AJedisRevenge said:
Between Facebook, Bars, etc., how many girls do you say you try to pick up on, in a week, with the intentions of dating/sex? 5 per day? 5 total over 2 days?
I've read some of the back post, so I've got an idea (5 "heys" sent a day on Facebook), but I'm still curious.
Thanks for the help.
It varies daily and although I don't have a hard quota (5, 10, etc), I have a rough amount of flirting I do on a daily basis, probably just because I'm used to it by now and I like the attention (do I sound like an AW yet?).
There are only so many hours in a day and I try to focus on self improvement first and foremost, with hitting on girls secondary. That said, on certain days I 'fill in' for other days. For example, last week I worked a lot so most of my flirting was done at work, 'out there'. This week I have much less shifts and am spending more time at home catching up on my to-do list, so due to decreased social interaction I'm focusing on POF/Facebook and sending out daily messages, friend requests, etc.
On average I'd say I communicate with 5 girls/day. By communicate I mean actually having a 2 way convo, as I can send out 20-30 messages in a day between POF/FB in less than an hour total, but that doesn't really count. I also don't count quick interactions (for example briefly flirting with girls at the bar while I'm working doesn't really count, as that could be any number depending on the night). I mean texting/IM/focused face-to-face. So 5/day, and that's any combination of girls I'm dating/have banged, am playing slow with, just starting to talk to, etc.
What I've learned after all this time is that it's a number game, ALWAYS. The key is to become a high value man so over the long haul your conversion rate goes up and the numbers start favoring you, if that makes sense.