DonJuanForever said:
God and skip...let's keep this going. Somehow, I just feel, that we are going to get a lot of growth out of this.....
God...
"Answer me this DJF, do you agree that woman are different and not exactly the same?"
Of cours, each one is her own individual, I do think that biology speaking, they are the same. I mean, every guy gets hard for Beyonce, but each guy is different than the other.
This is not the answer I was looking for, of course we are our own individual. I guess I wasnt specific enough. lets try again.
DJF, do you agree that each women will have different tastes in who and what they will consider good looking vs. ugly? ie. one woman can think bob is a 9, another will think bob is a 3. DO you agree?
“Have you ever met a woman who told you to your face "you’re ugly" and was serious, and fvcked you when she was sober? how often has this happened to you?”
A lot. See, I know that sometimes I could act a little goofy, let’s put it this way, it’s not sexy, lol. I would the next day or the next time I see her, start acting more seductive and sexy, and the same girl who declared to the heavens I was the most unattractive guy she ever met, now all of a sudden I have became hot! Her friends are confused, my friends are confused...they don't understand how for one minute, she says how ugly and how unattractive I am...then, she hangs all over me. How often has this happened?
A lot, especially during my growth periods from my PVSSYEATER days to now.
*caugh* bullsh1t!
And to add to that question, how would he DETERMINE if he's a 9? How would he know? Based on each particular chick?....well, wait a minute guys, wait a minute. If that's the case, what if the chick who's clearly a 8 or 9, thinks that fat guys are 10's?
You guys are saying that every woman is different, and each guy would be seen differently to each girl....THEN YOU ARE SAYING, you have to be a 9 to fvck a 9, and a 3 to fvck a 3...but how would a guy know if he's a 4, a 9, a 17, a 3? Does he just determine if he's a 9 or an 8 by the level of sex he gets and from the hotness of the chicks? But what if the guy clearly gets hot chicks (7-9) all the time, but it's clear to Stevie Wonder, the guy is no god damn 7!
okay, a guy is a 9 if he is seen as a 9 by women on average. a guy is a 5 if, he is seen as a 5 by women on average. remember, women are different, and each woman will see you differently, some will think you cute, some will think your hot, some will think youre average, some will think youre ugly. But there will be an average; on average you might be seen as a hot, or on average, you might be seen as ugly etc. This average will all depend on how attractive your features are. Now how will a guy know if hes a 9,7,5,3? well, he could either post his pic on hotornot.com, thats one way to find out what he is, or he can learn how to "recognize a guys attractivness", not all heterosexual men can do this. but you can learn it. Just by being around women, and hearing them talk about guys they see in public, you can learn from repeated examples, for example, I have developed an eye for what is an ugly guy vs attractive (again on average). Ill hear a woman say "ohhh, hes hot, look over there, look at that guy", or some guy will approach the women Im with, theyll blow him off, then when he walks away, they looks at eachother with this "omg, I cant beleive he approached me, how rediculous" look on their face, then they all crack up together luaghing, and then actually say something like "not very good in the looks department, lol". Also by knowing which celebs are good looking vs ugly combined with real life experiences like the one I mentioned, one can develop an eye to know if he himself is good looking or not. This is how a guy can know. But when you approach a given chick, unless youre psychic, you wont know what she personally sees you as (a 9? a 5? a 3?), all you can do is know what you will be to the chicks you approach on average. but in order to fvck a given chick, she has to be one of the women who personally sees you as a 7-10, or nothing will work. If she does see you as a 7-10, then you can lay her with good game, shell let you fvck her. if she sees you as less than a 7, no game will work.
For me, and let’s keep this discussion going by the way. But for me, I understand that some girls I just CAN’T FVCK, not really because I’M A 5 AND SHE’S A 8, but more so on the fact of her attitude or outlook, or the “vibe” just isn’t right...it really has nothing to do wit I'm out of her league or something because I don't look like Chris Daughtery (lol, just name-dropping)
yeah, one reason no vibe is happening is becuase she wont let one happen, she sees you as ugly, and has already made up her mind about you.
within the 1st split second when a woman sees you, she has already made up her mind about weither or not she will sleep with you, and is set in stone.
But, and listen. God IF your theory is right, DID U NOT SAY, that a 5 and a 8had no chance together? Hmmmm, is there a a fallacy to this argument? How could the 6’s, 7’s, and 8’s that I fvcked, “see me attractive” if I am clearly a 5? Clearly man...there's no god damn way they can see me as a 7, 8, or 9, MATTER OF FACT..if you asked them was I "cute" or not they would say, "He's aight..." "he straight.." "he okay" No girl I ever fvcked said I was so hot, but I MADE HER HOT. And the whole point of my discussion, is that you guys are saying it's impossible to make her hot...without being hot.
yeah, your clearly a 5 on average, but the women who you did fvck were one of those few who saw you as a 7-10. How many times do I have to repeat myself? just becuase your a 5 dont mean all women (100%) think you are a 5, get it? and your full of **** about the women youve layed thinking your a 5, they saw you as a 7-10, trust me dude, I know better than you.
Hold on I know, you mean “they” saw me as a 6, a 7, or a 8, too? But hold on God, hold onnnnn, I could CLEARLY TURN OFF MY SEDUCTIVE ATTITUDE, and these SAME CHICKS, will show distain. If you think I'm lying, COME WITH ME IN THE FIELD.
yeah, you could turn off your game, and they wouldnt be all into you, so what?, dont disprove nothing!. THey will still see you as a 7-10. they just wont be acting interested or anytthing in terms of their behavior, but in their mind, they still see you as a 7-10, and they will still consider you as sex material to them.