sangheilios
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It's a strange dynamic. I've seen a lot of articles on the internet over the years about women lamenting that there are no educated men to date. It's pretty well known that there are far more women than men in university, though obviously some majors are more male dominated (engineering, math, computer science, etc.). As you mentioned, many men in those fields tend to not do that well with women, not necessarily because of their appearance but more so because brainy/nerdy personality types common in those fields are not seen as attractive to women.The article is pretty much saying “Just get a BA/BS brah, and you can get married.”
It’s not that simple. Plenty of BS-cels out there. Some even in STEM.
Something I've seen first hand is (over)educated women that demand men have the same level of education as they do in order to date them. What they seem to forget is that many men can excel in life without even needing a college degree. There are tons of men in the skilled trades that within a decade can make serious bank if they are in the right area. You don't even need this, there are tons of men who just grind day in and day out for years and due to financial decisions they made are killing it. A lot of these "educated" women would quickly write these men off as being unqualified despite the fact that most millenial college grads are ridiculously in debt with student loans.
If a woman is deeming you as a man as unworthy because of what degree you do or don't have you dodged a bullet. Women like this have checklists of demands and ultimately end up alone and miserable.