Modro's Self Improvement Quest!

[Modro]

Week 16 day 1:

What a day, first got invited to play some football in the morning, then while there i got invited for a lunch, then to the cinema. I also arranged to go to a pub with the 2 mates from friday, we got there and it was a bit dull so we decided to go out, as it was a sunday i didnt have to wear a shirt to get in, so wearing a t shirt my arms were on show which my friends = good.

So we go to where we normally go out, and we meet a friend of theirs (a girl i met a few weeks ago, the one i was talking to her mate in the night club) well she had a friend with her, who was hot, very slim nice hair style im going to say hbslim 8.5/9 and some dude was with them.

Well im thinking he is the hbslims bf, he was acting like it was his chick, i soon found out she doesnt like him they are not going out and she hates him acting like they are a couple. Anyway we go into the club and take a seat, and she goes to me do you work out, i notice.

anyway we are chatting, im feeling like pure DJ at this point as i noticed the last 2 days i was too serious not talking enough having fun, me and my mate go to get a drink and some black girl comes up to me asked can she ask me a favour, im like depends what it is (thinking she might try and kiss me or something) she wanted me to buy her a drink, i was like err no.

go back and the hbslim, keeps talking about showing my body she wants to see and a quote from my other friend was ' he is pretty good looking' when i was away. basically she is liking me, the only problem with this is her stalker, he was crazy they went to the bathroom, and he follows them about 5 seconds after they go, all night he keeps following her, it was killing me.

i was ignoring her for a bit, being patient as she goes she like top chase for things not have them following her, the dude was weird and we kept trying to ditch him all night but he was standing on his own searching for us, pretty much a desperate needing afc

it was kinda fun trying to avoid him with them and we all danced, i got invited to the girl who i spoke to party a few weeks ago, and hbslim is going, she got excited to find out i was coming, i couldnt really isolate her tonight and wasnt going to chase after her. pretty sure i can get with her NO problem at all.

All in all i got like a shot of confidence straight away and i could act like i wanted to, only one **** blocking stalker got in the way tonight, no worrying or me trying to attract her, stuff like her trying to get me to lift up my top and i said No, im not a performing clown see a red nose? then i was teasing her later on pretending to start to lift it and she got all excited.:rockon:

Im hoping things like this can start to happen a bit more often, and i know i will have no troubles now...

anyway night peeps

 

[Bonhomme]

Was an HOUR late for work, the alarm didnt go off LOL

Been there, done that, LOL

got called a flirt AGAIN

Good! When a woman is into you, she expects you to flirt. Flirting is good.

- Take more of a chance and try to number close

You said it, Modro. Awareness is the first step to developing better ways. I definitely think you could have got a number from the dark-haired hottie you "rescued." Hope you run into her again.

 

[Modro]

Cheers dude i think i could have got the digits there, but i also wanted to have a solid anchor and keep it a positive to approach. I got a good buzz out of it and realised another small problem which i can adjust and that is to go for the number more aggressivley.

Week 16 day 2:

Well i wasnt feeling too good the day before and today i was rough, not due to drinking but i think i have a bad cold, blocked nose cough and sneezing alot voice is a little strained also.

so it was rest day today, no gym watched a film when i got back from work and fell asleep half way through for a bit.

at work a collegue was talking on the phone to someone trying to find out who they spoke to previously, and she mentoned the confident one, and he instantly said it was me

My shoulder feels fine now after the little tweak

Also im planning to try it on with the girl from yesterday, but not sure how likely it is i might see her anytime soon, i could subtly see if she is out this weekend - the stalker/puppy i have found her profile on face bookr through my friends contact but i didnt add her, i may do if nothing comes up about it, if all goes well im not going to commit to anything till after my holiday

 

[Modro]

Week 16 day 3:

Still not feeling too good, but starting to get better. Work was really busy today so wasnt much fun.

heard about chris benoit, crazy stuff i remember when he was in WCW and watched him in the wwf back in the day.

although ill, managed to get a real good session in the gym again, whilst there a decent looking lady came in, and i think it was either her coach (tennis) or partner with her. I couldnt tell how old she was but had a nice figure. my gym is at a tennis club, and wimbledon was on and a ball boy in the middle of a point ran across the court, i hear this and watched the reply thinking wtf? and she makes a comment to me saying well hes going to be fired, i wasnt too sure what to say caught me off guard, so i was like yeah, what the hell with a puzzled expression. then finished my set.

I have literally no money till friday, which sucks means i cant really arrange stuff as others are low, mainly due to saving money for the holiday. bit of a quiet one today but im kind of in recharge mode this week going to bed early at about 10, only 3 gym session this week.

One thing i have noticed is people are starting to comment on myself alot more, whether it is my appearance (saying i look like an actor, or calling me hulk/muscles) and saying im confident or know how to deal with people, its actually great to hear that and it makes you realise maybe all this work im doing really does make a big difference.

 

[Modro]

Week 16 day 4:

Had my appraisal at work, i did ask for money but they apparently do it yearly, so i cannot have anything till next april which sucks ass, but i pushed on getting more training on bigger fixes so im up to 2nd tier level by april time.

Also there is a chance on, getting a computer certificate paid for (A+)

This has put my thinking cap on a little bit, one way i feel i deserve more money and probably could get it elsewhere, or i could spend a year get the experience, qualification. So im going to have a think and probably ask a few people opinions on it.

got back from work today went an played ice hockey pretty much straigh away,good fun hit the post with a sliding shot which looked wicked.

going out on friday, looking forward to it should be a laugh

 

[Modro]

week 16 day 5:

Today turned out ok,

keep getting called a flirt all the time now, such a rep LOL also some girl was asking if i had a girlfriend, i was calling her a stalker and wouldnt give her any information.

found out we have this big christmas meeting where all the branches we support or get together in london for the night (plus room) so i get to meet loads of the people i have been talking to. 700+

went to the gym, spoke to a guy there, he is the one a few weeks ago that asked me a few questions, he asked do i want to do some sets together. He is a tank, he weight 11 stone, and is 17, but it is a monster i dont normally do very many freee weights so i struggled to do what he was doing, but did OK and it was a ***** of a work out it was good to have him there pushing me to squeeze an extra set out. I arranged to meet him monday to go through some sets then too, with the gym assistant who always greets me,

came home spoke to my new friend on MSN, i shall call her HBT she has a boy friend and her 2 friends are of interest to me, first was the one i originally met HBS whos birthday we are going to and HBslim, well she asked if i wanted a lift tomorrow night, and gave me her number, i casually asked who was coming out for her and HBslim is coming, if i dont number close her i am offically going to be pissed off.

going to have a quick shower then bed,

 

[Modro]

Week 16 day 6:

Covering the late shift for my firend, got back chilled out for a bit, i was actually kinda nervous to be honest and i felt i was under so much pressure from myself. Well my lift comes and i figured we were going to meet up with my group, wroung we picked up HB slim and went somewhere else first for a drink, felt a bit weird i was mainly speaking to HBT

anyway the night wears on i do some light cf with hbslim but she seems not as high IL as before, i had all my mates out as well so i had good social proof, talking to several groups of people, didnt isolate as HBT was with her the whole night and like i said i thought she might show a few more signs

we end up leaving about 1am, and i was in the back we were play hitting and stuff and as she was in the front seat she was trying to hit me i pinned her arms behind the chair, we also were speaking through the little hole of the headrest just looking through it.

The one time i was going to close her, she had just got on the phone, so i was pretty pissd with myself for not doing it earlier.

 

[Modro]

Week 16 day 7:

Well it turns out she got my number off HBT, and text me something at 2am then again at 10am so i started to exchange some texts through the day(once i woke up) with me only replying after a few hours or not at all and she texts back again. She seemed to have the same interest from before and also poked me on facebook.

So basically this girl has asked her friend for my number started texting me and found me on facebook, annoying thing is she goes on vacation on Wednesday...

After getting to know her a bit, she is actually pretty funny, good looking but I'm not sure about her really i suppose I'm a little cautious at the moment. She seems a bit like a party girl, although she does go the the gym alot too which is good. We shall see

otherwise today, went into town looked around with a few mates, had some lunch managed to go to the gym in the morning going to read some pook and a couple of waldens

 

[Modro]

Week 16 tasks:

- Gym x 3
Done
- Continue reading Waldens bootcamp
Done
- Continue to read through Pook
Done read 1 article
- Continue to keep busy and have fun/positive
Done - relaxed alot this week
- Continue to try open girls
Spoke to a couple of people i was intrduced to
- Take more of a chance and try to number close
She got my number
- Try to keep computer time down
Done

 

[Modro]

Week 17 Tasks:

- Gym x 4 (with 1 day doing sets with new gym buddy)
- Finish reading Waldens boot camp
- 1 Pook article
- Save more spending money for holiday
- Buy a few clothes for holiday
- Keep busy

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 1:

Well she was texting me through out the day

i played golf in the morning, had a meal at a pub playing a few games of pool, then went on an offroad mountain bike round some fields and local woods

in the evening i normally go to play pool on sunday, but got invited by hbslim to come to the cinema with a few others, i dont reply and speak to my mates going and we turn up.

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 2:

Well, on the late shift at work, i did say to the gym guy that i would go down, but i forgot i was on the lates so wouldnt get their in time, plus i have football at 8 so not going.

today though HBslim, the heat was turned up and the text started to get sexual, with me being very suggestive but with a 'what ever' fun attitude to them, well she wants me to come to the pub tomorrow, i sai whats in it for me, she says she is very persuasive, and asked if either threatening or womanly ways would be the best route.

I said threats dont affect me but she can try and be creative, well she send me a picture of her in just a thong topless!!! omg hahaha awesome body btw

i said hmm.... nice shoes i think i need a closer look though

just about to go get changed for football, but things are looking up

 

[Bonhomme]

keep getting called a flirt all the time now, such a rep LOL also some girl was asking if i had a girlfriend, i was calling her a stalker and wouldnt give her any information.

**********

I said threats dont affect me but she can try and be creative, well she send me a picture of her in just a thong topless!!! omg hahaha awesome body btw

i said hmm.... nice shoes i think i need a closer look though

just about to go get changed for football, but things are looking up

:crackup:

Yah .. I'd say. Enjoy!

 

[On Point]

LOL. Nice work.

week 17 day 2:
I said threats dont affect me but she can try and be creative, well she send me a picture of her in just a thong topless!!! omg hahaha awesome body btw

i said hmm.... nice shoes i think i need a closer look though

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 3:

Work sucks im on the late shift this week, which means i cant get to the gym before i go out if i have plans, when i go home confirmed the details about 7 of us went to a pub played some pool, hbslim was there but she goes on holiday tomorrow and had a friend with her that was going (i was going to try and go back to hers afterwards) so that was a no go. I believe it is only for a week but i drove her car back to mine (she kept stalling it) when i had gone in she text me saying sorry for being scatty (shes a little bit mad) but she gets like that when she thinks someone is nice.

then sends me a message saying ' basically i fancy the **** outta you x'
i am making her buy my a present while she is away, the thing in i normally get major oneitus and start saying OHH I LIKE YOU TOO etc, but i feel so calm and chilled and have all my 'power' between us i guess previous experiences and knowledge here have really helped me and i now have a great confident indifferent attitude, which is obviously working magic here. Now just need to get to the next level when she gets back, in the mean time gotta get down the gym next 4 days!

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 4:

Managed to get to the gym today

hbslim tried to call me whilst on holiday didnt have my phone and didnt call back when i got the missed call.

got all my basic holiday money too 370 pounds for 7 days should get me through no problems, but im not spending too much so far this month so might have some more to add to it.

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 5:

Work was pretty crap today, just one of those days wasnt feeling it like usual and as im on latews it DRAAAAAAGGGGSSS out, then i get dinner when i get home have to wait for a bit before i go to the gym, then a couple of hours before i go to bed,

got face booked by hbslim, saying my present is funny and everyone there is ugly apart from her,

so i wrote back, why are you on facebook while on vacation, you just couldnt resist me

 

[HolyG]

Well done man...impressive work. But I want to know, did you do the DJ bootcamp to attain this kind of success?

 

[Modro]

I started off a giant mess, and had just broken up with my gf at the time of 11 months, she was my first gf in 3 years. I did Ok in the relationship but slowly became a bit of a chump to the point of pathetic when she left. I had done some basic reading before this, but i hadnt really studied it and once i got her i thought that was it and stop applying some of the small ammounts i had learned.

Well after i pulled myself togther, got to the gym, got my friends back made some new ones. Read all of Pook, Anti dump and weapons of mass seduction. While each week setting new tasks to make sure i applied some of the things i had been reading.

you start to see results and changes in the way people react to you, and i love my attitude towards things at the moment, really you shouldnt care just be fun and playful but dont take ****. I go out to have fun not to concentrate on women. But i also learned alot about how run a relationship, I also dont think i am a super DJ but i can handle what women throw at me and i can maintain the attraction.

Anyway only like 15 days till my vacation, then i will let you guys know what happened there, and that will be the end of my quest unless i feel i need to a kick up the backside and i will start a fresh one

 

[Modro]

week 17 day 6:

Work finished for the week, managed to get 2 pairs of long shorts for my holiday dark brown and dark green look really nice and were in the sale too

just need a few more items for the trip before i have to organise and pack.

got to the gym today nice 35 minute session, lost a little bit of mass recently, gone down to 12stone 2-3 instead of 4-5 so upped the weights this time. Plus i gotta start eating a tad bit more too.

my main objective is my chest at the moment feel it needs to be a bit more defined.

there was a new gym assistant i saw her keep smiling at me and looking my way. Rest of the night is pure chill out, not going out this weekend, which = more savings of money.

going out for a few drinks tomorrow though