Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart
Girl #45 – HB 6
Another day, another Facebook pull. I send 5-10 friend requests/day and message girls who accept 2 days later. A shotgun ‘what’s up ‘ got an almost immediate response and as we were both online, proceeded to chat a little.
20 years old, gorgeous face, but a little on the thick side. Still, just made it past my cutoff. HB 6 due to pudginess only. It’s a tragedy really, seeing girls who have a face to masturbate to but need to lose weight. Drop 20lbs and she’s a 7 easy. Drop 30 and we’re looking at 8+.
We make small talk about art (yours truly is a bona fide artiste) and swap some photos of artwork. After a few messages she has to leave and offers her number for me to text. When a girl gives you her number without you asking, it’s a fairly significant IOI. I tell her we should get a drink and continue this offline. I wasn’t planning for that night, but she comes back offering to split a bottle of wine with me – at my place. Skip the bar comfort building stage altogether.
She comes over later that night and we sit on my porch and drink. Our chairs are facing each other, though somewhat far apart. This is part of kino escalation. At first there’s no contact, but then I position my leg to touch hers. Soon our legs are in constant contact. A glass in I tell her I can’t hear her with the street noise so I pull her chair in to me, which gets an immediate response. It’s kind of like throwing a girl around in bed – they love the display of masculine strength and this is no different. I literally pull in girls I’m sitting next to at a bar closer once conversation is going well, but I digress. There’s rarely a right moment to make a move and if you properly escalate any time works, so a few minutes later I put my hand behind her head and pull her into me for a makeout. I then tell her we’re going to continue this upstairs and that’s that.
To be fair, this was in the bag to begin with so the more gradual escalation done in public was superfluous. A girl who is willing to meet you at your place or hers, alone, for drinks, is ready to put out. The time between door knock and penis in vagina is just extended foreplay, so have fun with it.
She knew it was a one night stand and asked me if we’re going to have a repeat after the fact, to which I agreed. Of course you can agree and change your mind, but let them down softly. There’s no need to burn bridges; much better to leave on as best terms as possible as a lot of girls tend to come back around if they liked what they got the first time. Being a 6 (weight), I wouldn’t want to parade her around town but a convenience ****, so long as it passes your threshold of regret the next day, is ok from time to time.
Girl #45 – HB 6
Another day, another Facebook pull. I send 5-10 friend requests/day and message girls who accept 2 days later. A shotgun ‘what’s up ‘ got an almost immediate response and as we were both online, proceeded to chat a little.
20 years old, gorgeous face, but a little on the thick side. Still, just made it past my cutoff. HB 6 due to pudginess only. It’s a tragedy really, seeing girls who have a face to masturbate to but need to lose weight. Drop 20lbs and she’s a 7 easy. Drop 30 and we’re looking at 8+.
We make small talk about art (yours truly is a bona fide artiste) and swap some photos of artwork. After a few messages she has to leave and offers her number for me to text. When a girl gives you her number without you asking, it’s a fairly significant IOI. I tell her we should get a drink and continue this offline. I wasn’t planning for that night, but she comes back offering to split a bottle of wine with me – at my place. Skip the bar comfort building stage altogether.
She comes over later that night and we sit on my porch and drink. Our chairs are facing each other, though somewhat far apart. This is part of kino escalation. At first there’s no contact, but then I position my leg to touch hers. Soon our legs are in constant contact. A glass in I tell her I can’t hear her with the street noise so I pull her chair in to me, which gets an immediate response. It’s kind of like throwing a girl around in bed – they love the display of masculine strength and this is no different. I literally pull in girls I’m sitting next to at a bar closer once conversation is going well, but I digress. There’s rarely a right moment to make a move and if you properly escalate any time works, so a few minutes later I put my hand behind her head and pull her into me for a makeout. I then tell her we’re going to continue this upstairs and that’s that.
To be fair, this was in the bag to begin with so the more gradual escalation done in public was superfluous. A girl who is willing to meet you at your place or hers, alone, for drinks, is ready to put out. The time between door knock and penis in vagina is just extended foreplay, so have fun with it.
She knew it was a one night stand and asked me if we’re going to have a repeat after the fact, to which I agreed. Of course you can agree and change your mind, but let them down softly. There’s no need to burn bridges; much better to leave on as best terms as possible as a lot of girls tend to come back around if they liked what they got the first time. Being a 6 (weight), I wouldn’t want to parade her around town but a convenience ****, so long as it passes your threshold of regret the next day, is ok from time to time.
