My senior year and field reports

[BongDuy]

Haunted Hamptons, Night 2

So i leave my house after I shower and I arrive at the park around 5:35 PM. I get there and I see my friends and what not, just chilling there and so i begin to walk towards them. Before I reach them, Monica runs up and hugs me and I give her a kiss on the cheek. I'm then greeted by the group of friends Who i was walking towards and we end up talking. Monica walks away for a bit to talk to her group of "friends" and it didn't bother me one bit. I just sat back and talked to my group of friends for a good time. There were 5 of us, so we wanted to be teamed up which each other so we wouldn't be singled out alone to scare people.

Monica ends up by my side and I say " Monica, you've gotta stick with us! we'll be together" and she seems more than happy to comply. So that makes 6 of us who we have to stick together. Needless to say, one of us would end up separated from the rest of the group, which was my friend Michael, who ended up in the bug suit I had on last night. That's not important however.

After the guy gives his speech about what we can and cannot do, we begin to walk to get assigned zones. I walk with Monica, hand in hand, and we get picked to be inside a tent with Prison bars. It was pretty cool because we could easily move around, and I was assigned a bad @$$ costume, Michael Myers. But i'm sure you guys are more interested in other things like....

The kiss. Yeah I did it, finally :rockon: but not without a little bumps along the road, although it didn't really matter. I mean, heres how things went. After we scared a few people, I walked up to Monica and she turns around and gives me this random passionate hug. It took a few seconds to realize how much more balls she had compared to me, so i stand in front of her and i just put my hand against her cheek, then proceed to move my face forward. The first kiss was a little funny, i'm not going to lie. Her lips felt a little weird, but it wasn't until our 2nd kiss that i realized why. So about 20 minutes pass and a few people walk out after being scared by us. I then hop into Monica's Prison cell and i just start some bullsh1t talk about how the strobe likes are killing me. I then notice that more people are coming to be scared, so i turn to her and say " let's make it fast" ( I wish i didn't say this for some reason... lol ) but I place my hand against her cheek and we kiss again. At first, I have this funny feeling against my lips. When we stopped kissing for a moment, i looked at her and kissed her again, and realized that funny feeling was her trying to get her tongue in! I play along and lightly play a little tongue on tongue action and it was great! until we separated because our lips made this little "fart" noise, which i don't think she noticed but i for one, did and I couldn't help but laugh. that was the last kiss from her until we said goodbye. maybe because there were too many people coming by. Maybe I didn't want to seem physically needy by kissing her every few minutes, although it would of been nice.

A question for Goodbye kissing: So When we say goodbye, which was around 9:40 PM, We were infront of her friends and what not. Her friends were driving her home, and I didn't want to come off as needy or insecure by trying to convince her to come with me, so when she told me she was riding with her friends, i simply said " oh thats cool". BAck to the kiss, we kissed infront of her friends. I mean, I wanted to kiss for a few seconds, but she kept it to a quick peck, so i felt she kept me hanging. Is this typical, or is it because we were infront of her friends?

Back to reality...
I ended up missing a nice opportunity to kiss her when i found this secret hidden compartment, which only I knew how to get into. I got in there and said "Monica! you have to check this out" and she gets in. Awkwardly we stand there, and before I can kiss her she walks out because i waited to long. my mistake. when things were done, we walked together hand in hand. With the whole hand in hand situation, She usually breaks off contact because she has to do certain things, like pick up her costume, or get a soda. I mean, I don't think its a big deal because she is breaking off the contact or whatever and im starting to really question all these "PUA " techniques. I mean, maybe they work to some extent but im starting to just use them as general guidelines.

As we are leaving, I say " man i think it would be so awkward if you were the only person here on halloween night." she says " yeah im sure. I want to go trick or treating too" with a slight laugh. "You should come with me and my friends to go trick or treating" she didn't give me a yes, but she also didn't give me a no. I take that as a good sign, because chances are no one wants to be passing out candy on halloween. everyone wants to have some fun =)

A few interesting Notes.
So while Im walking around as Michael Myers, I notice two pretty decent looking girls ( I can't really tell to be honest, the strobe lights raped my brain and eyes) and when I took my mask off, one girl said " Hey is your name duy?" and the other girl had this shocked face, like I was Jackie Chan or some crazy bs, because she was gasping with her hands against her mouth. I simply said " Yeah, how do you know my name?" and the girl replies " Oh, aren't you with Monica?" and I just smile and turn around. They turned out to be Monica's friends because when Monica saw them, they had one of those "Girly" moments

I noticed A lot of people are very curious about me and Monica. When Monica left, I was left with my original group of friends and they couldn't help but ask " Hey whats up with you and Monica?" " I saw you guys holding hands!" " I saw you two at homecoming!". I simply replied " nothing" with a smile. I didn't wanted to be the type of guy who spills the beans or kisses and tells. I also didn't want to share my feelings about Monica with them, because I would figure It would go around and she would find out, even though that really wouldn't be a bad thing necessarily


Her friends Question
I also noticed that Monica has some close friends who i don't care much for, and if anything I dislike them. I don't want to sound like an @$$hole, but some of her friends are a bit low on the social standards scale, as in they are pretty awkward to be around, act like little 7 year olds, or act like snobby b1tches. I'm wondering if this will get in the way between me and Monica if we decide to go any further. Should I try to atleast get on their good terms?

 

[BongDuy]

10.26.09

So im walking to 2nd hour and I see monica in the hallways. She smiles and we hug and we kiss. She was walking with her friends, but I guess they got the message and walked away, leaving monica and I together. I ask her what class she has, and its upstairs. We walk together, hand in hand until we hit the stairs.

We break the handholding shenanigans and as we walk up, i begin to feel a little awkward because there isn't much talking going on. I probably shouldn't of asked " So have you made up your mind about halloween?" she says " Yeah i want to go but I told Kayla I would stay with her at haunted Hamptons and pass out candy." I then say " Well what if I get Kayla to come with us?" she said " i'd ask my mom".

So we get to her class and kiss and seperate. thats it. I don't think i'll be walking her to that class everyday, let alone all her classes because its just out of my way. We aren't even official yet, but im starting to get the feeling everyone thinks so because it seems like all my friends and all her friends know, so if I get a little too flirty with any other girls, chances are It'll get back to Monica and I will get a bad rep.

I feel like I can probably go all the way with Monica in bed, but I just need some alone time with her to build some more comfort and escalate. Maybe this friday we will hang out, i will talk to her about that tomorrow because Friday I plan to go to haunted hamptons once again.

Facebook has no privacy
So after saturday night I posted " I've got a girl who thinks I rock. " as my facebook status and it looks like everyone saw it, especially Anna ( the girl who was kinoing me like crazy at the pool) because Yesterday ( sunday ) I tried to invite her to the pool and i guess she was a little immature because she said " what about the girl who thinks you rock?" I simply reply "she's mia" and she says some bs about Sunday being her "relax" day. Looks like Anna is a bit jealous and doesn't want to do anything with me for now. It's whatever though.

Jackie Little Mexican Girl I met at homecoming game
So this girl walks across from me and passes me. All of a sudden she lets a mule kick out and kicks me directly in the d1ck.( on a pain scale of 1-10, i was probably at a 3, which is a minor discomfort) how swell right? it wasn't until a few steps later that i realized how much it hurt. How would you guys have re acted? because I ended kicked her in the @$$ as she was walking away ( probably a 4 outta 10 in how hard i kicked) I'm not sure if i did the right thing, but damn it still kinda felt irritated.

 

[saturos]

Wait lol Jackie kicked you in the sack or were you just with her when this happened? Either way your reaction is understandable, cause man junk shouldn't be messed with, but maybe limiting it to words would be better

And was that your first kiss ever? If so gj

 

[eaglez1177]

Time to digest

Haunted Hamptons, Night 2

The kiss. Yeah I did it, finally :rockon: but not without a little bumps along the road, although it didn't really matter. I mean, heres how things went. After we scared a few people, I walked up to Monica and she turns around and gives me this random passionate hug. It took a few seconds to realize how much more balls she had compared to me, so i stand in front of her and i just put my hand against her cheek, then proceed to move my face forward. The first kiss was a little funny, i'm not going to lie. Her lips felt a little weird, but it wasn't until our 2nd kiss that i realized why. So about 20 minutes pass and a few people walk out after being scared by us. I then hop into Monica's Prison cell and i just start some bullsh1t talk about how the strobe likes are killing me. I then notice that more people are coming to be scared, so i turn to her and say " let's make it fast" ( I wish i didn't say this for some reason... lol ) Dont say that. Why would you want this kiss to be quick? Try to make it as long and as passionate as possiblebut I place my hand against her cheek and we kiss again. At first, I have this funny feeling against my lips. When we stopped kissing for a moment, i looked at her and kissed her again, and realized that funny feeling was her trying to get her tongue in!hahahaha I play along and lightly play a little tongue on tongue action and it was great! until we separated because our lips made this little "fart" noise, which i don't think she noticed but i for one, did and I couldn't help but laugh.Your gonna hear a bunch of funny noises wen u make out wit ppl...get used to it that was the last kiss from her until we said goodbye. maybe because there were too many people coming by. Maybe I didn't want to seem physically needy by kissing her every few minutes,Yea if u did it every few minutes id think it wud def come off as needy although it would of been nice.You shouldve made the kisses last longer! and it seems to me you could use the practice cuz you seem like an inexperienced kisser (no offense)

A question for Goodbye kissing: So When we say goodbye, which was around 9:40 PM, We were infront of her friends and what not. Her friends were driving her home, and I didn't want to come off as needy or insecure by trying to convince her to come with me, so when she told me she was riding with her friends, i simply said " oh thats cool".If she said she wanted to go with her friends, then let her go. If she was indecisive about what car to go in/didnt even say who she wud be going with, then I DEF wouldve tried to isolate her/get her to come with you BAck to the kiss, we kissed infront of her friends. I mean, I wanted to kiss for a few seconds, but she kept it to a quick peck, so i felt she kept me hanging. Is this typical, or is it because we were infront of her friends?It was prolly only a quick peck cuz she was nervous in front of her friends

Back to reality...
I ended up missing a nice opportunity to kiss her when i found this secret hidden compartment, which only I knew how to get into. I got in there and said "Monica! you have to check this out" and she gets in. Awkwardly we stand there, and before I can kiss her she walks out because i waited to long.You only get one shot wen it comes to girls, and that includes getting shots at hooking up with them. Next time, dont let this one go to waste my mistake. when things were done, we walked together hand in hand. With the whole hand in hand situation, She usually breaks off contact because she has to do certain things, like pick up her costume, or get a soda. I mean, I don't think its a big deal because she is breaking off the contact or whatever and im starting to really question all these "PUA " techniques.what u mean by this? what techinques? I mean, maybe they work to some extent but im starting to just use them as general guidelines.

As we are leaving, I say " man i think it would be so awkward if you were the only person here on halloween night." she says " yeah im sure. I want to go trick or treating too" with a slight laugh. "You should come with me and my friends to go trick or treating" she didn't give me a yes, but she also didn't give me a no. I take that as a good sign, because chances are no one wants to be passing out candy on halloween. everyone wants to have some fun =)

A few interesting Notes.
So while Im walking around as Michael Myers, I notice two pretty decent looking girls ( I can't really tell to be honest, the strobe lights raped my brain and eyes) and when I took my mask off, one girl said " Hey is your name duy?" and the other girl had this shocked face, like I was Jackie Chan or some crazy bs, because she was gasping with her hands against her mouth. I simply said " Yeah, how do you know my name?" and the girl replies " Oh, aren't you with Monica?" and I just smile and turn around. They turned out to be Monica's friends because when Monica saw them, they had one of those "Girly" moments lol

I noticed A lot of people are very curious about me and Monica. When Monica left, I was left with my original group of friends and they couldn't help but ask " Hey whats up with you and Monica?" " I saw you guys holding hands!" " I saw you two at homecoming!". I simply replied " nothing" with a smile. I didn't wanted to be the type of guy who spills the beans or kisses and tells.GOOD!!! EXCELLENT job there! I also didn't want to share my feelings about Monica with them, because I would figure It would go around and she would find out, even though that really wouldn't be a bad thing necessarilyThat is some excellent fvcking decision making!! Now your thinkin like a dj! Nice job!


Her friends Question
I also noticed that Monica has some close friends who i don't care much for, and if anything I dislike them. I don't want to sound like an @$$hole, but some of her friends are a bit low on the social standards scale, as in they are pretty awkward to be around, act like little 7 year olds, or act like snobby b1tches. I'm wondering if this will get in the way between me and Monica if we decide to go any further. Should I try to atleast get on their good terms?I know i tell you that outside factors shouldnt affect your game, and that you should just focus on the girl, but in this case, a girl's best friend can either really help your game, or really kill it. If these girls dont like you at all, theyre gonna trash talk stuff about you to monica, and will try to break things up before the two of you start going out (if you do go out). On the other hand, if you befriend them, a girl's best friend can become your greatest weapon. Never forget that. If your good friends with one or a few of these girls, you'll be able to go to them whenever you want if you wanna find out something about monica. Trust me, there will come a time where you will be utterly confused about something monica does/did, and if I cant help you, then her best friends would definitely be willing to help you out and clear things up if your good friends with them

 

[eaglez1177]

Man im tired lol

10.26.09

So im walking to 2nd hour and I see monica in the hallways. She smiles and we hug and we kiss. She was walking with her friends, but I guess they got the message and walked away, leaving monica and I together. I ask her what class she has, and its upstairs. We walk together, hand in hand until we hit the stairs.

We break the handholding shenanigans and as we walk up, i begin to feel a little awkward because there isn't much talking going on. I probably shouldn't of asked " So have you made up your mind about halloween?" she says " Yeah i want to go but I told Kayla I would stay with her at haunted Hamptons and pass out candy." I then say " Well what if I get Kayla to come with us?" she said " i'd ask my mom". Thats probably a no. And yea i wudnt have asked either, dont bug girls about certain things

So we get to her class and kiss and seperate. thats it. I don't think i'll be walking her to that class everyday, let alone all her classes because its just out of my way.Good, if its outta ur way, then dont walk her. Do what you want. We aren't even official yet, but im starting to get the feeling everyone thinks so because it seems like all my friends and all her friends know, so if I get a little too flirty with any other girls, chances are It'll get back to Monica and I will get a bad rep.Yea I know it sucks but thats the way hs is man. Game chicks from other schools or girls u see around town. Obviously Id still flirt alot and all that, but if your clearly hookin up with a girl in your grade (and you cant keep it on the down low, thus lettin it get around), then ur chances wit monica are prolly gone.

I feel like I can probably go all the way with Monica in bed, but I just need some alone time with her to build some more comfort and escalate.Good. I like the confidence Maybe this friday we will hang out, i will talk to her about that tomorrow because Friday I plan to go to haunted hamptons once again.

Facebook has no privacy
So after saturday night I posted " I've got a girl who thinks I rock. " as my facebook status and it looks like everyone saw it, especially Anna ( the girl who was kinoing me like crazy at the pool) because Yesterday ( sunday ) I tried to invite her to the pool and i guess she was a little immature because she said " what about the girl who thinks you rock?" I simply reply "she's mia" and she says some bs about Sunday being her "relax" day. Looks like Anna is a bit jealous and doesn't want to do anything with me for now. It's whatever though.Lol ya who gives a sh*t

Jackie Little Mexican Girl I met at homecoming game
So this girl walks across from me and passes me. All of a sudden she lets a mule kick out and kicks me directly in the d1ck.( on a pain scale of 1-10, i was probably at a 3, which is a minor discomfort) how swell right? it wasn't until a few steps later that i realized how much it hurt. How would you guys have re acted? because I ended kicked her in the @$$ as she was walking away ( probably a 4 outta 10 in how hard i kicked) I'm not sure if i did the right thing, but damn it still kinda felt irritated.Wtf. Why the fvck would she kick you in the d*ck? Fvcking cvnt. DO NOT ever let a girl do that to you and get away with it. Its good that you kicked her back, but I personally wouldve fvcking KICKED HER HARD, especially if it actually hurt me.Dont let this b*tch ever do that to you again.

 

[BongDuy]

10.27.09
So today was a pretty interesting morning. Im starting to realize how many "AFC" there are in this world. In the morning, I hung out with the Trio ( Edith*Mexican girl at homecoming dance*, Brenda * goldfish* and Kristina*brute*) We were just talking when suddenly this guy comes up. Very weird looking, you could tell he loved Anime. He was a black guy with a blond afro and an acoustic guitar in his hand. I realized this was a guy Kristina was totally creeped out by because he liked her and she didn't like him one bit. We teased her and that weird anime guy comes up and sits next to kristina on her right side. Im sitting on her left, and she whispers in my ear " PLEASE PUT YOUR HAND AROUND ME!!! PLEASE!" So i do, but i joking say turn to the guy and say " hey man, why don't you play us a song with that guitar in your hand?" He sits there, silently without saying a word. When I lift my hand off Kristina's shoulder, he puts his arm around her for a "hug" and leaves it there for a few awkward seconds. Not long after that, he got up and left, which i found HILARIOUS!

Another Interesting scenario is that my Physic's teacher is a lady we will call "Boyle". When you first meet her, you would think of her as a free spirit, who you can talk to about anything, including jokes. You can also count on her for the latest gossip on students and all sorts of stuff, so she isn't really the best teacher to tell your life story too. I always thought of her as a teacher who would have sex with a student, but she says otherwise. Anyways...
I ended up talking to her about her current "boyfriend" and she showed me a text message he sent me because what happen was he said something that pissed her off, so she ignored him since 6:00 PM yesterday. It was around 9:00 AM today, and the text read something extremely similar to this " please don't be mad at me, i really care about you, i wouldn't be trying this hard on any girl, you're different, please respond, etc etc etc,"

I couldn't help but find it extremely hilarious that he would say that. Just some interesting notes about today

Monica Potential Girlfriend
So I decided That I would walk her to her 2nd hour class because I run into her while going downstairs. ( my 2nd hour is downstairs, hers is upstairs so when I leave my 1st hour, which is upstairs, I run into her and just walk her from the stairs)
I usually have to stallbecause she comes from outside of the school, so i run to the bathroom, get water from the fountain, etc.
So I bumped into her and I put my arm around her shoulder. I notice that she holds her hands out and says " Aren't you going to hold my hand?" I look at her and reply " They're wet, but if you're into that type of stuff, sure" She holds it anyways and we continue to walk upstairs. To me, it feel s a little Awkward because we still don't really talk about anything, I tried to strike up a convo about her softball season and when she starts, which is around 2 weeks.

I find out she is pretty much going to be busy every day, so i don't know if dating her would be the best idea because she would probably be tired and stuff from doing that. I really want to hang out with her to get to know her more, i really do. I will probably hang out with her in the morning from now on, i'll find out where she is tomorrow when i get to school.

A little more in detail about monica
So from my limited knowledge of Monica I would describe her as a lustful child. What I mean is, she even says she is very "kid" like, so she watches the disney channel and she even has some of her barbies. However, I would say she is lustful because she initiated the tongue action when we kissed during Haunted Hamptons, which i take as a great sign. this backs up my reason for saying that i could probably get some early foreplay from her, beacuse im sure she is just as curious about me as i am about her

Preparing for my first time?
haha okay so this sounds really ridiculous, i know but im determined to make sure my first time will be somewhat decent.let's just say I thought I lost my virginity to a disgusting fat chick and im just glad i still have it because im not going to lie, i regretted it for a while until i learned that I totally didn't go all the way. It was such a relief, it made me want to make sure my first time was a little more special.

Kegels - I do about 100 every class period, so thats a total of about 700 a day. I think that'll be enough for a few weeks, and i plan.
Mbating - So I recently gained a lot of self control over this lustful demon inside me. You see, ever since I was 9, i've been mbating. at first, it was just a few times every week, I used to just rub myself and get a dry Orgasm. When i was 13 i nearly shot my face off when I first realized I was hitting puberty. Since that day, i've been playing the 5 on 1 game several times a day, my record being 17 times in a day. haha, too much info?
Anyways, I recenttly cut it down to once every other day , the only thing keeping me from stopping in total is sometimes during the night, I get these intense erections that wake me up. So i like to mbate during the day, or before i sleep for about 30+ minutes each session. yeah, i want to be good in bed

Wait lol Jackie kicked you in the sack or were you just with her when this happened? Either way your reaction is understandable, cause man junk shouldn't be messed with, but maybe limiting it to words would be better

And was that your first kiss ever? If so gj

I saw her in the hallway and as she passed me, she let off this totally random kick to my d1ck. It wasn't my first kiss ever, but it was 2nd kiss in highschool. My first was the with brenda, but if you don't consider that a real kiss, then homecoming dance was when i got it.

My real first kiss was soooo embarrassing. hahahha I ended up talking to my current gf at the time ( I was in middle school) and over AIM, I asked her " hey, tomorrow do you think we could kiss?" The next day, I got a kiss but still. how embarrassing.

and yes Eaglez, I suck at kissing heh, but im working on it. Im working at one thing at a time, I want to feel her hair and get a little more passionate next time, as i move my kisses down her neck and onto her chest. I plan to get more practice when we're alone together, just me and her

 

[sageproduct]

hahaha what's the 5 on 1 game? i hope you didn't mean you mbated 17times in a day...

 

[BongDuy]

10.28.09
Typical morning with the trio, nothing interesting here.

Monica Potential Girlfriend
I meet her walking up the stairs and She immediately opens up about Halloween night. She said something along the lines of " I asked my mom and she wanted to know where we were going" she also mentioned that if her friend Kayla (Little girl on the swim team) didn't go to haunted hamptons on saturday by herself, she would go with me on halloween night. I don't even know what i plan to go as, maybe i'll bring my huge rice hat and go as an Asian. Any Suggestions?

A lot of questions
Once again, everyone is questioning me and Monica like you wouldn't believe. some of my friends are asking things like
Q:" Whats the deal with you and Monica?"
A: " we're not official yet"
Q: "When are you going to ask her out?"
A: "idk, i want to get to know her well first"

A creep? what a weird way of putting things
So im with my friend George and we're talking about Nicole ( the girl who thinks im a total creep) and Rose ( Homecoming Princess) and who would make the better girlfriend. He ends up telling me he talked to Nicole about me while he was with her the other day. He asked her " So whats the deal with my friend duy? do you think he is a creep?" and she replied with " I think hes a funny creep"
My response to that is, wtf?

Mysterious Volleyball girl The girl who talked to me about swimming for 4 years.
So im walking to my bus at the end of the day and I notice that volleyball girl who i never got her name. I didn't notice her until it was too late, but i noticed she smiled at me and made eye contact. Will one day talk to her if i can remember her face.

Helping a girl out?
So theres Kayla ( the little girl on the swim team. she's a freshmen) who has this crush on this guy Jason, who is another freshmen. I basically just tease the hell outta her when i talk to her, but I noticed that I want to help her with guys. I think it would be pretty funny if i told her to apply certain "Dj" concepts to see if that would attract the guy or not. It seems like I tease her about the boy instead of helping her with solid advice though. and no, i don't have any sexual interests in Kayla. She is also a good friend of Monica's, and an alright friend of mine.

Dennis very shy girl on the swim team
So during lunch, Dennis and Kayla ( same one I mentioned "helping" out above) were hanging out together, at a bench. I walked over and teased Kayla about her "boyfriend", which is just some guy she likes but is too shy to talk to. A lot of teasing and at first i didn't really give Dennis much attention or eye contact. Eventually, I realized I wasn't interacting with her, and I ended up teasing her a bit over being so shy. We talk a bit about halloween, and she opens up a bit about her house and the decoration, which i take as a great sign.
*fast forward to swim practice*
after Practice, She was putting her ripped swim cap around her face and i smiled and said " You know, I used to think you were a very shy quiet girl. Now i think you're a weirdo!"
So i guess that's my nickname for her. maybe a little more progression with Dennis.

hahaha what's the 5 on 1 game? i hope you didn't mean you mbated 17times in a day...

5 fingers. 1 d1ck. And yes, my total record is mbating 17 times in one day.

 

[saturos]

5 fingers. 1 d1ck. And yes, my total record is mbating 17 times in one day.

What the **** that just sounds painful o.o

 

[BongDuy]

10.29.09 My morning
When I got to school, I decided I wanted to walk around for a bit before sitting next to the deadly Trio ( Edith, Brenda, and Kristina) the usual girls. I walk around for a bit and I see Monica walking by herself. She sees me and we hug and kiss on the lips.
me: hey your sister didn't drop you off?
her: nah, my sister only drops me to school when she doesnt have classes
me: what about tomorrow?
her: nope, im taking the bus in the morning
me: cool, i wanted to hang out with you anyways, since I won't be here all day tomorrow. ( Im going to be at districts swimming, so I will be on school only until 7:00 AM, then we will leave and I won't be home until 8:00 PM ish)

The Interview
We walk a bit and she says " Hey, you HAVE to meet my volleyball coach!" So I agree and we walk towards a portable. She was on the phone for the first few minutes, and Monica took a seat and I sat next to her.She was a big lady, both in thickness and height, and if you didn't know any better, you would think she would be a very mean biatch. Once she is off the phone, she begins interviewing me. I had that feeling of being " on the spot", like when you meet a girl's parents for the first time. She begins some fluff talk about Leather jackets for Varsity team. Once that was out of the way, She says " So whats the deal with you and Monica? Are you two dating? official? what?"
I have to admit, I saw this comming, but it threw me off. I looked at Monica, and before I could answer she says " You see, the reason I ask is because all my volleyball girls are like daughters of mine, and I can't let them just hang out with anyone" She goes into some examples of guys and their effects on her players. In the end, I didn't get to answer her question, which was pretty good on my part. She asks, " so what do you do?" and I tell her how im the team Captain, A senator of Student Government, a member of NHS and some more fluff. She says she is "impressed" and whatnot, so i guess im in the clear with my coach, if that makes any sense. I walk out of her portable with Monica, hand in hand and we walk around some more.

I had some some bright idea to introduce her to my friends, but i don't know if that was the best idea on my part. I walked her over to the side where I usually sat and I simply said " this is *enter name*. Meet Monica" while holding her hands. I heard a voice from the back saying " DUY! DUY DUY! TURN HER AROUND!" it was the Trio ( Edith, Kristina, and Brenda) Brenda looked at me and said " aww you guys are so cute!" but the other two girls just kinda looked and stared. they didn't say much, or atleast nothing that I can remember. I walked away with them, with Monica still holding my hand, and walked around school a bit more. I noticed a lot of people were giving me attention, Which i didn't really enjoy. Everyone was saying " OH DUY!!!" and congratulating me, which i wish they didn't do.

The bell rings and I say " You should walk me to class". She replies "sure" and we begin walking upstairs to my first hour. We kiss goodbye, and I guess im getting better because at the end, she smiled as she walked away. I can't wait to be alone with her

More of Monica
Walked her to her 2nd hour, and third hour because it turns out that her class isn't too far away. Kiss close at the end of each. Nothing too interesting here. During lunch though, I had this curious little side of me of what other people thought of Monica, And i asked my friend Nye who is a girl with very high standards. She's a bit bisexual, so i thought she would be a bit open minded. She rated her a 5. Im a bit disappointed, and she begins to explain how its only based on appearance, and if she got to know her as a general person, she would probably rate her higher/lower based on her personality. I talked to my friend George later on that day and he rates Monica as a 6.5, which is a lot better. But im not a big fan of people caring, its just what if i break up with her. Would other girls see me differently for dating a girl who was "ugly"?

are we Official yet?
So throughout the day, I have an unbelievable amount of people questioning whether we are official, probably because they saw me walking her to three classes today and kissing after each walk. I simply reply " idk" or say " we're not official yet"
I was thinking of making it official, just because theres no point in not being official. Im not sure if monica knows whether or not we are official, but im pretty sure she assumes we are a couple. I want to talk to her about it but I don't want to ask " Will you date me?" or " Will you be my girlfriend?" I really don't want to ask. Is there a better way to bring it up?

Serena Asian Girl I failed to Kiss close / I smoked with but just got... a handshake
So I get on my bus at the end of the day, and I sit on the edge of the seat, so no one can sit next to me. Im shuffling through my music on my mp3 player, so im not paying attention to anyone walking down the aisle. I feel a kick against my ankle and its Serena. I scoot over and we begin talking. Im feeling like i screwed up so bad with her that its not even worth the effort to make a move on her, plus im pretty much dating Monica at this point. never the less, we talk about some fluff.
She says "Why are you so sweaty?"
I say" Uhm.. because its hot as balls?".
She laughs and says " Well im fine. I'm not very hot".
I say " well im thinking, unlike some people"
she replies with a laugh and i finish it off with a " see, you're not really using your head at all, so thats why you're not sweating at all" Surprisingly she laughs and we just continue some light talk. It was mostly her initiating because I didn't really feel like bothering with her. not the most positive attitude towards a girl, but im pretty sure theres no hope for this chick.

Not AMOG, but still pretty annoying
So now that everyone knows about me and Monica, my immature annoying friend Agi decides to screw with me while im walking with Monica, hand in hand, in the hallways. He pretty much gets behind me and starts breathing inbetween us. I push that fvcker off and tell him to chill. Im wondering, how would you deal with an immature c0ck blocker? I really felt like punching him straight in his ugly mug, no joke. I almost lost my cool the minute he got behind me and started " air humping me". I didn't want to go apesh1t infront of Monica though, which is probably the only thing keeping me back from getting suspended.

 

[sageproduct]

For some reason I think I remember reading somewhere in the bible that you're never supposed to ask a girl to be your girlfriend or something. But my friend (not AFC) who's been dating a girl for a year told me how he made it official. He said he was making out with her, stopped, and asked if she wanted to be official. I guess maybe that works cuz it's the right mood?

and that kid's a fag i hope he leaves you alone. i remember reading that mainly you ignore the other guys and use humor as your tool...but if theres no humor in the situation i guess you could just calmly ask him if he's got a problem or just assertively tell him to go away

 

[eaglez1177]

Sorry ive been very busy lately!

10.29.09 My morning
When I got to school, I decided I wanted to walk around for a bit before sitting next to the deadly Trio ( Edith, Brenda, and Kristina) the usual girls. I walk around for a bit and I see Monica walking by herself. If its a deadly trio then why do you always force yourself to sit with them? Dont be desperate for a womans company, go out and find other girls to talk to in the morningShe sees me and we hug and kiss on the lips.
me: hey your sister didn't drop you off?
her: nah, my sister only drops me to school when she doesnt have classes
me: what about tomorrow?
her: nope, im taking the bus in the morning
me: cool, i wanted to hang out with you anyways, since I won't be here all day tomorrow. ( Im going to be at districts swimming, so I will be on school only until 7:00 AM, then we will leave and I won't be home until 8:00 PM ish)

The Interview
We walk a bit and she says " Hey, you HAVE to meet my volleyball coach!" So I agree and we walk towards a portable. She was on the phone for the first few minutes, and Monica took a seat and I sat next to her.She was a big lady, both in thickness and height, and if you didn't know any better, you would think she would be a very mean biatch. Once she is off the phone, she begins interviewing me. I had that feeling of being " on the spot", like when you meet a girl's parents for the first time. She begins some fluff talk about Leather jackets for Varsity team. Once that was out of the way, She says " So whats the deal with you and Monica? Are you two dating? official? what?"Why the hell does monica's volleyball coach care about you two? Monica shoud not have done this to you, and she shouldnt care about what her fvcking volleball coach thinks about her new "boyfriend"
I have to admit, I saw this comming, but it threw me off. I looked at Monica, and before I could answer she says " You see, the reason I ask is because all my volleyball girls are like daughters of mine, and I can't let them just hang out with anyone" what the fvckShe goes into some examples of guys and their effects on her players. In the end, I didn't get to answer her question, which was pretty good on my part. She asks, " so what do you do?" and I tell her how im the team Captain, A senator of Student Government, a member of NHS and some more fluff. She says she is "impressed" and whatnot, so i guess im in the clear with my coach, if that makes any sense. I walk out of her portable with Monica, hand in hand and we walk around some more.Screw the coach dude she shouldnt have any effect whatsoever on you

I had some some bright idea to introduce her to my friends, but i don't know if that was the best idea on my part. I walked her over to the side where I usually sat and I simply said " this is *enter name*. Meet Monica" while holding her hands. I heard a voice from the back saying " DUY! DUY DUY! TURN HER AROUND!" it was the Trio ( Edith, Kristina, and Brenda) Brenda looked at me and said " aww you guys are so cute!" but the other two girls just kinda looked and stared. they didn't say much, or atleast nothing that I can remember. I walked away with them, with Monica still holding my hand, and walked around school a bit more. I noticed a lot of people were giving me attention, Which i didn't really enjoy. Everyone was saying " OH DUY!!!" and congratulating me, which i wish they didn't do. Eh what can you expect...your holding her hand in the hallways so ppl are gonna think you guys are going out

The bell rings and I say " You should walk me to class". She replies "sure" and we begin walking upstairs to my first hour. We kiss goodbye, and I guess im getting better because at the end, she smiled as she walked away. I can't wait to be alone with her

More of Monica
Walked her to her 2nd hour, and third hour because it turns out that her class isn't too far away. Kiss close at the end of each. Nothing too interesting here. During lunch though, I had this curious little side of me of what other people thought of Monica, And i asked my friend Nye who is a girl with very high standards. She's a bit bisexual, so i thought she would be a bit open minded. She rated her a 5. Im a bit disappointed, and she begins to explain how its only based on appearance, and if she got to know her as a general person, she would probably rate her higher/lower based on her personality. I talked to my friend George later on that day and he rates Monica as a 6.5, which is a lot better. But im not a big fan of people caringgood, its just what if i break up with her. Would other girls see me differently for dating a girl who was "ugly"?Well your in highschool, so yes, the things you do with girls will have an effect on other girls. I know it sucks being that way, but the only thing hs girls care about is reputation and stuff like that. If you went out with a really ugly or slvtty chick, you would be labeled as the guy who "went out with blah blah the ugly/slvtty chick". And if youre a big fan of ppl not caring, then why do you ask if other girls will see you differently if you broke up with her? It shouldnt matter to you. And dont use the term "broke up" cuz the two of you arent even going out yet

are we Official yet?
So throughout the day, I have an unbelievable amount of people questioning whether we are official, probably because they saw me walking her to three classes today and kissing after each walk. I simply reply " idk" or say " we're not official yet"
I was thinking of making it official, just because theres no point in not being official. Im not sure if monica knows whether or not we are official, but im pretty sure she assumes we are a couple. I want to talk to her about it but I don't want to ask " Will you date me?" or " Will you be my girlfriend?" I really don't want to ask. Is there a better way to bring it up?Well, if all those ppl are starting to annoy you, then simply back off a bit on monica in public. Dont hold her hand all the time, dont kiss her every single time. Mix it up a bit. Hot and cold. And yes, there is a better way to bring it up. First off, never ask a girl to be your girlfriend. Tell her you want her to be your girlfriend. Go to her one day, say something like "Hey I really enjoy hanging out/being around you/spending time with you, and I want you to be my girlfriend". Something along the lines of that, but just make sure you say you want her to be your girlfriend. Dont use the word "official" by the way, thats for fvckin 6th graders. Using the word official is not being direct enough, and sayin somethin like "Hey I want to be official with you", monica will think you wont have enough balls to just be more straight up and say "hey I want you to be my girlfriend". See the difference?

Serena Asian Girl I failed to Kiss close / I smoked with but just got... a handshakehaha
So I get on my bus at the end of the day, and I sit on the edge of the seat, so no one can sit next to me. Im shuffling through my music on my mp3 player, so im not paying attention to anyone walking down the aisle. I feel a kick against my ankle and its Serena. I scoot over and we begin talking. Im feeling like i screwed up so bad with her that its not even worth the effort to make a move on her, plus im pretty much dating Monica at this point. never the less, we talk about some fluff.
She says "Why are you so sweaty?"
I say" Uhm.. because its hot as balls?".
She laughs and says " Well im fine. I'm not very hot".
I say " well im thinking, unlike some people"
she replies with a laugh and i finish it off with a " see, you're not really using your head at all, so thats why you're not sweating at all" Surprisingly she laughs and we just continue some light talk. It was mostly her initiating because I didn't really feel like bothering with her. not the most positive attitude towards a girl, but im pretty sure theres no hope for this chick.

Not AMOG, but still pretty annoying
So now that everyone knows about me and Monica, my immature annoying friend Agi decides to screw with me while im walking with Monica, hand in hand, in the hallways. He pretty much gets behind me and starts breathing inbetween us. I push that fvcker off and tell him to chill. Im wondering, how would you deal with an immature c0ck blocker? I really felt like punching him straight in his ugly mug, no joke. I almost lost my cool the minute he got behind me and started " air humping me". I didn't want to go apesh1t infront of Monica though, which is probably the only thing keeping me back from getting suspended.First, it is NOT worth getting suspended over some idiot annoying you, and its not worth getting suspended over a girl. That being said, I would talk to this b*tch when monica isnt around, and tell him to leave you the fvck alone and that hes annoying. Hes just trying to get reactions and attention from you or other people, so just tell him that hes making himself look like a fvcking idiot. Most off all, do not freak out on this kid in front of monica, if your in front of monica you have to show that your a bigger man, and if you flip out in front of him in front of monica, it shows that his teasing get to you. If this kid STILL does it, and by that I mean doing it for a week or more without stopping every day, then I would tell him to meet you after school so you can beat some sense into him. Remember, dont freak out in front of a bunch of ppl or monica, it'll just show that his teasing is getting to you and that his gay sh*t is workin on you

 

[BongDuy]

haha I had forgotten how helpful your advice was because during those few days without a reply, I felt a little lost lol. Thanks for the replies

 

[BongDuy]

10.31.09 Halloween Night

So this was the day I was planning to make things official with Monica. But a few things are making me re consider it, even if it may cause some awkwardness.

Monica not so much "target"
I text monica around 1:00 PM telling her i'll pick her up around 7:15, since we're meeting my friends around 7:30. I get a text back from her saying she wants me to meet her parents. her fvcking parents?! yeah, crazy stuff, especially since i've never called her my girlfriend. More on that later...

I am in a nerd costume, and I pick her up. Her dad opens the garage the instant I get out of the truck, as if he was waiting for me. He says " Oh, you scared the sh1t out of me". I relax a bit because of his language. He asks for my name and introduces himself as carlos. I follow him to the front door and Monica Answers, dressed as a zombie princess. I walk in greet Monica with a hug ( I didn't kiss her on the mouth because I was a little worried her dad might go crazy ) greeted her sister, Samatha ( i met her last year ) and her dad begins some light talk. "Bring her back home by 10:30. Got a problem with that?" I simply reply " No" with a smile on my face.

We drive off and she says " That went Horrible! You know, you were the first guy I've ever brought home?". Personally I didn't think it was that bad, I mean it could of been WAYYY worse. Nevertheless, we head off to meet up with my friends. When we get there, there is a lot more fluff talk and we take some photos. Blah blah, we go get some candy. Me and Monica are holding hands most of the night, I feel like she gave me a few sh1t tests that I failed horribly. When I teased her by saying, "what's the magic words?" she says "Just hold my hand..." all uptight. I give in and hold her hand, which totally sucks in my part. Long story short, it's around 9:45 now and she starts mentioning how we should head back to the car so i can take her home. Keep in mind, we're in a huge neighborhood, I mean its super huge and mazelike. We got lost once or twice actually by this point, so I guess Monica was in a "Panic" mode. I tease her a bit by saying " nah, don't worry about it! your dad won't mind you comming home at 11:00". or " I want to see your dad go apesh1t"

she is now super pissed and uptight. She doesn't want to hold my hand and she starts to seperate from me. She ends up getting a call from her dad around 10:00, and she ends up convince her dad to stay out till 11. She begins to go on a rant about how she's 17 and how she can stay out and have a boyfriend. When I hear the bf part, I ask her " Did you tell your dad i'm your boyfriend?" She replies with " yeah, it was easier just to tell him we were dating."

I didn't make anything official. Maybe I gave her the impression that we were dating when I kiss her after I walk her, or because I hold her hand while I walk her. But im starting to really question whether or not I want to date Monica anymore. I mean, she's pretty bossy. not the girl I thought she was...

But anyways, its around 10:20 now so shes all relaxed and not so uptight. we hold hands again and we walk to this one house, with a girl she knew. She introduces us, and I guess I was a little awkward, because I didn't really say much to her friend. Her friend was actually pretty hot, but damn I didn't really say much except " Hi " and I kinda held my hand out there for a handshake from her. She looked at me funny so I tried to save face by saying " more candy?" Monica smiled and took the candy that her friend was going to give me and says " He doesn't need any more candy" and we walk off.
In retrospect however, When I met some of my old friends while we were walking together, She was pretty quiet. but now that I think about it, I didn't introduce her like she introduced me. I mean, I just assumed EVERYONE knows her because at school it seems like everyone knows her name, or atleast associates her with me.

The kiss
We were walking so much, I felt weird stopping and kissing. We were also with friends, so i felt weird kissing infront of them. more excuses, but i didn't kiss her until the end of the night, where i dropped her off. When I was in her drive way, I said " here, let me walk you to the door". I guess she didn't want me to talk to her dad again, so she says " nah its alright" and leans over to kiss me. It wasn't a make out session, like I wanted. It was just a long peck. I think if i was more prepared for it, like using my hands to caress her face/ hair, It would of got more intense. I just wasn't really ready for it. I guess because she initiated it.


Eugh tonight sucked so much. I feel like less of a man. I feel so crappy and low right now. But on the bright side, atleast I got candy....

 

[sageproduct]

Damn that was pretty weird. I don't think not kissing her because her friends were there is an "excuse" though, because at least where I'm from PDA is a BIG no-no.

What about Monica caused your interest level in her to lower? I just wanna say don't slow down your game with her at all because of that because I think it's a mistake I've made twice in the last year. Both times, I went to a dance with a girl who very likely were interested me but I wasn't interested until after the dance when their interest levels had dropped. Both turned into one-itis's for me. sucked

 

[BongDuy]

Damn that was pretty weird. I don't think not kissing her because her friends were there is an "excuse" though, because at least where I'm from PDA is a BIG no-no.

What about Monica caused your interest level in her to lower? I just wanna say don't slow down your game with her at all because of that because I think it's a mistake I've made twice in the last year. Both times, I went to a dance with a girl who very likely were interested me but I wasn't interested until after the dance when their interest levels had dropped. Both turned into one-itis's for me. sucked

They were my friends too. I just don't like publicly making out infront of people, let alone people i know. maybe its because I care what they think, even though I shouldn't. Im a little self conscious about my kissing. I don't think my interests are dropping in her, I think she is slowly losing interests in me because im losing the confident, mysterious, fun loving vibe I had when we were "just friends".


Back to reality though, After 3 hours of sleep and reoccurring nightmares of not making a move on her, I now know what the problem is. It's not her thats the problem, ITS ME! Monica wants a man. She's testing me to see whether or not im going to go all AFC on her, and unfourtunately because of my previous actions, It looks like I am slowly heading back to my old ways with women. But this time I've realized it before its too late. I plan to hang out with her on sunday, and I won't fall for the same crap. I won't hesitate to make a move. I'm sure If I keep pushing things with Monica, I can get more experience in things like Kino escalation, Sh1t tests, and getting more experience in kissing/ making out/ and maybe even sex.

 

[BananaSmile]

Read page 6 man get ur mood back and do the kiss kiss bang bang

 

[eaglez1177]

Time to digest

10.31.09 Halloween Night

So this was the day I was planning to make things official with Monica. But a few things are making me re consider it, even if it may cause some awkwardness.

Monica not so much "target"
I text monica around 1:00 PM telling her i'll pick her up around 7:15, since we're meeting my friends around 7:30. I get a text back from her saying she wants me to meet her parents. her fvcking parents?! yeah, crazy stuff, especially since i've never called her my girlfriend. More on that later...

I am in a nerd costume, and I pick her up. Her dad opens the garage the instant I get out of the truck, as if he was waiting for me. He says " Oh, you scared the sh1t out of me". HahahI relax a bit because of his language. He asks for my name and introduces himself as carlos. I follow him to the front door and Monica Answers, dressed as a zombie princess. I walk in greet Monica with a hug ( I didn't kiss her on the mouth because I was a little worried her dad might go crazy ) greeted her sister, Samatha ( i met her last year ) and her dad begins some light talk. "Bring her back home by 10:30. Got a problem with that?" I simply reply " No" with a smile on my face.

We drive off and she says " That went Horrible! You know, you were the first guy I've ever brought home?". Personally I didn't think it was that bad, I mean it could of been WAYYY worseLol ive heard of a lot worse too. Nevertheless, we head off to meet up with my friends. When we get there, there is a lot more fluff talk and we take some photos. Blah blah, we go get some candy. Me and Monica are holding hands most of the night, I feel like she gave me a few sh1t tests that I failed horribly. When I teased her by saying, "what's the magic words?" she says "Just hold my hand..." all uptight. I give in and hold her hand, which totally sucks in my part. Long story short, it's around 9:45 now and she starts mentioning how we should head back to the car so i can take her home. Keep in mind, we're in a huge neighborhood, I mean its super huge and mazelike. We got lost once or twice actually by this point, so I guess Monica was in a "Panic" mode. I tease her a bit by saying " nah, don't worry about it! your dad won't mind you comming home at 11:00". or " I want to see your dad go apesh1t"

she is now super pissed and uptight.Well what did you expect? If shes in highschool and has a 10:30 curfew on freakin halloween then i'd bet her dad is pretty strict. plus, you dont know her dad well enough to be the judge of when she can go home. And why would you want to see her dad go apesh*t? YOu may think thats funny but she obviously doesnt. She doesn't want to hold my hand and she starts to seperate from me.You did this to yourself She ends up getting a call from her dad around 10:00, and she ends up convince her dad to stay out till 11. She begins to go on a rant about how she's 17 and how she can stay out and have a boyfriend. When I hear the bf part, I ask her " Did you tell your dad i'm your boyfriend?" She replies with " yeah, it was easier just to tell him we were dating."You shouldve made a point to her that the two of you arent going out yet

I didn't make anything official. Maybe I gave her the impression that we were dating when I kiss her after I walk her, or because I hold her hand while I walk her. But im starting to really question whether or not I want to date Monica anymore. I mean, she's pretty bossy. not the girl I thought she was...If you have ANY DOUBTS WHATSOEVER regarding any potential girlfriend it is ALWAYS best to take a step back and dont rush into anything. Only make this chick your gf if you truly like everything about her and really do want to be with her alot.

But anyways, its around 10:20 now so shes all relaxed and not so uptight. we hold hands again and we walk to this one house, with a girl she knew. She introduces us, and I guess I was a little awkward, because I didn't really say much to her friend. Her friend was actually pretty hot, but damn I didn't really say much except " Hi " and I kinda held my hand out there for a handshake from her. She looked at me funny so I tried to save face by saying " more candy?" Monica smiled and took the candy that her friend was going to give me and says " He doesn't need any more candy" and we walk off.
In retrospect however, When I met some of my old friends while we were walking together, She was pretty quiet. but now that I think about it, I didn't introduce her like she introduced me. I mean, I just assumed EVERYONE knows her because at school it seems like everyone knows her name, or atleast associates her with me.

The kiss
We were walking so much, I felt weird stopping and kissing.who says you need to stop everthing your doing just to kiss a girl? Kiss her while you two are walking its easy We were also with friends, so i felt weird kissing infront of them.You know better than this...dont let outside factors affect your game more excuses, but i didn't kiss her until the end of the night, where i dropped her off. When I was in her drive way, I said " here, let me walk you to the door". I guess she didn't want me to talk to her dad again, so she says " nah its alright" and leans over to kiss me. It wasn't a make out session, like I wanted. It was just a long peck. I think if i was more prepared for it, like using my hands to caress her face/ hair, It would of got more intense. I just wasn't really ready for it. I guess because she initiated it.You always gotta be ready. How couldnt you be ready if she was going to say goodbye to you right then and there rather than at the door?


Eugh tonight sucked so much. I feel like less of a man. I feel so crappy and low right now. But on the bright side, atleast I got candy....I think the fact that Monica has pretty much assumed you as her bf definitely gives off a bossy vibe. I can definitely see how you get the impression that she wants to be in control, because if she didnt want to be the one in control she wouldnt be the one making it seem like you two are definite bf and gf. She wants a relationship with you, and you arent sure, yet she still does what SHE WANTS and makes everything seem like you two are going out when you havent even asked her to be your gf yet. Definitely give it some more time with this girl, and allow yourself to figure her out some more rather than rushing into things.

 

[eaglez1177]

edit: sry double post

 

[sageproduct]

Hey I remember reading this a while ago and this one time you said you downloaded an ebook or something one day, I really don't feel like going back to find it...what was it? Thanks man.