"Open the door or Take me back to my car"

[Razor Sharp]

Hmm I find the exact opposite to be true. The more tests they throw at you the more interested they are. If there was no interest why the hell would they even bother talking to your boring ass? Low interest = Ignore or Flake

I honestly think a lot of them are not even conscious that they are testing. It's just a defense mechanism against what I call Sausage Factory Syndrome.. they get so many c*cks offered to em all day that they need some kind of litmus test to see if you are a poser like the others. The tests differ but the aim is always the same, to determine how strong of a frame you have, and how congruent you are with your image.

The guys who fail these tests are the same ones who take them all personal and get offended by anyone questioning their manhood. Dudes just got too much to prove and disqualify themselves with insecurity. The ones who pass never take them seriously. They treat it like a fun little game and amuse themselves a bit before making the girl jump through THEIR hoops.

Now that I think about it, if I NEXTed every girl who ever tested me in some way, I'd still be a virgin.

Honestly some of you dudes take this Don Juan code of manhood wayyy too seriously. Sometimes you will be challenged in life, and things wont go as your neat little rules expect. There will always comes a point when you need to improvise or adapt, without the safety net of your rigid expectations. It's called LIVING - you guys should try it sometime.

 

[Atom Smasher]

The only way a woman will never test a man, even subconciously is if they are a corpse.

Perfectly stated. +1 Just for that statement.

Edit:
Crap, it looks like I need to spread a little love around before the message board allows me to rep you. I'll try to remember later.

 

[Bluntmaster]

^^^^ you are such a goofy mofo.

I swear everytime I am catching up on some Entourage and it's a scene with Vince's brother Drama, I think I am watching you on tv.

Sorry babe you had your chance. I'm taken now.

 

[Bluntmaster]

Oh, i understand now; I see so clearly! You're a genius! I am now on your side.

A woman i had a first date with last night (and fvck closed pretty d@mn easily) just text me 10 minutes ago...

"Hey baby, im soooo tired. Can you bring me some starbucks?"

Instead of treating this like a basic sh!t test of a woman trying to figure out how much she can get away with with me.... I now know that she has low interest in me.

NEXT!

Thanks teacha.... i now see the light!

Teacha doesn't know what he is talking about. The girl I am banging right now has already tested me many times and I just met her a month ago. Her most recent test was just last week. She went out of town for a day and was supposed to come back Sunday. She texted me that she decided to stay out of town for an extra day and stay with a "friend". She expected me to get pissy but I just said "cool, have fun". It DID bother me but I would never let it show.

I came home later and she was logged into messenger late at night. I bet she was already home and she just did that to test me. She is now acting more interested than ever because I passed her test, and she will be over tonight for a full weekend romp.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

Truth is that women today do this automatically mostly. Speaking 'down' to men in social settings has become the norm , so much so that woman are no longer aware that their sneering and contempt is objectionable. They have been caught up and carried along by the waves of female superiority promoted by the media.
Remember that women are gullible and easily 'trained ' , perhaps as easily trained as the chumps who fawn over them..

I recall twenty or more years ago when women looked up to men and spoke to them with admiration, courtesy and respect. Women felt grateful for being asked out and acted accordingly.

The female 'bad attitude' is a relatively recent deterioration . It is a direct consequence of woman believing that they are a glittering prize that any man would be happy to date.
And they believe that why? You figure it out.

Sad days ahead for you young men if you accept that treatment as the price that you are willing to pay for some poon.

I have a great deal of respect for my elders. I know from personal experience that experience is the best teacher.

Women are no longer the same. In my grandfather's day, a woman would NEVER talk down to a men. Women that were out of line got backhanded.

Now fast forward to today. Women expect the privileges of patriarchy: a man provides and protects her, while expecting a man to be subservient to her. She expects a man to cook and clean for her AND bring home the money. She expects a man to take care of her kids AND pay child support.

I despise the weak men on my generation. They sell their manhood for the hope of p*ssy.

A lady deserves a gentleman. Women of my generation are not ladies, they are worms that will feed on a man and expect him to thank her for it. And I am expected to be a gentlemen to this creature?

I save my kindness for old ladies, children, and the disabled. Not women.

 

[cordoncordon]

I have a great deal of respect for my elders. I know from personal experience that experience is the best teacher.

Women are no longer the same. In my grandfather's day, a woman would NEVER talk down to a men. Women that were out of line got backhanded.

Now fast forward to today. Women expect the privileges of patriarchy: a man provides and protects her, while expecting a man to be subservient to her. She expects a man to cook and clean for her AND bring home the money. She expects a man to take care of her kids AND pay child support.

I despise the weak men on my generation. They sell their manhood for the hope of p*ssy.

A lady deserves a gentleman. Women of my generation are not ladies, they are worms that will feed on a man and expect him to thank her for it. And I am expected to be a gentlemen to this creature?

I save my kindness for old ladies, children, and the disabled. Not women.

And this is why you are a nerd boy posting lame azz videos on youtube. You come across as angry and depressed. I know if I was a woman, I wouldn't want to hang out with you either. No wonder you struggle with the ladies.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

And this is why you are a nerd boy posting lame azz videos on youtube. You come across as angry and depressed. I know if I was a woman, I wouldn't want to hang out with you either. No wonder you struggle with the ladies.

Another weakling.

I have no use for your kind.

The problem is this, I love my girlfriend to death, and even though I know some of you are against it, would be honored to marry her.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105152

 

[Bluntmaster]

Another weakling.

I have no use for your kind.



http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105152

Hey I remember that thread. Isn't that when cordon almost banged iqqi? Anyway I think he dumped that broad.

 

[jafyk]

Oh, i understand now; I see so clearly! You're a genius! I am now on your side.

A woman i had a first date with last night (and fvck closed pretty d@mn easily) just text me 10 minutes ago...

"Hey baby, im soooo tired. Can you bring me some starbucks?"

Instead of treating this like a basic sh!t test of a woman trying to figure out how much she can get away with with me.... I now know that she has low interest in me.

NEXT!

Thanks teacha.... i now see the light!

Aaw what a beautiful moment of enlightenment "Thanks teacha.... i now see the light!"

 

[ThunderMaverick]

Hey I remember that thread. Isn't that when cordon almost banged iqqi? Anyway I think he dumped that broad.

Hahaha he wanted her to drive all the way to his state to bang him. I think he was sending her pics too and she wouldn't have it. Hah

 

[Solomon]

really guys? seriously?



5 pages over a car door? THE MM section has to be slow, someone call Str8up or bring Message boy or Trent back...

 

[cassanova35]

what you have got to understand is that older women like to be treated with a bit of respect, and not like a younger girl. Older women want more of a gentlemen then just a regular average guy, they want a feeling of respect, and feeling of they are appreciated.

If i was in your shoes, i would have opned the door for her if it's your first date if its a regular thing then it would depend how long yo been with her, and wether you both are used to each other habits. but i say try and be a gentlemen at all times. But then again i could be wrong. !!!

 

[backbreaker]

holy **** guys are you serious!

first of all, she shouldn't have to ask, you should do it anyway. dont' confuse Chivalry with AFC. NO women, not even my mom, has has to ask me to open a door for them in quite some time. It's just what the **** you do.

I would have left you too with a BS response like that. what the **** dude, it's a door. you open it. there are things you do, there are things women do. It's no different then me not having to ask for dinner. We have roles in the male/female relationship. We are door openers. It's what we do.

We don't pay for dates, becuase that actually effects us financially, we dont' become johns for women who want to have a good time at our expense. But holding the god damn door? mother of god man, ****.

guys, i don't even know what to say . it's a ****ing door!

Door opening is not a test lmao. What's the next text pissing with the toilet seat up? This is what a well mannered man does when he's with a woman. It's not chumpish and it shows that you respect her.

guys too afraid to be viewed as a ***** that it's really warped you guys frame of mind. In all my years of ****ing and dating and about to be marriage i have never had a woman think less of me for opening the car door for her. In fact, having manners has gotten me laid more than once. ONe girl thought I was so nice we swung by her parents house becuase I "was presentable" and wanted me to meet her mom, who just ate me up. Nutted all in her (the date not the mom lol) later on that night. It's no different to me than knowing not to eat at a restaurant with your elbows on the table.

this is facepalm worthy


PS- the proper way to handle that question, grab her by the wast, get up behind her and saty "well what are you going to do for me if I do" and start kissing her on the neck. Defuse the situation, don't answer the question, get her wet, all at the same time. But open the damn door next time. my mom would throw her shoe at you lol

 

[cordoncordon]

holy **** guys are you serious!

first of all, she shouldn't have to ask, you should do it anyway. dont' confuse Chivalry with AFC. NO women, not even my mom, has has to ask me to open a door for them in quite some time. It's just what the **** you do.

I would have left you too with a BS response like that. what the **** dude, it's a door. you open it. there are things you do, there are things women do. It's no different then me not having to ask for dinner. We have roles in the male/female relationship. We are door openers. It's what we do.

We don't pay for dates, becuase that actually effects us financially, we dont' become johns for women who want to have a good time at our expense. But holding the god damn door? mother of god man, ****.

guys, i don't even know what to say . it's a ****ing door!

Door opening is not a test lmao. What's the next text pissing with the toilet seat up? This is what a well mannered man does when he's with a woman. It's not chumpish and it shows that you respect her.

guys too afraid to be viewed as a ***** that it's really warped you guys frame of mind. In all my years of ****ing and dating and about to be marriage i have never had a woman think less of me for opening the car door for her. In fact, having manners has gotten me laid more than once. ONe girl thought I was so nice we swung by her parents house becuase I "was presentable" and wanted me to meet her mom, who just ate me up. Nutted all in her (the date not the mom lol) later on that night. It's no different to me than knowing not to eat at a restaurant with your elbows on the table.

this is facepalm worthy


PS- the proper way to handle that question, grab her by the wast, get up behind her and saty "well what are you going to do for me if I do" and start kissing her on the neck. Defuse the situation, don't answer the question, get her wet, all at the same time. But open the damn door next time. my mom would throw her shoe at you lol

Guys like asian lover just take this not being an AFC stuff too far, mainly because they have been rejected by hot women all their lives so they are bitter against women in general, and therefore take the extreme opposite approach to dealing with women...IE being a d!ck.

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

Actually I wasn't programmed by my mother like you momma's boys

Seriously... You're worried about leaving the toilet seat up? Your mommy must have done a real number on you...

I bet you weaklings piss sitting down so you don't OFFEND your mommy. HAHAHA!

 

[Bluntmaster]

I bet you weaklings piss sitting down so you don't OFFEND your mommy. HAHAHA!

I only do that when I'm drunk.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Actually I wasn't programmed by my mother like you momma's boys

Seriously... You're worried about leaving the toilet seat up? Your mommy must have done a real number on you...

I bet you weaklings piss sitting down so you don't OFFEND your mommy. HAHAHA!

How is your endorsement of telling lies to a woman to get pvssy any different than opening a door for a woman to get pvssy?

You will only endorse behavior that is destructive towards the women?

 

[backbreaker]

I do piss sitting down when i have a real bad woody that.. you i know how you can't get it to bend down lol to aim at the toilet, that's when you sit on the toilet and just point it down


carry on

 

[TheAsianLoverReturns]

How is your endorsement of telling lies to a woman to get pvssy any different than opening a door for a woman to get pvssy?

You will only endorse behavior that is destructive towards the women?

I'll tell you what, when a woman cooks a home cooked dinner for me, I'll open a door for her.

Women nowadays can't

cook
clean
keep good company


In fact, now they expect men to do all of the above, PLUS pay for everything.

Women are not the women of our grandparent's generation.

You want to be a fool, knock yourself out. I couldn't care less what you do with your life.

 

[Wilko]

I'll tell you what, when a woman cooks a home cooked dinner for me, I'll open a door for her.

Women nowadays can't

cook
clean
keep good company

That's the knockout argument for me right there. The rules have changed for both sexes. Men opening doors, women keeping a man's home, they're anachronisms. They were relevant cultural traditions once but for better or worse (better I say) the western world has moved on; I don't bow for royalty or tip my hat either.

If a woman drew attention to it in the way the OP's plate did it would make me think she was hopelessly out of touch with the world.