People Aren't using Tinder to Date or Hookup

[Zimbabwe]

To address this OP and to ignore the haters, Tinder is excellent for what it is. If you know how to build basic rapport then you can't go wrong with tinder and bumble.

OP if you can get a girl out on coffee then you can close the deal. Lots of girls use it for attention and ego boosts. Doesn't matter. All that matters is if you can make her feel something.

Tinder was the greatest during its early days, I got so many girls back then. It's been getting worse every year now.

Getting them out is the hardest part, actual dates are so much easier for us all. I'm personally someone who hates texting, it's something ive never once enjoyed.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Tinder was the greatest during its early days, I got so many girls back then. It's been getting worse every year now.

Getting them out is the hardest part, actual dates are so much easier for us all. I'm personally someone who hates texting, it's something ive never once enjoyed.

 

[Willie Naylor]

Swiping on Tinder is for when you're sitting on the can and need something to do for a few minutes.

 

[Zimbabwe]

....Or he could get better with women and self-improve. The great thing about being a guy is that you are entirely responsible for how your life turns out.

If a man sits passively and allows life to happen to him then that's feminine. As a man, you are never stuck at a station in life. If a man is only capable of banging Asian women then that's because the guy has failed to perform.

Man = Accepts burden of performance =contentment and good inner Game

Man = Doesn't want to accept burden of performance = Destroyed inner game

You have a valid point, however Most guys here in Sydney would be incels if it weren't for Backpackers/expats. Look at our Sydney PUA group, how many of them have successfully banged a local Anglo?

 

[Snag87]

This isn't lookism or sloothate, spend less time hating women for dating outside of their race.

This all just sounds like an incel cope from you

Unfortunately, there's truth to what he says. In general, these are the preferences of non-white women:

White men vastly preferred
Men of their own ethnicity
Men of other ethnicities

The sole exception seems to be black women. In their case it's close to a 50/50 split between black men and white men, as opposed to 85%+ preferring white men.


I will note that the American dating scene is so harsh now that just being white won't is unlikely to land you an ethnic GF unless you're scraping the bottom of the barrel.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Unfortunately, there's truth to what he says. In general, these are the preferences of non-white women:

White men vastly preferred
Men of their own ethnicity
Men of other ethnicities

The sole exception seems to be black women. In their case it's close to a 50/50 split between black men and white men, as opposed to 85%+ preferring white men.


I will note that the American dating scene is so harsh now that just being white won't is unlikely to land you an ethnic GF unless you're scraping the bottom of the barrel.

Yeah but what does he want me to do about it? Force ethnic women to stop dating white guys?

Dude, most of those "Sydney" PUAs are actually Indian spam-approachers and they shouldn't even be allowed to participate in the Sexual Market Place. It's cruel. It's bad for them, and it's bad for women. No one wins.

The few normal-looking guys I have seen in that PUA group are on the autism spectrum.

My advice is for Western Guys who are struggling. If you're Indian then you shouldn't be competing in the Western sexual marketplace, and I mean this purely objectively. There comes a point where a man is so intrinsically low-value that he needs to just stop. Indians, above anyone else, should understand this. Their own caste system is brutal.

I get what your saying, but I've been on an almost 5 month dry spell thanks to the lockdown. I go on Coffee meets bagel and im having a really easy time setting up dates with zero effort. I'm going to have to delete this app because it's making me really lazy

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[Snag87]

Yeah but what does he want me to do about it? Force ethnic women to stop dating white guys?




I get what your saying, but I've been on an almost 5 month dry spell thanks to the lockdown. I go on Coffee meets bagel and im having a really easy time setting up dates with zero effort. I'm going to have to delete this app because it's making me really lazy

Another addition to my Asian Harem

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Fair enough. Nothing you can do about it.

 

[zinc4]

You've answered your own question.

If you're going after Asians you are literally advertising that you are "struggling". Asian women know it too.

If you're prepared to advertise that you're struggling with women by going after Asians, then what does that do to a man's own inner Game?

Answer: A man's inner Game gets destroyed. A bit like @zinc4 has destroyed his inner game by banging amazon jungle pvssy and then freaking out when other guys notice what he's doing.

You don't want to end up like that

Bro come here to Columbia and lets see. I am in Cartegena. These arent poor jungle girls. Not the normal ones. What a DUMB and racist comment that is. This is a famous international tourist city you idiot. High quality normal girls here are more difficult than the women i was dating in vegas.

And if you dont speak any spanish....forget about it. No decent looking normal girl here will give you the time of day. Just prostitutes.


You are just an ignorant racist dumb**** Aussie stuck in his own bubble. I feel like you are on the same level as my old rural HS friends who still live in their trailer parks waving their rebel flags year round.

I bet you are broke too or slaving away for someone else for your pennies like the good little cuck you are.

I have lived in Atlanta, Miami, Orlando, Vegas and many bumb**** middle of nowhere redneck towns in the south and pulled everywhere i have been consistently.

You want to talk **** but i would be willing to bet a lot if money that i pull higher caliber women everywhere i go than you. Since you are so obsessed with race, last time i went out in Vegas i.pulled a 24 year old blonde white girl from Cali smokin hot in mgm grand hakkassan club.

She literally begged me to stay with me the next day and go to.a pool party together. Had to kick her out. I slayed a few white and black women out there and in Miami as well. In Atlanta i always hook up with white girls because they are by far the dominant race besides blacks. If under 30, most tend to act like NPC bots when.you talk to them.

You just dont get it do you......i'm not attracted to 99 percent western feminized garbage. Only rare exceptions. American black women too. Most act like farbage. Had a halle berry look alike try to move in with me when i was im summelin a town in the vegas area.

Was also in a fraternity in college and pnd ed top tier looking white girls all the time....probably wayyy better than the cows you are pulling. We had the in with the hottest sorority girl house on the entire campus. I have been with and dated many top tier looking white girls....was engaged to a Canadian 2 decades ago. Been there done that. Wrote the book you judgemental little racist prick.

BTW....Australia is a wasteland for women.

I look down on you big time. I feel like you are a bitter little angry cucked white Aussie prob dating or hooking up with what i would consider a 5 at absolute best and you now feeling a little ****y but still got that beta passive aggressive side trying to label and falsely stereotype everything that is better than what you are settling for.

Now please leave my name out of your messages in the future you passive aggressive cuck.

 

[metalwater]

You're actually only adding to your ruined inner-Game.

The more Asians you bang, the more black pill you'll become. It's a very predictable metric. I don't know a single guy who bangs Asian women and who is actually a happy, respectable or admirable person. And you know it's true.

Asians are hot, the right size, right look, feel good, behave once you get it. you're hitting a wide path with that statement.

 

[Charm2K]

This isn't shocking but it's nice to see actual data to back it up, most women are just on Tinder for an ego boost and a very small percentage ever meet up with anyone. To think this was back in 2017, imagine how much worse it has gotten.

This is why we all need to stick to cold approach/Bars.

Science Says We All Use Tinder For The Same Reason, And It’s Not To Date Or Hook Up

My friend has been talking to a guy on Tinder for FOUR MONTHS and has no intention of ever meeting up with him. In fact, she just called me yesterday to say he finally asked if he could take her on a date, and she was totally repulsed. Yep, you read…

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Never ever use dating apps. What kind of woman use apps, the leftovers..... and you are fighting with other guys to get that kind woman? You must really stupid then...

 

[zinc4]

Wow.... what a great post. It's like the perfect picture of mental health in array.

For the rest of you guys - this is why you don't become a Sexpat. It does not lead to happiness (quite the opposite) and this is probably the best example I've ever seen of what happens to your mind. It becomes a delusional pretzel knot.

False allegation after false allegation. You have the IQ of a fruit fly and are racist to boot. Literally a male Karen. If you can afford it, come to Cartegena and try your game on normal girls. Do you speak Spanish? If not, then you wont be getting **** that is worth anything. Not in Cartegena.

This is the most expensive city in Colombia and i chose it because of the beach culture here. If i wanted "easy jungle girls" as your racist ignorant ass says, i would go to one of the non famous non tourist cities where you actually get bonus points for being a gringo with the non pros.

Not like you know that though. I doubt you have ever even looked at a map. You just sound stupid asf and stuck in your pathetic little Australian bubble hating on people who are successful and doing something different.

How much is in your bank account karen? Hell, how tall are you? I am sensing a bit of a Napoleon complex here. It could just be to do with money though....you know....with you being poor and all. Do you have any training in anything? I bet you are low SMV asf.

No one successful goes around like you hating on strangers and slandering them for no reason. DM bro. I am genuinely curious. You sound like a big time loser to me.

 

[biggoal]

This isn't shocking but it's nice to see actual data to back it up, most women are just on Tinder for an ego boost and a very small percentage ever meet up with anyone. To think this was back in 2017, imagine how much worse it has gotten.

This is why we all need to stick to cold approach/Bars.

Science Says We All Use Tinder For The Same Reason, And It’s Not To Date Or Hook Up

My friend has been talking to a guy on Tinder for FOUR MONTHS and has no intention of ever meeting up with him. In fact, she just called me yesterday to say he finally asked if he could take her on a date, and she was totally repulsed. Yep, you read…

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Tinder like all OLD sites have become money grubs. They keep taking features away unless you want to pay for boosts.

Around my region old is trash full of fatties, tats or single mothers. Paying for it is a waste.

Match has also taken away features too and people are p*ssed about that. When you message someone there they disappear unless they reply back so you pay for read receipt feature that is now useless.

It's best to just stick to the free versions and as another said it's just something to use while on the pot.

Before covid old sucked but there were many more skinny women on it before and they would reply and get dates.

Now when I go on old 93 percent of the women are not attractive.

From what I've seen with old it only really works for ugly people matching with fat ugliest like themselves. I know of no normal people I work with or family friends who used it. My hb7 and 8 younger cousins have never used old to meet their guys never needed to.

I have an older cousin, he tried old about 15 to 20 years ago. At that time he was a chad and easily IRL gets younger women. The women on old he went on dates with were a total waste of time.

So overall I don't know why guys spend 100s on old sites for boots, match, zoozks etc.

 

[Bokanovsky]

You have a valid point, however Most guys here in Sydney would be incels if it weren't for Backpackers/expats. Look at our Sydney PUA group, how many of them have successfully banged a local Anglo?

So who do your local Anglos bang? Are they all virgins?

 

[zinc4]

So who do your local Anglos bang? Are they all virgins?

The dating scene in Australia is bad man. REALLY bad.

Aussie women are hands down the most unattractive women in the world and that is saying A LOT.

The only 2 anglo aussies i ever banged stunk like rotten fish. Disgusting. Will never forget that.

 

[biggoal]

The dating scene in Australia is bad man. REALLY bad.

Aussie women are hands down the most unattractive women in the world and that is saying A LOT.

Au, western Europe, Canada, United States. All similar cultures and all similar when it comes to dating it seems. See a pattern?

 

[zinc4]

Au, western Europe, Canada, United States. All similar cultures and all similar when it comes to dating it seems. See a pattern?

Anglosphere in general is the worst for dating. However, for hooking up Vegas, New York and London are all good just because they are international very diverse places. My ex is a las vegas local and she was great though. I just cant stay in one place that long. But there are exceptions.

Ofcourse people like racist peter pan will try to argue otherwise because they are cucked by an average local woman. Lol i bet that little beta is banging a masculine acting 5 and feeling ****y because of it haha.

 

[Bokanovsky]

The dating scene in Australia is bad man. REALLY bad.

Aussie women are hands down the most unattractive women in the world and that is saying A LOT.

The only 2 anglo aussies i ever banged stunk like rotten fish. Disgusting. Will never forget that.

Never been to Australia but I imagine Aussie women to be more tanned versions of their British and Irish counterparts. In other words, stocky "peasant-like" build, proneness to obesity, and not the greatest genetic material overall. Still, someone must be banging them...lol.

 

[biggoal]

Anglosphere in general is the worst for dating. However, for hooking up Vegas, New York and London are all good just because they are international very diverse places. My ex is a las vegas local and she was great though. I just cant stay in one place that long. But there are exceptions.

Ofcourse people like racist peter pan will try to argue otherwise because they are cucked by an average local woman. Lol i bet that little beta is banging a masculine acting 5 and feeling ****y because of it haha.

Yea, Vegas and NYC are not the norm when it comes to dating in the US though.

 

[zinc4]

Yea, Vegas and NYC are not the norm when it comes to dating in the US though.

Yep. 100 percent correct. As a general rule though, you should be able to find success in any non middle eastern big city in the world.

If you are stuck in a small town, you better step your social circle game up.

 

[biggoal]

Asians are hot, the right size, right look, feel good, behave once you get it. you're hitting a wide path with that statement.

Many young Asian women are in better shape, have better teeth, etc here in the US compared to most US women and in general healthier and eat better.

This is a local news reporter here. My buddy actually got interviewed by her not too long ago and said she was much hotter in person too! How a guy on here wouldn't find this high end HB 9 not attractive is beyond me.