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Good to get feedback from someone who has lived in Las Vegas.



Makes sense. It's common knowledge that Las Vegas locals don't like The Strip.



Las Vegas has grown immensely since 1990. It isn't that common to see a 30-35 year old in Las Vegas who grew up there. Las Vegas, like Phoenix and Tucson, has gotten much worse as population has grown. Las Vegas, Phoenix, and Tucson were never meant to have as many people as they have. Californians have ruined all 3 metro areas to various extents.



I'm somewhat surprised about this because there are a surplus of 20s/30s single men in relation to 20s/30s single women in the Las Vegas Valley.

I can think that Las Vegas would be a good place to form short term to casual relationships. Might be more difficult than the average U.S. city for longer term.

There are a good supply of las vegas locals...very good looking as well...who are eager for real relationships actually. I read the same stuff about it being difficult to form a lasting relationship. Not true at all. I found it to be much easier than both Atlanta and Miami in those regards.

Had a few good options who wanted to be exclusive. You will be **** tested a lot though due to the competition and the fact they will think of you as another short time tourist.

But if you can't find success out there dating, then i doubt you will anywhere else.
 

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Tempe, Arizona is a great city to visit if you're single and looking for an inexpensive vacation.
 

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The first 1 is hot for sure, but this girl is a 6 and even that's pushing it.

I dread to imagine the state of other women where you are if she's considered more attractive than most.
That's an instant girl, not from old but she'd be better than most on old around here!
 

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That's an instant girl, not from old but she'd be better than most on old around here!
Insta is usually better than Tinder but Insta is a thirst trap. So many men are blowing up women's inboxes on Insta.
 

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Hot white women aren't accessible to you, so you're coping by saying "all white women are disgusting" etc. It's very obvious what you're doing man. It's called sour grapes.

Everyone with eyes to see knows that white women, at their best, are the hottest women in the world. It's not even a close competition.

What is not hot about white women is their culture and social programming. We can all agree with that. But it's up to men to change it, not run off to Asia and bang dry cleaning ladies.

What you truly hate about white women is this - Hot white women won't fvck you.

I can run through white women in redneck rural small town Georgia and especially big cities like Atlanta. Been doing that my whole life on and off again when not travelling.

They are pretty effin easy if you are tall and have any kind of social status. Especially in Atlanta.

Hell....i went to school at Auburn University one of the biggest SEC schools out there and was in one of the biggest fraternities for a while. Even banged an Auburn cheerleader one time because of my frat connects back then. That is not easy at all to do unless you got very high social status or are an ncaa athlete. I used to run social circle game like crazy in college.

You make really dumb assumptions and blanket generalizations. Bet i would put you to shame in any club environment. Just the fact that you act like white women are gods gift to man or some kind of special achievement tells me how cucked and beta you are.
 

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So you're a high status white guy, ex-jock banging cheerleaders in college, but you've chosen to live in Colombia and you get really upset if anyone questions your lifestyle choices?

Doesn't add up for me.

Banging hot white women is not easy. Even for celebs. Anyone who says that it's easy is absolutely lying.

Because you make blind assumptions. I am only here for 3 months. I am buying property here and then in Panama. I live on the beach here, exercise and swim hard daily. Definitely been banging some women here and there as well but my spanish is medicocre have slowed down lately just trying to wrap this stuff up then its straight to Panama City. Am dating one girl who seems nice but meh...am tiring. Great place to visit. A bit overwhelming for living imo.
 

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So you're a high status white guy, ex-jock banging cheerleaders in college, but you've chosen to live in Colombia and you get really upset if anyone questions your lifestyle choices?

Doesn't add up for me.

Banging hot white women is not easy. Even for celebs. Anyone who says that it's easy is absolutely lying.
Why do you put White women on a pedestal though? I've only seen ethnics do this.

Latinas like Adriana Lima look better than 99% of white women, Jewish girls like Scarlet Johansen are better than most white women too.

The culture in Latin America is a lot less insular and way more family orientated.
If I was into Asians/Latinas then I'd be right there with you. It's just personal taste. I like banging women that look like me in female-form. It's just natural human tribal instincts. Humans have always preferred their own race throughout history - it's part of family, cultural belonging, perpetuating your lineage (subconsciously). Inter-race breeding isn't the norm, and certainly wasn't prior to Globalisation.
Men need to sample a wide variety of women, it's like trying out new exotic cuisine. In ancient times men would take the women from the places they conquered like the Vikings did.
 

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Hot white women aren't accessible to you, so you're coping by saying "all white women are disgusting" etc. It's very obvious what you're doing man. It's called sour grapes.

Everyone with eyes to see knows that white women, at their best, are the hottest women in the world. It's not even a close competition.

What is not hot about white women is their culture and social programming. We can all agree with that. But it's up to men to change it, not run off to Asia and bang dry cleaning ladies.

What you truly hate about white women is this - Hot white women won't fvck you.
White women are not the best the world has to offer. Women in Latin America are far better looking.
 

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@Snag87 and @Zimbabwe

This is coping.

The entire world conforms to "White female beauty" standards. This isn't opinion. This is fact. The most desired and sought-after women in this world are hot white women, by all men.

Pretending that only ethnic men like white women is extremely dishonest. All men, if he puts his hang-ups to one side, would prefer a hot, submissive white woman. White men are salty because white dudes are getting cucked en masse and white women just aren't impressed with most white dudes. And fair enough. Have you spoken with white dudes today? We are, collectively, the most brainwashed and cucked race of men this planet has ever seen.

If you're a man who's seen with a hot white woman, you have the most enormous social proof that is possible in this world. Do you get social proof from being seen with hot asians or hot latinas? No, you get accusations of sex-pating. Other women notice what women you associate with and that effects your ability to move up to better quality women too.

It's time to face reality guys. Men with options and choice bang hot white women. Men who don't have options (but pretend they do) use "Latina women are hotter than white women" copes.
Yea, exactly what I expected from you. While I agree that in aggregate white women are most desired, that does not mean every man finds them most attractive. Growing up I had essentially no attraction to white women and vastly preferred black women. I know many black men who feel the same way. I can cite examples of wealthy, powerful men who chose non-white partners until the cows come home.
 

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Yes, some men are attracted to farm animals and living dolls. We aren't talking about deviant outliers. We are talking about objective beauty standards. Beauty actually isn't subjective. That's what Lefties want you to think ("Fat bodies are beautiful too!")

If you want to cite rich people with ethnic wives then sure you can point at Zuckerberg, you can point at others. But why are they all noodle-neck soy fags who wouldn't actually be successful if we didn't live in Clown World?

We also live in a world that celebrates transgenders and makes them successful. Does that mean that transgender mate-selection should be taken seriously? No.
Nice job shifting the goal posts.
 

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Either we can accept that there are hierarchies in this world, or we can pretend that everyone is the same and that beauty is subjective.

If we accept the former then there are obviously categories of women that are superior to others. The world appears to agree that white women are the hottest.

If we want to pretend that all women are hot, or Latinas are "hottest" or whatever, then you're just substituting one hierarchy (white women) for another hierarchy (Latina women). So you're doing the same thing, but using a different race.

Here's another fact. The hottest Latinas are the ones with heavy European admixture. Native forest people in Latina America basically look like pygmies.
If the majority of people prefer X and a minority prefer Y or Z we can come to the conclusion that X is preferred in aggregate. We can't come to the conclusion that the minority who prefer Y or Z are lying or "coping".
 

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Yep, he's part Jewish from England. The Jews started mixing with the English aristocracy hundreds of years ago. It's pretty normal to be white and have some Jew in there somewhere, especially if you're from a good family.
"How do you do my fellow white people"

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The real root of the confusion is that huge parts of what we think of as "white" are actually Jewish. Christianity for example, the underpinning of "Western Civilization", is a Jewish religion. America is a Jewish country founded by the Spanish Jew Christopher Columbus. On and on it goes. To be Western is to be Jewish, at least culturally, to some extent.
Sure Whatever you say Mr Goldberg
 

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@Snag87 and @Zimbabwe

This is coping.

The entire world conforms to "White female beauty" standards. This isn't opinion. This is fact. The most desired and sought-after women in this world are hot white women, by all men.

Pretending that only ethnic men like white women is extremely dishonest. All men, if he puts his hang-ups to one side, would prefer a hot, submissive white woman. White men are salty because white dudes are getting cucked en masse and white women just aren't impressed with most white dudes. And fair enough. Have you spoken with white dudes today? We are, collectively, the most brainwashed and cucked race of men this planet has ever seen.

If you're a man who's seen with a hot white woman, you have the most enormous social proof that is possible in this world. Do you get social proof from being seen with hot asians or hot latinas? No, you get accusations of sex-pating. Other women notice what women you associate with and that effects your ability to move up to better quality women too.

It's time to face reality guys. Men with options and choice bang hot white women. Men who don't have options (but pretend they do) use "Latina women are hotter than white women" copes.
Pan, BS.

by your own data, you like smaller women. Oceana has larger women, the second largest in the world. are you telling us that you pick color over shape? that's interesting.

my second choice after Asian would be Latina.

75 or 150 years ago I might have defaulted to white.

of white I prefer Slovic, the usual shape is slightly better than western and the dictation and voice word choice sound nice.

I pick a 45 kilo Asian that is hot AND clean over a 1970s playboy model any day and every day. if not another choice the white one would be great.

If you're making this choice ONLY because you think it is harder or give you a better image and those feelings translate to better sex and other good feelings then ok. Telling others that they suck if they like better-looking women is silly.

come on....


It is like plowing a field with a buffalo when you have a nice tractor in the shed. What's the point... why do it the hard way, no one cares they only care about the results. AND you assume other men have the same taste as you. I don't like chili peppers much, but another guy wants it on everything. Neither of us is wrong.
 

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I don't like small women. I like tall, thin women. I am only banging slim women, typically at least 5'6. There are plenty of them in Australia.

There's 2 separate issues with banging Asian women that you're not connecting.
Yes, Asian women are slim and feminine and this is a revelation for average simps who have never had a submissive, slim, feminine white woman. I get that.

Here's the big issue. It's how you're perceived by other women (and men) when you select Asian women. This then morphs into how you perceive yourself (negatively).

We can pretend that it all doesn't matter, but you can see the angry personalities of guys here that openly brag about their sexpat lifestyles and it's pretty easy to see that what I write is accurate.
I don't see myself as a sexpat, but maybe.... depending on what that is exactly.

I don't perceive a man that has an Asian woman with him in any negative because of that. So honestly I don't get what you mean. Can you tell more about what it is that you think when you see someone with a good-looking Asian woman?

I don't see it at all how you are telling, but I am interested to understand what you are telling even if I don't agree.

Dumb it down some for me and tell me what you think the issue is if a man decides to have other than a skinny tall white woman?

By default, until I understand better from whatever you tell, it sounds like female logic trying to push a feeling or rationalize perhaps about an Asian woman that caused some pain. Really, don't get it.

As a kid I didn't travel much, so mostly only saw white. The ones I liked always looked like a small Asian, only white. Not many of those around.
 

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Never been to Australia but I imagine Aussie women to be more tanned versions of their British and Irish counterparts. In other words, stocky "peasant-like" build, proneness to obesity, and not the greatest genetic material overall. Still, someone must be banging them...lol.
Also consider sort of the Brit the core gene pool of Aussies descend from...
 

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Sure Whatever you say Mr Goldberg
I'm wondering what the point of all this academic, pontificating talk is. Who cares about all this historical data, evolutionary culture nonsense?

You got looks? Great. Now go get money. Then you get laid.

Who gives a sh!t about the way cultures have been blended over the last 873 years, or why mixed race people tend to do XYZ, or why guys think white women are hot.

Wtf.
 

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I can't relate with any of this. Since breaking up with my LTR in June, I have messed around online with minimal effort. When I actually applied myself with a little online game, I slept with both girls I went on dates with the same night. Keep in mind.....I only went on two dates period. Maybe opened 5-8 girls in the tinder chat. I was really lazy with my approach overall.

That being said, Online dating is NOT the best option for dating. I can say though that it isn't that bad. My suggestion is reflect on what you are doing or your standards and perhaps both. A high value man shouldn't struggle that much to get laid.....honestly. I am making it happen being out of shape with braces.

Before people say anything, the women are gross trailer trash girls either. The girl I saw last week retired at 30 from a good career and has a house in the hills of a gated community. Attractive and well off.
 

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Yeah but what does he want me to do about it? Force ethnic women to stop dating white guys.
You can show some respect and never say that I am incel coping again. I never blamed you for how women behave, but I can blame you for being an entitled d1ck about it.
 
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