Of course the good looking poor guy will be taken a lot less seriously. Any man with no goals or ambition will not be taken seriously.
Noone ever said otherwise. You need to be the whole package.
But looks go a long way, and women are shallow cause that good looking poor guy will get laid easy than any average guy. Most of the times, by women who already have husbands or boyfriends.The same type of women who marry a guy they are not attracted to because he has money or a good carreeer will sleep with the dumb good looking guys they are attracted to even if he has no money. Or a rich girl(ex: Tori Spelling ) can now buy this good looking guy because he is not goal oriented and she feels somewhat superior. I agree, pretty Shallow on the women's part.
On the same token, I would'nt want to date some of the women who are only interested in guys who treat them bad and are unreliable, or women who only respond to ****y attitudes and putdowns. To me, that also represents low self esteem issues. That sort of women is only good to play with. Long term she will be a flake.
Noone ever said otherwise. You need to be the whole package.
But looks go a long way, and women are shallow cause that good looking poor guy will get laid easy than any average guy. Most of the times, by women who already have husbands or boyfriends.The same type of women who marry a guy they are not attracted to because he has money or a good carreeer will sleep with the dumb good looking guys they are attracted to even if he has no money. Or a rich girl(ex: Tori Spelling ) can now buy this good looking guy because he is not goal oriented and she feels somewhat superior. I agree, pretty Shallow on the women's part.
On the same token, I would'nt want to date some of the women who are only interested in guys who treat them bad and are unreliable, or women who only respond to ****y attitudes and putdowns. To me, that also represents low self esteem issues. That sort of women is only good to play with. Long term she will be a flake.