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Men are now more likely to be single than women. It's not a good sign.

Mike32ct

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Do you want to get married if you have a BA/BS degree or higher?

Possibly with the right person.

You're right about the incel population having BA/BS degrees or higher. Many guys in STEM occupations are incels. To get a job in a STEM occupation, you need a BA/BS degree or higher.

There are plenty of incel guys with non-STEM degrees too.

Most men are vagina beggars. They need a relationship for sex. You see a lot of betas in LTRs with decreasing frequency of sex as time goes on. The unattached men are often incels and often invisible to the opposite sex.
I agree completely that betas typically go with LTRs for sex. Upper tier betas with a lot of patience could possibly cold approach, but they might go months between lays.
 
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I know plenty of women knocked up by deadbeats, so you’re right. It’s not just the guys at the very top. Plenty of bums passing on their genes too.
Those guys aren't marrying them though, the Beta with a degree would marry her and raise Chad's child.

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Those guys aren't marrying them though, the Beta with a degree would marry her and raise Chad's child.

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She didn’t even have to marry such a simp. All she had to do was date her looks match but noooo. She went from one extreme (Chad) to the other (super simp). She’s got a history of passing on hundreds of normal dudes she should have been perfectly happy with.
 

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She didn’t even have to marry such a simp. All she had to do was date her looks match but noooo. She went from one extreme (Chad) to the other (super simp). She’s got a history of passing on hundreds of normal dudes she should have been perfectly happy with.
cucks soyboys are in demands now for her health insurance policy and nursing her when she's sicks getting old, Hotsecks are for the top tier man.
 

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One thing that hasn't been mentioned is the fact that this is the fattest population of women that the USA has had ever. Whats in it for a guy? Unless you find fatties attractive.
 

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cucks soyboys are in demands now for her health insurance policy and nursing her when she's sicks getting old, Hotsecks are for the top tier man.
And the thing is women could have both in one guy if they’d just date on their level.
 

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And the thing is women could have both in one guy if they’d just date on their level.
yes they do before feminisme era way long time ago in a galaxy far far away. before Beta males were left to taken care of the girls when men go to war.
 

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Modern men find most modern women insufferable for marriage. Marriage is old fashion, from the middle ages, and irronicly most marriages back then where cousin and sisters and after generations they became inbred.

And we really need to stop this notion that men "at the top" have multiple women, are the only ones having children and sex with most the women. It's screams incel and stupidity, in reality is actually the opposite.
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And we really need to stop this notion that men "at the top" have multiple women, are the only ones having children and sex with most the women. It's screams incel and stupidity, in reality is actually the opposite.
So men at the bottom have multiple women, children, and sex with most women?

Almost hate to say it, but in my City, women over 30 won’t give a guy a 2nd look if he is not top tier. He has got to be everything and then they will “consider“ it. Yet women in their later 20s are so easy going it’s not even funny.
 

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There are a whole generation of women asking for too much while having too little, I'm not worried, I don't see myself having kids with a woman I can actually stay with
 

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Its time to mass cloning women and put them on age accelerated of sweet 16.. That technology should be available by now.
 

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I can buy this argument that the 6-7.5 looks level but not above that.

I can attest to the higher standards of women. Your last paragraph could apply to my life as well.
It's hard to say what women value in looks exactly, but from a general perspective, I have seen women's relationships with 8 or 8+ish men get very rocky when a top dog enters the room. I think it's very sobering that hypergamy may not have any end in sight. For example, she may 'attain' a top dog and then find flaws with him and not be satisfied!
 

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@joesknows I was watching a wwe event two months ago. And something very funny showed on the tv for a few seconds. Roman Reigns was near one of the walls after doing an attack. There was a family of three: a wife, her husband, and her kid. I really wish I could find a video of this. But essentially, she yells very loudly "I love you, Roman!" And her kid looks at her mother like she is crazy. That was the funniest **** I ever saw.
 

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Agree with so many posts in this thread.

I know so, so, many women that find the low value guy, get pregers, and it goes from there. Some of the guys, even though they have low income and little chance of getting somewhere, stick with the girl and take care of the baby. I give those guys credit, even though they arent ballers, they are sticking with the girl and being a good father. The rest ditch the girl and find some other one to do the same with. Sad.

The question is do so many girls go for the low-income, unsuccessful man? I dont see much reason behind it.

I would have the feeling most of us in the community are pretty successful in our careers?

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I have an MBA and I’ve never been married or even engaged lol I can’t even get past 4-5 dates lately!
so if a guy who knows the game inside out is getting this treatment, i dread to think what your average naive guy is suffering
 

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so if a guy who knows the game inside out is getting this treatment, i dread to think what your average naive guy is suffering
I’m getting A LOT of women from the past circling back to me. Women that rejected me back in the day, but now claim they didn’t and were always interested. Bull. One girl even told her friend back in school “I could never see myself dating him” now all of a sudden she’s interested years later. And to be honest not a one of these women look all that good anymore. I can’t get new women to give me a chance but by God women from the past sure want a chance now.
 

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I’m getting A LOT of women from the past circling back to me. Women that rejected me back in the day, but now claim they didn’t and were always interested. Bull. One girl even told her friend back in school “I could never see myself dating him” now all of a sudden she’s interested years later. And to be honest not a one of these women look all that good anymore. I can’t get new women to give me a chance but by God women from the past sure want a chance now.
Tell them no fucckin' way!

I have an MBA and I’ve never been married or even engaged lol I can’t even get past 4-5 dates lately!
Getting 4-5 dates out of a woman from a swipe app is well above average.

MBA, likely decent job, and ex college football player should get a man some vagina.
 

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Its time to mass cloning women and put them on age accelerated of sweet 16.. That technology should be available by now.
Imagine cloning millions of hot women and what that would do to the sexual marketplace
 

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The article is pretty much saying “Just get a BA/BS brah, and you can get married.”

It’s not that simple. Plenty of BS-cels out there. Some even in STEM.
It's a strange dynamic. I've seen a lot of articles on the internet over the years about women lamenting that there are no educated men to date. It's pretty well known that there are far more women than men in university, though obviously some majors are more male dominated (engineering, math, computer science, etc.). As you mentioned, many men in those fields tend to not do that well with women, not necessarily because of their appearance but more so because brainy/nerdy personality types common in those fields are not seen as attractive to women.

Something I've seen first hand is (over)educated women that demand men have the same level of education as they do in order to date them. What they seem to forget is that many men can excel in life without even needing a college degree. There are tons of men in the skilled trades that within a decade can make serious bank if they are in the right area. You don't even need this, there are tons of men who just grind day in and day out for years and due to financial decisions they made are killing it. A lot of these "educated" women would quickly write these men off as being unqualified despite the fact that most millenial college grads are ridiculously in debt with student loans.

If a woman is deeming you as a man as unworthy because of what degree you do or don't have you dodged a bullet. Women like this have checklists of demands and ultimately end up alone and miserable.
 

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In the USA at least, women outnumber men.
the population of women in the US period is 50.8% so statistically its dead even.
144,000 men in prison versus 10,000 women give or take. Again statistically almost dead even over the 329 million people in the US.
And without looking it up i doubt off hand polyamory accounts for very much either.
 
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