue. When the man saw the strawberry, he held onto the vine with one hand and reached out with the other. This action incorporates two essential elements: letting go and reaching out.

The man could not pluck the strawberry if he insisted on holding on with both hands. With both hands gripping the vine tightly, all he could do would be to stare at it. In order to get the prize, he needed to relax one hand and detach it from the vine.

It is exactly the same with life. The vine represents our physical existence on this material plane. Holding on to it tightly is equivalent to having strong attachments to material concerns. With such attachments, you cannot let go. This is a sure-fire way to prevent you from enjoying the present.

It sounds simple when we talk about it like this, but think of the people you know who are so focused on making and saving money that they never take the time to enjoy life. If you observe them you'll see that they cannot relax even when they go through the motions. For instance, when they take a vacation, they cannot stop thinking about the office. In the language of our story, such people have a death-grip on the vine.

I know of a gentleman whose attachment was the stock market. He was a day trader who watched the market minute-by-minute. When friends talked to him on the phone, they could always tell when his stock symbols scrolled across the electronic ticker tape, because his replies would suddenly become much slower as he pretended to be listening. This was a clear case where his strong attachment to material concerns completely blocked his ability to enjoy conversations with old friends - one of the best things in life.

The other element, equally important, is to reach out, to explore. The comfort zone may be comfortable, but it also offers nothing new. In order to get the strawberry, you need to venture beyond the familiar, to probe for a prize that is within sight but not quite within grasp.

The Tao manifests itself in life, and the characteristic of life is that it grows. Life is constantly exploring new territories, taking chances, and going places it hasn't been before. If we do the same, we will quickly find that life is fresh and exciting and full of possibilities. We will see that living in the present is both easy and exhiliarating.

Thus, our story teaches that when we have trouble living fully and mindfully in the moment, we only need to ask ourselves questions like the following:

What are my attachments? What are some things I cannot let go? What attachments am I willing to release, in order to live life to the fullest?
Am I learning anything new? Meeting new people? Doing anything I haven't done before? What might be some fun subjects that I can study? What might be some interesting projects I can tackle?
Your answers to questions like these will point out the path you should follow. Formulate your plans accordingly.

As you follow your plan of action to live mindfully in the moment, you will find it easier and easier to stop dwelling in the past or worrying excessively about the future. As you enjoy the present more and more, you will also find that unpleasant or even painful memories no longer affect you; concerns or even fears about future uncertainties no longer paralyze you.

You will find that the present is literally a wonderful present. It is a miraculous gift filled with peace, contentment, energy, and excitement. It is a box full of delicious strawberries.

You begin to realize that the only requirement to be deserving of such a gift is that you must accept it and enjoy it. You are amazed that there are people who cannot receive it. Some do not even realize it is being offered to them. They do not recognize it as their birthright, nor do they understand its incredible value.

You collect your thoughts back into yourself. It is time to unwrap your own present.
 

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Woah shlt. I'm in.
 

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well today was great, as everyday is..

woke up and just layed in bed, rather that what i usually do, when i wake up and scrambel to get to my cloths.

through the whole morning i tryed not to think about school , but think about what i was doing at that moment, it was kind of hard . i would catch my self thinking about something that wasent going on and i could correct myself.

and this is what i did mostly during the whole day, its funny because when your aware of your self and your actions , you start to become aware of everything around you. More days of this and i think you all will notice.

today was more of a relaxed day for me, i was chilled out observing and listening to other talk, what i really wanted to do is find the differences about how chicks talk and how guys talk , but im still trying to figure it out, lol, it seems that chicks talk about then selves when they talk to eachother, but i dunno im still observing this.

i smiled at a good ammount of people today , its funny if you lock eye contack on someone and just smile , it can do a whole lot more than say int any opener. I smiled at this one girl in the halls and she mirrored me a hugh chukey cheese smile.

alot other things happened today but i really dont feel like writing , i had a log day and i still need to study , ahh, basically i tyred to stay in the moment by usng my senses. I could write more but i will keep this short just incase im ditched and nobody posts here, lol

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Oh yes, I was just about to post and say that "I'm in!" but then i already realized i posted a while ago (I did not remember ever reading this thread before LOL). Anyways, i'm already smiling at ppl and saying HI sometimes, but i'm gonna try and 'live in the moment'. That story really cheered me up and inspired me!

Good stuff RawkinKaoticStyle!!

So, tomorrow I will wake up and live in the moment without worry!!
 

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NICE mikelo

i was almost thinking that this thread was over, i dident think anyone was going to respond with their results , but hey i cant expect anything, lol

yeah man lets do this thing though. Tomorrows a new experence no matter how similar it seems.
 
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ill do that tomorrow
today was a messed up day(schedule wise) and so i decided to hold off any DJing until tomorrow.
 

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yeah cool , ill leave this excercise up till thursday so the people who havent tryed it yet can do it.

Today was great, but something about today dident feel right for me and i dont know what it is, it just felt like i was trying to hard , i wasent relaxed at all , i tryed to get relaxed but diden't seem to pull it of.. I really dont know maybe i was thinking to hard but tomorrow im going to try and ... no actually right now im going to try and relax . it dident feel like i was letting things flow today.

because of that i was observing, theres these 2 kids in one of myu classes and i think their natural DJ's i mean they dont know about this site but their my definition on what a DJ is.

one kid has this humor attitude , and fun aura around him , ive never seen him in a bad mood, or even annoyed, hes always smiling or messing with the chicks, and his KINO skills are amazing, in class he touches almost every chick, and i dont just mean tops of shoulders , he gets all around the legs , and he was touched about 4 chicks butts in the same class, checking to see whos but jiggles the most. This might not amaze some of you but it really amazed me to see some of this. Ive noticed he changes rols and acts like hes gay sometimes, squeesing guys nipples and saying hey baby , in that tone to a guy, chicks seem to dig it, it gets a laugh out of them. ive noticed this and what i observed is he gradually builds his skills on a person. like i know the dude right and he started to act gay around me rubbin my shoulder acting like he was massaging me so i play along just to have fun you know im like AHH HARDER MAN, TIMES ARE ROUGH.. now times pass and hes pullin my nipples and shyt, sometimes i do second gues and think hes gay m haha but this guy has amazing social proof and success with the chicks, you cant even walk down the hall with him with out a chick messing with him .

and the other guy in that same class hes more of a suave cool type DJ . the way he gets his chicks is he plays bad boy type , like today he told this chick, " ok heres what were going to do today, your going to clean my shoes" and he gets the chick to the highest point possible to mess with her and it seems like that brings him success, he talks with a kind of a slow smooth voice and only raises his voice to highten the value of the things he wants to say. And he also is funny , but he doesent have that funny aura that the other guy has.

i dunno i just like observing these people because they dont know about the site their kinda naurals , not that im a fawkin stalker creeping down below desks and staring at everybody , i just listen and observe some days, haha

and another thing i was observing was with the chicks and their conversations. In foods class there is this chick that i put my DJ skills on right, usually i try and neg hit her, or bust her balls you know because shes pretty to alot of people, so she does the same back to me, but when i saw she was neg hitting at girl at our table she instantly says IM JUST KIDDDING,this has happened more than twice, but with me when we play around i never hear that . almost like shes afraid the other chick might take it the wrong way? i dont know if its important i just observed it.

well yeah today i dont think i was living in the moment that much i was thinking wayy to much maybe thats why i was so tense and not relaxed, i did get good DJing in though but it dident seem natural like it usualy does.


were going to keep doing the " mindfullness and living in the moment " excercise but im going to change the excercise on thursday night so come back to see what the new excercise is going to be , after i do that im going to also pass the excercise to someone else so they can pick an excercise for us to do ,, but its always good to keep the excercises going you know, its really worth it to live in the moment 24/7 , and if your practicing smiling at people that may or may not bring you something so , remember just because an excercise is not listed to do, it doesent mean you dont ever have to do it anymore.
 

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Werd, I'm going to write something on myself that when people read it and ask me about it, I'll remember to be observant.

I'm smiling at chicks all the time. I'm getting pretty close to this one chick, but it's bad timing, so I'm holding off for now. She's laying kino all over me, and hints at sex a lot, but she's in an on/off relationship with my good buddy.

Bro's before ho's.
 
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